Ukuba usentlungwini yokusweleka komntwana, ukujongana nazo zonke iimvakalelo, imibuzo enzima, amathandabuzo kunye noloyiko kunokuziva kunzima. Uncedo kunye nenkuthazo yabanye, ngakumbi kwabanye abo bebelapho, kunokuba lunyango. Iqela elixhasayo linokunceda oomama nootata baqhubele phambili nelahleko yabo, kwaye basebenze ekunyangeni.
Apho ungafumana khona amaQela eNkxaso yaBazali
Ngethamsanqa, kukho iindawo zokuxhasa abazali. Eminye yale mibutho iyamkelwa kwilizwe liphela nakwilizwe kunye nezahluko zalapha ekhaya. Xa usiya kwiwebhusayithi unokwenza uphando ukubona ukuba iqela lenkxaso linendawo yokuhlangana kufutshane nalapho uhlala khona. Uninzi lwamaqela akanayo imeko engenzi nzuzo, eqhutywa ngamavolontiya, kwaye akukho zindleko zokujoyina. Abanye banokubonelela ngoluhlu lwee-imeyile onokuzibhalisela.
Amanqaku afanelekileyo- Imifanekiso eli-10 yabantu abasokolayo kwintlungu
- Iincwadi ngeNtlungu yoMntwana oswelekileyo
- Iingcamango zamatye aBantwana
Abahlobo Abanovelwano
Abahlobo Abanovelwano (TCF) ibonelela ngenkxaso kubazali abasentlungwini kwilizwe liphela. Umbutho unezahluko ezingaphezu kwama-600 ezikulo lonke ilizwe, nakwisiThili saseColumbia, eGuam nasePuerto Rico. I-TCF ibonelela ngokuqonda, ngoncedo, kunye nenkxaso kwiintsapho ezifelweyo, kubandakanya abazali kunye nabantakwabo. I-TCF ikwabonelela ngezixhobo ezinjengezikhumbuzo, kunye neminyhadala yalapha kunye neyelizwe kubandakanya ukukhanya kwamakhandlela kunye nokuhamba kwememori Iwebhsayithi inayo indawo yesahluko , ekunceda ufumane isahluko seTCF kwindawo yakho.
ndingayithenga inkawu yasekhaya
Abazali abafelweyo baseMelika
Abazali abafelweyo / i-USA (I-BP / i-USA) ibonelela ngenkxaso kubantu abasandula ukufelwa, kubandakanya abazali, abantakwabo, kunye noomawokhulu. Umbutho wesizwe unezahluko kulo lonke elaseMelika. Izahluko zibamba iintlanganiso zamaqela enkxaso yenyanga. Kunye namaqela enkxaso yesahluko sendawo, iBP / i-USA ibonelela ngezi nkonzo zilandelayo kusapho olusentlungwini:
- Iincwadana
- Amanqaku nemibongo
- Incwadana yeendaba kaZwelonke
- Iziganeko zonyaka
Unokufumana isahluko sendawo usebenzisa i-BP / i-USA kwi-intanethi indawo yesahluko.
Isiseko seMISS
Isiseko seMISS kunceda abazali abaswelekelweyo ngokubonelela i-CA.R.E.S. iinkonzo, ezibandakanya:
- Iingcebiso
- Ubhengezo
- Uphando
- Imfundo
- Inkxaso
Isiseko sibonelela ngononophelo lweengxaki, kunye noncedo lwexesha elide kubazali abalilela ukuphulukana neentsana okanye abantwana. I-MISS ikwaqhuba nophando olujolise ekunciphiseni inani lokufa kwabantwana eUnited States.
Iinkonzo ezikhoyo zibandakanya:
- Ingcebiso
- Amaqela akwi-Intanethi nakubantu abaxhasayo
- Iingcebiso
- Oomasifundisane
- Ukunyamekela iintsapho ezijongene nokuxilongwa okungapheliyo komntwana ongekazalwa
- Amanqaku, iingcebiso kunye nezixhobo zabazali abasentlungwini
Ungakhangela ifayile ye iqela lenkxaso okanye umboneleli ononophelo kwiwebhusayithi yesiseko.
