Ukubhalela umama wakho umbongo omnandi kunokuthatha ixesha kunye nomonde, kodwa yindlela ekhethekileyo yokuhlonipha ubomi bakhe. Sebenzisa iingcebiso kunye nezikhokelo zokubhala umbulelo kumama wakho kunokunceda ekwenzeni inkqubo ibe lula ukuyilawula.
Uthini na kwi-Eulogy kaMama wakho?
Mfutshaneimizekelo eulogyinokusetyenziswa njengetemplate ukukunceda uqalise, khetha umxholo ngokubanzi, kwaye ubone ukuba leliphi ithoni elisebenza kakuhle kwisitayile sakho. Gcina ukhumbula ukuba awuyongxaki yokuthetha esidlangalaleni, licebo elilungileyo ukugcina intetho yakho ikwifutshane, njengoko iimvakalelo zinokuphakama ngomhla womngcwabo, wesikhumbuzo, okanye wokubhiyozela inkonzo yobomi. AUdumo kufuneka luqalengokuzazisa kwaye emva kokoiphele ngeengcinga zokugqibelamalunga nomama wakho. Gcwalisa embindini ngolwazi olulungiselelwe umama wakho, ubomi bakhe, kunye nolwalamano lwakho.
Amanqaku afanelekileyo- Ukuphulukana noDadewethu iikowuti zeeEulogies eziMnandi
- Iimbeko zeSikhumbuzo koomama
- Iintetho zasimahla zeSampula yeeNtetho
I-Eulogy kaMama onesifo esiGulayo
Ukuba umama wakho usweleke ngenxa yesifo esiqhekezayo esifana nesifo sengqondo esixhalabisayo okanye umhlaza, usenakho okanye unganqweneli ukufaka ulwazi malunga namava akhe kwesi sigulo kwintetho yakho. Ukuba ungathanda ukufaka ulwazi kumava kamama wakho ngesifo esiya sisiba mandundu, unokulikhankanya ngokufutshane emva kwentshayelelo, okanye ngaphambi kokuvala, kodwa qiniseka ukuba ungagxili koku. Imizekelo ibandakanya:
izindlu ezinengeniso ephantsi tucson az
- Uninzi lwenu luyazi, (faka igama lomntu ongasekhoyo) kwafunyaniswa ukuba (faka ukugula) ubuyele (faka umhla). Ngaphandle kokuchongwa kwesi sifo, ukuthanda kwakhe ubomi kunye nokufuna ukwazi okungahambelaniyo kwakwahlukile. Waye kwaye uya kuqhubeka eyisikhuthazo kuthi sonke ngobomi bokuphila ngokupheleleyo kwaye engavumeli nantoni na ukuba imphazamise. '
- (Faka igama lomntu ongasekhoyo) ugcine uxilongo (lwegama lokugula) lubucala. Akazange afune ukuthwalisa nabani na uziva ngathi kufuneka bamkhathalele, ngakumbi kwiintsuku ezinzima. Ukungazicingeli kwakhe akuzange kuvele nje emva kokuxilongwa- ebekule ndlela ebomini bakhe bonke, ebeka abanye phambili kwaye efuna ukuba lilitye losapho kunye nabahlobo bakhe. '
I-Eulogy kaMama oneNgxaki yeMpilo yeNgqondo
Ngokufana ne-eulogy yomama onesifo esiya sisiba mandundu, kukuwe ukuba uthathe isigqibo sokuba ungathanda na ukuxela ukuxilongwa kwempilo yengqondo kukanyoko. Qiniseka ukuba uyabandakanya ukuxilongwa, ukuba ikhona ngenjongo, hayi ukuyithetha nje. Imizekelo ibandakanya:
- 'Njengoko abanye benu benokwazi, (faka igama lomntu ongasekhoyo) unesifo (faka isifo). Ngaphandle kwemiceli mngeni yokufunyanwa kwesi sifo kuye, uhlala enyamezele kwaye eqhubeka nokubonisa usapho ukuba ukubeka phambili ukuzinakekela kunye nokuba sempilweni kwengqondo zizinto ezibalulekileyo zokudala ubomi obonwabisayo. Ndiza kuhlala ndiliva ilizwi lakhe xa ilixesha lokuba ndingene kunye nentlalo-ntle yam ngokweemvakalelo. Siyayihlonipha inkumbulo yakhe namhlanje nangemihla yonke.
- 'Umama uye waxilongwa (faka uxilongo) okoko ndikhumbula. Nangona oku kuye kwazisa imiceli mngeni ebalulekileyo kwindlela yakhe, wayehlala ebeka phambili ukuzikhathalela ukuze abekho xa kukho usapho. Xa ndijonga ngasemva, ngoku ndiqala ukuqonda ukuba kufuneka oyise kangakanani ukuze abe ngumama wakhe kuthi. '
Emva kokukhankanya isifo, ungangena kwibali elineenkcukacha ngakumbi elibonisa ukuba wayengubani umama wakho njengomntu. Ii-anecdotes zobuqu zenza intetho eulogy enentsingiselo ngakumbi kwaye ikhethekileyo.
