Ukuba umkhathalele ngokwaneleyo umntu ukubacebisa umtshato, Kuya kufuneka ukhethe amagama akho ngononophelo ukuze ubenze babe nentsingiselo kwiqabane lakho. Sukubuza nje, 'Ngaba uza kunditshata?' Fumana indlela enobuchule yokubonisa iimvakalelo zakho kunye neenjongo zakho ngaphambi kokuba uthethe la magama mane abaluleke kakhulu.
Amagama ayiliweyo okuSebenzisa kwiSindululo somtshato
Injongo yakho iya kukhumbula into oyithethileyo xa ubucebisa ngobomi bakho bonke kunye, ke yenza loo magama abala. Nazi ezinye iindlela zokuyila zokubuza uthando lobomi bakho ukuba batshate. Ungasebenzisa enye yazo ukukunceda uqalise, kodwa qiniseka ukongeza amagama akho ukwenza isindululo sakho sibe sesobuqu kuwe nobabini.
Amanqaku afanelekileyo- Ezona Ndlela ziPhambili zoMtshato
- Iindlela zokuPhakamisa umbuzo
- Imisesane yoyilo yoyilo
Imigca yesindululo somtshato
Amabinzana othandobakumgangatho osemgangathweni xa kufikwa kumagama esindululo somtshato. Izicatshulwa kunye nemigca ebonisa uthando lwakho ngemifanekiso emihle inceda umzuzu uzive usondele kwaye uthandana.
- Andikwazi ukucinga ndiguga kunye nomnye umntu, kwaye andifuni.
- Ndiyazi ukuba nguwe kuphela ndifuna ukwabelana nobomi bam bonke.
- Ibali lothando lwethu sisiqalo nje. Masibhale esethu isiphelo esonwabisayo.
- Zininzi iindlela zokonwaba kobu bomi, kodwa eyona nto ndiyifunayo nguwe.
- Xa ndijonga emehlweni akho, ndiyabona ukubonakaliswa kwethu sobabini kunye nobomi endinethemba lokuba siza kubelana kunye.
- Ndiyazi ukuba ubomi bam soze buphele ngaphandle kwakho ecaleni kwam ukuba sabelane ngako.
- Xa ndijonga entliziyweni yam, ndibona wena kuphela. Ukuba unokujonga entliziyweni yakho kwaye undibone kuphela, kuya kufuneka sichithe bonke ubomi bethu kunye.
- Ndiyakuthembisa, akukho namnye umntu oza kusebenza nzima ukukonwabisa okanye akonge ngaphezu kwam.
- Xa ndicinga ngawe, ndiyazi ukuba akekho omnye umntu oya kuze abambe intliziyo yam ngale ndlela wenza ngayo.
- Xa ndicinga ngekamva, ndiyathanda ukuba nomfanekiso kuthi njengemithi emibini etyalwe ngapha nangapha, iingcambu zethu zikhula kunye ngokuqinileyo ngokuqengqelekayo njengoko iminyaka ihamba, kwaye abantwana bethu bahluma njengezithole ezisijikelezileyo.
- Ubomi bunemiceli mngeni emininzi. Ndiyazi ukuba ndingadibana nabo ukuba uyafuna ukujongana nam.
- Xa ndidibana nawe, bendisazi ukuba ndidibene nomdlalo wam. Kwakungumbandela nje wexesha de safika ngalo mzuzu. Ukuphuma kwayo konke kusezandleni zakho.
- Ufanelwe kokona kulungileyo, umntu oza kukuxhasa ngaphandle kwemida, akuvumele ukhule ngaphandle kwemida, kwaye akuthande ngaphandle kokuphela. Ungandivumela ukuba ndim?
Isindululo esifutshane soMtshato
Intetho yakho emfutshane yesindululo inokubandakanya umgca omfutshane, wokugqibela ohambisa umbuzo omkhulu. Lo mgca ungongezwa kamva kwinkqubo yakho yomtshato okanye ezinye izinto zokugcina kuba zingenalo inani lamagama aphezulu.
- Masidanise kunye emtshatweni wethu.
