Ulonwabo olugqithisileyo lunokuba ngumqondiso wolutsha lwasendle.
Ukuba ngumzali kulutsha lwasendle kunokuba yinto enxunguphalisayo, enoxinzelelo kunye namava acelomngeni. Ulutsha lwasendle alukho kuphela simahla somoya ovulekileyo, iingqondo ezivulekileyo, kunye nokuthatha umngcipheko, kodwa amaxesha amaninzi abayiqondi imiphumo yezenzo zabo kwaye baphelela kwilizwe leengxaki kunye nelishwa.
Ulutsha oluninzi lwasendle lujamelana nengcinezelo yoontanga kunye nengxabano esisiseko yokufuna ukukholisa abazali babo. Xa uxhonywe ngamacandelo asendle ekhampasini yesikolo, uxinzelelo olubi lwabalingane alunakuphepheka, kwaye lubangela ulutsha oluninzi ukuba luhambe ecaleni lasendle.
Funda iZimpawu
Ukuba ukhulisa ulutsha lwasendle okanye ukuba ukwishumi elivisayo uzibuza ukuba ingaba umbono wakho uye waba mfiliba, ukhathazekile kwaye / okanye ukukhupha ulawulo, kuyanceda ukwazi ezinye zeempawu ezinxulunyaniswa nolutsha lwasendle kunye nokuziphatha kwabo.
Amanqaku afanelekileyo- Izimvo zasebusuku eziphezulu
- Ubomi njengoLutsha
- Imifanekiso yokwenene yoLutsha yoBomi bemihla ngemihla
Nangona ulutsha lwasendle lungahlulwahlulwa lube luhlobo olunye olusisiseko, kukho iimpawu kunye neempawu ezinokubakho kulutsha lwasendle kunye nolungakhathaliyo:
- Ukuthatha umngcipheko; unqwenela ukugqithisa ngaphandle kwemida
- Ukuhamba okugqithisileyo
- Ukusela okanye ukusebenzisa iziyobisi gwenxa
- Ukuziphatha kakubi
- Ubusela, ukuxoka nokukopela
- Ukuqhuba izithuthi okanye oomatshini abasebenza ngendlela yomngcipheko
- Ukungabikho esikolweni, ukungaphumeleli kunye neengxaki kwi-campus
- Ukuhlala esihlweleni esidala seqela elinemvukelo esikolweni
- Ukutshaya imidiza
- Ukuhlala kude kube sebusuku, ukulala ngaphakathi
- Ukuxabana namalungu osapho, ukuvukela imithetho yasekhaya
Ukwamkela uxinzelelo
Uninzi lweempawu ezifanayo eziphawula ulutsha lwasendle zikhona emntwini oxinezelekileyo.
Ezi mpawu zilandelayo zibonisa umntu odandathekileyo ofuna ukucetyiswa nokunyangwa.
- Usizi, ukulila kakhulu kunye noxinzelelo lweemvakalelo
- Ukuziva unetyala kunye nokuzithemba okuphantsi
- Umbono ongalunganga ngobomi
- Ukuphulukana nomdla kwimisebenzi yangaphambili okanye kwimidlalo enjengemidlalo, umculo, ukuxhoma kunye nabahlobo
- Umnqweno wokushiyeka wedwa
- Ukucaphuka msinya, kunye nokulahleka komsindo rhoqo
- Ukunqongophala koxinzelelo, ukungakwazi ukwenza izigqibo
- Utshintsho kwiipateni zokulala: ukulala ngakumbi okanye ukufumana ubunzima bokulala ebusuku
- Utshintsho kwindlela otya ngayo; ukungabikho komdla okanye ukwanda kokutya
- Ukufumana ukungazinzi kunye nokudinwa
- Iingcinga zokufa, ukufa, okanye ukucinga ukuzibulala
Ulutsha lwasendle: Ukuthatha ulawulo
Ngaphambi kokuba umntwana wakho wasendle ahlasele indlela evulekileyo njenge-hitchhiker yolutsha kunokuba lixesha longenelelo oludala oludala.
Inyathelo lokuqala lokunceda ulutsha olunengxaki nolusendle kufuneka lube yingxoxo yosapho. Yabelana ngezinto zakho ezixhalabisayo nomntwana wakho kwaye ninike iingcebiso malunga nokujongana nengcinezelo yoontanga kunye neemeko ezonakalisayo. Ukuba iingxoxo zosapho azenzi iqhinga kwaye umntwana wakho aqhubeke nokuhla kwawo, kunokuba yimfuneko ukufuna ingcebiso kunye nonyango.
Amantombazana aHambe
Ukongeza kwindlela yokuziphatha eyingozi njengokusela, ukusebenzisa iziyobisi gwenxa kunye nokulahla abantwana besikolo, uninzi lwabazali luphela lujamelene nokuziphatha gwenxa ngokwesondo, ngakumbi xa bekhulisa okanye bekhulisa abantwana abakwishumi elivisayo.
Ukuba umntwana wakho ofikisayo unxiba ngokwesondo okanye uthatha inxaxheba kwimicimbi yesondo, lixesha lokuba uthethe.
iphi i-tahini evenkileni
Khangela le miqondiso yesondo:
- I-Wardrobe iye yaba yimfesane kunye ne-lingerie ephefumlelweyo
- Iibhulukhwe ezimfutshane ezimfutshane, izikethi ezincinci, iihalter-tops
- Ukugcoba okugqithisileyo
- Ukuhlala kude kube sebusuku, uxoka malunga nokuba uphi
- Ukufowunelwa rhoqo ekhaya okanye kwiiselfowuni ezivela kubafana
- Amakhwenkwe ekhaya xa abazali okanye abagcini bengekho
- Uthando amanqaku
- Ukongezwa kweendlela zasendle (jonga ngasentla)
Gcina indlebe evulekileyo ejikeleze idolophu ukuba ukrokrela ukuba intombazana yakho ikwindlela yokuziphatha ngokwesondo. Rhoqo, amarhe edolophu encinci anenyani kubo. Ukuba uva abazali okanye olunye ulutsha luxoxa ngokuziphatha kwentombi yakho ngendlela yesondo, qaphela.
Ulutsha luphela kwiimeko zokukhulelwa kwasekuqaleni ekuthatheni inxaxheba ekuziphatheni ngokwesondo, kunye nokubeka emngciphekweni wokuhambisa isifo se-STD okanye imeko yokudlwengulwa komhla.
Thetha nomongikazi wesikolo malunga nokuziphatha ngokwesondo kwaye ulungele ukunika iingcebiso zokhuselo ngokwesondo kunye neengcebiso zokulungiselela umntwana wakho, ezantsi kwendlela, ukuba neentlobano zesini ezikhuselekileyo.
Ukufuna Uncedo
Ukongeza kwiinkonzo zokucebisa ngokwesiko, uninzi lwabazali lubhalisa ulutsha lwabo kwinkampu yokuziphatha okanye kwisikolo ekuhlalwa kuso kunyango. Ezi webhusayithi zilandelayo zibonelela ngoncedo kunye nokudluliselwa kwiingxaki zokuziphatha kolutsha.