I-Eulogy yeNkolo kaMama
Ukuba umama wakho wayeqhuba inkolo ethile, okanye wayeneintetho yenkoloyayinentsingiselo kuye, unokucinga ukuba ungayongeza kwintetho yakho yokubonga. Unokwenza oko ngokufaka intetho okanye iinkolelo ezithile kumxholo ophambili wentetho yakho. Imizekelo yeempawu zonqulo zibandakanya:
- (Faka igama lomntu ongasekhoyo) waphila ubomi bakhe ngothando nothando kunye nokwamkelwa kwabo bonke abantu. Wayehlala esithi (faka inkolelo yenkolo okanye athi) kwaye wenza umzekelo ngoku (faka umzekelo othile wokwenza njalo). Ndinombulelo kakhulu ngokuba naye njengomzekelo omangalisayo wobubele, ukunyaniseka, kunye namandla. '
- 'Inkolo ihlala iyinxalenye enkulu yobomi (faka igama lomntu ongasekhoyo) ebomini. Xa nabani na kuthi efumana umzuzu onzima ebomini, wayehlala esithi, (faka intetho yenkolo). Ngale ntetho, wasifundisa malunga namandla kunye nokukholelwa kuthi. '
I-Eulogy yoMama onzima
Ukuba ubukhe wahlukana nobudlelwane nomama wakho, uya kuba nakho ukunika intetho emnandi ukuba uziva ukhululekile ukwenza njalo. Zama ukugxila kwiimpawu ezintle zakhe kunye / okanye izithintelo awoyisileyo. Ngelixa ungafuneki ukuba ungene kwi-nitty gritty yobudlelwane bakho, usenokubamba izinto ezintle zomoya wakhe ngamazwi akho. Ungaqwalasela ukuthi:
- Ngelixa mna nomama singenabo obona budlelwane busondeleyo, bendihlala ndiyithanda inkolelo yakhe kuye kunye nokukwazi kwakhe ukubeka phambili iimfuno zakhe. (Faka igama lomntu ongasekhoyo) woyise ubunzima obuninzi kwaye wazigalela ekubeni abe yilento wayefuna ukuba yiyo. Ndiyabulela ngexesha esilichithe kunye. '
- 'Njengokuba uninzi lwenu lusazi, mna nomama besingasondelelani ngendlela ebendinqwenela ukuba besikho. Nangona sineeyantlukwano zethu, ndafunda izifundo ezintle kuye malunga nomonde, ukomelela kunye nentlonipho. (Faka igama lomntu ongasekhoyo) waba nemiceli mngeni emininzi ebomini kwaye wajongana nazo ngqo ngamandla amakhulu nokuzimisela. '
Ukuba unengxaki yokuza neempawu ezintle, ungagxila kubomi bakhe ngokulandelelana kwaye uchaze ubudlelwane obabubalulekile kuye, ukufezekisa, izinto azithandayo kunye nomsebenzi wakhe.
I-Eulogy evela kuNyana okanye kwiNtombi
I-eulogy ebhalwe ngunyana okanye intombi kamama inokuba ngumrhumo okhethekileyo. Umzekelo wokubonga unyana okanye intombi:
Umama wentetho yomyeni kwisidlo sangokuhlwa sokuziqhelanisa
- (Faka igama lomntu ongasekhoyo) wayengoyena mntu ubalaseleyo, onothando endakha ndamazi. Wayekhuthaza wonke umntu, kangangokuba abahlobo babedla ngokumbiza ngokuba ngumama. Uye wakuthatha oku njengombulelo kwaye akazange ayeke ukubakhona kwabanye abafuna inkxaso ngenye indlela. Njengaye (intombi okanye unyana), ndiziva ngathi ndikhule kunye noyena mntu ungoyena mntu ungoyena mntu undifundisileyo ukuba andifundise ukuba ndihlale ndinguye kwaye ndisoloko ndizinyanzela ukuba ndifunde ngakumbi. Ndiya kulukhumbula uncumo lwakhe, ukuhleka kwakhe, ingcebiso yakhe yesilumko, kunye nobuntu bakhe obukrelekrele. Ndiyazi ukuba sonke siyakulikhumbula ikeyiki yakhe edumileyo yetshokholethi. Enkosi kwakhona ngokuba nguye namhlanje ukuhlonipha inkumbulo yakhe. Unithande nonke kwaye inkumbulo yakhe iyakuhlala kuthi sonke. '
I-Eulogy kaMamazala
Imizekelo yeentetho zomamazala zibandakanya:
- Kukho ukungaqondi kakuhle ukuba abasebukhweni bakho baya kuba yingxaki. Ayinakudlula kwinyani xa isiza (faka igama lomntu ongasekhoyo). Uye wandamkela ngezandla ezishushu kwaye bendimthanda kakhulu kwangoko kubudlelwane bethu. Siphele sazibophelela kuthando lwethu lwezilwanyana kwaye sichitha ixesha lethu sihamba hamba nezinja zethu kwaye sizivolontiya kumakhaya okhuseleko kunye. Ngelixa ndiziva ndingakulungelanga ukuthi ndlela-ntle, ndiyazi ukuba ndinethamsanqa elingakanani ngokumazi ngexesha elincinci endilwenzileyo. Ndiyamkhumbula kwaye ndinqwenela ukufumana ilungelo lokuchitha ixesha elininzi kunye naye. '
