Ngaba usazisa njani isibini kwisamkelo somtshato?

Ukwaziswa komtshato kwabasandul 'ukutshata, umtshato wabo, kunye namalungu osapho abalulekileyo sisiko elisaqwalaselwa kwimitshato emininzi kwaye iyasebenza. Yindlela esesikweni yokwazisa umtshakazi nomyeni njengesibini esitshatileyo kunye nento abaza kubizwa ngayo ukusukela ngoku.

Imizekelo yeeNtshayelelo ezisanda kutshata

Nokuba yeyesiko, yeyala maxesha, okanye iyilo loyilo, eyona intshayelelo ilungileyo yeyona ilungiselela isibini. Buza kwaye uqinisekise ukuba bafuna ukusonjululwa njani xa usaziswa, emva koko, landela. Ukuba ngaba sisibini esikhangela isingeniso esifanelekileyo, yazi ukuba unokucela into ethile. Amagama okugqibela anokuthathwa, adityaniswe, adityaniswe, okanye agcinwe, kwaye abantu basebenza nzima ukufumana izihloko kunye needigri zabo. Yenza konke okusemandleni akho ukufumana zonke iinkcukacha ngokuchanekileyo: ukusuka kumagama okugqibela ukuya kubizo olufanelekileyo ukuya kwizihloko kwifomathi afuna ukwaziswa ngayo. Iya kuthetha lukhulu kwesi sibini.

ungalifumana njani igazi elomileyo ezingubeni emva kokuhlamba

Amanqaku afanelekileyo

Imisebenzi yokwamkelwa koMtshato
Iinkqubo zomtshato
Imifanekiso yeGumbi leSidlo seRisithi

IiNgeniso zeMveli zoMtshakazi noMyeni

Ukuphelelwa lixesha kunye nokusebenza, intshayelelo yemveli isetyenziswa ngokubanzi kulonwabo lomtshakazi kunye nokuzilungiselela. Bacinga ukuba umtshakazi utshintsha igama lakhe kwaye amagama abo abhalwe ngendlela elungileyo yakudala. Yisiko!

Ndicela usijonge njengoko sisamkela uMnu noNksk. Alexander Anders omtsha! Nceda undijoyine ekuvuyiseni isibini esonwabileyo!
Kulilungelo lam elikhulu kunye nelungelo lokonwaba ukwazisa kuwe Mnu noNkskz. Ben noBella Bowers! Masibamkele ngentswahla yokuqhwaba izandla!
Masisamkele okokuqala njengendoda nomfazi, uCharles noCarmen Carlysle! Ndicela nibaqhwabele izandla!

Ukungeniswa kwesini esingathath'icala

Ngexesha lokulingana komtshato kunye nemitshato elinganayo, zonke iintlobo zezibini zithanda intshayelelo ezibeka omabini amaqabane ekumeni ngokulinganayo. Ezi zingeniso azithathi cala kwaye zihlonipha ukhetho lomntu ngamnye ngokubhekisele kumagama okugqibela kunye nendima yesini.

Kuluvuyo olukhulu ukuba ngoku ndinazise ngesibini esisandul 'ukutshata uMnu. David Darcy kunye noNks. Dana Davalos! Masibanike intswahla yokuma ngxi!
Kuliwonga lokwenene kum ukwazisa nina abasandul 'ukutshata uEmilia noElise Estevez-Earl! Masibamkele ngobubele!
Manene namanenekazi, masiphakamise iiglasi zethu kwaye samkele isibini esitsha esimanyeneyo uFinn noFabrizio!

I-Intros yesiNtu kwizibini ze-LGTBQ

Ukuba umanyano kunye nomtshato zazifana, umlo olwaumtshato olinganayongekhe ibekhona. Emva kwawo wonke loo mzabalazo kutheni uneentloni ekuzisweni njengomfazi nomfazi okanye indoda kunye nendoda? Abantu abatshatileyo kulo lonke ilizwe bonwabele intshayelelo yemveli besazi kakuhle ukuba lilungelo elisebenzayo.

Manene namanenekazi nceda nimele amadoda amatsha asandul 'ukutshata, Mnu. Mnu.James noJeremy Jacobson!
Masinike ihlombe elishushu kuGrace noGabrielle Gibson-Grey kwimbonakalo yabo yokuqala njengabafazi abasandul 'ukutshata!
Ngoku, okwesihlandlo sokuqala njengesibini esitshatileyo, masikunike uTaylor noTristan !!

Iintshayelelo zoyilo

Isingeniso sobuchule sibonisa ngokwenene esi sibini. Yonwaba ngokwenza into ekhethekileyo ehambelana nezinto abanomdla kuzo kunye nezinto abazithandayo.

