Umona yimvakalelo eqhelekileyo yomntu, kodwa ukujongana namalungu osapho anomona kunokubangela iingxaki ezinkulu kubudlelwane. Kubalulekile ukuqonda umona wosapho, kubandakanya imiqondiso kunye nezizathu zekhwele, ukuze ukwazi ukujongana nayo ngempumelelo. Gcina ukhumbula ukuba wonke umntu wahlukile, ke indlela oqhubana ngayo nelungu elinye losapho elinomona isenokungasebenzi kwilungu losapho elahlukileyo elinomona.
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Yazi Iimpawu Zekhwele Kumalungu Osapho
Umona unokubonisa njengeendlela ezahlukeneyo zokuziphatha ezivela kubantu abohlukeneyo. Usenokungaqondi kwasekuqaleni ukuba ilungu losapho lenziwa ngumona. Ukuba uyazi ezinye zeempawu eziqhelekileyo zomona kwilungu losapho, ungazama ukulungisa umba kwangoko nje xa ubona ukuba ungakhuli. Ngokuqhelekileyo imiqondiso yomona zibandakanya oku kulandelayo:
- Abavuyisi xa wonke umntu esenza.
- Ilungu losapho lixhuma ithuba lokukhomba iimpazamo kunye neempazamo zakho.
- Lo mntu uqhubeka nokuphakamisa ulindelo lwakho kuwe.
- Bakugxeka rhoqo.
- Ilungu losapho lihlala lithetha ngendlela obulula ngayo ubomi bakho.
- Lo mntu ukopa yonke into oyenzayo.
- Babonakala bonwabile xa into ingahambi ngendlela yakho.
- Iingcebiso zakho ezinikezelwa ngeenjongo ezintle ziyabacaphukisa.
- Indlela yokujongana namalungu osapho angakuhoyiyo
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Qonda ukuba kutheni ilungu loSapho linomona
Awusoze ukwazi ukuqonda unobangela wobukhwele, kodwa ukuba icacile okanye icacile, inokukunceda ujongane nale meko ngokufanelekileyo. Eyona ndlela yokwazi ukuba kutheni ilungu losapho linomona ngawe kukuba nencoko evulekileyo nabo ngalo.
Izizathu eziqhelekileyo zokuba nomona kusapho
Ukuba ilungu losapho lwakho alinakho ukuba nolu hlobo lwencoko ethembekileyo nawe, unokukwazi ukuzibonela ngokwakho ukuba yeyiphi eyona nto ibangela umona yingcambu.
- Umona uvela kwiimvakalelo zobuqu zokungabaluleki, ukungafaneleki, okanye ukujongela phantsi xa ilungu losapho lizithelekisa nawe.
- Ukuba nomona ngawe kunokubangelwa yimicimbi engasonjululwanga elungu losapho elinalo nomnye umntu.
- Ikhwele lomntu linokubangelwa ziingxaki zabo.
- Ukuthelekisa rhoqo kunye nokuthelekisa ngamanye amalungu osapho, njengabazali, banako kukhokelela kumona wakowenu .
Izicwangciso ngokubanzi zokuSebenza naMalungu oSapho anekhwele
Malunga Isiqingatha sabo bonke abantu sifumana umona wosapho , ke yazi ukuba awuwedwa. Ezona ntlobo zixhaphakileyo zelungu losapho ngumona wobuzali kunye nomona womzali nomntwana. Ukuqhubana nelungu losapho elinomona kunokuba nzima. Ukwenza njalo kufuna ukuba ubonakalise ngokwakho ukuba kutheni indlela yokuziphatha kwabo ibangela kuwe kwaye ufikelele kubo kuphela xa uziva ukulungele ukunxibelelana ngendlela enovelwano nengazikhuselayo.
Nxibelelana Xa Uzolile
Ngokukhawuleza emva komsindo okanye uluvo aliloxesha elifanelekileyo lokujongana nomcimbi. Fumana ixesha apho wena kunye nosapho lwakho nizolile kwaye nizame ukuqala incoko ngalo mbandela. Sebenzisa 'Mna' ukuthetha izinto ezinje, 'Ndivakalelwa ngathi xa ndisabelana ngeendaba ezimnandi, ngamanye amaxesha kuvakala ngokungathi uyalahla. Ndifuna sobabini sikwazi ukubhiyozela impumelelo yethu. '
Yamkele Indlela Abavakalelwa Ngayo
Abantu abanomona ngamalungu osapho bahlala beziva bengakhuselekanga. Thatha ixesha lokwazisa iimvakalelo zabo kwaye uyazi ukuba umona owubonayo awunakuba nayo nantoni na enokwenzakanye nawe, nangona 'izinto' zabo ezingazi nto zifuduselwa kuwe.
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Umona unokuba yingxaki kuwo onke amaqela achaphazelekayo. Yamkeleni le ngxaki phakathi kwenu nobabini endaweni yokubeka ityala kwilungu losapho elinomona. Ukuba ubasola ngokuthi banengxaki okanye bafuna ukuwugqitha umba wabo, baya kuzikhusela.
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Ulibale ukulungisa
Wonke umntu uziva umona ebomini; kunye nekhwele elincinci lilungile. Ukuba ufuna ukulungisa ilungu losapho elinomona, qiniseka ukuba awuzami ukuzilungisa. Awudingi ukubenza bazive ngathi iimvakalelo zabo ziyajongwa, kodwa ufuna ukusebenza kunye ukusombulula imiba kubudlelwane bakho.
Vavanya indlela oZiphatha ngayo
Awunakho ukulawula iingcinga kunye nezenzo zabanye, kodwa ungasebenzela ukuziqonda ezakho. Ngelixa umona kusenokwenzeka ukuba ayilotyala lakho, ezinye zeendlela oziphethe ngazo zinokuwuphembelela. Qaphela ukuba yintoni edala ukubangela ukuba eli lungu liziphathe kakubi kwaye uzame ukufumana iindlela zokunciphisa indlela abasabela ngayo kuwe. Umzekelo, ukuba bathambekele ekuphenduleni ngomona xa ukhankanya amawonga omsebenzi, zama ukungaphindi ubazise. Yazi ukuba kukho abanye abantu abaya kuyixhasa impumelelo yakho ngaphandle kwemiqathango, kwaye abanye abangakwaziyo ukwenza njalo ngenxa yezizathu zabo zobuqu kunye nezinto ezibangela.
Nciphisa ukusebenzisana ukuba kuyafuneka
Ukuba ukhe wazama ukujongana nelungu losapho lwakho ngendlela engahambelaniyo ngaphambili ngaphandle kwempumelelo, olona khetho lwakho kukunciphisa umda kunxibelelwano naloo mntu. Ikhwele labo linokubangela iimvakalelo ezithile ezingathandekiyo kuwe, kwaye kubalulekile ukuzikhathalela. Gcina iincoko zimfutshane kwaye zibanzi xa kunokwenzeka.
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Ukuhambisa umona kusapho
Ukusuka kubantakwenu abanomona ukuya kubazali abanomona, kunokwenzeka ukuba ufumane uhlobo oluthile lomona wosapho ebomini bakho. Unokusebenzisa izicwangciso zeukujongana namalungu osapho anzimaukukunceda ujongane namalungu osapho anomona. Gcina ingqalelo kwiukubaluleka konxibelelwano losaphonjengoko usebenza ukuthoba amanqanaba omona.
