Xa usenza isigqibo malunga nelungelo lokugcina umntwana, usenokuzibuza, 'Isebenza njani inkxaso yomntwana kunye nelungelo lokugcina umntwana?' Umcimbi unokuba nzima. Imeko nganye yahlukile njengosapho olubandakanyekayo.
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Xa inkundla inikezela ilungelo lokugcina umntwana kumzali, unelungelo lokwenza izigqibo zemihla ngemihla ezinxulumene nomntwana. Ukugcinwa ngokusemthethweni kunika umzali ilungelo noxanduva lokwenza izigqibo ngemfundo yomntwana okanye ngemicimbi yezempilo. Umzali unokunikwa olunye uhlobo lokugcina kodwa hayi olunye.
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Ilungiselelo lokugcina umntwana nelisebenza kunye lisebenza kakuhle xa abazali benokusebenzisana. Xa bobabini abazali benomdla wokuthatha inxaxheba ngokukuko kwinkqubo yokukhulisa abantwana, olu hlobo lwamalungiselelo lunokusebenza kakuhle kakhulu. Indlela osiphumeza ngayo isivumelwano sakho sokugcina umntwana inokuchaphazela indlela ijaji emisela ngayo inkxaso yabantwana.
Abazali kuya kufuneka bavumelane ngokuba uza kuhlala phi umntwana. Kukho iindlela ezahlukeneyo zokujongana noku, kwaye ukhetho olulungele olunye usapho alunakusebenzela olunye. Ngamanye amaxesha, abantwana bachitha ixesha labo kwikhaya lomzali ngamnye, ngelixa kwezinye iimeko abantwana bahlala kwikhaya elinye kwaye abazali bayatshintshana ukuchitha ixesha apho.
Ilungiselelo lokudityaniswa kwabantwana alithethi kuthi abantwana bachitha ixesha elilinganayo nomzali ngamnye. Akukho nkcazo yendawo yonke yokugcinwa kwabantwana ngokudibeneyo, njengoko ilizwe ngalinye liseta izikhokelo ezizodwa. Kweminye imimandla, ilungelo lokudlelana kunye linokuthetha ukuba abantwana bachitha ixesha elingange-30 leepesenti zexesha labo nomzali omnye kunye neepesenti ezingama-70 komnye. Kweminye imimandla yaseUnited States, abazali abanomdla kwilungiselelo lokugcina abantwana ngokudibeneyo baya kujonga ukwahlulwa ngokulinganayo kwexesha abalichitha nabantwana. Ixesha lilonke elichithwe kwikhaya ngalinye liya kuba nefuthe kulwabiwo lwenkxaso yomntwana.
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Izikhokelo zenkxaso yomntwana ezihlawulwa kwilungiselelo lokugcina ngokubambisana zithatha ixesha elichithwa ngumntwana nomzali ngamnye. Ukuba ijaji ithatha isigqibo malunga nenkxaso yomntwana, inokuthi ithathele ingqalelo umvuzo womzali ngamnye xa ichonga isixa ekufuneka sihlawulwe. Izikhokelo zikarhulumente zokuxhasa umntwana zikwabonelela ngemikhombandlela malunga nokuba ngowuphi umzali onokuthi afune umntwana njengomntu oxhomekeke kwirhafu yakhe.
Kwimeko apho umntwana echitha ixesha elilinganayo nomzali ngamnye, akukho namnye unokuyalelwa ukuba ahlawule inkxaso-mali yomntwana komnye. Ezinye iijaji zitolika inkxaso yomntwana kumatyala okudlelana ngokudibeneyo ngokwahlukileyo. Bajonge isikhokelo senkxaso yomntwana esiza kusebenza kwimeko kwaye sahlule kubini ukubonisa into yokuba umntwana uchitha isiqingatha sexesha lakhe nomzali ngamnye.
Abanye abazali banokucinga ukuba inkxaso yomntwana ayidingi ukuhlawulwa ngexesha umntwana ekulo mzali owenza intlawulo yenkxaso. Akunjalo, kwaye kwamanye amazwe, abazali abavunyelwe ngokukodwa ukuba bayeke ukuhlawulwa kwemali yabantwana ngeli xesha. Inkundla ithathela ingqalelo ukuba iindleko ezithile ezibandakanyekayo ekukhuliseni abantwana, ezinje ngokuhlawulela i-inshurensi yezempilo, indawo yokuhlala, kunye nemisebenzi yesikolo, zibangelwa kukuba umntwana ukhona na ekhaya.
Impendulo kumbuzo othi, 'Isebenza njani inkxaso yomntwana kunye nelungelo lokugcina umntwana?' yinto exhomekeke ekubeni esi sibini sihlala phi. Kwimimandla emininzi, ijaji inezikhokelo ezithile ekufuneka ilandelwe xa isenza isigqibo malunga nenkxaso yomntwana. Kwiimeko apho abazali babandakanyeka kwilungiselelo lokugcina kunye, ixesha elichithwa ngumntwana nezinto zomzali ngamnye nazo.