Ngeenkwenkwezi emehlweni abo, babedanisa ezintliziyweni zomnye nomnye. Masibadumise ngehlombe njengoko uMnu noNksk. USamuel noSusan Smith benza ukubonakala kwabo okokuqala njengendoda nomfazi!
Ushukela, uyityuwa; Uyathandeka, uyathandeka ... ukuqala umtshato wabo nge-flavour eninzi, masinike uMnu noNksk Pepin kunye noPaula Puck incasa yothando lwethu!
Bahamba ngobuhle, kwaye bayaphathana ezintliziyweni zabo, njengoko beqala ukubhala eyabo indumasi yomtshato! Masamkele uOrlando no-Owen Olson!
Ukuqala kohambo lobomi bonke, masiyiyeke ngenxa yokubaleka abatshakazi behlabathi, UNksk. Naomi Newton kunye noNksk Noelle Nichols!
Amahashe asendle akakwazanga ukwahlula! Masinikezele ngokuma phezulu kwesi sibini sithandanayo, uMadison osandul 'ukutshata noMarley Mendez!
Umhlaba jikelele awuzange ujongeke kakuhle! Masinike ihlombe ngeelwimi ezininzi kwisibini sethu samazwe aphesheya u-Lee Min Soo kunye no-Lazar Levi !!
Bakhangela iimvakalelo zabo. Uyamthanda, uyazi. Isangqa sigqityiwe ngoku. Nceda uphakamise ii-sabers zakho ezilula zikaJana noJesse Jones !! Ngamana umkhosi ungaba nabo, njengokuba kunjalo ihlombe lethu!
Iiroses zibomvu, ii-violets ziluhlaza okwesibhakabhaka, masibethe izandla kubantu abasandul 'ukutshata, uHarriet noHugh!
Ngokujikeleza siqhwaba izandla, masibe ngamanyathelo amabini kunye ne-boogie yedisco yethu ethanda i-disco kunye nomyeni wakhe we-rootin 'tootin' -Emma noErik Eason!
Ngothando oluqhubekayo nangaphezulu, ngaphaya kwepi, ezi zimbini zidibanisa njenge-sine ephindwe kabini kunye ne-cosine ephindwe kabini ... nceda ume ngokungafaniyo kunye no-Arisa no-Amanda Allen kuphela!

Ukuhambisa iNtshayelelo yokwamkelwa koMtshato

Izaziso zokwamkela umtshato zihlala zinikezelwa ngu-DJ womtshato okanye i-emcee. Esi senzo sivula imisebenzi yolwamkelo lomtshato kwaye sisebenza ukubonelela ngokwazisa ngokusesikweni kwesi sibini, ipati yomtshato, kunye nabazali baboiindwendwe zomtshato.

Landela uMyalelo oSisiseko

Isingeniso somtshato silandela ifomathi esemgangathweni:

Abazali bomtshakazi: Abazali banokuhamba kunye njengamaqabane ukuba basatshatile, ngokukodwa ukuba ngaba ngabahlolokazi okanye baqhawule umtshato, okanye kunye nabakhethiweyo ababathandayo.
Abazali bomyeni : Yazisa bonke abazali ngamagama kunye nendima, okt: UMnu Newton Neville, utata womyeni, noNkskz Nina Neville, umama womyeni.
Iqela lomtshato: Yaziswa emva kwabazali, babize ngegama nangendima (sebenzisa amagama apheleleyo kwimisitho esesikweni). Ukuba isibini siyakucela, faka isishwankathelo 'ukuba bahlobene njani / banexesha elingakanani belazi ibali lomtshakazi / umyeni / umyeni kwintshayelelo yomtshato.
Abantu abasandul 'ukutshata: Eyona intshayelelo ilindelweyo kwaye ibaluleke kakhulu. Le ntshayelelo yeyokugqibela kwaye yeyona inomdla kuzo zonke. Yenza ukubala!

Ngokwesiqhelo, onke amalungu aziswa ukuba alinde ngaphandle kolwamkelo ade anikwe yi-emcee. Njengoko zazisiwe, iIqela lomtshato lingena kulwamkelobathathe izihlalo zabo. Nje ukuba abazali kunye nepati yomtshato batshatile, lixesha lokuba esi sibini sisandul 'ukutshata singene kulwamkelo. I-emcee ke ithi ijonge ekufikeni kwesi sibini, yazise amagama abo, kwaye imeme iindwendwe ukuba zize kuqhwabela izandla.

