Ukufumanisa indlela yokubonisa uthando kwisithandwa sakho kunokuba nzima. Wonke umntu wahlukile. Abanye abantu bayakuthanda ukubabonisangokusebenzisa amanqakuokanye ukuncoma. Abanye abantu banandipha izipho okanye izidlo. Nokuba uyabaxhasa abahlobo bakhe, umange okanye wenze nje into ayithandayo, zininzi iindlela zokuphanda. Ke, sukukhathazeka malunga nendlela onokubonisa ngayo uthando kumntu wakho.
Mbonise indlela akubonisa ngayo
Wonke umntu unendlela eyodwa yokubonisa uthando. Ngokufanayo, wonke umntu unendlela eyahlukileyo yokuziva. Zama iindlela ezimbalwa ezahlukeneyo zeukubonisa uthando lwakhokwaye ubone ukuba yeyiphi ayiphendula kakhulu. Nje ukuba umqonde,yenza okungakumbi kwezo ntlobo zezinto.
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Oko utshilo, uyakuxelela, uphume ngaphandle, uyakuthanda? Ngaba uyakuncoma ngobuchule bakho okanye ezinye iimpawu onazo? Ngaba umamele njengoko uphalaza zonke iinkcukacha zosuku lwakho? Ngaba ikwenzela izinto ezincinci zobubele kwaye uqikelele ukuba ufuna ntoni ngaphambi kokuba wazi ukuba uyayifuna? Kukangaphi enyakeni ekuzisela isipho esincinci (esenziwe ngezandla, intyatyambo yasendle ayichonge xa uhamba, okanye into ayithengileyo) kwaye akuxelele ukuba umkhumbuze wena, ke bekufanele akunike? Hlala ukhe ucinge ngezinto ezintle akwenzele zona. Oku kunokukunika umkhombandlela wendlela yokubonisa isoka lakho ukuba uyalithanda.
Yibhale
Oku kunokuba yincwadi ebhaliweyo anokuyigcina, i-imeyile, intliziyo-entliziyweni apho umxelela ukuba umthanda kangakanani nazo zonke izinto ozixabisayo ngaye, okanye njeumyalezo olula othi 'Ndiyakuthanda!'amaxesha ambalwa ngemini. Lumka nje ungambhulali nabo izihlandlo ezininzi ngemini, okanye ungafumana ngathi uyothuka kunokuba u-doy-dovey.
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Nika umbulelo ongazenzisiyo
Kwenye indawo phakathi kwencoko esuka entliziyweni embeka konke kuye kwaye 'Ndiyakuthanda' ngokudlula, kukho ukuncoma okunyanisekileyo. Ngaba uyayithanda indlela ancuma ngayo? Yixabise indlela ekunceda ngayo ukuba uphathe iibhegi zakho xa nikunye, thandani indlela aphatha ngayo wonke umntu ngokungathi ingoyena mntu egumbini kwaye ubaluleke ngendlela emangalisayo? Mxelele! Le ayifanelanga ukuba yingxoxo ende. Thetha nje xa ubona into. Ngaba umzuzu uhlala udlula ngaphambi kokuba uqhubekeke ngokwaneleyo ukuba uphawule ngawo? Thetha ngengqondo ngaphambi kwexesha kwaye xa umbona esenza into oyithandayo, yitsho into.
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Abanye abantu, amazwi amnandi, kodwa aya kwindlebe enye aphume kwenye. Ngelixa abanye abantu bekuthanda ukuva ukuba ubathanda kangakanani, abanye 'abayifumani' de ubeke loo magama kwizenzo. Ngokuqinisekileyo, usenokuba sele usenza zonke iintlobo zezinto, kodwa ukuba ubukunye ixesha elide okanye umtsha kubudlelwane kwaye ungazi ukuba wenzeni okwangoku, amanyathelo amancinci angahamba indlela ende. Menzele izinto ezincinci ngokungacwangciswanga onokuthi usebenzise umntu ongamaziyo. Menzele izinto ezincinci uyazi ukuba angakuvuyela oko ngekhe yenza umntu ongamaziyo (njengokugoqa impahla yakhe kuba eyithiyile ukuyenza).
