Unokufumana imizekelo yentsingiselo echukumisayo echaza indlela othandekayo ngayo umhlobo wakho kuwe. Ngeengcebiso ezimbalwa ezilula kunye nemizekelo, unokuhlaziya i-eulogy ekhoyo okanye ubhale eyakho.
Ungayikhetha njani i-Eulogy yokuChukumisa uMhlobo Othandekayo
Inkqubo yokukhetha i-eulogy efanelekileyo kumhlobo wakho othandekayo ixhomekeke kwiimvakalelo onqwenela ukuzichaza. Cinga ngento awayeyithetha umhlobo wakho kwaye ubhale phantsi iimvakalelo ezahlukeneyo ezichaza kakuhle ubuhlobo bakho. Khetha uluvo olunye kwaye ulusebenzise ukwakha umbulelo wakho; zezieprintwayo kusetyenziswa iAdobekwaye inokuhlelwa xa kufuneka njalo. Imizekelo ikwabandakanyiwe ekupheleni kweli nqaku.
Amanqaku afanelekileyo- Iintetho zasimahla zeSampula yeeNtetho
- Ukubhala umbulelo osuka entliziyweni kuMzalwana wakho
- Ungayiphelisa njani i-Eulogy: Iingcinga zokugqibela ezingalibalekiyo
I-Eulogy ende yoMhlobo
Ukuba usisithethi esiphambili, i-eulogy yakho iya kuba nde kwaye igubungele ubomi bomhlobo wakho.
Mfutshane nge-Eulogy yoMhlobo
Xa abantu abaninzi beceliwe ukuba bathethe, uyakufuna ukugcina i-eulogy yomhlobo wakho kwicala elifutshane ukuze unike wonke umntu ixesha lokuthetha.
Umtshato womtshato ekunene intsingiselo
Ungayibhala njani i-Eulogy yoMhlobo
Nje ukuba wazi uluvo onqwenela ukuluchaza, lixesha lokubaqalisa ukubhala umbulelo wakho. Ungahlulahlula i-eulogy ibe ngamacandelo ukuze kube lula ukubhala.
- Wamkelekile kwaye ungenise- Inxalenye yokuqala yombongo wakho kukwamkelwa kunye nokwaziswa. Enkosi ngokuza kubhiyozela ubomi bomhlobo wakho. Landela oku ngentshayelelo emfutshane malunga nobudlelwane bakho nomfi ngaphambi kokuya kokunyeulwazi lothando.
- Yabelana ngeenkumbulo ezimbalwa zomhlobo wakho-Khetha amaxesha wonke umntu anokuhambelana nawo kwaye ubonise indlela ocinga ngayo njengeyona ndawo iphambili yombulelo wakho kumhlobo wakho. Oku kunokuba libali malunga nokuchitha iholide zasehlotyeni kunye elunxwemeni okanye ukuhamba epakini.
- Yenza umzekelo ngobuhlobo bakho nebali- Veza ubuntu bomhlobo wakho kunye nobuhlobo bakho. Sukwenza la mabali made, aneenkcukacha, vele ubethe amanqaku aphezulu. Sebenzisa iziqwengana ezimbalwa ezichukumisayo nezifudumeleyo.
- Chaza usapho loswelekileyo - Yazisa amalungu osapho; ukuba kunokwenzeka, zibandakanye kumabali okanye ukhethe enye yeempawu ezithandekayo zomhlobo wakho kwaye ubalise ibali elibonisa olo mgangatho kubandakanya usapho lwabo.
- Isiphelo esiphakamisayo-Uyafunagqiba umbulelo wakhongento eyakhayo ngokomoya nangokwasemoyeni, kodwa enxulumene nomhlobo wakho kunye nobuhlobo bakho.
I-Eulogy yoMbongo oBalaseleyo
Unokuthatha isigqibo sokuba aUmbongo yeyona ndlela ilungileyongenxa yokubonga umhlobo osenyongweni. Ngamanye amaxesha, umbongo unokuchaza iimvakalelo zakho ngcono kunawe. Kungenzeka ukuba umhlobo wakho wayenombongo awuthandayo kwaye ukubaluleka kwawo kufanelekile kwi-eulogy.
I-Eulogy yaManqaku oMhlobo
Xa ubhalela umbulelo kumhlobo wakho osenyongweni, unokuthatha isigqibo sokufaka isicatshulwa okanye ezimbini. Izicatshulwa kufuneka zivakalise iingcinga zakho kunye neemvakalelo zakho malunga nomhlobo wakho. Kungenzeka ukuba umhlobo wakho wayenomdla awuthandayo okanye wasebenzisa isicatshulwa njengemantra yobomi, ke ukuyifaka kwi-eulogy yakho kuya kufaneleka kakhulu.
ususa njani igrisi kwiikhabhathi
Umzekelo omde woMhlobo
Unokufumana umzekelo wentsingiselo echukumisayo yomhlobo ofileyo oluncedo. Okona kuncinci, unokuphefumlelwa kwaye ufumane ukuqonda okungcono kwinto onqwenela ukuyifaka kwi-eulogy yakho. Inguqulelo ende yomhlobo othandekayo
Okokuqala, ndingathanda ukubulela wonke umntu ngokuza apha ukunceda usapho kunye nabahlobo bakaJosie babhiyozele ubomi bakhe. Ndadibana noJosie kuhambo lwesikolo oluya kwi-aquarium yaseburhulumenteni. Ngelo xesha, sasifunda kwizikolo ezahlukeneyo, kodwa amaqela ethu amabini aphelela kukhenketho olunye.
