Ukuwa eluthandweni ngamava antsonkothileyo kwaye ahlala ebuhlungu uninzi lwethu oludlula kuwo ngaxa lithile ebomini bethu. Isenokuba lixesha lokubhideka, unxunguphalo, kunye nokuzihlola njengoko sijonga iimvakalelo eziza nokuqonda ukuba unxibelelwano oluluqilima luye lwaphela.
Iingcaphuno ezicamngcayo zokuphuma eluthandweni zinokunika intuthuzelo kunye nokuqonda kule nkqubo inzima. Banikela amazwi obulumko nathuthuzelayo kwabo bazamazamana nobunzima bokuqhubeka nolwalamano olungasasebenziyo kubo.
Ezi zicatshulwa zibamba uluhlu lweemvakalelo ezihamba nokuwa luthando, ukusuka kwintliziyo kunye nokudana ukuya ekwamkelweni nasekukhuleni. Basikhumbuza ukuba kulungile ukuziva ulahlekile kwaye usesichengeni ngeli xesha, kwaye ukuphiliswa kunye nokuzifumanisa kunokwenzeka kwelinye icala lentliziyo.
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Ukwamkela utshintsho: Iingcaphuno malunga noBudlelwane obuphelayo
'Musa ukukhala kuba kuphelile, ncuma kuba kwenzekile.' - UGqr Seuss
Bona kwakho: Ukuphonononga umtsalane kunye nokubaluleka kweglasi yoxinzelelo lwepinki
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'Ukukhulula kuthetha ukufikelela ekuqondeni ukuba abanye abantu bayinxalenye yembali yakho, kodwa abayonxalenye yekamva lakho.' - USteve Maraboli
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'Ekuphela kwendlela yokwenza ingqiqo ekutshintsheni kukuziphosa kuyo, ukuhamba nayo, kunye nokujoyina umdaniso.' -Alan Watts
'Iziphelo azisoloko zimbi. Amaxesha amaninzi zisisiqalo nje sento ebhetele.' -Akwaziwa
Sisiphi isicatshulwa esilungileyo sokuphelisa ubudlelwane?
'Ngamanye amaxesha ukuvalelisana akupheli, yindlela nje yokutsho ukuba ndiyakukhumbula de sidibane kwakhona.'
Yintoni ucaphulo ukuqhubela phambili kubudlelwane break up?
'Musa ukucinga ngento ephosakeleyo. Kunoko, gxininisa kwinto omawuyenze ngokulandelayo. Chithani amandla enu nisiya phambili kunye nisingise kwimpendulo.'
Yintoni isicatshulwa malunga nokuphuma kubudlelwane?
'Ngamanye amaxesha izinto ezilungileyo ziyawohloka ukuze izinto ezingcono zidibanise.'
- UMarilyn Monroe
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Sithini isicatshulwa malunga nokwamkela utshintsho?
Xa Uthando Luphela: Iintetho Ngokuphela Ngokuthe ngcembe koMsa
'Uthando lufana nesityalo. Ifuna ukondliwa rhoqo, inyameko nengqalelo ukuze ikhule. Xa ingakhathalelwa, iyabuna.'
'Intlantsi eyayikhe yaluvutha uthando lwethu iye yafiphala, yashiya ngasemva uthuthu lwento eyayifudula iyiyo.'
'Njengoko iintsuku zihamba, uthando lwethu luphela ngokuthe ngcembe njengokutshona kwelanga, lushiya ngasemva inkumbulo ekrakra.'
'Uthando ngumdaniso oethe-ethe, kwaye ngamanye amaxesha amanyathelo ayahexa, esikhokelela kude omnye komnye.'
'Imibala yothando lwethu sele iqalile ukunyamalala, idityaniswa ibe sisithunzi esibuthuntu sokungakhathali.'
Lithini ibinzana elithi uthando luphela?
'Ukuphuma eluthandweni kunzima, ukuwela ngenxa yokungcatshwa kubi, ukuthembana okuphukile kunye neentliziyo eziphukileyo.'
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Esi sicatshulwa sibalaselisa intlungu kunye nobunzima obuza nokuphela kothando kunye nokungcatshwa okunokuthi kulandele.
Kuthetha ukuthini xa uthando luphela?
Xa uthando luphela, luthetha utshintsho kwiimvakalelo, izinto eziphambili kunye nokunxibelelana phakathi kwabantu ababini. Intlantsi yokuqala kunye nobunzulu obubonakalisa ubudlelwane bunokuncipha, nto leyo ekhokelela ekunciphiseni inkanuko, imincili kunye nothando. Njengoko uthando luphela, amaqabane anokuqala ukuziva eqhawukile, ekude, kwaye engatyali mali kwintlalontle yomnye.
