Utshintsho olusuka kwisikolo samabanga aphakamileyo luye kwisikolo esiphakamileyo kunokubonakala ngathi luloyiko kulutsha olungena ibanga lesithoba, kodwa ezi ngcebiso zintsha zinganceda ukuba kube lula. Amabanga, ubuhlobo, kunye nemisebenzi yecandelo langaphandle lithwala ubunzima obuninzi kunokuba bekunjalo esikolweni esiphakathi, ngoko kubalulekile ukuthatha eli xesha ngokungathandabuzekiyo, kodwa ujabule.
Isikolo samabanga aphakamileyo Ingcebiso malunga nokwenziwa kotshintsho
Mhlawumbi uvile zonke iintlobo zamabali malunga namava esikolo esiphakamileyo kubazali, kubantakwenu, nakubahlobo abadala. Gcina ukhumbula, amava akho aya kwahluka kubo kuba ungumntu owahlukileyo. Nangona unokuba novalo malunga neenkalo ezahlukeneyo zobomi besikolo esiphakamileyo, khumbula ukuba kukho ithuba elihle oza kulungelelanisa ngokulula ngexesha elifutshane. Ukuba ungena ngokuzithemba kwaye ugcine inkqubo yenkxaso eyomeleleyo, uya kuba nexesha lobomi bakho.
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Fumana iNene
Uhlala uxelelwa ukuba kubalulekile ukuba wenze kakuhle esikolweni, kodwa oko kuyinyani kwisikolo esiphakamileyo. Amabanga akho, ukhetho lweklasi, kunye nemisebenzi yangaphandle emva kwale minyaka mine ichaphazela iikholeji kunye nemisebenzi efumanekayo kuwe emva kokuphumelela. Njengomntu omdala osemtsha, kulindeleke ukuba uzimele ngakumbi kwaye wenze ukhetho ngekamva lakho. Ngelixa usenokuzonwabisa kakhulu esikolweni, lixesha lokuba uqale ngokuthatha imfundo ngokungxama ukuba awukabikho ngaphambili.
Musa ukubonisa uloyiko
Iimuvi, iincwadi, kunye nomabonwakude zibonisa uthando ukubonisa abaphezulu besikolo bethuthumbisa abantu abatsha njengesiqhelo sokuhamba. Ezi meko zihlala zibaxiwe ngenxa yokonwaba. Ngelixa kungekho siqinisekiso sokuba awuzukubalekela kubantu abaxhaphazayo abadala okanye ugezelwe zii-upperclassmen, inqanaba lakho lokuzithemba linokubunciphisa ubunzima. Ngaphandle koko, ngekhe usebenze kwii-upperclassmen ezininzi kuba baya kuba kwiiklasi ezahlukeneyo kwaye banokuba neelokhari kwindlela eyahlukileyo. Ukuba uyangena uphakamise intloko, isimo sengqondo esinobuhlobo, kunye nokuhlekisa uyakulunga.
Khetha Ngobulumko
Eli isenokuba lixesha lokuqala ukuba ukhethe ezinye zeeklasi zakho. Kukho iiklasi eziphambili njengezibalo kunye ne-ELA ekufuneka wonke umntu ayenze ngendlela ethile, kodwa umcebisi wesikolo unokukunceda uziqonde ezi zinto. Xa ufumana ilizwi, yenza ukhetho oluhle kwaye ungakhethi nje iiklasi ocinga ukuba zilula. Jonga iiklasi malunga nezifundo onomdla kuzo okanye ozifundisayo ngezakhono ezinxulumene nomsebenzi ocinga ukuba uyafuna ukuba mdala. Ukuba ungumfundi obalaseleyo, ukuthatha iiklasi zokubeka phambili ngamanye amaxesha kukuvumela ukuba ufumane iikhredithi zekholeji ngelixa usesesikolweni esiphakamileyo ezinokunciphisa iindleko zekholeji.
Zibekele Usukelo
Phakathi kobuhlobo, ukuthandanaubudlelwane, ixesha losapho, 'ixesha lam', iiklasi, umsebenzi wesikolo,ulungiselelo lwekholeji, ezemidlalo, kunyeiiklabhu, kulula ukulahleka ebomini ngexesha lesikolo esiphakamileyo. Misela iinjongo zonyaka ngamnye kunye nesikolo esiphakamileyo sonke ngaphambi kokuba intsimbi ikhale ukuze ingqondo yakho ilunge. Yenza iposta yokuxhoma kwigumbi lakho lokulala kwezi njongo zibekiwe. Nanini na xa uziva ulahlekile okanye usokola, jonga kwakhona ngeenjongo ozenzileyo xa ingqondo yakho icacile. Vumela ezi zenzo ziqwalasele ingqalelo yakho ukuze ungalahli umbono wento ebalulekileyo ebomini bakho ngokubanzi. Yongeza iinjongo kwikhalenda yakho ebonakalayo ngamathuba athile unyaka wonke, ke uya kufumana izaziso ezikukhumbuza apho ufuna ukuba khona.