Mphekele
Wakha wayiva intetho ethi, 'Eyona ndlela ikhawulezayo yokuya entliziyweni yendoda sisisu sayo?' Kukho isixa esithile senyaniso kuloo ngxelo. Ukuba ufuna umboniso olula, kodwa ungqalileyo wothando oluvakalayo kwisithandwa sakho, funda ukupheka isidlo asithandayo. Ukulungiselela isidlo ngumsebenzi wothando, ngakumbi ukuba ulungiselela isidlo ongazange usilungiselele ngaphambili.
indlela yokufumana amabala esepha ngaphandle
Ukuba uthatha uhambo, cinga ukupakisha isidlo sasemini. Uyakuxabisa isenzo kunye nokutya. Ikwayindlela yomlilo eqinisekileyo yokumkhumbuza ngawe xa ungekho. Khumbula, ungagqithisi ngesidlo sasemini okanye isidlo, akufuneki ukuba sisidlo sangokuhlwa okanye umyalezo kuyo yonke into yokutya-okona kutya kuya kukuthethela.
Xhasa ubuhlobo bakhe
Xa umfazi engakhuselekanga kubudlelwane, uhlala ebambelela. Ufuna ukwenza wonke umzuzu ngaye okanye akholelwe ukuba isoka lakhe ligxile kuye. Xa engagxili kuye, inokukhokelela kwiimvakalelo ezinzima. Kodwa kubalulekile, kuwe njengentombi elungileyo, ukuxhasa ubuhlobo benkwenkwe yakho kwaye uqiniseke ukuba unexesha lomfana ukuba uyayifuna. Ukuba yena nabahlobo bakhe baphuma rhoqo ngolwe-Sihlanu ukuya kudlala imidlalo okanye baxhomeke ngaphandle, myeke ahambe. Musa ukuzimema nawe. Ukuba ufuna ukukumema, uya kuthi. Akukho nto igwenxa ekubeni abe nexesha elisemgangathweni nabafana. Ukuba uyakumema, kulumkele ukuzama ukuzenza eyona nto ujolise kuyo. Lonwabele ixesha kunye naye, umbukele nabahlobo bakhe kwaye ubazi. Ngamanye amaxesha unokufunda okuninzi malunga nesithandwa sakho ngabahlobo bakhe.
Yenza Into Ayithandayo
Thatha inyathelo eliya phambili kwaye ulungiselele ukuba wenze into owaziyo ukuba angayithanda. Olu inokuba luhambo oluya kwi Umkhondo osondeleyo wokunyuka , utyelelo kwivenkile yendawo afuna ukuyizama, umcimbi wezemidlalo, umnyhadala, okanye imovie (okanye enye into ayithandayo!). Ngokufanelekileyo, iya kuba yi-Umsebenzi kuni nobabiniukuze ubonise ukuba unomdla wokufunda ngakumbi malunga nomdla wakhe. Nangona ungaze uzenze into ongena kuyifumana ingqalelo yomntu okanye uthando, unokuhlala unomdla kwaye uxhase. Unokude uyithande! Ukuba awukho kuyo nayiphi na into kwaye uyazi ukuba kufuneka abe nabantu abanokwabelana naye ngomdla ofanayo, cebisa ukuphuma kwakhe nabahlobo bakhe, okanye ulungiselele enye nabahlobo bakhe njengothusayo (jonga ishedyuli yakhe kuqala!)
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Ngamanye amaxesha, konke kuthatha ukubonisa uthando lwakho yinto eninzi yokuwolana kunye nokwanga. Phosa kwiumyalezo ukudibanisa(isuka kuwe, ayisiyiyo i-spa!), kunye nesoka lakho unokuziva ngathi ungoyena mntu unethamsanqa, oyena mntu amthandayo uphila. Ungaphuma ukhanyise amakhandlela kwaye ufumane ioyile yokuthanjiswa ngevumba ocinga ukuba angalonwabela. Kodwa sebenzisa isigwebo sakho malunga nokuba luhlobo lomntu oluya kuluxabisa olo longezelelo okanye unokukhetha ukugcina izinto zilula.
