Ngokuchaseneyo, abanye banokuthi bave ivumba elithile xa umntu omthandayo okanye isigulana sisondele ekufeni, ngelixa abanye bengenawo amava afanayo phambi komntu kwinkqubo yokufa. Ngaphantsi kweemeko ezithile, amanye amavumba aya kuveliswa ngaphambi kokuba afe, kunye nasemva nje koko.
Ngaba Uyanuka Ukufa Ngaphambi Kokufa Komntu?
Ngokubanzi, ukufa kunephunga kuphela phantsi kweemeko ezithile kunye neemeko ezithile. UGqirha Jawn, MD uphawula ukuba, 'ubukhulu becala, akukho vumba lithintela ukufa, kwaye akukho vumba kwangoko emva kokufa.'
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Kukuthini Ukufa Ukuvumba
Iimeko ezithile zingakhokelela kwivumba kwaye zinokubonisa ukuba umntu lowo sele eza kufa. Oku kunokubandakanya 'ukungaqheleki okuthile kokutya emzimbeni, ... [kunye] necosis.' Kwezi meko, kunokubakho, '... uswiti, ngokungathandekiyo livumba lotywala emphefumlweni.' Abanye, oku kungabonisa ukuba bakufutshane ekubeni, '... abanesifo seswekile kwaye banokudlula nje kungekudala emva kokuba benganyangwa ngokufanelekileyo.' Ugqirha Jawn ukwathe, 'ukuthambisa umzimba kwisigulana esikufutshane nokuphuma gazi kungakhokelela kwivumba lenyama eyosiweyo.' Ekuvavanyeni inkqubo yokufa, amanye amavumba anokubandakanya:
- 'Uninzi lwabantu luneziqu xa kuthe kwasweleka, okanye emva kweyure emva kokufa.'
- 'Ngokwesiqhelo abantu baya kuchama ngexesha lokufa okanye kwiyure nje emva koko.'
- Emva kokusweleka, 'kungekapheli usuku, umzimba uyakuqala ukuba nesisu, ivumba elibolayo, kodwa oku kuyakuxhomekeka kwimeko abakuyo.'
- 'Ummandla uya kuba nefuthe kumgangatho wokubola komzimba, ochaphazela ivumba.' Umzekelo, kunokubakho, '... ivumba elibambezeleke kakhulu kwaye linokuphefumla kakubi xa usweleka kwindawo ebandayo.'
Zeziphi Iimpawu Zokuba Kusondele Ukufa?
Inkqubo ye-inkqubo yokufaziya kwahluka kumntu ngamnye, kodwa ngaphambi nje kokufa, abantu abaninzi baya kufumana utshintsho olufanayo. Ngokubanziimiqondiso yokuba ukufa kusondelezibandakanya:
- Iipateni zokuphefumla ziyatshintsha
- Ulusu luyabanda kwaye lunokubonakala ngathi luneemoto
- Umntu ngamnye unokuba nemibono
- Guqula ukwazi
- Utshintsho kwinkangeleko yamehlo
Ngaba Umntu Uyazi Xa Esifa?
Ukwazisa malunga nokufayinto exhaphakileyo ukuba abantu abaninzi babe namava ngaphambi kokuba basweleke. Ukwahluka kwimibono, ngexesha lokwazi ukufa malunga nokufa:
- Abantu banokufumana ukucaciswa kwesiphelo
- Banokuthetha ngokomfuziselo
- Abantu banokusebenzisana neendwendwe ongakwaziyo ukuzibona
Ukuba ukunye nomntu omthandayo oswelekayo
Ukubukela umntu omthandayo ehamba kwinkqubo yokusweleka kunokuziva kunzima kwaye kubuhlungu. Yazi ukuba unokufumana uluhlu lwezinye iimvakalelo ezinzima, kwaye akukho ndlela ilungileyo okanye iphosakeleyo yokuziva ngeli xesha. Ukuba uziva ukhathazekile ngokukodwa malunga nephunga elinokuhamba nenkqubo yokufa yomntu omthandayo, nxibelelana naye nabani na obaphathayo. Bakho ukuze baphendule imibuzo yakho okanye bakunike izibonelelo ngokubhekisele kwimibuzo yakho. Soloko ukhankanya nawaphi na amavumba amatsha kuye nabani na okhathalele umntu omthandayo, kuba oku kunokuba luncedo kwabo babanyangayo.
Ngaba Uyanuka Xa Umntu Esifa?
Kuphela phantsi kweemeko ezithile apho inkqubo yokusweleka ingakhokelela kwivumba. Ukuba ukunye nomntu omthandayo kwinkqubo yokudlula kwaye ukhathazekile malunga nephunga elinokubakho okanye uve into ebonakala ngathi ayikho kuwe, qiniseka ukuba ugqirha wabo onyangayo uyazi.
