Ukuqhagamshelana ngamehlo kuyindlela elungileyo yokuvavanya ukuthandana kwamanzi kwaye ubone ukuba ukhona umntu onomdla kuwe. Ukudibana kwamehlo yindlela ekhuselekileyo yokudlulisa indlela oziva ngayo okanye into oyicingayo.
Iindidi zokudlala ngamehlo
Njengalo naluphi na uhlobo lobuchule bokudlala ngothando, ukudibana kwamehlo akukho mnyama nokumhlophe kuphela. Olu hlobo lweukudlala ngothandoithatha iifom ezininzi kwaye abasebenzisi baya kuhlala besebenzisa ngaphezulu kolunye uhlobo lokudibana ngamehlo.
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Ulwandiso lweGaze
Uhlobo olwandisiweyo lokujonga ngamehlo kukujonga okuhlala ixesha elide kunencoko okanye ukujonga okuqhelekileyo. Ikhatshwa luncumo oluncinci okanye ukufudumala emehlweni, umbono owandisiweyo wahlukile kukujonga okuphazamisayo. Ukuthintela ukujonga, soloko uthumela kamnandiimiqondiso yomzimbanjengokuma ngokulula okanye ukuthambeka kwentamo kunye nokujonga kwakho okude.
Ukukrwaqula
Ukujonga kufutshane, ukujonga okufutshane okunomtsalane ngakumbi kunokubona ngokupheleleyo. Ukukrola kungaphaya kodwa kuyabonakala. Ukujonga ukudibana kwamehlo kukufudumala okufanelekileyo kokunye ukudlala ngamehlo. Ulutsha luhlala lusebenzisa olu hlobo lokudlala ngothando.
Umgama omde
Ukudlala ngamehlo umgama omde kwenzeka phakathi kwabantu ababini abanokuthi bangazani kodwa bazive benomtsalane. Ihlala ichazwa njenge-sparks, kismet okanye 'love in first sight,' umgama omde onomdla ngamehlo uhlala ubonwa kwiimovie. Ukudlala ngamehlo ngaphesheya komgama kunokwenzeka kaninzi ngaphezulu kwexesha elide okanye nje okomzuzwana.
Ukudlala ngothando
Ukujonga kwakho kunokubonisa, 'Jonga le nto isileyo!' okanye, 'Uyakholelwa ukuba oku kuyenzeka?' kunye nokudala umzuzu ekwabelwana ngawo phakathi kwenu nobabini. Emva kokuba utshixe amehlo, krwaqula enye into (mhlawumbi umthengi kumgca weIvenkile yekofuukukrola ixesha elide elihlekisayo lesiselo esenziwe ngokwezifiso), jonga ngasemva, kwaye unikezele. Ingathi nobabini niyadlala; ukuba omnye uhleka, unqwala, okanye uwaqengqe amehlo ngokungathi uthi, 'Ndiyazi- bubudenge obo!' luphawu olulungileyo lonxibelelwano olukhawulezayo.
Ukuphakamisa amashiya
Uya kuphakamisa amashiya xa udibana nomntu omaziyo okanye ofumana umtsalane- esi sisimbo sobuso esingazi nto kwaye ngokubanzi sibeka abanye abantu ngokukhululeka (nokuba abaqondi). Xa utshixa amehlo kunye nomnye umntu, khawuphakamise amashiya akho ngobuqhetseba - ukwenza oku ngokugqithiseleyo kunokukwenza ubonakale wothukile okanye umangalisiwe, yigcine incinci. Kuya kuba yintshukumo efihlakeleyo, kodwa iyamema. Ukunceda omnye umntu azive ekhululekile kunye nawe kunokubanceda bazive bekhululekile ukusondela kuwe ngencoko yokwenyani.
Umzimba opheleleyo
Ukujonga okupheleleyo komzimba kuqala ngombono owandisiweyo, kulandelwa kukujonga okude ngaphezulu komlomo, ezantsi komzimba kunye nokubuyela ngamehlo. Olu hlobo lokudibana kwamehlo lubhedu kwaye luyinkanuko enkulu. Umntu angaphendula ngamehlo afanayo okanye abonakale ehlazekile.
