Intetho yomtshato yomzalwana ovela kudade inokuba ngumxube wothando kunye nokuhlekisa. Unokuzekelisa ubudlelwane bakho nomzalwana wakho ngokwabelana ngebali elinye okanye amabini amafutshane malunga nokukhula kunye.
Ukudala iNtetho yoMtshato yoMzalwana oSuka kuDade
Eyakhointetho yomtshatokuba umntakwenu ebefanele ukuba usuka entliziyweni. Ufuna ukusebenzisa eli thuba ukwazisa umzalwana wakho ngokubaluleka kwakhe kuwe. Gcina ukhumbula ukuba abanye baya kwenza i-intetho yomtshato okanye i-toastngokunjalo, kunye neentetho ezinomoya omde ngokukhawuleza ziyadinisa. Ukugcina ezi zinto engqondweni, intetho yakho iya kuba yeyokuqala kobusuku, ke unokubeka isantya kunye nolindelo ngokugcina kuyonwabisa, kodwa kungatsalwa. Unokuzikhuphelela ezi ntetho zintathu zilandelayo njengeziprintayo onokuthi uhlele kwaye uzenzele intetho yakho. Ukukhuphela, ungabhekisa kwifayile ye-Isikhokelo seAdobe esiPrintwayo.
Amanqaku afanelekileyo- Koodade wethu ngomhla woMtshato wakhe
- Isampula yoSuku loMtshato ukuze uyikhumbule
- Intetho kuDade oMkhulu ngoSuku loMtshato wakhe
1. Uthando olungenamiqathango: Intetho yoMtshato yoMzalwana weSampula
Kwintetho ingezantsi, kuyakufuneka ufake amagama Umtshakazi okanye Ubhuti naphina apho kubonisiwe.
'Mholo ngokuhlwa nje. Ndonwabe kakhulu ukuba lapha ngobu busuku. Kuqala, ndifuna ukunqwenelela umntakwethu kunye nenkosikazi yakhe entsha ubomi obumnandi kunye. Nobabini nihle kunye, kwaye namhlanje, umtshato wenu, ubungumlingo nje. '
[ Jika uye kwiindwendwe. ]
'Uninzi lwenu niyamazi nje umzalwana wam njengopholileyo, obalekayo, obalekayo, oqeqeshiweyo ophumeleleyo [ gcwalisa uhlobo lomsebenzi ]. Nangona kunjalo, wayengahlali enjalo. Ndiyazi. Kunzima ukucinga, kodwa wayekhe wangumfana nje omncinci, umntakwethu. Kwaye, nangona sibadala, ndiya kuhlala ndicinga ngaye njengomntakwethu omncinci. '
[ Jonga umntakwenu. ]
'Ndichithe ubuntwana bethu ndikukhangela, Ubhuti, kwaye ndiya kuhlala ndingudade wakho omkhulu kwaye ndihlala ndikukhangela. '
[ Faka ibali malunga nendlela okhusele ngayo umntakwenu okanye umkhuthaze xa wayeseyinkwenkwana kwaye wayeziva edimazekile okanye eceliwe. ]
'Endikufundileyo ekubeni ngudadewenu omkhulu luthando olungenamiqathango. Ndisoloko ndiyazi ukuba ndiyakuthanda ngokungathandabuzekiyo, kodwa andizange ndikwazi ukuba uyakuthanda Mna ngokungathandabuzekiyo. Kude kube… '
[ Faka ibali elifutshane lokuba ulufumanise njani uthando lobhuti wakho lwalungenamiqathango. Xa ugqibile, yiya kumtshakazi. ]
iingoma kunye nomdanisi kwisihloko
Ndiyazi ukuba wena, Umtshakazi , Baye bafumanisa olo thando lunye lungenamiqathango. Kwaye, okona kubaluleke kakhulu, ndiyazi ukuba umthanda umntakwethu ngale ndlela athanda ngayo, ngentliziyo yakho iphela. Umtshakazi , Ndiyabulela kakhulu ukuba umntakwethu omncinci alufumene uthando lobomi bakhe. Ukubona nina nobabini kunye kusoloko kundenza ndincume. Andikwazi ukunceda. Umdlalo ofanelekileyo omnye komnye. Ninika imvume yokuba omnye abe nguwe. Niyakwamkela ukungafezeki komnye nomnye. Okona kubaluleke kakhulu, niyaxhasana kwaye niyakhuthazana, nokuba ngowuphi umsebenzi okanye iprojekthi ogqiba ukuyenza, njengexesha Ubhuti ndigqibe ku… '
