Uyicwangcisa njani ipati yomhla wokuzalwa omangalisayo

Ukufumanisa ukuba ucwangcise njani usuku lokuzalwa olothusayo akunzima, kodwa kuthatha olunye ucwangciso olongezelelekileyo ngaphaya kwetheko lokuzalwa eliqhelekileyo. Ngenxa yobume obufihlakeleyo beli theko, thatha amanyathelo akhethekileyo ukunqanda ukumangaliswa ekubeni luloyiko kuye wonke umntu obandakanyekayo.

Ukwamkelwa okwamkelekileyo- okanye hayi

Inyathelo lokuqala ekucwangciseni iqela elothusayo kukumisela ukuba ngaba ipati yenye yeendwendwe ezihloniphekileyo ezinokuzixabisa okanye zoyike. Kulula ukubanjwa kukonwaba kokucwangcisa ipati kwaye ulibale ukufumanisa ukuba luhlobo lomthendeleko oza kuzonwabisa yinkwenkwe / intombazana yokuzalwa. Umzekelo, abafundi beekholeji abanolwalamano banokufumana itheko lokuzalwa elimangalisayo lama-21, ngelixa abanye abangenisiweyo benokuthi babulawe kwingcinga.

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Amanqaku afanelekileyo

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Izimvo zePati yokuzalwa yabantu abadala

Iqela elothusayo licebo elilungileyo ukuba inkwenkwe / intombazana yokuzalwa ibonisa ezinye zeempawu:

Konwabela ukuba liziko lokuqwalaselwa
Ubuntu obuphumayo
Kuthethwe ngomothuko ngendlela elungileyo ngaphambili

Tsiba itheko elothusayo ukuba undwendwe olubekekileyo lunokubonisa ezi mpawu:

Umntu oneentloni
Iintloni ngokulula
Ayikuthandi ukuxambulisana
Kukhankanywe ngaphambili ukungafuni ipati okanye ukungayithandi imbono yamaqela othusayo

Amanyathelo oCwangcisa iSimanga sokuzalwa

Zigcine ulungelelanise ukumangaliswa ngokugcina uluhlu lokucwangciswa kwepati okanye ulwandlalo. Faka lonke ulwazi olufanelekileyo kolu luhlu, kubandakanya amagama oonxibelelwano kunye neenombolo. Sebenzisa la manyathelo anikezwe apha ngezantsi ekwenzeni ukuba ucwangcise njani usuku lokuzalwa olothusayo lula.

Amanyathelo angaphambi kweqela

Uninzi locwangciso lwenzeka kwangethuba kwangoko kulo mhla weqela. Landela la manyathelo ukucwangcisa iqela:

