Amaxabiso osapho abandakanya zonke izimvo zendlela ofuna ukuhlala ngayo kubomi bosapho lwakho, kwaye zihlala zidluliselwa kwizizukulwana zangaphambili. Banokunceda ekuchazeni isimilo kwiimeko ezahlukeneyo, bancede ulutsha lukhethe ngokufanelekileyo, kwaye luqinise ubudlelwane olukhoyo kusapho lwakho. Ukuba usapho lwakho alukabinazo ezi zinto zisemgangathweni, yazi ukuba akukaze kube semva kwexesha ukwenza uluhlu.
Iindidi zamaxabiso
Nangona lonke uluhlu lwamaxabiso osapho luya kwahluka, kukho iindidi ezahlukeneyo zexabiso ezihlala zifana.
Amanqaku afanelekileyo- Iintshukumo zangaphandle zoSapho Wonke umntu uya kuthanda
- Iifoto zoLonwabo loSapho lweHlabathi
- Iindidi zoLwakhiwo loSapho
Iimilinganiselo zentlalo
Iimpawu zentlalo zibandakanya izinto ezinje ngoxolo, ubulungisa, inkululeko, ukulingana, kunye nokwenza ngcono uluntu lwethu. Imizekelo yexabiso lentlalontle ibandakanya:
- Ukungabenzakalisi abanye kunye nokuzimela abo bangakwaziyo ukuzimela
- Ukuba nembeko kunye nembeko kunxibelelwano lwakho
- Ixesha lokuzithandela kunye nezakhono ekuhlaleni
- Ukuba nesisa ngento onayo
- Ukunyaniseka kwabanye
- Ukuthatha inxaxheba ekusebenzisaneni njengeqela xa kunokwenzeka
Amaxabiso ezopolitiko
Nangona ukukhululeka, ukugcina umthetho, okanye ukumodareyitha kunokumisela uluvo lwakho malunga nendlela urhulumente afanele ukuqhuba ngayo kunye nokuba yeyiphi na imithetho ekufuneka yenziwe, kukho amaxabiso athile ezopolitiko ahlala ethe gqolo kumaqela ezopolitiko. Amaxabiso aseMelika ahlala abandakanya:
- I-Exceptionalism - iMelika lilizwe elinamathuba angenamda kwaye, ngenxa yoko, linoxanduva lokwenza umzekelo kwamanye amazwe.
- Ubungxowankulu kunye nobunini babucala bepropathi
- Ukuthanda izwe
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Ukuphatha wonke umntu ngokulinganayo, nokuba ungowaluphi na uhlanga, ubuhlanga, inkolo, okanye inkanuko yesini
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Ukuba nengqondo evulekileyo kwizinto ezintsha
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Ukulandela umthetho kunye nokuhlonipha abo bawunyanzelisa
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Ukusebenza nzima ukuze uphumelele
Imilinganiselo yeNkolo
Imilinganiselo yezenkolo ijikeleze kulindelo abantu abanalo malunga nabo nakwabanye ngokusekwe kwiinkolelo zaboukholo. Nangona inkolo nganye ineenkolelo zayo, kukho amaxabiso aqhelekileyo iinkonzo ezininzi ezithanda ukwabelana ngawo. Imizekelo yexabiso lenkolo ibandakanya:
- Ukubonisa imfesane kwabo basweleyo
- Ukuphatha abanye ngendlela obungathanda ukuphathwa ngayo
- Ukuqhubeka nokufunda nokukhula kokubini ngokomoya nangokwasengqondweni
- Ukuthozama kulwalamano lwakho nabanye
- Ukuba nembeko kunye nokungabi nabundlobongela xa unxibelelana nabanye
Amaxabiso Emisebenzi
Ixabiso lomsebenzi libandakanya izinto ezinje ngefilosofi malunga nomsebenzi wakho, iimali zakho, kunye nendlela oyisebenzisa ngayo imali yakho. Kubantwana, ezi zinto zibalulekileyo zibandakanya indlela abasijonga ngayo isikolo kunye nemfundo yabo. Imizekelosebenzaamaxabiso abandakanya:
- Soloko usenza owona msebenzi wakho ubalaseleyo
- Ukusebenza kwiqela
- Ukugcina isahlulo somvuzo wakho / isibonelelo
- Ukufumana amathuba okuveza izimvo zakho kunye nobuchule bokuyila
- Ukuba neqhayiya ngempumelelo yakho
- Ukwenza imfundo ibe yeyona nto ibalulekileyo
- Ukugcina engqondweni indima edlalwa ngumsebenzi wakho eluntwini
- Ukunyanga abantu osebenza nabo, abanye abafundi, abathengi kunye nabasemagunyeni ngendlela ofuna ukuphathwa ngayo
Imilinganiselo Yokuziphatha
Imilinganiselo yokuziphatha yimilinganiselo yakho malunga nento ocinga ukuba ilungile kwaye ayilunganga. Imilinganiselo yokuziphatha inika isiseko othabatha kuso izigqibo.Ukuziphathazifundwa kubazali bakho nakumava akho. Imizekelo yeenqobo zokuziphatha zibandakanya:
- Ukunyaniseka nokuthembeka
- Ukuba nesibindi
- Ungaze unikezele
- Yongeza ixabiso kwihlabathi
- Ukuba nomonde
- Ukuthatha uxanduva lomntu
Iinqobo zokuzonwabisa
Ixabiso lokuzonwabisa libhekisa kuyo nayiphi na into ebandakanyekayokumnandi nokudlala. Ukuzonwabisa kubalulekile kusapho kuba kukhuthaza ukusondelelana kusapho, amathuba okufunda, ukudala iinkumbulo,ukuphucula izakhono zentlalo, kunye nokuphuhlisa uvelwano. Imizekelo yexabiso lokuzonwabisa iquka:
- Ukubonelela ngexesha lokudlala elingacwangciswanga
- Ukubaubusuku bomdlalo wosapho
- Ukuvumela kunye nokukhuthaza ilungu ngalinye losapho ukuba lilandele iimfuno
- Ukuthathaikhefukunye
- Ukuchitha ixesha kunye ngaphandle kokudlala
Iingcebiso zokwenza uLuhlu loSapho lwakho
Ukuhlala phantsi njengentsapho kwaye nize noluhlu lwamaxabiso kunokubonakala kungumsebenzi otyhafisayo. Nangona kunjalo, yazi ukuba akukho ndlela inye efanelekileyo yokuza noluhlu lwakho. Qala ngokubiza intlanganiso yosapho kwaye ufumane igalelo kwilungu ngalinye losapho. Yazi ukuba ingathathaIintlanganiso ezininziukufumana zonke iingcinga phantsi. Nangona kunjalo, ekugqibeleni, uya kuba noluhlu olubonisa ngokwenyani usapho lwakho. Ezi ngcebiso zilandelayo kufuneka zikuncede uphuhlise uluhlu onokuma ngalo kunye nabantwana bakho:
- Cinga ukubhalaIsaciIsiteyitimenti somgaqo-nkqubo esijongana nexabiso losapho lwakho, nokuba kusonjululwa ngoxolo, ukuba nobubele nokunyaniseka okanye ukusebenza nzima.
- Thetha malunga nosapho lwakho. Zeziphi izinto ezibaluleke kakhulu kusapho lwakho? Athini amandla osapho lwakho? Ngawaphi amagama okanye amabinzana achaza kakuhle usapho lwakho?
- Bhala phantsi yonke into. Ungahlala ubuyela umva kwaye unciphise uluhlu kamva. Iseshoni yokuqala imalunga nokucinga ngengqondo.
- Vumela wonke umntu ukuba acinge ngayo okwethutyana ngaphambi kokuphinda bahlangane kwakhona ukuba bavumelane kuluhlu.
- Gcina iingcamango ezilishumi. Uluhlu lwakho lokugqibela lunokuba ngaphezulu okanye ngaphantsi, kodwa ishumi linani elisebenzayo onokujolisa kulo ngaphandle kokuba ungoyiki.
- Bonisa uluhlu lwakho. Hlanganisa uluhlu lwamaxabiso akho kwindawo ethile apho luya kubonakala khona yonke imihla.
- Jonga uluhlu xa izinto zisenzeka. Sebenzisa uluhlu lwamaxabiso osapho lwakho njengesixhobo sokufundisa.
- Phinda ubhale kwakhona xa kufuneka. Uluhlu lunokukhula kwaye luguquke ngokuhamba kwexesha, kanye njengokutshintsha kosapho lwakho.
Uluhlu lwamaxabiso amaNtsapho
Nangona uluhlu lwamaxabiso osapho lonke luya kwahluka, lo ulandelayo ngumzekelo woluhlu lwamaxabiso osapho:
- Cinga ngemiphumo ngaphambi kokuba wenze
- Landela izikhokelo zenkolo
- Xoxa ngokulungileyo nokungalunganga xa amaxabiso ale mihla engqubana namaxabiso emveli
- Chithani ixesha kunye nosapho, kodwa zilandele iimfuno zomntu ngamnye
- Phila ezi zixabiso, sukuthetha nje ngazo
- Phatha abanye (ngaphakathi nangaphandle kosapho) ngovelwano nentlonipho
- Wenze konke okusemandleni akho kuwo wonke umsebenzi
- Soloko uqhubeka nokufunda
- Funda ngokusilela
- Bhiyozela impumelelo
- Sebenzisa imali ukwenza, kunokuthenga
- Phatha izilwanyana njengentsapho
- Khumbula ukuba ungasoloko usenza ngokweemvakalelo
- Bonisa uthando yonke imihla
- Ukuqhawula ubudlelwane nabantu abangenantlonelo
- Phatha izinto zabanye ngenkathalo nangentlonipho
- Mamela kuba zonke izimvo zibalulekile
- Soloko uzama ukugcina ukhuseleko
- Nyaniseka
Imilinganiselo yesiNtu xa kuthelekiswa namaXabiso amaNamhlanje
Amaxabiso osapho athambekele ekubonakaliseni inkcubeko kunye nexesha lexesha kwaye kunokubonwa kuguquka kuyo yonke imbali kuxhomekeke kwindalo esingqongileyo. Imilinganiselo yesiko yayijolise ekugxininiseni iyunithi yosapho xa iintsapho ezininzi zazihlala kwaye zisebenza kunye. Ngala maxesha, amaxabiso osapho anokubonwa eshenxela kugxininiso kwinkululeko nakuphuhliso xa kuthelekiswa nobunye.