[ Faka ibali elihlekisayo leprojekthi okanye umsebenzi owenziwe ngumntakwenu ovele kakubi ngendlela ehlekisayo. Oku kunokuba yiyo nantoni na ebomini bakhe. ]
'Ukuba ubusecaleni kwakhe ngexesha lokwenza kwakhe oko, ndiyazi ukuba ubuza kuba kunye naye, umncede. Kwaye, ngokwazi oko, ndinokuphefumla ukukhululeka njenge Ubhuti Usisi omkhulu kuba ndiyazi ukuba uzakumjonga ngendlela endihlala ndinayo. Ndiyazi nokuba uya kuhlala ekujongile, ngendlela ebehlala endijonga ngayo. '
[ Buyela kwezinye iindwendwe. ]
'Nceda undijoyine kwi-toast ukuya Umtshakazi kwaye Ubhuti . Kubomi obuzaliswe lulonwabo nothando. Ngamana ungakhe phezu kothando nobudlelwane otywiniweyo namhlanje ngezifungo zomtshato wakho kwaye nisoloko ninomdla omnye komnye njengeyona nto iphambili emtshatweni wenu, nothando lwenu olungenamiqathango olukukhokelayo. '
2. Ukusukuzana kwabantakwenu: Isampula yokuThetha ngoMtshato kuMzalwana oSuka kuDade wabo
Le ntetho ilungile kubantakwenu abahlala bekhuphisana. Kuya kufuneka ihanjiswe njengokuzonwabisa xa uhlekisa ngomnye umzalwana wakho. Le ntetho yomtshato yomntakwenu kufuneka ihanjiswe njengokonwabisa kuwo wonke umntu kwitheko lomtshato kwaye inikwe kuphela udade onothando onokwenza kuphela.
'Enkosi nonke ngokuza emtshatweni womntakwethu. Ndiyamthanda umntakwethu, kakhulu. Uyayazi loo nto, Ubhuti ? Kodwa kufuneka ndivume ukuba besisoloko sinoluhlobo lokhuphiswano oluqhubekayo phakathi kwethu. Ewe, Ubhuti , awunakuyikhanyela. Ngamanye amaxesha, kwakungekho ntle kakhulu. '
'Kodwa namhlanje! Ndinyanisa, Ubhuti Ndimele ukuthi, uthathe lonke olu khuphiswano phakathi kwethu ukuya kwinqanaba eligqithisileyo ngokuba ngowokuqala ukutshata. Ewe uliphumelele lonke ukhuphiswano lomtshato, kodwa ungaphezulu kakhulu kokuphumelela ukhuphiswano lwethu oluncinci. Uyimpumelelo yeenkwenkwezi kuba ukhethe Umtshakazi ukuba ngumfazi wakho! Ukhuphuke ngokwenene waya kwinqanaba lokhuphiswano lwethu xa ngandlel 'ithile waqinisekisa lo mfazi ulihlwempu ukuba akutshate.'
[ Ukuba ubungowokuqala ukutshata, endaweni yalomhlathi wangaphambili faka lo ulandelayo.]
'Kodwa ndakubetha kwasekuqaleni ukuze utshate ukhuphiswano. Kwaye nangona uyi mphulukwa Ndimele nditsho ukuba nguwe ophumeleleyo ngokutshata, Umtshakazi ! Ukhuphuke ngokwenene waya kwinqanaba lokhuphiswano lwethu xa ngandlel 'ithile waqinisekisa lo mfazi ulihlwempu ukuba akutshate.'
[ Ungaqhubeka. ]
'Akukho tyala kuwe, Mtshakazi, kuba ndikuthanda kakhulu nam. Kodwa oku malunga nomntakwethu kunye nokuthanda kwakhe ukundilungiselela kwaye nokuba uzimisele kangakanani ukuya. Awundikholelwa? Ngesinye isikhathi, xa sasingabantwana, ...
[ Faka umzekelo obonisa olu hlobo lokulwa. Gcina kumnandi kwaye unothando lomoya .]
Ewe kunjalo, ndandingumntu oqolileyo ngakumbi, ndaphakama ngaphezu kobuncinci kolu khuphiswano kwaye ... '
[Ndi nsert into oyenzileyo ukubuyela kuye ebonisa ukuba ubungekho mdala kwaphela .]