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Cwangcisa umhla - Buza nje abahlobo kunye namalungu osapho malunga owona mhla wokuzalwa kunye neentsuku ezijikeleze umhla wokuzalwa. Khankanya kuphela umbono weqela elothusayo kubantu abambalwa abathembekileyo abangazukuyikhankanya-okukhona ulwazi lusaziwa kwaye abantu abaninzi abalaziyo, kokukhona kunokwenzeka ukuba umntu alivumele lityibilike.
Cinga ngokusebenzisana nabo -Ukucela abanye ukuba bancede ukunciphisa umyinge womsebenzi onyanzelekileyo ukuba uwenzele ipati, kodwa kukwavula umngcipheko wokukhupha isimanga. Cela nje abantu abambalwa ukuba bancedise ekucwangciseni okanye ekufumaneni umntwana oyinkwenkwe / intombazana yokuzalwa ethekweni.
Yenza ibali Elona nyathelo libaluleke kakhulu, kwaye elinzima, lokucwangcisa itheko elothusayo kukwenziwa kwebali eliza kwenza ukuba inkwenkwe / intombazana yokuzalwa iye kwitheko ngaphandle kokukrokrela. Cinga ngokucela undwendwe oluhloniphekileyo kwi-soiree encinci okanye wenze omnye umsitho wokuzimasa kwiintsuku ezimbalwa emva komhla wokuzalwa ukuze ugcine ukukrokrela kubuncinci. Bandakanya usapho olubalulekileyo kunye nabanye abahlobo ukuba kukho imfuneko, kodwa kuphela abo bafuna ukwazi.
Fumana indawo -Ukuma kweparty kukothuka kuxhomekeke kwibali elenzelwe ukufumana umsitho kwiqela. Umzekelo, ukuba ucwangcisa isidlo sangokuhlwa esincinci kunye nabahlobo abasondeleyo, sebenzisa igumbi lepati yokutyela kwindawo enkulu yokumangaliswa. Ikhaya lomntu yenye ingcinga entle, kodwa cinga kabini ngaphambi kokusebenzisa undwendwe lohloniphekileyo-emva kwayo yonke loo nto, abanokungaxabisi wonke umntu ekhayeni lakhe ngaphandle kokuzihlambulula kuqala.
Thumela izimemo -Thumela izimemo zomthendeleko womhla wokuzalwa kwiiveki ezimbalwa ngaphambi komsitho. Qiniseka ukuba into yothusayo inkulu, unobumba onesibindi. Ngapha koko, ukukhankanya imfihlo amatyeli aliqela kwisimemo sokumangaliswa kwamagama akho yindlela elungileyo yokugxininisa kwinxalenye eyimfihlo yomsitho. Khumbula ukuba wonke umntu afike kwimizuzu engama-30 ukuya kwengama-60 ngaphambi kwendwendwe ebekekileyo.
Hlanganisa imihlobiso -Thabatha izinto zepati yomhla wokuzalwa eziyonwabisayo kwaye ziyonwabisa. Kungenxa yokuba liqela elothusayo alithethi ukuba awukwazi ukongeza omnye umxholo weqela, njenge-luau okanye nokuhamba ngomxholo wexesha.
Khetha ukuzonwabisa -Uhlobo lokuzonwabisa olufumanayo luxhomekeke kuhlahlo-lwabiwo mali lweqela. Ukuxubana nokutya kunye neziselo kunye nomculo ongasemva ulula kwaye kuyabiza, ngelixa uhlahlo-lwabiwo mali olukhulu luvumela iqela eliqeshiweyo okanye i-DJ. Abantwana banokuyonwabela i-clown, umlingo, okanye ezinye iindwendwe zezilwanyana!
Cwangcisa imenyu -Thatha isigqibo sokuba ngaba ungayibamba ngokwakho imenyu yeqela ngokutya okwenziwe ekhaya, ukutya, okanye umxube wokutya okuthengweyo kunye nezitya ezenziwe ekhaya. Ungalibali ukufaka zombini iziselo ezinxilisayo kunye notywala kuluhlu lwakho lokuthenga.

Amanyathelo oSuku lwePhathi eyothusayo

Wakuba ufikile umhla wetheko, kubalulekile ukuba wonke umntu ayazi into ayenzayo nokuba uza kuyenza nini. Phinda ujonge ixesha lakho kunye nabo bafumana undwendwe lwembeko kwiqela. Fika kwindawo yepati ukuhombisa malunga neyure ngaphambi kokuba iindwendwe zifike kwaye zilungele ukutya imizuzu eli-15 ngaphambi kokuba iindwendwe zivele. Bukela ukufika komntwana oyinkwenkwe / intombazana yokuzalwa emva koko ukhwaze 'ukumangaliswa' kunye nezinye iindwendwe xa ehamba emnyango.

Iingcamango zendawo ezongezelelweyo

Ukuchonga indawo elungileyo yinto enkulu ekucwangciseni olu hlobo lwepati. Cinga ngezi ndawo ukuba unengxaki yokuza nemibono:

