Ukuncoma kunokuziva kumangalisa ukufumana, ngakumbi ngomhla. Kuxhomekeka kwiimeko zakho ezithile kunye nendlela oziva ngayo ngalo mzuzu, zininzi iindlela onokukhetha kuzo xa kufikwa ekuphenduleni kwizincomo.
Indlela yokuphendula xa uncome
Kuxhomekeka kubuntu bomntu kunye namava abadlulileyo, wonke umntu uya kuba nokutolika okukhethekileyo kunye nokuphendula kwakhe ekufumaneni ukuncoma.
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Ukuba uKuncoma kuDlala
Ukuba ukhonangomhlanomntu, ukuze bakunike uncoma flirty njengendlela yokubonisa ukubabanomdla kuwekwaye uzivenditsalelekile kuwe. Ukuyaphendula kwisincomo flirtyunokuthi:
- 'Enkosi kakhulu- ndikhethe le mpahla ukulungiselela wena kuphela.'
- 'Ndicinga ukuba nawe unomtsalane ngokwenene.'
- 'Enkosi kakhulu- ndiyayithanda indlela (faka olunye uphawu lomntu) nawe.'
Ukuba Unentloni
Ukuba uneentloni okanye uziva ungonwabanga ukufumana izincomo, unokugcina impendulo yakho imfutshane. Ukuphendula, unokuthi:
- 'Enkosi- intle loo nto uyithethayo.'
- 'Ndiyayibulela into oyithethileyo.'
- 'Kumnandi ukuva.'
- 'Imnandi kakhulu.'
Ukuba Ulumkile okanye uyiSarcastic
Ukuba ufumana ukuncoma kwaye ufuna ukuphendula ngendlela ehlekisayo okanye ehlekisayo, ungathi:
- Andiqondi ukuba ndikuvile, ingqondo iphindaphinde lonto? '
- 'Ndicinga ukuba ndiyathandana nawe.'
- 'Andizukuphikisana nalonto.'
- 'Wow, qhubeka uyeza'.
- 'Yintoni enye oyithandayo ngam?'
- 'Kuhle.'
Ungasiphendula njani isicatshulwa esincomekayo
Ukuba ufumana isicatshulwa esincomekayo, ungaphendula ngo:
- 'Enkosi- uyenzile imini yam.'
- 'Ndiyabulela - ukuba ungandibona, ndizele kukuhlambalaza!'
- 'Ndiyayixabisa kakhulu into oyithethileyo- yayimnandi kuwe!'
- 'Enkosi kakhulu - ndiyayithanda kakhulu (faka uphawu lomntu).
Ulufumana Njani Ubabalo Lokuncoma?
Ukwamkela ukuncoma kumhla wakho okanye iqabane lakho unokuziva kunzima kwabanye abantu ngezizathu ezahlukeneyo. Ukuba awuqinisekanga ukuba uza kuthini, ungaqwalasela:
- 'Enkosi kakhulu, ndiyakuvuyela ukuyiva kuwe.'
- 'Oko kuthetha ukuba kuninzi okuza kuvela kuwe.'
- 'Uluvo lwakho lubalulekile kum, ke kulungile ukukuva.'
Uphendula njani kwiNcoma iMidiya yokuncokola?
Kwimithombo yeendaba zentlalo, ungashiya impendulo emfutshane kwaye ubandakanye i-emoji nayo. Ungaqwalasela ukuthi:
- 'Enkosi!' (faka intliziyo emoji)
- 'Awu, uyena umnandi!'
- 'Jonga ngubani lo uthetha!'
- 'Awumbi wena!'
Ungaphendula njani kuNcome kwiTinder
Ukuba usebenzisaIsilinganisiokanye enye inkqubo yokuthandana kwaye umntu ekuncoma kwaye ufuna ukuphendula, ungathi:
- 'Aww, enkosi kakhulu.'
- 'Buyela kanye.'
- 'Uswiti kakhulu!'
- 'Kulungile ke xa usitsho!'
Enkosi ngempendulo yokuNcomela
Ukuba ufuna ukuphendula ngendlela elula kwaye ubulele umhla wakho okanye iqabane lakho ngokuncoma, ungathi:
- 'Enkosi kakhulu - ndiyayixabisa kakhulu into oyithethileyo.'
- Enkosi- bekumnandi ukuyithetha. '
- 'Wow, enkosi kakhulu.'
- 'Enkosi - oko kuthetha lukhulu.'
Ukuba Ufuna Ukuncoma Umhla Wakho Wokubuyela
Ukuba wena nomhla wakho niyayibetha kwaye ufuna ukunika isincomo sokwenyani, unokuthi:
- 'Enkosi kakhulu, ndiyithanda kakhulu indlela othembeke ngayo (okanye olunye uphawu lomntu).'
- Kuhlaziya ngokwenene ukudibana nomntu onoburharha-ndiyayithanda indlela ohlekisa ngayo. '
- 'Kunqabile ukudibana nomntu onentliziyo entle-ndiyabulela ukuba lapha nawe.'
- 'Sobabini ngokucacileyo sikumoya wokuncoma kuba ndicinga ukuba nawe umhle kakhulu.'
Ukuba ukuncoma kukwenza uzive ungakhuselekanga
Ukuba umntu onaye uthetha into ekwenza uzive ungonwabanga ngokwasemphefumlweni kwaye / okanye ngokwasemzimbeni (nokuba bathi ibiyinto yokuncoma), yazi ukuba awudingi nokuba uphendule kwaye ungaphuma kwimeko ukhuseleke kangangoko unako. Ukuba kukho ithuba lokuphoswa kakubi kwaye ungaziva usongelwa ngokwasemzimbeni, ungathi:
- 'Ndincede ndiqonde ukuba uthetha ukuthini ngale nto.'
- 'Loo magqabantshintshi andenze ndaziva ndingonwabanga. Ngaba yile nto ubufuna ukuyithetha? '
- 'Andikunyamezeli ukuba kuthethwe kanjalo kwaye ndiza kuhamba-ungaphinde uqhagamshelane nam.'
Yazi ukuba 'ukuncoma' okunenjongo yokoyikisa, ukoyikisa, okanye ukugrogrisa akuyonyaniso, nokuba isithethi sithi ibiyiyo. Yiya namathumbu akho, kwaye ukuba uziva ungakhuselekanga, fumana indlela ekhuselekileyo yokuzithethelela kwaye uhambe.
Uthini Xa Umntu Ekuncoma?
Xa uphendula kwisincomo, cinga ngendlela oziva ngayo ukuba uyifumene. Ukuba uziva ukhuselekile ngokwasemoyeni nangokwasemzimbeni, unga:
- Nika impendulo ekrelekrele
- Ndiyabulela umhla wakho okanye iqabane lakho ngokuncoma
- Nika isincomo ngembuyekezo
Ungaphendula njani kuNcome
Xa ufumana ukunconywa ngelixa usemhla, hamba kunye namathumbu akho ngokubhekisele kwimpendulo yakho. Yazi ukuba awunyanzelekanga ukuba unike ukuncoma kwakhona okanye uphendule ukuba ukuncoma akulunganga kwaye kusongela impilo yakho yomzimba kunye / okanye yeemvakalelo. Ukuba uziva ukhululekile ukuba unconyiwe udluliselwe njani, ungawuthatha njengethuba lokuphendula ngesisa kwaye mhlawumbi unike nomhla wakho ukuncoma okwenyani ngembuyekezo.