Oomama Ngeengelosi
Oomama abaneNgelosi yeSikhumbuzo kunye neNkxaso yobuhlungu yiwebhusayithi enceda oomama abasentlungwini ukuba bakhumbule abantwana babo kwaye inike inkxaso ngamabali ekwabelwana ngawo, amanqaku, iivesi zokomoya kunye neengcebiso.
ungajongana njani nentombi ekuthiyileyo
Intlungu
GriefNet.org sisixhobo esikwi-intanethi esinceda abazali abaswelekelweyo ngamanyathelo amaninzi, kubandakanya:
- Amaqela enkxaso nge-imeyile kubazali nakubantwana
- Izikhumbuzo ezikwi-Intanethi
- Ezinye izixhobo ezinje ngeencwadi kunye namanqaku
Abazali Abasentlungwini
Abazali Abasentlungwini Luluntu oluxhasa ngeintanethi kubazali abaphulukene nabantwana. Ngokudibana namaqela enkxaso nge-imeyile, abazali abasentlungwini banezikhumbuzo ezikwi-Intanethi, amangcwaba e-cyber kunye nealbham yefoto.
Amaqela axhasa oomama abasentlungwini
Unokukhetha ukujoyina iqela lenkxaso elungiselelwe oomama kuphela. Xa ujongene nentlungu yakho, unokufumanisa ukuba ukhululekile kwaye unomdla ngokwasemphefumlweni ukuba kwiqela leenkxaso elinabafazi kuphela. Imizekelo embalwa yezi ndidi zamaqela zibandakanya:
- I-M.E.N.D (Oomama Abanyamezela Ukufa kweNeatal) babonelela ngethemba kunye nokuphilisa emva kokuphulukana nosana lwakho ngokuphuma kwesisu, ukuzalwa komntwana oswelekileyo okanye ukusweleka kweentsana kwangoko. I-M.E.N.D kubanjwa imisitho, imibhiyozo yesikhumbuzo kwaye ibenayo izahluko zamaqela enkxaso kulo lonke uhlanga.
- Ithemba lokufelwa liQela leNkxaso kaMama ifumaneka eFort Myers, eFlorida, kodwa ungafumana iqela lenkxaso kwindawo yakho. Ungaqala ngokujonga ugqirha wakho, isibhedlele sakho sendawo okanye iziko loluntu ngezixhobo.
- Ukufikelwa ngooMama abaDibeneyo iwebhusayithi apho unokuhlangana khona nabanye kwindawo yakho. Iindawo zinomda othile ngeli xesha, kodwa ungaqala ngokwakho 'ukuhlangana' apho uhlala khona.
- Kukho amaqela aliqela e-Facebook akhethelwe ngokukodwa oomama abasentlungwini. Ungakhangela 'oomama abalusizi', 'oomama ababuhlungu abaphulukene nomntwana', 'iqela labomama abalusizi' njlnjl kwaye unokufumana iqela ongathanda ukujoyina.
Olunye uXhaso lwaseKhaya lwaBazali
Kunye namaqela enkxaso, izihlobo kunye nosapho, abazali banokufikelela kwabanye kwiindawo abahlala kuzo ukuze bafumane inkxaso.
Tyelela abefundisi
Ukuba abazali balilungu lecawa okanye lenkolo, banokudibana nomphathiswa wecawe yabo. Abefundisi baqeqeshelwe ukunika inkxaso kunye nokucebisa abo bafelweyo kwaye banokwazi ukunceda abazali abasentlungwini ukuba bafumane intuthuzelo yokomoya kwintlungu yabo.
Funa ukuCetyiswa ngokuFutshane
Amalungu amaninzi oluntu oluqeqeshiweyo lwengqondo, njengabacebisi okanye oochwephesha bengcali, bagxile kwinkxaso yentlungu. Ungafumana abacebisi bezentlungu abaqeqeshiweyo ngokubathumela kwindawo, (zama ukubuza kumfundisi, kwisikolo, okanye kwikhaya labangcwabi lasekuhlaleni), okanye ngokusebenzisa isixhobo esinjenge Indawo yokuLuleka uMcebisi .