- Masibeke iintliziyo zethu ezandleni zomnye nomnye ubomi.
- Ndenza njalo, wena?
- Ndithathe?
- Nxiba iringi ngo 'ewe,' vala ibhokisi ngo 'hayi.'
- Ndikunika konke okwam ngonaphakade, ndingaba nawe wonke?
- Mna nawe, kunye ngonaphakade?
- Mna plus utshatile ngokulinganayo?
- Ndingancama nantoni na ukuze ndive 'ewe' kuwe ngoku.
- Ixesha lethu elidlulileyo alilibaleki, ngaba ikamva lethu lingenasiphelo?
- Uyinkcazo yam yendoda / yomfazi.
Iintetho zoMtshato oMnandi
Ukuba nobabini ninobuntu obuhlekisayo okanye nithanda uburharha kunokuba nzulu,imibongo yokuzibandakanya ehlekisayokunye neentetho zigqibelele kwisicelo somtshato.
- Bathi imali ayinakuthenga uthando, kodwa le ring ndiyibhatale ngemali, kwaye uzakuyamkela phantsi komqathango wokuba kufuneka uhlale nam ngonaphakade, ke kufana nokuthenga uthando ukuba uthi 'ewe . '
- Andizange ndifune umfazi kuba ndicinga ukuba bonke baxakekile kwaye baxhamla. Emva koko, ndaqonda ukuba iintombi zam nazo, ngoko ke yintoni na - uya kunditshata?
- Ukuba bendisazi konke okufunekayo ukugcina intombazana ingunaphakade ibe ngumsesane nombuzo, ngendanditshate kwakudala!
- Ndiye ndaguqa ngedolo ndaya kuwe, nokuba uthi 'ewe' okanye 'hayi,' ndiza kuludinga uncedo lwakho ukuze ndibuye.
- Bendinethemba lokuba ngolunye lwezi ntsuku uyakufumana wonke umfazi wale mihla kwaye undicebise, kodwa kuba ungakhange, ndicinge ukuba kungcono ndibuze ngaphambi kokuba ufumane ithuba lokuthatha isigqibo sokuba ukhetha ukuphakamisa omnye umntu.
- Andazi ngenene ukuba mandenze ntoni xa usithi 'hayi,' ke ungasisindisa sobabini ingxaki kwaye uthi 'ewe?'
- Yindlela yokusebenza yendalo, xa abantu ababini bethatha isigqibo ngento abanayo kulula kunokukhangela into entsha, batshata nje. Ngaba uza kuhlala nam?
- Iyahlekisa indlela oyifuna ngayo iringi ebizayo ukuze umntu avume ukutshata nawe, emva koko ibe sisiqwenga sephepha lokwenza ukuba loo manyano isemthethweni. Nantsi iNyathelo lokuQala.
- Ngaba le ringi ikwenza ukuba ufune ukutshata?
Isimemo esiNgezelelweyo soMtshato
Khangela iindlela zokubandakanya imisebenzi yakho, umdla wakho, okanye ezinye izinto ezithandwayo kwisigqibo esisodwa somtshato.
- Iinyosi zichitha ubomi kunye nam?
- Accio 'ewe!'
- Ndinike 'Y,' ndinike 'E,' ndinike 'S.' Ithini loo spell?
- Masenze isicwangciso. Kwiminyaka elishumi ukusukela ngokuhlwanje, siza kubalisela abantwana bethu ibali lendlela endandicebisa ngayo kuwe.
- Intliziyo yam ibiyintlango ude ufike wayinkcenkceshela ngothando. Masichithe bonke ubomi bethu kunye sikhupha ukhula kwaye sonwabele iintyatyambo.
- Ndiyakholelwa ukuba ukuba sinethamsanqa lokuba sifumanane kwasekuqaleni, kufanelekile ukuba sibheje ubomi bethu bonke. Ungathatha la gembula uhambe nam?
- Intliziyo yam yayikhe yavuleka njengolwandle wade wayifaka ngokwakho. Ngaba uya kuqengqeleka kuwo onke amaza obomi kunye nam?
