Xa umntu omthandayo eswelekile, kubalulekile ukuba uhloniphe abo bazenzele ixesha labo lokugqibela bekhululekile. Ungalubonisa umbulelo wakho ngombulelo hayi kumongi okanye kumntu obhalela abaguli. Le miyalezo inokuthetha lukhulu kubantu ababelapho xa kubaluleke kakhulu.
Yintoni ekufuneka uyiqukile kwiNqaku lokuBulela kuMntu oKhathalela uMntu emva kokufa
Inkqubo ye- ifomathi esisiseko yenqaku lombulelo ilula: uqala ngesivakalisi okanye ezibini malunga nenkonzo onombulelo kuyo kwaye ulandele iinkcukacha ezimbalwa malunga nokuba ikwenze waziva njani kwaye kutheni kubalulekile. Ifomathi yenqaku lokubulela esemgangathweni isebenza nakubanakekeli, kodwa kukho izinto ezimbalwa ezongezelelekileyo oya kuthi uzidibanise.
Amanqaku afanelekileyo- Iingcebiso nokwamkelwa koMngcwabo kunye neMizekelo
- Isampulu isisombululo sokufa
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Ambalwa amagama ngoMntu oDlulileyo
Xa ubulela umnakekeli ngendima yakhe ebomini bomntu omthandayo, kubalulekile ukuba ubandakanye izinto ezithile malunga nomntu oswelekileyo. Lo mkhathaleli wayesazi umntu omthandayo, kwaye isikhumbuzi esithile saloo mntu siya kwenza ukuba inqaku libe lelakho ngakumbi. Cinga ukufaka into umntu ahlala eyithetha okanye uphawu lomntu okanye isiqhulo osithandayo.
Ukwamkelwa kweNdima yoMkhathaleli
Xa ukhetha umntu ozaUkunyamekela isihlobo esele sikhulileokanye ilungu losapho eligulayo, ukhetha umntu oza kuba nolwalamano olusondeleyo nomntu amkhathaleleyo. Nangona lo ingumsebenzi womkhathaleli, ikwayinto yobuqu. Lo mntu ulilela nokusweleka komntu omthandayo. Thatha umzuzwana ukwamkela indima ebalulekileyo edlalwe ngumongi.
Impendulo yakho ngokweemvakalelo
Inqaku lakho lombulelo liya kuba luncedo ngakumbi ukuba ubandakanya ukukhankanya ngokufutshane indlela inkonzo ebalulekileyo yomongi ekuchaphazele ngayo ngokweemvakalelo. Thetha ngombulelo oziva wena, uxabiso lwakho ngobubele babo, kunye nemvo yelahleko ohlangabezana nayo.
Umzekelo Ndiyabulela amaNqaku okuKhuthaza
Ngamanye amaxesha kuyanceda ukuba nemizekelo njengoko ubhala olu hlobo lomyalezo obalulekileyo, nokuba uya kwiumongikazi wasekhaya, umncedisi wezempilo ekhaya,Abasebenzi abagulela ukufa, okanye omnye umkhathaleli obalulekileyo. Ekugqibeleni, inqaku lakho liya kuba lodwa kwimeko yakho, kodwa le mizekelo ilandelayo inokukunceda ukuba ukhuthazwe njengoko uvakalisa umbulelo kumgcini.
Enkosi-Qaphela kuMsebenzi wezeMpilo waseKhaya
Anna othandekayo,
Ndifuna ukukubulela ngomonde wakho omangalisayo kunye nokuthantamisa nomama kule minyaka imbalwa idlulileyo. Umama wayengumntu okrelekrele kwaye ozithembileyo, kwaye sobabini siyazi ukuba wayengasoloko ezigcina izimvo zakhe kuye. Uphathe 'iingcebiso' zakhe ngobubele obunjalo, kwaye ndiyazi ukuba uyakuthanda kakhulu kwaye unombulelo ongazenzisiyo ngononophelo omnike lona. Umenze ukuba akwazi ukuhlala ekhayeni lakhe de kube sekupheleni kobomi bakhe, kwaye yayingeyonto incinci leyo. Ndilahlekile umama ngoku, kodwa ukwazi ukuba ubukhona umncedile ekugqibeleni kuyandithuthuzela. Ndiyabulela kakhulu ngento oyenzele usapho lwethu.
Enkosi-Qaphela inqaku loMkhathaleli waseKhaya ongumongikazi
Sven othandekayo,
Kubo bonke abantu abakwiziko lokhathalelo abaye banceda ukwenza ukuba unyaka katata ophelileyo ukhululeke ngakumbi, ukhathalelo lwakho lwabonakala lubalasele. Utata wayethetha ngawe rhoqo. Uyayazi indlela awayeyithanda ngayo isiqhulo esihle, kwaye wayedla ngokuxela isiqhulo sikatata wakho sosuku ngalunye ngokuhlwa emnxebeni. Ubukhanyisile ubomi bakhe kulo nyaka uphelileyo. Indima yakho ebomini bakhe yayingaphezulu koko, nangona kunjalo. Ndiyazi ukuba umncedile wasigcina isidima sakhe kwaye wawalawula impilo yakhe yokusilela ngenkalipho. Ezo zinto zazibaluleke kakhulu kuye, njengoko usazi. Ndiza kuhlala ndinombulelo ngokuba ubungumkhathaleli wakhe ekugqibeleni.
Ileta Enkosi kuwe kubasebenzi baseHospice
Abasebenzi baseBay Area Hospice,
Ukuthantamisa kunye nobuntununtunu obubonisile umakhulu wam ekupheleni kobomi bakhe yinto endingasokuze ndiyilibale. Ndiyabulela ngentuthuzelo oyinike uMakhulu, kunye nokuqonda okuhle, ulwazi kunye nenkxaso yeemvakalelo obonise ngayo usapho lwethu luphela. Ukubukela umntu omthandayo esenza utshintsho kobu bomi yinto enzima ngenene, kwaye ubulumko kunye nentuthuzelo yakho yasinceda sahamba ngeli xesha linzima. Enkosi kakhulu ngako konke okwenzayo.
Uyithumela nini iNqaku lokuBulela kubaKhathaleli
Akukho xesha lingalunganga lokuthumela inqaku lombulelo kumnonopheli emva kokusweleka komzali okanye umntu omthandayo. Ngokufanelekileyo, uya kuyithumela le nqaku kwiiveki emva kokuba umhlobo wakho eswelekile, kodwa eli xesha lokuzila linokuxakeka. Unokufumanisa ukuba awunawo amandla emvakalelo okuba uzinikele kolu hlobo lwenqaku ngeli xesha. Ekugqibeleni, inqaku lakho liya kuba nentsingiselo nokuba uyithumela nini.
Iingcamango ezingakumbi malunga nokuBhala
Ukuba awuqinisekanga ukuba ubhale ntoni kwinqaku lokubulela okanye ufuna iimbono ezimbalwa, cinga ukongeza umbongo. Ungasebenzisa ifayile ye-Umbongo wokuxabisa ikhaya labongikaziukongeza kumyalezo wakho. Ngenye indlela, aumbongoUnokwenza ukuhambelana okugqibeleleyo. Nokuba yeyiphi na indlela, ukuba uthetha ngokusuka entliziyweni, amazwi akho aya kugqibelela.