Indlela yokuSebenzisa ukuJonga ngamehlo
Ukuba ufuna ukuthumela into yomsa wakho umqondiso ocacileyo, ke zama ukudibana kwamehlo. Yindlela elula yokudlala ngothando kwaye ungayenza phantse naphina.
- Cinga ukuba uza kumbona phi umntu onomdla kuye.
- Cwangcisa ukuba loluphi uhlobo lokujonga oza kulusebenzisa.
- Ungathethi nto ukuba kunokwenzeka kwaye ume ngxi, ukanti ngendlela engaqhelekanga. Ukuba kunjaloluvalo, Bamba incoko kunye nomhlobo ngelixa ulinde umzuzu ocacileyo.
- Ngaphandle kokuguqula umzimba wakho, jikela intloko yakho kumdla wakho wothando. Lindela kuye ukuba abuye nembonakalo yakho.
- Jonga nzulu, kodwa hayi kakhulu. emehlweni akhe. Yongeza uncumo okanye uhlobo oluthile lwesimbo kwinkangeleko yakho. Izimbo zomzimba ezinje ngokucofa imilebe yakho, ukubamba isidlele nokujija iinwele zakho ziintshukumo eziqhelekileyo ezihamba neliso elincomekayo.
Ngaba usoloko ejonge ngamehlo othando?
Kubalulekile ukusebenzisa ezi ngcebiso zingasentla kwaye ungajongi nje ngokungacacanga. Ukujongela kude kuthatha ukuziva ungathandi xa ukujonga kungahambelani nolwimi lomzimba olufanelekileyo okanye ukuthamba kwamehlo. Jonga ngokungagungqi ixesha elide kwaye umntu ekujongwe kuye unokucinga ukuba uphupha nje usuku okanye uzama ukubeka ubuso babo ukukhumbula apho ubazi khona.
Yintoni omele uyenze xa ujonga amehlo
Udibana ngempumelelo nomnye umntu kwaye bajonge ngqo kuwe. Yintoni ngoku? Eli lixesha elifanelekileyo lokuncuma okuncinci, intloko encinci yentloko yokuvuma, okanye ukuba omnye umntu ubonakala etshixiwe emehlweni akho kamnandi, isenokuba lixesha lokuba uhambe ubulise. Ukudibana ngempumelelo kwamehlo kuyingxoxo enkulu (nangona, ingathethi) njengotshintshiselwano lokuqala lwezinto ezimnandi; Sukoyikisela ukuqala incoko yokwenyani emva kokuqhagamshela ngamehlo.
Uqhagamshelene ngamehlo
Ukuthintela ukuhlazeka ekuhlaleni, kulungile ukwazi ukuba uza kuyeka nini kwaye uyeke ukudibana ngamehlo. Uninzi lwento elungileyo lunokukwenza ubonakale njenge-stalker okanye ucofe kakhulu. Vumela ixesha elininzi phakathi kokudlalisa amehlo kwaye unike omnye umntu ithuba lokujonga 'umnikelo' wakho. Ukuba unxibelelwano ngamehlo ufumana ibufinge iintshiyaokanye ukuba uyakuphepha, uyazi ukuba inkqubela phambili yakho ayamkelekanga. Yeka iliso lakho lokudlala ngothando xa oko kwenzeka.
Izimbo zomzimba ezingamkelekanga
Ulwimi lomzimba olisebenzisayo xa ujonga amehlo kubalulekile. Yithintele le miqondiso xa ujonga ngamehlo kuba uninzi lwabantu aluzukuyamkela le miqondiso.
- Ukuphulula ulwimi lwakho kwimilebe yakho
- Ukuhlikihla indawo yakho ye-groin
- Ukwenza intshukumo yomlomo ethe cwaka
- Ukukhomba kwiindawo zomnye umntu
Ukuzinononga kwenza ugqibelele
Ukudlala ngamehlo yeyona ndlela inamandla yokufumana ingqalelo yomntu onomdla kuye. Ngokuziqhelanisa, unokuba ngumdlali onomdla wokudlala ngothando.
