Xa abantu basentshona bejonga ubudlelwane bothando eVietnam, banokumangaliswa ngumahluko phakathi kweenkcubeko. Nokuba ngamasiko elali yasemaphandleni okanye kukudlala ngothando ngobuchwephesha kwidolophu enkulu, indlela abantu baseVietnam abathanda ngayo ubudlelwane bobuhlobo kunye nokukhula inomdla kakhulu.
Ubudlelwane boMdabu baseVietnam
Ukuthandana okuninzi kwenzeka xa amadoda nabafazi baseVietnam bengabantwana kuphela, ngokuthetha-thethana phakathi kwabazali. Oku akusoloko kuyinto esesikweni- ezinye ii-betrothal zinokwenzeka phantse ngexesha apho abazali bahlala nje kunye.
Amanqaku afanelekileyo- Iifoto ezili-10 zeZibini eziMnandi zaseLuthando
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- Iindlela ezili-10 zokuYila zokuba Ndiyakuthanda
Ewe kunjalo, njengakuyo nayiphi na inkcubeko, abazali bayabathanda abantwana babo kwaye bafuna okona kulungileyo kubo. Nangona kunjalo, into ethathwa 'njengeyona ilungileyo' zizinto ezinje ngobume bosapho lwabo banokuba liqabane, ubutyebi, ukusondela kubazali babo kunye nempilo. Aba bantwana baganelweyo, ngaphandle kokuba basuka kwilali baye emsebenzini okanye ezinye izizathu, phantse bahlala betshata nomntu okhethwe ngabazali babo. Nangona kunjalo, uluvo 'lothando' njengoko abantu basentshona bacinga ngalo aluqulathwanga kulungiselelo.
Ayikuko ukuba abafuni ukuba abantwana babo bathande amaqabane abo, bathatha nje ukuba inxalenye yokuthobela komntwana nembeko kubazali bakhe iya kubandakanya ukonwaba ngomtshato ohleliweyo. 'Uyamthanda kuba ndicinga ukuba ngumdlalo omfaneleyo, utshilo umama waseVietnam wentombi yakhe kudliwanondlebe no-Iana Iebozec.
indlela yokucoca umhlwa kwisinyithi
Yintoni enokumangalisa kakhulu i-romantics yaseNtshona yeyona nto ayisiyiyo unina wentombazana encinci yaseVietnam kwilali ethile yasemaphandleni. Lo mama wenza udliwanondlebe ngenqaku ngothando nomtshato phakathi kwabantu baseVietnam abahlala eUnited States, kwaye umtshato wayewulungiselela intombi yakhe eyinkosikazi enobungcali enomsebenzi. Xa kufikwa kuthando, uninzi lwabantu baseVietnam bakhetha iindlela zesiko zonxibelelwano eziye zahlala amakhulu, ukuba ayingomawaka eminyaka.
Ewe baninzi abantu baseVietnam abahlala kwihlabathi liphela abaye basebenzisa ezinye iindlela zokuthandana ngokufana neNtshona. Kodwa kwizixeko ezikhulu zaseVietnam, apho iteknoloji enje ngeeselfowuni kunye nokuthumelelana imiyalezo kuye kwaqheleka, iindlela ezintsha zokuthandana.
Umbhalo weMathuphup eVietnam
Kwi inqaku le-CNET ngu-Dong Ngo, uxela ngokudityaniswa kwesiko kunye netekhnoloji eqhubeka kunye nabantu baseVietnam abancinci basezidolophini.
Sisabambelele kwimilinganiselo ethile yesiko, izibini ezinqabileyo azichithi ixesha lokuthandana njengoko abantu baseNtshona becinga ngako. Ayifanelekanga into yokuba amadoda nabafazi bachithe ixesha bengenazo iipateni, kwaye indlela eqhelekileyo yaseNtshona yokuhlala kunye phantse ingaziwa ngaphambili komtshato.
Itekhnoloji yeselfowuni ibonelele izibini ngeendlela abanokuthetha ngazo ngokulula, ngokukhawuleza, nangokubonisa okumangalisayo. Imiyalezo ebhaliweyo inexabiso eliphantsi kwaye isimahla kwimiyalezo engenayo. Ngo uxela ngeevenkile apho abaqeqeshi abancinci bahlala khona kwikofu kwisandi esiqhubekayo sebhiphu emva kokuba imiyalezo ethunyelweyo ifunyenwe kwaye ifunyenwe.
Ubugcisa beemvakalelo
Inxalenye enomdla kakhulu yeli siko yindlela yokuba ii-emoticons (ubuso obuncumileyo kunye nezinto ezinjalo ezenziwa kusetyenziswa iziphumlisi ezinje nge :-) nangaphezulu) ziye zanyuswa zaya kubugcisa obuhle ngokuthandana neVietnam. Kudala sidlula iinzame ezilula kunye noncumo, basebenzisa iisimboli ezinje nge; ('thetha kwisandla' okanye ngamanye amaxesha uphakamise ukuvalelisa) kwaye: -t isetyenziselwa ukubonisa 'ndiza kukukhanda entloko!'
Ezinye ii-emoticons ziyefana ngohlobo lwezo zisetyenziswa eNtshona, ezinje nge ^:) ^ ze 'Andikufanelanga', kodwa zinentsingiselo eyahlukileyo (leyo ngokukodwa, ngokweNgo, ithetha 'po-tay', slang kuba 'kakhulu, ndincamile!' ngekhe ulifumane elo binzana, okanye amanye amagama amaninzi asetyenzisiweyo kwisicatshulwa, nakwesiphi na isichazi-magama saseVietnam. Kukukhula kolwimi okwenzeka ngokwendalo njengoko abantu abatsha bejonga uthando lwabo lokwenene.
Inye into yokuba ubudlelwane baseVietnam bufana ngokufanayo nentshona kukuba nabo, kunzima ukufumana umntu okhethekileyo. Ngokukodwa kuncinane kakhulu 'ukuthandana' okuqhubekayo, abantu abaninzi besixeko balinde ixesha elide ukuba batshate. Njengalo naluphi na ulwalamano, nangona kunjalo, ukufumana umdlalo wakho kuyonwabisa kwaye kufanelekile ukulinda.
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