Yongeza iTwist yokuNwaba

Amanani okudanisa kunye nalo lonke uhlobo lokwahluka okumnandi ngoku athatha indawo 'yokuhamba ngokuya kwindawo yakho' yokwazisa. Nangona kunjalo, iziseko zihlala: abo bathatha indawo yabo bayayenza (ihlala ingabazali) kwaye abo benza into emnandi bathathe indawo yabo kwimbonakalo yesigqi somculo ogqibeleleyo.

Abazali kunye neQela loMtshato banokukhetha

Ayizizo zonke iintshayelelo ezibandakanya abazali, kwaye ezinye azibandakanyi nepati yomtshato! Oku kuninzi okunokuthanani namasiko asekuhlaleni, ukusetyenziswa, kunye nokumila kunye nohlobo lomtshato kuthethwa ngawo kwaye kuncinci ukwenza ngendlela 'elungileyo' yokwenza oku. Eli siko linokutshintshwa ukuze lilungele ukhetho lwesibini.

Abantu abaninzi banokongezwa

Oomakhulu nootatomkhulu, usher, intombazana yeentyatyambo, abantwana, kwaye nabaphi na abasondeleyo nabathandekayo entliziyweni yesi sibini banokongezwa. Banokuma emgceni benze umnyango wokungena okanye ungabakhwaza nje kwiitafile zabo. Olu khetho lokugqibela luluncedo ngakumbi xa ootatomkhulu, okanye abazali, bekwicala labantu abadala.

Ekuphela Kwabantu Abasandul 'Ukutshata

Ukuba akukho msitho womtshato, awunyanzelekanga ukuba ubhengeze. Nokuba ikho, ukuba ulungiselelo okanye ukuthanda ukuyalela ngenye indlela, izibini zinokukhetha ukusishiya isingeniso. Ukuba akukho bazali baya khona, okanye ukuba akuqhelekanga ukubazisa kwisangqa sakho sentlalo, akukho sidingo sako oko. Ewe, ukuba uhlala kwindawo apho abazali bengaqhelekanga ukwaziswa, kodwa isibini sifuna ukuyenza, yiya phambili. Kwelinye icala, nokuba uhlala kwindawo edla ngokwaziswa ngabazali, isibini sinokukhetha ukungakwenzi oko.

Iingcebiso nge-Etiquette

Xa kuziwa ekwaziseni isibini, kuya kufuneka ugcine imbeko engqondweni ukuze uphephe i-faux pas.

Izihloko zeZibini

Xa usazisa isibini esitsha kwitheko lomtshato, kunyanzelekile ukuba i-DJ okanye i-emcee baziqonde izihloko zabo kunye nendlela abanqwenela ukwaziswa ngayo. Ukuba elinye iqabane okanye elinye linesihloko esisesikweni, esifana nesidanga sobugqirha, isikhundla somkhosi, isikhundla sejaji okanye isikhundla sobuphathiswa, kubalulekile ukusisebenzisa kwintshayelelo. Ukongeza i umntu ophakame kakhulu wandulela omnye . Imizekelo ibandakanya:

Ugqirha Sylvia Stewart kunye no Mnu. Samuel Smith / Ugqirha Sylvia Smith kunye no Mnu. Samuel Smith (ukuba utshintsha igama lakhe lokugqibela)
UMfundisi uWalter Wallace kunye noNkskz Wilma Wallace
ICongresswoman Virginia Vix kunye noGqirha Victor Volks
ULieutenant Colonel noNksk Thomas Thompson

Amagama okugqibela

Abasetyhini abaninzi bakhetha ukugcina igama labo lokugqibela okanye bacinge amagama abo okugqibela endaweni yokuthatha igama labayeni babo. Yazisa inkosikazi usebenzisa igama lakhe lokugqibela, njengoNks.Lila Lawson-Lewis kunye noMnu Leighton Lewis. Ngokwesiko, indoda yaziswa kuqala; Nangona kunjalo, kwezi meko abantu abaninzi bakhetha 'ukwamkela' igama lomfazi ngokubeka igama lomyeni kwindawo yesibini ukuzama ukubonakalisa isingeniso sendabuko esingaba nguMnu noNksk. Leighton kunye Lilac U-Lewis (jonga indlela uLila 'amkelwe ngayo' ngegama lakhe kunye nefani). Iinguqulelo zazo zombini ezi zinto ziya kuba zezi:

'Nceda ubonise uthando lwakho kubantu abasandul' ukutshata. U-Lila Lawson-Lewis kunye noMnu Leighton Lewis! '
'Masibamkele ngobubele ooMnu.Leighton Lewis kunye noNks uLila Lawson-Lewis njengokuba bezimanya nathi ekubhiyozeleni umtshato wabo!'

