Abasetyhini abanabahlobo abangamadoda banokufuna ukubuza omnye ukuba abe ngumakoti wabo. Nangona isithethe sihlala sahlula amadoda kwicala lomyeni kunye nabafazi kwicala lomtshakazi, kuluntu lwanamhlanje akukho sizathu sokuba umfazi angabi nandoda.
Iindima zaMaxesha oMtshato
Abakhwenyana kunye neempelesi ngabantu aba bantu baziva besondele kakhulu phakathi kosapho nabahlobo. Ukuba umhlobo osondeleyo ngowesinye isini, umtshakazi unokuzibuza ukuba makenze ntoni xa kufikwa ekukhetheni iintombi.
inobunzima obungakanani imoto ephakathiAmanqaku afanelekileyo
- Igalari yomtshato iTuxedo
- Imitshato yokuyila yokutsala amadoda angamaGroommen
- Imifanekiso yeeLokhwe ezitshatileyo
Ukuqwalaselwa Phambi kokuba Umbuze
Ngaphambi kokuba ucele indoda ukuba ime nawe, unokufuna ukwenza izinto ezimbini. Inye kukuphinda ujonge umyeni wakho oza kuba ulungile kuye ukuba aphule isithethe. Okwesibini, ukuba uyinxalenye yeqela lenkolo elilondolozayo, kuya kufuneka ubuze ukuba ngaba kukho naziphi na izithintelo ngokubhekisele kwindoda eme nabasetyhini. Ukuba kukho ingxaki, ungasoloko ucela umhlobo wakho oyindoda ukuba afunde okanye abe ngumsasazi, uchaze izithintelo zonqulo ezikuthintele ekunikezeni imbeko.
Isihloko saMadoda angamaNtombikazi
Kuba iindima zeqela lomtshato ziye zahlulwa ngokwesini, kubalulekile ukuba ufumane isihloko esifanelekileyo somlindi oyindoda. Ababini, ngakumbi abo banamadoda nabasetyhini kumacala omyeni nomtshakazi, bahlala bekhetha ukusebenzisa iilebheli 'zabalindi bomyeni' kunye 'nabancedisi bomtshakazi' xa bethetha ngomtshato. Ezinye izihloko ezamkelekileyo zibandakanya:
- Umtshakazi
- Mntu oHloniphekileyo
- Mhlobo Wokuhlonipha
- INgqina loMtshakazi
- Indoda ebekekileyo
Izambatho Zendoda Etshatileyo
Amadoda azalisa indima yomtshakazi awanqweneli ukunxiba ilokhwe yomtshakazi.
Yintoni yokunxiba
Endaweni yokuba unxibe isimbo esifanayo sokuqasha i-tuxedo njengamanye amalungu omtshato abesilisa. Chaza indawo yakhe ngokukhetha umbala owehlukileyo wevesti, ihempe, okanye iqhina kunabanye abagadi, okanye imibala yakhe ifane naleyo yelokhwe yomtshato.
Tsiba isipha
Umlindi womyeni akazukuthwala isipha seentyatyambo somtshato, nangona ukuba uyafuna, ebenakho. Endaweni yoko, yenza i-boutonniere eyahlukileyo, elinganisa iintyatyambo zeentombi; into eyahluke kancinane kunale yabatshati. Sebenzisa isikwere sepokotho ngombala owahlukileyo kunamanye amadoda komnye umahluko ochuliweyo phakathi kwabalindi.
Imisebenzi yoMyeni
Indoda esebenza njengomtshakazi inokuthatha inxaxheba kwizinto ezininzi ezifanayo njengamanye amalungu omtshato wabasetyhini.
Imisebenzi yangaphambi komtshato
Ukucwangcisa okanye ukuya kwiitheko lomtshatoyinto eyenziwa ngumtshakazi oyindoda ukubonisa inkxaso yakhe kwesi sibini. Ngokuqinisekileyo akunyanzelekanga ukuba acwangcise ipati, kodwa ukuba umenyiwe, kufuneka acinge ngokuzimasa njengenxalenye yemisebenzi yakhe yokuba lilungu.
Umtshakazi unako kwaye kufuneka ancedise umtshakazi kwimicimbi enxulumene nomtshato, njengokuhlangana nabathengisi, ukulungisa izimemo okanye ukumamela umoya wakhe malunga noxinzelelo lomtshato. Ukuba unengqiqo ethile yefashoni, anganika uluvo malunga nezimbo zegawadi yomtshato okanye isinxibo somtshakazi, nangona engenakho ukuya kulungiso.
Iishawari
Amadoda axhasa umtshakazi anokumenyelwa kubo bonke abafazi ababhinqileyo, kodwa banokuziva bengakhululekanga ukubakho. Endaweni yokubamba i-bachelorette yendabuko okanye ishawa yomtshato, cinga ukuphosa ishawa yomtshato edibeneyo, imema amadoda nabafazi. Ngale ndlela, umtshakazi wakho oyindoda unokuthatha inxaxheba kwinkqubo yokucwangcisa ishawa, njengokuza nemidlalo yokuhlamba umtshakazi nomyeni.
Imisebenzi yoSuku loMtshato
Ngomhla womtshato, abatshati abesilisa babelana ngoxanduva olufanayo nabafazi abatshakazi.
- Kuya kufuneka anakekele umtshakazi, emnceda agqibe uluhlu lokugqibela 'lwezinto eziza kwenziwa' ekufuneka zenziwe ngaphambi komsitho nolwamkelo.
- Umfoti oqeqeshiweyo uya kumfota kunye nomtshakazi kunye neempelesi. Ukuba isibini sinomgca wokufumana, umtshakazi uya kuthatha inxaxheba.
- Uyakuthatha inxaxheba kumdaniso wetheko lomtshato, edanisa kunye nolunye undwendwe lwasebukhosini ukuba umntu obhinqileyo ongakhange abandakanywe kwitheko lomtshato.
Indlela yokujongana neProcessional Wedding
Ukuhamba ezantsi enqanaweni kwiinkqubo yomtshatoNgomhla womtshato kunokunika izibini ikhefu eziqhele ukubona abatshati bephelekezela abatshakazi ezantsi kwendlela. Ukuba umgcini ongumyeni wabasetyhini ubandakanyiwe kwitheko lomtshato, izibini zinokuhamba ezantsi kwindlela yefashoni, ngaphandle kwabasetyhini kwicala lomyeni kunye nendoda kwicala lomtshakazi. Ngaphandle koko, isisombululo esilula kukuba abagcini bomyeni beme ngaphambili kwindawo yomsitho kwaye abagcini bomtshakazi bahambe ezantsi ngakwindawo enye.
Indima Ebekekileyo
Iindima zesini somtshato womntu otshatayo akudingeki ukuba ube nexhala xa amadoda nabafazi bengabahlobo abasondeleyo. Intombi engumyeni ayingomabali; Ngapha koko, umhlobo olungileyo oyindoda okanye isizalwane siya kuwongwa ukuba sime nomtshakazi ngomhla womtshato wakhe.
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