Ukutshisa isidumbu kuyaqhubeka nokuba yinto eyaziwayo yokuphumla kokugqibela komzimba womntu omthandayo. Ngelixa ugcina uthuthu kwindawo yokuchamela eyayiqhelekile, iintsapho ezininzi namhlanje ziceba inkonzo yamangcwaba ukuze kungcwatywe uthuthu. Olu khetho luvumela usapho kunye nabahlobo ukuba bakhumbule abo babathandayo ngentlonipho nangesidima ngelixa bezisa ukuvalwa kwesinye seziganeko ezibalulekileyo ebomini.
Inkonzo yengcwaba yokungcwaba uthuthu ngaphambi okanye emva kokutshiswa kwesidumbu
Abanye abantu bayathandabuza ukukhetha ukutshiswa komzimba ngenxa yomnqweno wokubamba inkonzo yomngcwabo kubahlobo kunye nosapho. Ukubamba inkonzo yokuzibophelela ngaphambi kokuba kuqhutywe inkqubo yokutshisa isidumbu kuvumela ukhetho lwenkonzo yomngcwabo kunye nethuba lekasi evulekileyo. Xa kubanjwa emva kwesidumbu, ixesha elininzi liyafumaneka lokucwangcisa umsitho, ukuqokelela izikhumbuzo kunye nokuqinisekisa ubukho babathandekayo abakhethekileyo.
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Iinketho zokuKhokela iNkonzo
Ngelixa zininzi iindlela zokukhetha uthuthu, ukubamba inkonzo yesikhumbuzo kushiyelwe kwiminqweno kunye neminqweno yosapho. Xa kubanjiwe, umsitho uqhubeka ngokulandela ukutshiswa kwesidumbu, nosapho kunye nabahlobo behlanganisene kwindawo yokuphumla yokugqibela. Inkonzo inokuba yeyenkolo ngokwendalo, ikhokelwa lilungu labefundisi okanye ilungu losapho. Xa isikhumbuzo sinikezelwa ngaphandle kwendawo yonqulo, umsitho ungakhokelwa ngumntu, umntu oxhasa ukutshiswa kwesidumbu, okanye ilungu losapho okanye umhlobo.
Umda wexesha leNkonzo
Njengomthetho, iinkonzo zamangcwaba zihlala zifutshane. Ukuba le nkonzo ibanjelwe ecaweni, kwikhaya labangcwabi, kwindawo yokutshisa izidumbu, okanye kwenye indawo kawonke-wonke, kusenokumiselwa umda ongqongqo wexesha. Ukuba ngumsitho wabucala obanjelwe ekhaya okanye kwindawo ekude kakhulu, le nkonzo inokuba yeyokude kunqwenela usapho. Ukuphulukana nomntu omthandayo lixesha leemvakalelo kunye noxinzelelo, kuya kuba yinto efanelekileyo ukugcina umsitho ungaphantsi kweyure.
Ukucwangcisa iNkonzo yeNgcwaba yokuNgcwaba uthuthu
Inkonzo yasemangcwabeni yokungcwaba uthuthu iya kuhlala ibandakanya uninzi lweempawu zomngcwabo. Kwisikhumbuzo senkolo, ukuculwa kwamaculo, ukufundwa kweZibhalo, ukubongwa, imithandazo kunye nengxelo yokuzibophelela zizinto eziqhelekileyo ukubandakanya. Inkonzo yenzelwe ukunikezela umntu kwindawo yakhe yokugqibela yokuphumla. Ezi zinto zilandelayo zinika ubume benkonzo. Sebenzisa uninzi lwexesha kunye nokhetho luya kuvumela.
Ukuqokelela okanye ukumema ukuhlangana
Umbhiyozo okanye inkokeli ingaqala umsitho ngesimemo sokuhlangana ngenjongo yokukhumbula lowo umthandayo. Iinkonzo zonqulo ziya kusebenzisa lo mzuzu ukubongoza ubukho bukaThixo entlanganisweni. Ezinye izithethe ziya kuthi indibano ifundwe ngokudibeneyo ngabo bonke abakhoyo. Amagama anokubandakanya:
- Sihlanganisene apha ukukhumbula kunye nokubhiyozela okufana negama [labangasekhoyo].
- Sihlangene namhlanje sibuhlungu, sivuma ilahleko yethu, kwaye ngethemba lokufumana intuthuzelo kunye nobomi obungaphaya.
- Imithandazo yethu, Thixo, iyavuma ukulunga kwakho kwaye sikudumise ngokuthembeka kwakho kwixa elidlulileyo. Sifuna intuthuzelo yakho namhlanje kunye nobukho bakho ngexesha lethu losizi.
