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Njengoko iintsana zikhula, kufuneka uhlale uziqhelanisa nokukhula kwazo. Ngokomzekelo, kwiinyanga ezimbini, iintsana zisenokuqalisa ukusabela kwizandi, ziwaqonde amazwi, zibonakale zinomdla ezandleni nasezinyaweni zazo, zizame ukubamba izinto, zize zenze izandi ezikhenkcezayo. Ezi ziganeko zithandekayo zophuhliso zinokufuna ukuba wazi ngakumbi malunga neendlela ezisebenzayo zokukhathalelwa komntwana kwiinyanga ezi-2 ukuqinisekisa ukhuseleko lwabo kunye nokukhula okujikelezayo. Ukongezelela, iintsana ngokuqhelekileyo zifuna ukutyiswa rhoqo, zilale ixesha elide, kwaye zikhale ngakumbi kule minyaka. Ke ngoko, kufuneka uchonge ezi zigaba zokukhula kwaye uphephe ukuba nexhala ngakumbi ngomntwana wakho omncinci. Kule post, sabelana ngoluhlu lweengcebiso eziluncedo zokukunceda unakekele kakuhle umntwana wakho oneenyanga ezi-2.
IiNyanga ezi-2 zeeNgcebiso zoNkekelo lwaBantwana:
1. Ukuzalisekisa iiMfuno ezongeziweyo zokutyisa:
Umntwana wakho oneenyanga ezimbini ubudala unokubonisa iimpawu ezikhulayo zokutya kunye nokufunwa kwesondlo rhoqo. Ngokuqhelekileyo, iintsana ziyakhala xa zilambile. Zama ukuchonga iimfuno zabo kwaye ubaphakele nanini na xa ubafumana bekhala. Ukuba ubuncancisa kwaye ubunikezela ngobisi lwebele lwebele elinye kuphela, kunokufuneka uqale ukunika omabini amabele ukondla usana lwakho. Usana lwakho lusenokufuna ukuba lutyiswe nasebusuku okanye ezinzulwini zobusuku (1).
[Funda: Iimpawu eziqhelekileyo zeNqanaba lokulamba komntwana ]
2. Chonga kwaye Ukhathalele Amaxesha Okulala:
Kwinyanga yesibini, iintsana zivame ukukhula ixesha elide lokulala. Jonga indlela yokulala yosana lwakho olukhulayo. Umntwana wakho angalala naphi na phakathi kweyure enye ukuya kweyesithathu emini. Kwakhona, umntwana wakho oneenyanga ezimbini ubudala unokubonisa iimpawu ezidiniweyo ekupheleni kokutya kwakhe okanye isiqingatha seyure emva kokutya kwakhe. Iiyure ezilithoba ukuya kwezilishumi elinambini zokulala kwiiyure ezingama-24 ziqhelekile kusana oluneenyanga ezimbini ubudala. Ngoko qiniseka ukuba usana lwakho lulala ngokwaneleyo (Mbini) .
3. Mmamele umntwana wakho xa ekhala:
Iintsana ezineenyanga ezimbini ubudala zikhala kakhulu, nto leyo enokuba buhlungu kuwe. Iintsana zikhala kwinyanga yesibini njengoko inkqubo ye-nervous ivame ukukhula, imincili ngenxa yokuvuselela, ukukhathala, kunye nokuqwalaselwa. Ke, nanini na xa umntwana wakho ekhala, yima kumntwana wakho kwaye umnike ingqalelo. Mgone, umthobe, okanye umkhuphele phandle ukuze athomalalise. Nantsi indlela onokuthi wenze ngayo ukhathalelo lomntwana lweenyanga ezimbini (3) .
[Funda: Iindlela Zokuthoba Umntwana Olilayo ]
4. Khuthaza uPhuhliso lomntwana wakho:
Umntwana oneenyanga ezimbini ubudala udla ngokuphuhla umbono ongcono, abambe kwaye enze imisebenzi engcono yezandla neenyawo. Umntwana wakho uvame ukufumanisa izandla kunye neenyawo zakhe kwaye uzigcine zihamba emoyeni. Ungabophelela amarhashalala ezihlahleni zomntwana wakho kwaye ubavumele bajonge kumbala kunye nesandi sokurhashaza. Uphuhliso lombono lwenzeka kwiinyanga zokuqala zokuzalwa, kwaye unokuyikhuthaza ngoncedo lwezinto ezinemibala kunye namathoyizi athambileyo. (4) .
5. Nxibelelana Naye:
Kwinyanga yesibini, umntwana wakho usabela kwingxolo enkulu kunye neza ngokukhawuleza. Mjonge ekhala kwaye ujule izandla zakhe emva kokuva ingxolo enkulu. Thetha nomntwana wakho omncinci othandekayo. Thetha amagama alula okanye amagama anemvano-siphelo ukuze umntwana wakho awazi kwaye awaphendule (5) .
[Funda: IiNyanga ezimbini zoPhuhliso lwaBantwana ]
6. Gcina usana lwakho lukhuselekile:
Ungaze ushiye usana lwakho kwi-mat yakhe yokutshintsha okanye phantsi ngaphandle kokubekwa kweliso. Ukuba unezilwanyana zasekhaya, gcina umntwana wakho kude nazo. Qinisekisa ukuba umntwana wakho uneethoyi ezithambileyo, ezingenazo iincam ezibukhali. Skena indawo ejikeleze usana lwakho ukuqinisekisa ukuba akukho nto ibukhali neyingozi ilele macala onke (6) .
[Funda: Izinto zokudlala ezinomdla kwiNtsana eziNyanga ezimbini ubudala ]
7. Gcina umkhondo wogonyo kunye neMpilo xa iyonke:
Qinisekisa ukuba umntwana wakho omncinci ugonywe ngokufanelekileyo. Thatha usana lwakho uluse kwagqirha ukuze luyokuhlolwa impilo rhoqo. Kwakhona, gcina indawo engqonge icocekile kwaye icocekile ukuze umntwana wakho angafumani naluphi na usulelo. Ukucoceka komntwana wakho kufuneka kube yinto ephambili (7) .
BhalisaWalugcina njani usana lwakho oluneenyanga ezimbini ubudala? Wangenelwa njani umntwana wakho kuyo? Yabelana ngeengcebiso zakho zokukhathalela umntwana kwiinyanga ezi-2 kunye noomama osebenza nabo apha. Shiya uluvo ngezantsi.