Ialley yokubhowula -Mema inkwenkwe okanye intombazana yokuzalwa ukuba iye kwi-bowling, okanye ukuba unosuku oluqhelekileyo lokubhowula, cinga ngokwenza itheko emva koko.
IMyuziyam -Ukuba umntu wokuzalwa ubugcisa okanye umthandi wembali, cinga ukubamba iqela kumyuziyam wasekhaya ubameme ukuba babone umboniso okanye ingqokelela.
Uphahla -Uluhlahlo-lwabiwo mali-oluhle, indawo emnandi yokubamba iqela elothusayo luphahla lwendlu yakho yokuhlala okanye ikondomu. Qiniseka ukuba uyicoca kuqala nomphathi wakho wolwakhiwo, emva koko usete izitulo, iitafile kunye nokulayita!
Ibala lebhola - Zoba inkwenkwe okanye intombazana yokuzalwa iye ebaleni ngokunikezela ngokujula ibhola, kodwa ubothuse endaweni yokuhlangana kwabo bonke abahlobo babo kunye nosapho. Fumana imvume kwisikolo okanye kwibhodi yolonwabo yangaphambi kokucwangcisa iqela ebaleni.
Iindawo zeenkampu Indawo yeenkampu yindawo entle yokuba neqela elothusayo kuba umbuki zindwendwe unokufika kwangoko (nangobusuku bangaphambili) ukuseta. Inkwenkwe okanye intombazana yokuzalwa isenokucinga ukuba ithatha uhambo olulula, kodwa iyakothuka xa ibona abahlobo bayo behlanganisene. Ukuba indawo yobusuku ayifumaneki, uninzi lweendawo zeenkampu zinezindlu zokuhlala kunye nezakhiwo onokuziqasha ezikufutshane neendawo zokudlala kunye neendawo zokuphinda ubuye.
Igumbi lasehotele -Ukuba itheko lenzelwe omnye umntu obalulekileyo, babenze bacinge ukuba bazokuchitha ubusuku bothando kunye, kodwa bothuse ngetheko! Ke, emva kwepati, phinda uqalise ngezicwangciso zakho zothando. Qiniseka ukuba uqesha isuti ukuze wonke umntu adibane kamnandi.
Ipuli yokuqubha - Endaweni yomhla olula wokubhukuda echibini, umangalise umntu omnandi, iqela lephuli. Qiniseka ukuba uzisa nantoni na yokuzalwa komntu ekuya kufuneka azive emhle kwiifoto emva kokuphela kokuqubha (ukwakheka, ibrashi yeenwele).
Limousine -I-limousine yenye yeendawo ezilungileyo zokubamba iqela elothusayo. Ngaba i-limo ithatha iindwendwe ngaphambi kokuthatha iindwendwe zembeko. Tsala ukumothusa undwendwe oluhloniphekileyo oluza kothuka ngakumbi xa bengena kwisithuthi ukubona abahlobo babo ngaphakathi. Ngaba umqhubi athathe umbhiyozeli kutyelelo lweendawo zakhe / ezizithandayo okanye nakwiinkumbulo zobuntwana!
Ezemidlalo -Ntloko kwiziko lakho lezemidlalo ekubalekeni komkhenkce, kwibhasikithi okanye kwibhola ekhatywayo kwaye umeme umfana okanye intombazana yokuzalwa ukuba ihambe nawe. Mema abahlobo kunye nosapho ukuba badibane nawe apho. Ubuhle beli hlobo lendawo kukuba uya kuba nokuzonwabisa ngokuzenzekelayo kwiindwendwe zakho.
Igumbi lenkomfa yeOfisi - Ukothusa umntu osebenza naye? Bhukisha igumbi lenkomfa 'iintlanganiso' kwaye uhombise ngokufihlakeleyo kwaye ufihle iindwendwe.
Ithala leencwadi -Iilayibrari ezininzi zinamagumbi enkomfa okanye eentlanganiso anokugcinwa ngefowuni okanye nge-Intanethi. Xelela inkwenkwe okanye intombazana yokuzalwa kufuneka ubuyise ezinye iincwadi okanye kufuneka wenze uphando olukhawulezileyo ukuze ubangenise esakhiweni ngenxa yokumangaliswa kwabo okukhulu!

Gcina iZimanga ziSiza

Sukuvumela ubumnandi buphele 'nge-SURPRISE' yokuqala. Qiniseka ukongeza ezinye izinto ezothusayo kwiqela ukugcina ulonwabo luhamba imini yonke okanye ubusuku.