- (Faka igama lomntu ongasekhoyo) wayengumntu onobubele, okhululekileyo nothanda ukucula, ukudanisa, nokupheka ukutya okumangalisayo. Wayenomdla wezinto ezininzi, kodwa ubukhulu becala wayenomdla wokuba ngumama. Ndakhe ndambukela kwiminyaka eliqela edlulileyo ukuba ngoyena mama ungakholelekiyo kubantwana bakhe kwaye ukufika kwam emfanekisweni, wenza iinzame zokundenza ndizive ndamkelekile kusapho lwakhe kwangoko. Ndifunde izifundo ezininzi kuye malunga nokulandela amaphupha akho kunye nothando ngayo yonke intliziyo yakho. Ndiyabukhumbula ubukho bakhe obumangalisayo kwaye ndiziva ndiwongekile ngokuba yinxalenye yosapho. '
I-Eulogy kuMama weSinyathelo
Imizekelo ye-eulogy kumama wesinyathelo ibandakanya:
- Ngelixa sasingahlobene ngokobuchwephesha, bendihlala ndiziva ngathi (faka igama lomntu ongasekhoyo) wayengumama omangalisayo kum nakwabantakwethu. Wayenobubele, ethethela phantsi, kwaye ekuthanda kakhulu ukufunda. Wayekuthanda ukuhlala phantsi aze ancokole nathi, ehlala enomdla malunga neentsuku zethu kuphela, kodwa ithemba lethu namaphupha ethu. Wayekukukhanya kwam ekukhokeleni ngamaxesha anzima kwaye ndiya kuwukhumbula ngonaphakade umoya wakhe wobumnene. '
- (Faka igama lomntu ongasekhoyo) khange eze ebomini bam ndide ndibe mdala, kodwa ndonwabile kakhulu. Wayengumntu omangalisayo owenza iinzame ezinkulu zokwazi usapho lwethu kwaye wayebonakala ehambelana ngokugqibeleleyo. Wayesoloko esihlekisa kwaye ekhawuleza ukusinika inkxaso ngamaxesha anzima. Uthando lwakhe lomculo lwalusulela, kwaye wayehlala eqamba ezona ngoma zimnandi. Ndiza kumkhumbula yonke imihla, kodwa ndiziva ndinethamsanqa lokuba ndibe nexesha naye.
Indlela yokubhala i-Eulogy kuMama wakho
Ukubhala i-eulogy kunokuziva ngathi kungumsebenzi omkhulu kwabanye abantu kwaye banokuziva kunzima nangakumbi kwinkqubo yokulila. Ngaphambi kokuba uqale ukubhala ifayile ye-irhafu kunyoko, khetha ixesha apho uziva ukhuthazekile ukubhala, endaweni yokuzinyanzela ukuba wenze njalo xa ungaziva. Gcina ukhumbula ukuba unokucela uncedo ekubhaleni i-eulogy kubahlobo, kumalungu osapho, nakumlawuli womngcwabo ukuba uyabambeka.
Yintoni ekufuneka iqukwe kwi-Eulogy kaMama wakho?
I-Eulogies iya kwahluka ngokuxhomekeke kwinani lezinto. Nje,ulwazi kwi-eulogyKuya kubandakanya ukukhankanya abahlobo abasenyongweni kunye nosapho, ubuntu bakhe, ifuthe lakhe kubomi bakho, kunye neziganeko ezizodwa. Unokongeza kwi-anecdote enentsingiselo okanye ekhethekileyoumbongo wokuhlonipha umama wakho, kananjalo.
Ukujamelana nentlungu xa ubhala
Ngelixa ubhala kwaye unika intetho eulogy inokunceda kancinci ukuvalwa, ifayile ye-Inkqubo ebuhlunguyahluke ngokukodwa kwaye inzima. Nokuba ubunobudlelwane obumangalisayo nomama wakho, umntu owahlukanisiweyo, okanye obunzima, usizi luyaqhubeka kwaye lungaqhubeka nokwenza njalo kangangeenyanga ukuya kwiminyaka emva kokudlula. Khangelaiindlela ezifanelekileyo zokumelana nentlungu yakhokwaye ufumane uncedo ngokukhawuleza ukuba uyasokola kwizinto zokuphila zemihla ngemihla kunye / okanye uneengcinga zokuzenzakalisa wena okanye abanye.
ucoceka njani amabala amanzi kwiiglasi
NdingaBhala njani kuMama wam?
Ukubhala umbulelo yindlela entle yokuhlonipha umama wakho emngcwabeni wakhe. Thatha ixesha lakho njengoko ubhala umbulelo kwaye uyazi ukuba nantoni na oyithethayo kwintetho yakho iya kwanela.