'Kuko konke ubunzulu, nangona kunjalo, Ubhuti kwaye Umtshakazi Ndonwabe kakhulu nobabini. Ukubukela nina nobabini nilungiselela umtshato wenu, ndiye ndabona ukuba niyathandana. '
[ Jikela kwiindwendwe zokugqibela zokugcoba .]
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'Nceda uphakamise iiglasi zakho kwaye undijoyine ekuthambiseni ubhuti wam omangalisayo kunye nenkosikazi yakhe entsha! Ngamana ungasoloko ungophumeleleyo ebomini. Ndinithanda nobabini kakhulu. '
3. Amawele: Isampula Intetho yoMtshato yoMzalwana ovela kuDade wakhe
Ukuba wena nomntakwenu ningamawele, ke unezinto ezimbalwa (zembali) onokuzizobela intetho yakho yomtshato. Owona mxholo ucacileyo yindlela enifana ngayo nobabini. Ungayisebenzisa le ntetho yomtshato kuMzalwana wakho ukubonakalisa ukuba uthetha kangakanani kuwe. Isampulu elandelayo yenzelwe ukuba isetyenziswe njengesikhokelo. Ungahlela kwaye utshintshe nantoni na onqwenela ukuyenza ilingane wena nomntakwenu.
'Molo ngokuhlwa, nonke! Hayi indlela owawumhle ngayo umtshato esasihamba kuwo sonke! [ Misa ihlombe ] Njengokuba usazi, Ubhuti kwaye amawele, kodwa singabantu abahluke kakhulu. Ubhuti ndiyawuthanda umculo werock, ndiyawuthanda umculo weklasikhi. Ubhuti iimbaleki kwaye ndiyincwadi yeencwadi. Ubhuti Ndiyayithanda imovie yamahlaya, ndiyayithanda i-sci-fi. Kwaye uluhlu luyaqhubeka. Kumawele, asifani ncam. Ngapha koko, ndingathi sihle kakhulu njengabantakwethu, ngaphandle kokuba sinamawele aqhelekileyo. Fro example, bendisazi nini Ubhuti...'
[Ndi nsert ibali lamawele xa wena nomntakwenu benolo hlobo lwe-ESP okanye olunye unxibelelwano olwahlukileyo kwaye ubusazi ukuba ikhona into eyenzekileyo kuye okanye wayeziva into. ]
Ayililo kuphela ixesha esinonxibelelwano oluqine kangako. Ndiyazi xa onwabile naxa ekhathazekile. Kwaye olona lonxibelelwano lubalulekileyo ndiluvile nawe, Ubhuti ibikwangoko namhlanje. Ndiyakuva ukonwaba kwakho. Ndiluva uthando onalo Umtshakazi, kwaye indenze ndanombulelo ongazenzisiyo ngokuba ufumene inzaliseko enjalo kwi Umtshakazi , umfazi wakho omtsha. '
'Ulonwabo lwakho lubaluleke kakhulu kum, kwaye ndiyazi ukuba uyakuhlala unayo Umtshakazi. Zininzi izinto enifana ngazo nobabini kwaye nineentliziyo ezintle. '
' Umtshakazi , xa wawungena ebomini bomntakwethu, yayingathi ukhanyise isibane. Wayesoloko enamandla amaninzi kwaye enomdla ebomini, kodwa uyandisile yonke loo nto nokunye okuninzi. Uyamphelelisa, indlela abonakala ekuncedisa ngayo. '
'Ngaba ayinguwo lo mtshato ufuna oko? Abantu ababini abaphilileyo bodwa. Kucacile ukuba nenza iqela elimangalisayo, kwaye andinakulinda ndibubone obu bomi nibuzobombela nina kunye. '
[ Jikela kwiindwendwe ngeglasi ye-toasting ngesandla esinye .]
'Nceda undijoyine ekubhiyozeleni Ubhuti kwaye Umtshakazi njengoko beqala ubomi babo kunye njengendoda nomfazi. Ngamana ningalugcina ngonaphakade uvuyo eninalo ezintliziyweni zenu kwaye ningaze niluyeke! '
INtetho yoMtshato eyenzelwe wena kaMzalwana weSampulu
Ungayisebenzisa intetho yomtshato kwisampulu yomzalwana ukwenza intetho yakho. Unokuthatha isigqibo sokudibanisa izimvo ezimbalwa kwezi sampuli zentetho yomtshato ukuze wenze intetho yakho ibe yeyakho kumtshato womntakwenu. Into ebalulekileyo kukuba amazwi akho asuke entliziyweni yakho, nokuba usebenzise uncedo oluncinci ukudibanisa intetho yakho.