Umboniso wesilayidi -Yila umboniso wesilayidi kubandakanya ividiyo emfutshane evela kubahlobo abangakwazanga ukuya kwimithendeleko kunye neefoto zondwendwe lobekekileyo, zonke zidityaniswe nengoma ekhethekileyo Dlala ividiyo njengemangalisa kwinkwenkwe okanye intombazana yokuzalwa.
Undwendwe olumangalisayo -Mema umhlobo olahlekileyo welungu losapho elikude njengendwendwe elikhethekileyo, elothusayo. Oku kunokuphelisa ukubiza kwaye ayinguye wonke umntu onokuhamba ngesaziso esifutshane, ke cwangcisa kwangaphambili.
Unyango olukhethekileyo -Ukuba umntu wokuzalwa unebhaki ekhethekileyo okanye ikhefi eyenza ukutya abakuthandayo okanye ukutya, cinga ngokuba neli ziko lijongana nepati yakho. Kuyamangalisa nangakumbi ukuba ivenkile yokubhaka okanye ikhefi ivela kwidolophu ekuzalwa kuyo inkwenkwe okanye intombazana yokuzalwa. Yihombise ngazo zonke iintsimbi kunye neempempe ukuze umhlobo wakho okanye ilungu losapho lazi ukuba yinto ekhethekileyo.
Uluhlu lweebhakethi umsebenzi -Ukuba umazi kakuhle undwendwe lwembeko, unokuyazi into ayenzileyo kubouluhlu lwepheyile. Zama ukuyifaka kwiqela lakho lothusayo. Inkwenkwe yokuzalwa ihlala ifuna ukubhabha esibhakabhakeni? Bamba itheko elikufutshane nesikhululo seenqwelomoya kwaye ulungiselele ukuba aye kudayiva esibhakabhakeni. Ngaba intombazana yokuzalwa ilangazelela iFrance? Mnike izifundo zesiFrentshi njengesipho.
Ukusebenza -Ukuba ungumdanisi, yimvumi, okanye ngumdlali weqonga cinga ngokwenza umdaniso okhethekileyo okanye ubhale ingoma undwendwe olubekekileyo kwaye ubothuse ngomdlalo.
Isipho se-Epic -Ungabinakho ukubanakho ukufumana isipho se-epic sondwendwe oluhloniphekileyo ngokwakho, kodwa cinga ngokucela iindwendwe ukuba zenze imali kwisipho esinye esikhulu esivela kuwo wonke umntu. Nokuba olo hambo luya e-spa, inkqubo entsha yokudlala, okanye imoto entsha inokufikeleleka ukuba wonke umntu uyahamba kunyeisipho esigqibeleleyo.
Iqela eliqhubela phambili -Gcina isimanga esiza ubusuku bonke ngokwenza ukuba iqela lakho liqhubeke. Yothusa undwendwe lozuko kwindawo yakhe ayithandayo yokupheka ii-cocktails kunye nabahlobo abambalwa, emva koko uhambe uye kwindawo eyimfihlo yokutyela isidlo sangokuhlwa kunye nelinye iqela labahlobo. Ukuphelisa ubusuku kwindawo yesithathu yokumangaliswa kwekhekhe kunye nelinye iqela labangane.
Umkhweli / ukuzingela ubuncwane -Thumela umntu omthandayo ekuzingeleni umgwebi okanye ekuzingeleni ubuncwane obakhokelela kwezinye zeendawo abazithandayo kwaye ekugqibeleni iphelela kwindawo yepati apho zonke iindwendwe ziya kuba zihlanganisene khona.
Isipho iyure -Gcina inkwenkwe okanye intombazana yomhla wokuzalwa ikrokre ngokubabonisa ngesipho iyure nganye yepati yabo. Qalisa encinci, kunye nebhokisi encinci yeelekese, kwaye ngokuthe ngcembe wandise amaxabiso ezipho, uphele ngesona sinexabiso kakhulu okanye esona sipho sibalulekileyo.
Ipati yokunxiba - Cela iindwendwe ukuba zize ngendlela efihlakeleyo, ngakumbi leyo efihla ubuso babo, kwanasemva kokuba 'kumangalisiwe!' Okwangoku, inkwenkwe okanye intombazana yokuzalwa iya konwaba xa ichonga iindwendwe. Olu luvo luya kusebenza ngokukuko konyaka xa iindwendwe zinokufikelela ngokulula kwizambatho zeHalloween. Ukuba iimpahla azisosicelo sisebenzayo, cinga ngokubanjwa ziindwendwe iimaski zobuso bomntu wokuzalwa phambi kwezabo.

Isimangalo sokusombulula ingxaki kwiqela

Eyona ngxaki inkulu ejongene nabantu abacwangcisa itheko lokuzalwa elothusayo kukuba undwendwe oluhloniphekileyo lufumanisa ukumangaliswa okukhulu. Ukuba oku kuyenzeka, cinga ukwenza enye yezi zinto zimbini: cela umntu lowo ukuba enze into emangazayo, okanye uphinde uphinde uphinde ubambe omnye umhla ukuze uwothuse. Isicwangciso sokuxhasa sisigqibo esihle kakhulu kwezinye izinto zepati, nazo. Umzekelo, yiba neziselo ezongezelelekileyo kunye nokutya okulula okukhawulezayo xa kunokwenzeka uphele, kwaye ube nabadlali beCD abambalwa abakulungeleyo ukuba ukuzonwabisa kungasebenzi.