Funda ukunceda Intlungu yakho
Sukuyityeshela ilayibrari yasekuhlaleni okanye ivenkile yeencwadi. Fumana ifayile ye- Ukufelwa okanye lusizi icandelo (ezi kufuneka zibhalwe) apho kukho iintlobo ngeentlobo zeencwadi ezibhalwe ngabo bahambe ngeembadada zakho. Ukukhethwa kweencwadi ezimbalwa ezigqwesileyo kubandakanya:
- Ngaphandle kweenyembezi: Ukuphila emva kokulahlekelwa ngumntwana yabhalwa ngu-Ellen Mitchell. Le ncwadi yenzelwe ukunika isikhokelo kunye nentuthuzelo kubazali abasentlungwini. Ngaphandle kweenyembezi kubhalwe ngoomama abalithoba abaphulukene nomntwana ngamnye. Olu hlelo luhlaziyiweyo lubandakanya isahluko esitsha esibhaliweyo ngokwembono yabantwana abasaphilayo.
- Ukuphilisa Intliziyo Yabuhlungu Yomzali : 100 Iingcamango Eziluncedo Emva Kokufa Komntwana Wakho zabhalwa ngu-Alan D. Wolfet Ph.D. Le ncwadi ibonisa iindlela ezilula kodwa ezisebenzayo zokujamelana nokunyanga. Inceda ukubonelela ngeempendulo kunye noncedo kubazali abazama ukujongana nokuphulukana nomntwana kwaye ibonelele ngeengcebiso ezili-100 ezisebenzayo, ezijolise ekusetyenzisweni ekwamkeleni usizi.
- Shattered: Ukusinda Ukuphulukana noMntwana yabhalwa nguGary Roe. Le ncwadi isuka entliziyweni, ifundeka lula kwaye iyincwadi enamandla kakhulu. Icacisa ifuthe elinamandla lokusweleka komntwana- ngokwasemoyeni, ngokwasengqondweni, ngokwasemzimbeni, ngokonxibelelwano nangokomoya.
Yenza iWebhu yeSikhumbuzo okanye iphepha leMithombo yeendaba
Ukwabelana nomntwana wakho ngehlabathi kuluncedo kubazali abaninzi. Unokwenza amaphepha ewebhu esikhumbuzo kwiindawo ezininzi, kubandakanya:
- Uthandwa kakhulu ikuvumela ukuba wenze iimbeko kwaye ukhangele abanye.
- IiWebhusayithi zeSikhumbuzo zeLifa ikuvumela ukuba wenze izikhumbuzo ezikwi-Intanethi.
- Ulahlekile Ngonaphakade yenza ukuba wenze isikhumbuzo sasimahla kwi-Intanethi ukuze wabelane ngeenkumbulo zomntu olahlekileyo.
- Zange Wahamba yindawo eninokwabelana ngayo ngeenkumbulo, amabali, iifoto, iividiyo, ukuthumela amazwi ovelwano, ukubhala imibulelo, kunye nokudibanisa bonke abantu obathandayo abalahlekileyo kunye.
- Kukhunjulwe kukuvumela ukuba wenze kwaye ugcine iwebhusayithi yesikhumbuzo kwi-intanethi yabathandekayo obaphulukene nabo.
Thatha ixesha lokufumana uncedo ngeNtlungu yakho
Ukuba ungumzali osentlungwini okanye umhlobo womzali osentlungwini, kulungile ukuba ufune uncedo. Inkxaso yosizi inamandla okubaxhamla abo bafelweyo ngokubonelela ngendawo kunye nenkxaso yeemvakalelo. Khangela iqela elibonakalayo elidibana kwindawo yezitena nodaka, kunye namaqela akwi-intanethi. Lumka, kuba onke amaqela anokungazifezekisi iimfuno zakho. Yiba yinxalenye yendibano eza kukunceda ukuba umelane neyona ndlela ibhetele ebomini emva kokusweleka komntwana.