Ngaphezu koko, ukuphela kothando kunokubonisa imiba esisiseko okanye utshintsho phakathi kolwalamano olungekalungiswa okanye lungaconjululwa. Isenokubonisa ukunqongophala konxibelelwano, ukusondelelana ngokweemvakalelo, okanye ukuhambelana phakathi kwamaqabane. Imvakalelo yokuphuma eluthandweni inokuba ngamava abuhlungu nalucelomngeni, njengoko inyanzela abantu ukuba baphinde bahlole iimvakalelo zabo baze benze isigqibo ngendlela yokuya phambili.
Ekugqibeleni, xa uthando luphela, lubangela ukuba abantu bacinge ngeminqweno yabo, iimfuno kunye nezinto abazilindeleyo kulwalamano. Ingasebenza njengefowuni yokuvuka ukuvavanya inqanaba loxhulumaniso lweemvakalelo, ukuhloniphana, kunye nokuzinikela okukhoyo kwintsebenziswano. Ukuphuma eluthandweni akuthethi ukuphela kobudlelwane, kodwa kunoko kuthetha inguqu efuna unxibelelwano olunyanisekileyo, ukucamngca, kunye nokwenza izigqibo ezinzima malunga nekamva.
Yintoni isiphelo izicaphulo zothando?
Uthando luhambo olunokuba neziphelo ezininzi, ezinye zazo zithathwe kakuhle kwizicatshulwa. Nazi izicatshulwa ezimbalwa ezibonisa ekupheleni kothando:
- 'Ngamanye amaxesha intliziyo ibona oko kungabonakaliyo emehlweni.' - H. Jackson Brown, Omnci.
- 'Idangatye lothando ngoku liyintlantsi nje.' -Akwaziwa
- 'Uthando lufana nobuhlobo obutsha. Ekuqaleni idangatye, lihle kakhulu, lihlala lishushu yaye liloyikeka, kodwa libe likhanya yaye lidanyaza.' - Bruce Lee
- 'Kwaye ekugqibeleni, uthando oluthathayo lulingana nothando olwenzayo.' - Ayinabhithi
Ezi ngcaphuno zisikhumbuza ukuba isiphelo sothando sinokuba ngamava akrakra, azaliswe kukucamngca kunye nokuqala.
Yintoni isicatshulwa esidumileyo malunga nothando olungafunekiyo?
'Olona lonwabo lukhulu onokulufumana kukwazi ukuba akuyomfuneko ukuba wonwabe.'
- UWilliam Saroyan
Ukufumana Ukuvalwa: Iingcaphuno zokuvumela Ukuhamba kunye nokuQhubela phambili
'Ukukhulula kuthetha ukufikelela ekuqondeni ukuba abanye abantu bayinxalenye yembali yakho, kodwa abayonxalenye yekamva lakho.' - USteve Maraboli
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Yamkelani into eyiyo, yiyekeni leyo ibikho, nikholwe koko kuya kubakho; -Sonia Ricotti
'Ngamanye amaxesha eyona nto inzima ayikuyeki kodwa ukufunda ukuqalisa phantsi.' - UNicole Sobon
'Uya kufumanisa ukuba kuyimfuneko ukuyeka izinto zihambe; ngenxa nje yokuba zinzima.' - C. JoyBell C.
Sisiphi isicatshulwa esilungileyo sokuyeka ukuhamba kwaye uqhubele phambili?
'Ngamanye amaxesha eyona nto inzima ayikuyeki kodwa ukufunda ukuqalisa phantsi.'
Yintoni isicatshulwa esidumileyo malunga nokuvalwa?
'Ukuvalwa kwenzeka kanye emva kokuba wamkele ukuba ukukhulula kunye nokuqhubela phambili kubaluleke kakhulu kunokuba ubonise ingcamango yokuba ubudlelwane bebunokuba njani.'
Sisiphi isicatshulwa esilungileyo sokuqhubela phambili emva kokwahlukana?
'Eyona ndlela ilungileyo yokulungisa intliziyo eyaphukileyo lixesha kunye namantombazana.' -Gwyneth Paltrow
“Ngamanxeba ethu adala umnqweno wokufikelela kwimimangaliso. Ukuzaliseka kwaloo mimangaliso kuxhomekeke ekubeni siyawayeka amanxeba ethu asiwise okanye asiphakamisele kumaphupha ethu.” - Jocelyn Soriano
'Ukuyeka ukuhamba kuthetha ukuqonda ukuba abanye abantu bayinxalenye yembali yakho, kodwa abayonxalenye yekamva lakho.' - USteve Maraboli
'Ngamanye amaxesha izinto ezilungileyo ziyahlukana ukuze izinto ezingcono zidibanise.' - UMarilyn Monroe
Yintoni isicatshulwa malunga nokuyeka nokuyeka?
'Ngamanye amaxesha eyona nto inzima ayikuyeki kodwa ukufunda ukuqalisa phantsi.'
- UNicole Sobon