Ukongeza, unokuhlangabezana neemeko apho izibini zigqibe kwelokuba zidibanise amagama abo okugqibela, nokuba kungokudala elinye elinamagama abo bobabini okanye i-hyphenating. Umzekelo: Jo noJamie Johnson-Jones okanye uAndrea noAmelia Arleigh (Aristos / Leigh). Kule meko, kuyacetyiswa ukuba kusetyenzwe ngokulandelelana koonobumba bamagama wokuqala kunye negama lokugqibela elidibeneyo, kodwa ke, isibini esihlala sinelizwi lokugqibela. Ngamanye amaxesha, kuvakala ngcono nje ngenye indlela!

Imiba eNzima yabazali

Ukuba imeko yomzali wesibini ingaphandle kwesiko, kunokubakho iimeko ezimbalwa zokujongana nazo. Abazali banokuba ngabahlolokazi, baqhawule umtshato, baphinde batshate, okanye benze amadinga. Kunokubakho abazali abakhulisa ngokwabo kunye nabazali bemvelo, bonke beqhawule umtshato baphinda batshata! Ke uhamba njani ubazisa kwitheko lomtshato? Impendulo emfutshane ithe tye kwaye inobuchule.

Ukuba umzali akatshatanga / uqhawule umtshato / ungumhlolokazi kwaye ungena ngaphandle kweliso, mazise ngegama nendima yakhe. Umzekelo: UNksk Sally Simpson, umama womtshakazi.
Ukuba umzali uqhawule umtshato kwaye ukhatshwa ngomnye obalulekileyo, mazise ngegama kunye nendima yakhe, kunye nakwinkampani ye, kunye negama (indima ayinakukhetha). Umzekelo: Mnu Robert Rios, utata womtshakazi, kwinkosikazi yakhe / iqabane / intombi yakhe, Nksz Rhia Reyes.
Ukuba umzali uphinde watshata, kwaye umzali wesibini uncedisa ekukhuliseni umntu otshatayo, banokuchazwa njengo: Mnu. Ollie Oster, utata womyeni, kunye noNksk. Odette Oster, umama wesibini womyeni.

Abazali abangatshatanga, abaqhawule umtshato, nabahlolokazi banokuhanjiswa ngamanye amalungu omtshato okanye usapho olusondeleyo kunye nabahlobo. Abazali abaqhawule umtshato basenokungabikho kwimvumelwano yobuhlobo. Umzali wesibini usenokungamkelwa ngalo lonke ixesha. Musa ukucinga kwaye ungazinyanzeli iimeko. Kodwa kwakhona, sukuyicingela. Gcina intshayelelo ilula, ukuya kwinqanaba, kwaye uhlala ujonga kabini isibini. Soloko uthathela ingqalelo iimvakalelo zomntu wonke kwaye xa uthandabuza, buza kwakhona.

Abazali abaswelekileyo

Abazali abangasekhoyo abaziswa. Okona kulungiselela koku kukungeniswa kwabantu abaya emtshatweni kuyinyanzela ngale ndlela. Nangona kunjalo, ukukhankanywa kwesikhumbuzo kunokwenziwa ngaxa lithileNgexesha lolwamkelo. Okona kufanelekileyo kukubandakanya inqaku kwinkqubo yomtshato kwimemori yomzali ongasekhoyo, mhlawumbi into ekhethekileyo njengenxalenye yomsitho, mhlawumbi kwanendawo ebekekileyo kulwamkelo, amagama ambalwa ngexesha lobabalo, kwaye ude unikele nge-toast inkumbulo yakhe. Zininzi iindlela zokubonisa imbeko kwabo baphumelele emtshatweni, kodwa ukwaziswa kwesi sibini kulwamkelo ayisiyondawo ifanelekileyo.

Yigcine imfutshane kwaye ibe mnandi

Xa usazisa isibini kwitheko labo lomtshato, nokuba siza ngokwabo okanye neqela elithile, qaphela ukuba oku sisiqalo nje somsitho. Sele benomnyhadala weemvakalelo, mhlawumbi iziselo ezimbalwa ngexesha le-cocktail, kwaye ngoku balungiselela ukonwabela isidlo sangokuhlwa kunye nepati ngobusuku kude (kunye neminye imisebenzi phakathi). Ukuba abantu baya emtshatweni, sele beqhelile ukuba ngubani, ubuncinci kwiimemo nakwinkqubo. Ke gcina iintshayelelo zimnandi, zinobuchule, kwaye ukuya kwinqanaba, ngaphandle kokuba isibini sikuyalele ngenye indlela. Unoko engqondweni, wonwabe kwaye unandiphe ilungelo!