Umthandazo
Umbhiyozeli okanye inkokeli yenza umthandazo kuThixo. Umthandazo weNkosi ( Mat 6: 9-13 ) ngumthandazo odla ngokusetyenziswa kwaye kunokuthiwa ngokudibeneyo. Kuxhomekeka kwindawo ebekiweyo, kunokuba kufanelekile emva komthandazo ukucela abo bakhoyo ukuba bahlale phantsi. Iinkonzo ezingezizo ezenkolo zingasebenzisa lo mzuzu ukunika umbongo okanye ufundo olufanelekileyo.
Umhobe okanye uMculo
Inkonzo yamangcwaba inokubandakanya ukuculwa okanye ukudlalwa kwengoma enye okanye umculo ofanelekileyo. Ezinye iintsapho zinokunqwenela ukubandakanya into oyithandayo yomfi. Amasiko amaninzi enkolo aya kuthintela umculo kuluhlu oluvunyiweyo lomculo weklasikhi okanye iingoma. Ingoma ingabandakanywa emva kwengxelo yokuzibophelela. Olunye ukhetho oluqhelekileyo lweengoma luya kubandakanya:
- 'Inkceba emangalisayo'
- 'Hlala Nam'
- 'Owu Thixo, Uncedo Lwethu Kwixesha Elidlulileyo'
Ukufunda iZibhalo okanye umbongo
Ukufundwa kwesiBhalo kuhlala kuyinxalenye yomsitho wenkolo. Iivesi zeBhayibhile zisenokuba ziivesi ozithandayo zosapho okanye umntu omthandayo ongasekhoyo. Imibongo okanye ukufundwa kunokufakwa endaweni yesikhumbuzo esingeyonkolo. Iindinyana ezifanelekileyo zeZibhalo zinokubandakanya
- Iindumiso 23
- Iindumiso 121
- UYohane 14: 1-4
Udumo
Ayisiyonto iqhelekileyo ukufaka umbulelo kwinkonzo yasemangcwabeni yokungcwaba uthuthu. Usapho lunokunqwenela ukwenza njalo ukuba khange lubekhona inkonzo yesikhumbuzo apho kwabelwana khona, ngakumbi ukuba eli lixesha lokuqala usapho luhlanganisana ngokusesikweni. Umbhiyozeli usenokucelwa ukuba anikezele ngamazwi okuzukisa umfi. Ilungu losapho okanye amazwi omhlobo nawo aya kufaneleka. Inkqubo ye-ukuthobelakolu seto kufuneka kubemfutshane.
Ingxelo yokuzibophelela
Umbhiyozo ngokwesiko unikezela ngamagama njengoko umntu ezibophelele kwindawo yakhe yokuphumla. Njengoko uthuthu okanye i-urn ibekwe kwindawo ye-columbarium niche okanye ingcwatyelwe emhlabeni, amagama anje aya kufaneleka:
- Ezandleni zakho, Nkosi, siyamncoma umkhonzi wakho [igama lomfi].
- Njengoko imizimba yethu isuka eluthulini lomhlaba, sibuyela eluthulini umzimba womntu esimthandayo [igama]. Nangona eli binzana lingeloBhayibhile, abaninzi baya kusebenzisa amagama 'uthuthu eluthuthwini, uthuli eluthulini' kule ndawo.
- INkosi iyanika; INkosi iyasusa. Malibongwe igama leNkosi.
Intsikelelo
Umbhiyozeli kufuneka anikezeleUmthandazo ofanelekileyoukuvala inkonzo, ukugxotha abo baqokelelene emva koko. 'INkosi mayikusikelele ikugcine' ( INumeri 6: 24-26 okanye uMthandazo weNkosi ( Mat 6: 9-13 ) iZibhalo ezifanelekileyo zisetyenziswa njengomthandazo wentsikelelo.
Iimeko ezizodwa
Kwiimeko ezininzi inkonzo yesikhumbuzo kufuneka ithathele ingqalelo ubomi neemeko zomntu oswelekileyo, izinto azikhethayo neemeko zosapho kunye neemeko zabo bazimase le nkonzo. Inkonzo eya kubandakanyaukusasaza uthuthuelwandle, okanye isikhumbuzo esingaquka umkhosi okanye obunye ubukho bombutho kunokunyanzelisa utshintsho olufunekayo kwinkonzo. Umbhiyozo kunye nosapho kufuneka bobabini babe bhetyebhetye kwaye babe nemfesane kutshintsho.
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