Kwixesha elidlulileyo, ibala lokutholwa komzali ongatshatanga likuthintele ukwamkelwa kwabantwana abaninzi ababelifuna ngamandla ikhaya elinothando. Ngelishwa, nangona uninzi lwabazali abangabodwa lufumana impumelelo kwinkqubo yokwamkelwa komntwana ongamzalanga abe ngowakho, ukhuphiswano lweentsana luselugonyamelo. Abazali abangenamaqabane bahlala kwisitulo esingasemva kwizibini ezifuna ukwamkela umntwana ongamzalanga abe ngowakho.
Iikhrayitheriya zoKwamkelwa
Iiarhente zokwamkelwa kwabantwana kunye namagqwetha aneeseti zemigaqo ekubhekiswa kuyo xa kusenziwa amalungiselelo okubekwa kwabantwana. Ngelixa ezi ndlela zokutshintsha zinokutshintsha ngandlel 'ithile ngokuxhomekeke emntwaneni kunye / okanye kuhlobo lokutholwa, banakho oku kulandelayo ngokufanayo:
- Iminyaka yokwamkelwa njengomzali / abazali
- Ubudala bomntwana
- Isimo sokuchuma
- Imali
- Amanye amalungu osapho / abantwana
- Ingqesho
- Ukukhetha inkolo / iinkqubo
- Ubume obuxela ukuba utshatile okanye awutshatanga
- Imvelaphi
- Iifoto ezikhuthazayo zosana olusandul 'ukuzalwa
- Izinketho ezinesitayile seengxowa ze-Baby diaper
- Izihloko ezingama-20 zaMantombazana zahlukile kwiNtombazana
Izizathu zokwamkela umntwana ongamzelanga ibengowakho
Abo bafaka iifayile zokukhulisa umntwana wabanye abantu, bakwenza oko ngenxa yezizathu ezifanayo nezithi izibini zizame ukuzamkela. Umzekelo:
- Ayikwazi ukuba nabantwana
- Kufuneka ubonelele umntwana
- Ubuhlobo
- Kufuneka ubuyisele eluntwini
- Umnqweno wokukhulisa umntwana
Iimpikiswano ngokuchasene nokwamkelwa komzali omnye
Baninzi abaphikisanayo ngokuchasene nokwamkelwa komzali omnye. Bacacisa ezi zizathu zilandelayo:
- Umntwana uya kukhula ngaphandle komama okanye utata ekhaya
- Ukungazinzi ekhaya
- Ukungabikho kwenkxaso kumzali
- Ukubekwa wedwa
- Amathuba ambalwa okubeka iliso kwimeko yasemva kokutholwa
Iimpawu zoKwamkelwa
Ngelixa kuyakuhlala kukho iimpikiswano ngokuchasene nokwamkelwa komzali omnye, zininzi izizathu eziqinisekileyo zokuvumela ukwamkelwa komntwana kubanye abantu, kubandakanya oku kulandelayo:
- Umgangatho ophakamileyo woqhawulo mtshato kwilizwe lonke uxhasa ingxoxo yokuba abazali abangenamaqabane banokunika uzinzo kubantwana.
- Abantu abangatshatanga bahlala benamabanga aphezulu emfundo kwaye babambe imisebenzi ekhuselekileyo ngokwezimali.
- Abantu abangatshatanga banokugcwalisa ukunqongophala okukhulu kwabazali kwiimfuno ezizodwa kunye nabantwana abadala.
- Abazali abangenamaqabane banokuchitha ixesha labo nabantwana babo. Oku kuluncedo ngakumbi kwabo bantwana badala okanye abakhubazekileyo.
Apho ukuqala khona
Ukuqala kwenkqubo yokwamkelwa komntwana kunokuba ngumsebenzi onzima, ngakumbi kumntu omnye. Nangona izifundo ezininzi ziye zabangela ukuthembeka kwinkolelo yokuba abazali abangenamaqabane banokubonelela ngendawo yothando nokukhulisa abantwana bayo yonke iminyaka, kusenemiqobo emininzi ekufuneka yoyisiwe.
Ukuba ucinga ngokuthatha umntwana ongamzalanga abe ngowakho, gcinani engqondweni ukuba le nkqubo inokuba nde, inzima, kwaye iyabiza, ngakumbi ukuba ufuna ukwamkela usana lwaseCaucasus.
Ukuqala inkqubo yokwamkelwa komntwana
- Funa abanye abazali abakukhulisayo, ngakumbi abo bangatshatanga
- Yenza idinga lokuthetha neearhente zokwamkelwa komntwana ngumntu ongamzelanga ibengowakhe, kwaye ubuze malunga nenqanaba lempumelelo yokwamkelwa komzali omnye kwilizwe lakho
- Cela nawaphi na amaxwebhu aphathelele kwimithetho yokuthotyelwa komntwana
- Cinga ngokuba ngumzali wokukhulisa njengendlela yokumkhulisa ngokusisigxina
- Funda malunga nokwamkelwa kwi-Intanethi, iincwadi, amanqaku eendaba, iincwadana, njl.
Kwangathi abantu abangatshatanga banokukhetha ukuthatha umntwana omdala okanye oneemfuno ezizodwa zomntwana. Ngamanye amaxesha, igama elithi iimfuno ezizodwa libhekisa kuphela kubantwana abakhutshwe kwimeko yokuhlukumeza kwaye bafuna ingcebiso okanye abantwana abakhubazekileyo ekufundeni kunye / okanye ekuziphatheni, Intsilelo yoqwalaselo yokuphazamiseka kwengqondo (ADHD) okanye Ingxaki yokuNqongophala koqwalaselo (Yongeza). Abanye banokukhubazeka ngokweemvakalelo okanye emzimbeni.
Cinga ngokwamkelwa kwamanye amazwe njengenye indlela yokufezekisa amaphupha akho wokuba ngumzali. Amazwe aliqela, anjengeBolivia, iBrazil, iEl Salvador, iHonduras, nePeru zamkela abafaki zicelo abangabodwa, nangona imithetho yabo inokutshintsha nangaliphi na ixesha.
Unokufumana impumelelo ngokulandela umntwana ongamzalanga abe ngowakho. Ezi zinokulawulwa ziiarhente zokwamkelwa komntwana ngumntu ongamzalanga abe ngowakho, abaququzeleli, okanye amagqwetha, kuxhomekeke kwimithetho karhulumente oyamkelayo. Okona kubheja kwakho kuya kuba kukujonga iarhente esebenza nabazali bokuzalwa ukukhangela abazali abamkele umntwana wabangowabo. Ngamanye amaxesha, abazali bokuzalwa bakhetha ukusebenza nomzali ongamzalanga abe yedwa kuba beziva ngathi umntu omnye uza kuzinikela emntwaneni. Unokucelwa ukuba uzenzele ipotifoliyo ngokwakho, kubandakanya imifanekiso kunye nolunye ulwazi oluza kuvavanywa ngumzali wokuzalwa.
Iiwebhusayithi zokwamkelwa
Ngolwazi oluthe kratya, ndwendwela ezi ndawo zilandelayo:
- IZiko lokuKhulisa uMntwana kaZwelonke
- Ukwamkelwa.org
- Ulwazi lokwamkelwa
- Ukwamkelwa komntwana njengamzali omnye