Eyona mibala yokuqubha yolusu olukhanyayo
Zama Into Entsha
Nje ukuba uthweswe isidanga, kuya kulindeleka ukuba uqale wenze izigqibo ezinzulu malunga nobomi bakho bonke, nokuba awukulungelanga kwaphela ukwenza lo msebenzi. Thatha eli xesha ujonge imisebenzi, izinto ozithandayo kunye nezentlalo ukuze ufumane eyona nto ikwenza wonwabe. Unokuba noluvo lokuba ngowuphi umsebenzi onqwenela ukuba nawo, kodwa ngekhe wenze loo msebenzi. Fumana amava ngamava ngoqeqesho okanye umsebenzi wesingxungxo ukuze ubone ukuba ulungile na kuwe okanye ulungile kwithiyori. Kuyafana nokuzonwabisa kunye namaqela entlalontle. Njengomntu omdala, ngekhe ube namathuba amaninzi okuzama ukwenza izinto ngexesha elifutshane njengoko usenza kwisikolo samabanga aphakamileyo. Njengebhonasi, ungadibana nabantu abothusayo kwiihambo zakho kwaye ufunde izinto ezimbalwa ngawe.
Bonisa uMoya wakho weSikolo
Xa ukhula ubomi buba ngaphezulu ngokuba yinxalenye yoluntu olukhulu kunye noluntu kwaye kuncinci malunga neemfuno zakho kunye neemfuno zakho. Ukufumana ezinyeumoya wesikolokwaye ukujoyina iindibano kunye nemidlalo kunokukunceda uzive ngathi uyinxalenye yento enkulu kunawe. Yiba neqhayiya ngesikolo sakho ngokunxiba izixhobo zomoya kwaye uthathe inxaxheba kwiminyhadala yesikolo. Yiba neqhayiya apho uvela khona kwaye uncede uyenze ibe yindawo eyoyikekayo kwabanye. Awuyi kufunda kuphela indlela yokunxibelelana noluntu lwakho, kodwa uya kukhula ezinye iingcambu ezinokukunceda ungene kubomi babantu abadala.
ungathini xa ucebisa intombi yakho
Lawula Ixesha Lakho
Uninzi lwezikolo eziphakamileyo ziqala kwangoko kunesikolo samabanga aphantsi naphakathi. Cwangcisa kwangaphambili ekhaya ukukunceda uphume ngomnyango ngexesha. Sebenzisa iwotshi yokuvusa ukuvuka kwangoko ngokwaneleyo ukuze uzilungiselele kwaye utye ngaphambi kokuba ubaleke. Imizuzu engamashumi amane anesihlanu ukuya kwiyure lixesha elifanelekileyo lokuhlamba, ukunxiba, ukutya kunye nokuhlamba amazinyo. Khetha impahla yakho kwaye upakishe ubhaka wakho kubusuku bangaphambi ukukunceda ukugcina ixesha kusasa.
Bonisa isitayile sakho
Uninzi lwabantu abatsha abasandul 'ukuziva baziva ngathi bakhetha ukudibanisa ngaphakathi ngaphandle kokuma ngaphandle. Nangona kunjalo, yintoni eyenza ukuba ubaluleke ngeendlela ohluke ngazo kwisihlwele. Sukoyika ukunxiba iintlobo zeempahla ozithandayo, hayi le ucinga ukuba abanye bayayilindela. Ukuba awukhululekanga ukwenza ingxelo yefashoni okwangoku, yongeza ubuqhophololo kwilokhari yakho enemihombiso yolonwabo njengekhandlela. Iinkcukacha ezinje ngezi zinokuqala ukuqala incoko xa udibana nabantu abatsha kwaye zikwenze ukuba ukhumbuleke.
Fumana uBomi boLuntu
Impumelelo kwizifundo yinxalenye enkulu yesikolo esiphakamileyo, kodwa intlalontle nayo inkulu. Abahlobo bakho baya kukunceda wonwabe esikolweni kwaye udlule kuwo nawaphi na amava obomi obunzima ophosa indlela yakho. Unobomi bakho bonke ukuba ngumntu omdala; Eli lixesha lakho lokuba usengumntwana. Fumana iqela labahlobo elinomdla ofanayo kwaye ninamathele kunye ukuze wenze uninzi lwesikolo esiphakamileyo. Dutyulwa uphele kwiindibano zeepep, uye kwimidaniso, kwaye ujoyine iiklabhu. Nokuba ungangena kweyiphi indawo ungonwaba kwisikolo samabanga aphakamileyo.
Khulisa iNethiwekhi yakho yoBuchule
Xa uqala ukufaka isicelo seekholeji kunye nemisebenzi yexesha elizeleyo kuya kufuneka ubonelele ngezalathiso zobuqu nezobuchwephesha. Kuya kufuneka wakhe uthungelwano lwabantu abanokuthetha ngokunyanisekileyo nangokuqinisekileyo malunga nobuchule bakho ekusebenzeni nasekusebenzisaneni kwezentlalo. Khangela omnye okanye ababini ootitshala, abaqeqeshi, okanye abanye abasebenzi besikolo abakubonayo besebenza kwaye baya kukulungele ukucula iingoma zakho xa kufuneka.
Iingcebiso zaBangenayo abatsha
Iingcebiso zabafundi abatsha bezikolo eziphakamileyo zinokunceda ukwenza utshintsho ukusuka kwisikolo esiphakathi ukuya kwisikolo esiphakamileyo lula. Isikolo samabanga aphakamileyo siya kuba ngumsebenzi omninzi kunesesikolweni, kodwa ukubuyela esikolweni kunokuba ngamava amahle. Ukuba ugcina isimo sengqondo esifanelekileyo kwaye uzibekele impumelelo, uya kwenza iinkumbulo zokugqibela ubomi bakho bonke.