Dlala
Phatha yonke imihla kunye naye njengomhla wokuqala. Ngamanye amagama, xa niphuma kunye, ufumana yonke ingqalelo yakho. Lenze lonke ixesha libe nentsingiselo, kwaye uyakuxabisa ngakumbi. Ukuba kudala nikunye, usenokungaziva ngathi niyadlala njengangaphambili. Khumbula ezona zinto uzithandayo ngaye kunye nendlela obudibana ngayo. Sukuhlala uvumela icala le-goofy lifihle ngasemva kwelona libalulekileyo njengoko ixesha lihamba. Vumela icala lakho elingenangqondo liphume, nawe. Cinga ngendlela obuchithe ngayo iintsuku zakho zokuqala kunye kwaye uzame ukuziphindaphinda ngamanye amaxesha ngokuya kwimihla yolonwabo.
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Yintoni oyithandayo kumhlobo osenyongweni? Isakhono sokuzithemba kubo kwaye uyazi into oyithethileyo ayizukuya kwinqanaba eliphezulu kuluhlu. Kanjalo baya kukumamela. Yenza ezi zinto kumfana othandana naye. Mamela, mxelele ukuba yintoni le ayithethayo ayinakuphindwa, kwaye uzame ukunika iingcebiso ezingacelwanga ubuncinci. Sebenzisauqhagamshelo lamehlo. Gcina ifowuni yakho ijonge phantsi okanye kwisipaji sakho ngelixa nikunye. Sukunqwala nje kwaye uthi 'mm-hmm' xa ethetha ngento ongayikhathalelanga. Sonke sifuna ukuziva sisiva kwaye siqondwa, ngakumbi ngomnye obalulekileyo, ke le ayifanelanga ukuba yingqondo kubo bonke ubudlelwane obunzulu (ayisiyiyo, ke, buyela umva kwaye ujonge ukuba ulunge kangakanani umsebenzi sikwenza njengomhlobo osenyongweni kumfo wakho).
Mnike Izipho
Sukuhamba uyokuchitha imali ungenayo, kodwa ukuba ubona into onokuyifumana kwaye ucinge ukuba angayithanda, mthathele yona. Mxelele ukuba ikukhumbuze ngaye (ngamanye amagama, uthi 'Ndicinga ngawe xa singekho kunye'). Oku kunokuba yinto yokudlala encinci ekubuyisele kumzuzu ohlekisayo okanye onomdla kumhla odlulileyo, into ayifunayo okanye ayifunayo kodwa ayizukuzifumanela, okanye into emele yena okanye inxenye yobuntu bakhe. Yenza izipho zemihla yakho yokukhumbula iimvakalelo zakho okanye into enokwenzeka (ukuba akayithandi) eya kuthi isathetha lukhulu kuye, njengetikiti kumdlalo wezemidlalo ebehlala efuna ukuya kuwo. Unokufumana uyilo kwaye umfumane isipho esikhethekileyo okanye esiyilayo esingalibalekiyo. Ezinye izimvo zinokuba:
- Ukuba uyayithanda imimoya, uyakonwabela isipho esizonwabisa ngendlela yakhe kwiziselo, ezinje nge Ibha yewhisky ebhalwe igama lomntu okanye umrhumo kwi iklabhu yebhiya yobugcisa .
- Fumana isipho esitsala kungekuphela kwentliziyo yakhe, kodwa nesisu sakhe, kunye nokunye okunencasa kunye nokwenyama itshokolethi igqunyiwe amaqunube .
- Mnike isipho sohambo enokonwabela sobabini. A ikhadi lesipho le-Air BnB Ingasetyenziselwa ukucwangcisa indlela yokubaleka ngothando nobabini kwixa elizayo.
- Amanye amadoda ayakuthanda ukwenza izinto kunye neeprojekthi, ke ukuba inkcazo iyahambelana nomfana wakho, jonga 'iprojekthi ebhokisini' enje nge ikhithi yokwenza imela ye-scrimshaw .