Impembelelo yoLuntu kwiMilinganiselo
Njengoko uluntu luye lwaya phambili kwezobuchwephesha, amaxabiso osapho aya kutshintsha ukubonisa oko kwinqanaba lenkcubeko. Xa iintsapho zazisebenza kunye ngaphambi kohlaziyo lwezemizi-mveliso, bekukho ixesha elabiweyo kunye kwaye kusenokwenzeka ukuba usapho olwandisiweyo luhlala kunye okanye lusondele kakhulu ekwenzeni umsebenzi wabo ube lula. Iintsapho zotshintsho kwimizi-mveliso zazinokhetho lokusasazeka ngakumbi kunye nokuzimela omnye komnye ke oko kususa ugxininiso kwiyunithi yenkqubo eyandisiweyo yosapho kunye nokwamkela kwiintsapho zenyukliya ezinamandla.
Shift kwiNdima yezeSini, ubuGcisa beSini, kunye nezoSondo
Iindima zesiko xa kuthelekiswa nendima yesini yanamhlanje zinokubonakaliswa eluntwini kwaye zibe nefuthe kumaxabiso osapho. Abasetyhini abaninzi babekhuthazwa ukuba bahlale ekhaya bakhulise iintsapho ngelixa amadoda ephuma esiya kubasebenzi. Olu luvo lutshintshe kakhulu njengoko amadoda namakhosikazi, nokuba banabantwana, bekwazi ukufumana imisebenzi njengoko uluntu luqhelekisa abantu basetyhini kubasebenzi. Ngexesha lokunyuka kosapho lwenyukliya amadoda nabafazi bakhuthazwa ukuba bakhulise abantwana ababonisa usapho olululo lwenyukliya. Umabonwakude, iintengiso, kunye neemveliso zabathengi zibonisa le ntlalontle. Lo moya ubeka ukubambelela okungqongqo kwindima yesini kunye nokuqina ngokwesini. Ubungqingili besini kunye nokuchaphazeleka ngokwesini kwamkelwe ngakumbi eluntwini namhlanje kwaye inkcubeko kunye nexabiso losapho linokubonisa oko. Nangona ingeyiyo inkqubo egqibeleleyo, ukudala amaxabiso osapho asekwe ekwamkelweni kugxininiswe ekufundeni kunokunceda ukudala indawo evulekileyo nenothando yosapho apho wonke umntu eziva amkelekile, ngelixa ixesha losapho lwenyukliya ngokuqinisekileyo lingazange likukhuthaze oko kwinqanaba elikhulu.
Ukuhlaziya amaxabiso eSapho lwakho
Amaxabiso osapho lwakho anokutshintshwa nangaliphi na ixesha, ngakumbi ukuba injongo kukwenza imeko yokubandakanya. Amaxabiso osapho anokukhethwa ngumzali okanye ngabazali, okanye abantwana banokubandakanywa ekwenzeni izigqibo ukuba badala ngokwaneleyo ukuba bangathatha inxaxheba. Ngenxa yokuba amaxabiso osapho kufanele ukuba abonakalise usapho njengeyunithi, licebo elilungileyo ukukhuthaza amalungu osapho amancinci ukuba athathe inxaxheba kwezi ngxoxo ke ixabiso lithetha okuthile kuye wonke umntu osapho, hayi abantu abadala kuphela.
Uluhlu lwakho kufuneka lubonakalise usapho lwakho
Uluhlu losapho lwakho kufuneka lubonakale kusapho lwakho. Ukuba ulusapho lokomoya, uluhlu lwakho kufuneka lube kokomoya ngakumbi. Ukuba usapho olungaqhelekanga, oluthandayo ulonwabo, uluhlu lwakho kufuneka lubonakalise oko. Ukuba elona xesha likhulu losapho lwakho libandakanya ukudanisa ngokungahleliwe kwiipijama zakho, emva koko ukudanisa kwe-pajama ngokungacwangciswanga okanye i-goof-ballery ngokubanzi kunokuba yinxalenye yoluhlu lwakho. Nantoni na ebalulekileyo kwimpilo nakwintlalo-ntle yosapho lwakho kufuneka ibe yinxalenye yoluhlu lwexabiso losapho lwakho, nokuba ungawenza ntoni umsebenzi okanye ulwimi olusetyenziselwa ukuyichaza.