- Ube isitshixo sentliziyo yam, ngoku kulungile ukuba usisebenzise ukuvula umtshato wethu.
- Njengoko uThixo wadala uEva ukuba uAdam, wadala wena nje mna. Ngaba uya kulamkela ikamva lakho?
- Xa imigca emibini iwela, loo 'X' uphawula indawo. Ngaba uza kufumana ubutyebi bomtshato kunye nam?
Isindululo somtshato
Ukuba wena neqabane lakho ninomdlalo bhanyabhanya owuthandayo, jonga imigca onokuyitsala kubo ukuze uyisebenzise kwisindululo sakho. Ungasebenzisa imigca yesindululo seklasikhi okanye ukongeza isindululo sokujija nakweyiphi naithandwayo quote movie. Ukuze ufumane indawo eyongezelelweyo, setha isindululo sakho sokulinganisa imeko evela kumdlalo bhanyabhanya.
- 'Qhubeka, wenze usuku lwam,' ukusuka Impembelelo yequbuliso ayenzelwanga umzuzu wothando, kodwa inokwenza isindululo esihle.
- Iklasikhi Utata umgca , 'Ndizakumnika isithembiso akanakwala,' kulungile ukuba ucebisa ngendoda.
- Umgca wothando lukaJohn Smithukusuka kwi-movie yeDisney IPocahontas , 'Ndikhetha ukufa ngomso kunokuba ndiphile iminyaka elikhulu ndingakwazi,' isebenza kakuhle xa ubeka endaweni 'yokwazi' 'ngokutshata.'
- Xa uHarry wadibana noSally unike olona caphulo lothando ungalusebenzisa kwisindululo, '' Xa usazi ukuba ufuna ukuchitha ubomi bakho bonke nomntu, ufuna ukuba bonke ubomi bakho buqale kwangoko. '
- Ndiyafunga kukuthanda ngokuqatha kuzo zonke iifom zakho, ngoku nangonaphakade. Ndiyathembisa ukuba soze ndilibale ukuba eli lixesha elinye kubomi bothando, 'sisindululo esifanelekileyo sokucaphula Isifungo .
- Isicatshulwa esivela Umtshato woMhlobo wam osenyongweni , 'Ndikhethe. Nditshate. Makhe ndikonwabise, 'yenza isindululo esimnandi.
- Phalaza intliziyo yakho ngomgca osuka Umtshakazi obalekayo , 'Ukuba andikuceli ukuba ube ngowam, ndiya kuzisola ubomi bam bonke, kuba ndiyazi entliziyweni yam, nguwe wedwa kum.'
Iingcebiso zokufumana amagama afanelekileyo
Abanye abantu babhetele ekuzivakaliseni kunabanye. Ukuba unengxaki yokufumana amagama alungileyo kwisindululo esinyanisekileyo, zama ezi ngcebiso.
- Yiba ngowokuqala . Kuba lo ngowona mbuzo mkhulu ebomini bakho, unokufuna ukusebenzisa amagama awodwa ngakumbi kunesindululo sebinzana eliqhelekileyo. Usenokude ucingeUkucebisa ngombongo.
- ziveze . Indlela othetha ngayo isindululo sakho ikuvumela ukuba ubonise iimvakalelo zakho malunga nokujolise kuwe ngendlela ethetha lukhulu kuwe kwaye ilingane nobuntu bakho.
- Yenza isicelo sakho . Sebenzisa ubuchule bakho bokuyila kunokukunceda uchaze ukuba kutheni uyithanda intombi yakho kwaye ujonge kwimicimbi ethile yobudlelwane bakho.
Thetha ngokusuka entliziyweni
Ukucela umntu akutshateinokuba sisisongeli semithambo-luvo, nokuba uqinisekile ukuba impendulo iya kuba nguewe. Zama nje ukukhumbula ukuthetha ngentliziyo yakho kwaye uxelele isithandwa sakho ukuba uziva njani ngokwenyani. Ayizukukhathalela ukuba ubungakanani obungakanani na obeka kuyoisindululo sakhocinga ukuba amagama awangqinelani neqabane lakho.
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