Ngaba ukhathazekile malunga neengxaki ezinokubakho xa uthandana nendoda yaseMelika njengomfazi waseTshayina? Umahluko ngokwenkcubeko unokubangela imiba, kodwa obu budlelwane bunokusebenza, utshilo umqeqeshi wokuthandana uLori Gorshow.
Ihlabathi elincinci
Ngelixa ukuthandana nomntu ovela kwelinye ilizwe kusenokwenzeka ukuba kwakuyinto engaqhelekanga,ukuthandana onlineUnxibelelwano kwi-Intanethi lwenza kube lula ukudibana nabantu kwihlabathi liphela. Ukuthandana kwabasetyhini baseTshayina kubhenela kwamanye amadoda aseMelika enza (engachanekanga) ukucinga ukuba bonke abantu baseTshayina bayazithoba kwaye bayathobela.Ingcebiso ngeengcali
IGorshow inika iingcebiso ngokubhekisele kuwo nawuphi na umntu wasetyhini kubudlelwane, ngaphandle kwelizwe avela kulo. 'Yintoni ekufuneka ayithathele ingqalelo umfazi waseTshayina xa ethandana nendoda yaseMelika okanye nayiphi na indoda, yindlela avakalelwa ngayo xa ekunye naye, ethetha naye emnxebeni okanye ngefowuniIntanethi, utshilo uGorshow. Ngaba uziva ukhethekile, ukhathalelwe kwaye wonwabile? Okanye, ngaba ucinga ukuba iingcinga zakho kunye nezimvo zakho azibalulekanga, ukuba akanamdla wakukwazi okanye ukuba afumaneenomsindongokukhawuleza xa uveza iingcinga kunye nemibono eyahlukileyo kunale yakhe? '
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Ulwalamano lweDynamics
Umahluko phakathiumfazi Chinesekwaye owasetyhini waseMelika ngulo wasetyhini waseTshayina ngokwembali ebesoloko exhomekeke kwaye ethobela iziqingatha kubudlelwane bobabini, utshilo uGorshow. Ngenxa yoko, abafazi baseTshayina bahlala bebeka iimfuno zendoda ngaphambi kweemfuno zabo. Ayisiyo eyasetyhini waseMelika, okholelwa ukuba ubudlelwane bezothando kufuneka bulungelelanise iimfuno zawo omabini amaqabane. Esi sesinye sezizathu zokuba amanye amadoda aseMelika akhangele iqabane laseTshayina. La madoda afuna umfazi ozithobayo kwiimfuno zakhe, nokuziphatha okwamkelekileyo kunye nesiko kubafazi baseTshayina.
Umahluko ngokwenkcubeko
Ngaphandle kwemicimbi yobudlelwane, umahluko osisiseko kwinkcubeko kufuneka woyiswe ukuze ube nethuba lokuphumelela kubudlelwane. Ukwahluka ngokwenkcubeko oko kunokubangela ukudideka okanye ukungavisisani phakathi kwendoda yaseMelika kunye nomfazi waseTshayina kubandakanya, kodwa kungaphelelanga apho:
uqhuba njani imvelaphi ujonge umntu
- Intetho encinci yaseMelika inokuziva ikrwada okanye inomdla kubantu abavela e-China.
- Inkcubeko yaseMelika igxile kumntu ngelixa inkcubeko yamaTshayina igxile kwiqela lilonke.
- Ngenxa yokunqongophala kwendawo ngenxa yabantu abaninzi, amaTshayina asenokungafuni sithuba sobuqu njengamaMelika.
- Ukuthobeka kunye nokuthintela ukungqubana yinxalenye yenkcubeko yamaTshayina ngelixa amaMelika ejongene ngakumbi nokuzimela.
Ukoyisa ukungaqondani
Esi sibini kufuneka samkeleinkcubekoiyantlukwano kwaye uzame ukuhloniphana ukusikelwa umda omnye. Ukuba bafumana ulwahlulo olusisiseko kufuneka bavavanye ukuba le micimbi isenokubangelwa yiyantlukwano enzulu yenkcubeko kwaye bazimisele ukuthetha ngayo.
ungayifumana njani idayi yeenwele ngaphandle kwebhafu
Ukufumana Uthando
Omnye umahluko phakathi kwamakhosikazi aseMelika nawaseTshayina kukuba kwinkcubeko yaseNtshona ukuthandana kwabantu abangaphezu komnye ngexesha kwamkelekile kwaye kuyakhuthazwa, utshilo uGorshow. Le ndlela yolingo kunye nephutha kwezothando kucingelwa ukuba ibalulekile ekufumaneni iqabane elifanelekileyo. Ukukhetha iqabane 'elilungileyo', indoda yaseMelika inokudibana nabanye abantu baseTshayina, ibandwendwele, ibabize. ' Kubafazi abathile baseTshayina, le ndlela yokuziphatha ayamkelekanga.
Ithuba lokuzihlukanisa
Kuyenzeka ukuba uzise umfazi waseTshayina e-United States phantsi kwephiko lokuzibandakanya, ukudala imeko apho umfazi anokuziva enyanzelekile ukuba atshate. 'Kubalulekile kuwe ukuba uqwalasele ukuba kutheni ufuna ukuba seMelika kwaye kuyakwenzeka ntoni ukuba ubunendoda ekuphela kwesizathu sokuba ikukhethe kukuba ifuna ukuba uxhomekeke kwaye uthobele, utshilo uGorshow. 'Ukuba umdla wakho kule ndoda uyindlela nje yokuya eMelika kwaye ufumane indlela yokuphila eyamkelekileyo kuluntu lwaseNtshona emva koko ungazifumana ukwibudlelwane apho ungonwabanga kwaye ubekwe wedwa xa uvinjwa inkululeko.'
Ndonwabe nasemva koko
Ubudlelwane obenziwe kwi-Intanethi kwiikhilomitha zonke bunokuba bubudlelwane obuzibophelelayo okanye umtshato owonwabisayo. Xa iyantlukwano ngokwenkcubeko yamkelwe yaza yahlonitshwa, uthando lunako ukudubula luze luqhume.