Myeke ahambe
Amantombazana anokulungela ukuzityand 'igila kubahlobo nakumalungu osapho xa efuna ukukhupha iingxaki zobomi. Uninzi lwabafana luziva lukhululekile ekothuleni kwezinye izinto ezibalulekileyo. Ukuba umntu wakho ufuna ukuphuma kuba enomsindo, ekhathazekile, okanye enexinzelelo, yiba yindawo yakhe ekhuselekileyo. Njengentombi yakhe, unokuziva unomdla wokubonelela ngengcebiso okanye ngezisombululo kwingxaki yakhe. Ukuba umthanda ngokwenyani, yithi cwaka ecaleni kwamabinzana alula aqinisekisayo anjengokuthi 'Ndiyayibona indlela oziva ngayo.' Ukungenisa konke malunga nokulahla iimvakalelo zakho kunye neemvakalelo njengokukhululwa. Oko kuthetha ukuba kuya kufuneka umyeke akhulule iingxaki zakhe ngaphandle kokubonelela ngoncedo, emva koko uyiyeke ihambe kwaye ungaphindi uyiveze. Olu hlobo lokukhululwa ngokweemvakalelo lukhulu kwimpilo yakhe yengqondo kunye nokukwazi kwakho ukuyivumela ukuba ibe malunga nje naye kubonisa ukuba umkhathalele kangakanani.
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Jonga uMama wakhe
Ukubonisa inkathalo yokwenene kunye nokukhathalela abantu ababalulekileyo kubomi bamakhwenkwe akho ngumqondiso oqinisekileyo wokuba uyamthanda. Ukuba ukufutshane nomama wakhe, udadewabo, okanye notatomkhulu wakhe, thatha ixesha lokujonga lo mntu ngaphandle kokucelwa nangubani na. Yima ngakwindlu yabo xa usiya evenkileni ukujonga ukuba akukho nto bayifunayo na, fowunela nje uthi 'Molo,' okanye ubathumelele into entle 'Lunjani usuku lwakho?' isicatshulwa. Sukuxelela isoka lakho ukuba uyenzile le nto, yoyisa injongo yokuba inyanisekile. Xa efumanisa kumntu amthandayo, uya kubona ukuba wawuzidele ngokupheleleyo kwaye unenkathalo.
Nikezela ngeNgingqi
Kwizibini ezininzi, olona phawu lubalaseleyo lothando kukunikezela ngolawulo lweTV xa umboniso wakho owuthandayo uvuliwe. Ukwenza esi senzo sothando esikhulu, kuya kufuneka ukhethe ixesha apho engalindelanga ukuba unikezele kude. Ngobo busuku xa ixesha elitsha lomboniso wakho owuthandayo liphuma kwiNetflix okanye iphambili yenkulumbuso oyithandayo ikwiTV lelona xesha lilungileyo. Ukumnika ulawulo lwento oyibukeleyo kunye ngexesha elilindelweyo kubonisa ukuba ubaluleke ngaphezu kwayo nayiphi na enye into.
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Ukuba awuhlali kunye, yenza inqaku kwisitokhwe sakho sokuhlambela okanye kwi-pantry kunye nezinye zezinto azithandayo ngamaxesha xa etyelele. Isitshixo apha kukuba isitokhwe sithule sithe cwaka, ngaphandle kokumbuza into ayifunayo okanye ukumxelela ukuba ikhona. Ngokuzolileyo yongeza iziselo ozithandayo kwifriji yakho okanye kwiphepha lakhe langasese elithandayo. Xa eqaphela ukuba ubucinga kwaye umlungiselela indawo yakho, uya kubona ukuba umkhathalele kangakanani.
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Cwangcisa ukumangala ngaye
Ukucwangcisa iqela elothusayookanye uhambo olungalindelekanga lufuna umgudu omkhulu kwaye lufuna ukuba umazi ngokwenene umfana othandana naye. Cinga ngento ahlala ethetha ngayo, kodwa angaze ajonge ukuthanda uhambo lwegalufa, iqela losapho, okanye iholide yothando elwandle. Ngokufihlakeleyo dibanisa zonke izinto emva koko umothuse ngeqela lakho okanye uhambo. Xa ebona ingcinga kunye nomzamo omnike wona ukuze umnike amava angalibalekiyo, uya kuyazi ukuba umthanda kangakanani.
Ongakwenziyo
Ungalubonisa uthando lwakho ngeendlela ezininzi, kodwa ukuba umntu othandana naye ufuna ukusondelelana okanye ukwabelana ngesondo kwaye awukulungelanga, sukuyenza ukubonisa ubungqina bento. Ukwabelana ngesondo kunye nokusondelelana kukubonakaliswa kokuthandana kunye nothando olunzulu; ayisiyondlela yokungqina nantoni na. Ukuba umntu othandana naye uyakunyanzela ukuba uzibonakalise ngokwabelana ngesondo, isenokuba lixesha lokuba uphinde uphonononge ubudlelwane.