Ndikuthandile kwangoko ukuhlekisa kukaJosie. Umkhokeli wabakhenkethi wabiza zonke iintlobo kwaye uxelele kancinci malunga nolunye uhlobo. Xa umkhokeli wabakhenkethi ebuza ukuba ukhona na umntu kweli qela owaziyo igama likakrebe odada etankini emva kwakhe, uJosie waphakamisa isandla waphendula wathi, 'Maneater.'
indlela yokufumana amabala ezinto zokucoca ngaphandle kweempahla
Sahlala sinxibelelana emva kohambo lwentsimi kwaye emva konyaka utata kaJosie, uFrank, wathatha umsebenzi apha edolophini kwaye mna noJosie sahlukana. Kwakuyiphupha elizalisekileyo lokuba sikwazi ukubonana yonke imihla.
'Siye saya kwenye ikhefu losapho lomnye nomnye. Sabelane ngayo yonke into ukusuka kwinkwenkwana yethu yokuqala yatyumka ukuya kwimihla yethu yokuqala. Sasithumelelana imiyalezo ngalo lonke ixesha, sithumela iiselfie kwaye senza izicwangciso malunga nobomi bethu bexesha elizayo. Ezo zicwangciso aziyi kwenzeka ngoku. Wathathwa kuthi ngumntu oqhuba enxilile. Ngalo mzuzu omnye, ubomi bakhe baphela. Yonke into ebesiyicwangcisile yaphela.
'Kodwa iinkumbulo zam zihlala zikhona. Ndisahleka nanini na xa ndicinga ngathi sizama ukubuyela kwigumbi lakhe lokulala ngobunye ubusuku ngelixa siseholideyini. Khange siyiqonde ipropathi yerenti enesistim sokuchela esizenzekelayo. Ndisamva ngoku encwina kwaye egigitheka njengoko sizama ukuphepha abafafazi, kodwa simfanyekiswe zizibane ezibangelwe ngumtshini wokuhamba.
Abazali bakhe, uFrank noMaude, bebengagigitheki xa bevula ucango lwangaphambili bephethe iitawuli. Basomisa basilungiselela isidlo sasebusuku saza emva koko basigxotha sobabini kangangeveki.
umhombiso womtshato wexabiso eliphantsi ojongeka ubiza
Ndiza kuhlala ndimkhumbula umhlobo wam endimthandayo. Wayendenza ndihleke, kwaye wayehlala endincedisa ekuqondeni izinto, andimamele xa ndicaphukile, kwaye andonwabise xa ndiphantsi.
UJosie wayengoyiki kwaye efuna ukwazi ngonaphakade-ngayo yonke into. Isicatshulwa sakhe asithandayo sasivela kwiklasi yamandulo yakudala esayithatha kunye kwiminyaka embalwa edlulileyo. Isithandi sobulumko samandulo esingumGrike u-Epictetus wathi, 'Inye kuphela indlela eya elonwabeni, kukuphela kokukhathazeka ngezinto ezingaphaya kwamandla ethu.' UJosie wayephila la mazwi kwaye ndiza kuzama ukuhlala kuwo. Ngokuqinisekileyo, ukungabikho kwakhe apha yinto engaphaya kwamandla ethu. '
Umzekelo omfutshane we-Eulogy yoMhlobo
Ngamanye amaxesha i-eulogy emfutshane yomhlobo lukhetho olufanelekileyo. Ufuna ukuthathela ingqalelo indawo yomngcwabo kwaye uyibonge indumiso yakho ngokokuseta kunye nabo bakhoyo. Umzekelo, ukuba umhlobo wakho ebeyimvumi, unokufuna ukubonga kancinci ukuze udlale eyakhoingoma oyithandayo. Amagama amafutshane eulogy abhalelwe enye imvumi:
Ndiyabulela kuni nonke ngokuba lapha namhlanje ukunika uJohn isithuba esifanelekileyo sokuya kwimvumi eyenye. Ndadibana noJohn malunga neminyaka emithandathu eyadlulayo xa sobabini sasidlala iigig eMemphis. Sidibanise iseti yokuqala kwaye saqhubeka sakha iqela lethu elincinci le-jazz, saphela sidlala apha eNew Orleans. UJohn wayengenguye umfana osesikweni kwaye ngekhe afune ukuba ndimncome. Wayethobekile kwaye ekuphela kwento awayeyixabisa phantse njengosapho kunye nabahlobo yayingumculo wakhe. UJohn wayekhe wandixelela, angayeka ibhiya, ipitsa kunye namandongomane etshokholethi- kwaye sonke siyayazi indlela awayekuthanda ngayo oko kutya - kodwa eyona nto angakwaziyo ukuphila ngaphandle kwayo yayingumculo. Ke, uJohn le ngoma yeyakho, mzalwana, ngayo yonke intliziyo yam, nguwe into ebomini endandingazange ndicinge ukuba ndiza kuyincama! '
Imbeko kuMhlobo kuMngcwabo
Xa unika umhlobo othandekayo umbulelo, ufuna ukuba ubonise iimvakalelo zakho malunga nomhlobo wakho. Ufuna i-eulogy isebenze njengomzekelo wokuba ngubani umhlobo wakho kwaye wabuchaphazela njani ubomi bakho nobabanye.
