Ukuba Nesakhono Sokuvuma Indumiso

Amagama Aphezulu Ebantwaneni

Ukufumana ukunconywa yimvakalelo emangalisayo, kodwa ukwazi indlela yokuphendula ngobubele ngamanye amaxesha kunokuba lucelomngeni. Kubalulekile ukuwaqonda nokuwaxabisa amazwi obubele omnye umntu athethe nawe. Ubuchule bokuphendula kwizincomo kunokukunceda ukuba wakhe ubudlelwane obuluqilima kwaye ukhulise ukuzithemba kwakho.





Xa umntu ekuncoma, kubalulekile ukuba uphendule ngendlela ebonisa umbulelo wakho kunye nokuthobeka. Kuphephe ukugxeka ukuncoma okanye ukujongela phantsi impumelelo yakho. Kunoko, phendula ngokunyaniseka nangokunyaniseka. Impendulo eyenziwe kakuhle inokushiya uluvo oluhlala luhleli kwaye yenze omnye umntu azive exatyisiwe ngokuqaphela iitalente okanye iimpawu zakho.

Nokuba kukuncoma umsebenzi wakho, inkangeleko, okanye ubuntu bakho, ukuphendula ngobabalo kunye nokuzola kunokwenza umahluko omkhulu. Ngokufunda ubugcisa bokwamkela izincomo ngobubele, unokwenza umoya okhuthazayo nokhuthazayo kunxibelelwano lwakho nabanye. Khumbula ukuba, ‘enkosi’ ngokulula kunokuba negalelo elikhulu ekuboniseni uxabiso lwakho ngamazwi obubele oye wawafumana.



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Umbulelo onobubele: Iimpendulo ezithobekileyo kwiiNcommo

Ukufumana ukunconywa ngobubele bubugcisa obunokushiya umbono ongapheliyo. Nazi ezinye zeempendulo ezithobekileyo kwizincomo ezinokukunceda ubonise uxabiso kunye nokuthobeka:



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  • Enkosi kakhulu, oko kuthetha lukhulu kum.
  • Ndiyawabulela kakhulu amazwi akho obubele, enkosi.
  • Kulunge kakhulu ukuthetha loo nto, enkosi.
  • Ukuncoma kwakho kwenze usuku lwam, enkosi.
  • Enkosi ngokuqaphela, ndiyavuya xa ucinga njalo.

Khumbula ukuba, ukunyaniseka ngundoqo xa uphendula xa unconywa. Ukubulela ngokungazenzisiyo ngoncumo kubonisa ukuba uyawaxabisa amazwi obubele athethwa ngumntu othile kuwe.

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Uphendula njani xa unconywa ngobubele?

Ukuphendula xa unconywa ngobubele bubugcisa obunokushiya umbono ongapheliyo. Nazi ezinye iingcebiso malunga nendlela yokuphendula ngobuhle:

1. Yithi enkosi: Indlela elula ethi 'enkosi' yindlela yakudala nenyanisekileyo yokuvuma ukunconywa.

2. Ncuma kwaye ujonge emehlweni: Bonisa uxabiso lwakho ngokuncuma uze umjonge emehlweni loo mntu umncomayo. Kubonisa ukuba unombulelo ngokwenene.

3. Yamkela izincomo: Endaweni yokujikisa okanye ukujongela phantsi ukunconywa, kwamkele ngobubele. Wavume amazwi obubele kwaye ubavumele bangene ngaphakathi.

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4. Buyisela izincomo: Ukuba kufanelekile, unokumncoma ngokuthi uthethe into entle ngalo mntu ukuncomayo. Idala ukutshintshiselana okulungileyo kunye nobuhlobo.

5. Zithobe: Ngoxa usamkela ukunconywa, hlala uthobekile kwaye uphephe ukuqhayisa okanye ukuqhayisa. Hlala unobubele kwaye uthozamile kwimpendulo yakho.

Khumbula, ukusabela kwizincomo ngobubele akukho malunga nokuqhayisa okanye ukugxeka, kodwa kunokubonisa uxabiso nobubele. Ukuqonda obu bugcisa kunokuphucula ubudlelwane bakho kwaye kushiye umbono olungileyo kwabanye.

Umbulela njani umntu ngembeko ngokumncoma?

Xa umntu ekuncoma, kubalulekile ukuba umphendule ngobubele nangoxabiso. Nazi ezinye iindlela onokuthi umbulele ngembeko umntu ngokuncoma:

  • Yithi 'Enkosi kakhulu, ndiwaxabisa kakhulu amazwi akho obubele.'
  • Phendula ngoncumo kunye nokulula 'Enkosi.'
  • Vuma ukuncoma ngokuthi 'Kububele kakhulu ukuba uthi, enkosi.'
  • Bonisa umbulelo wakho ngenene 'Ndiyabulela kakhulu ngokuncoma kwakho, enkosi.'
  • Buyisela izincomo ngempendulo yobabalo efana 'Enkosi, oko kuthetha lukhulu oluvela kuwe.'

Khumbula ukuthetha ngokunyanisekileyo nangokunyanisekileyo xa ubulela umntu ngokuncoma, kuba oko kubonisa ukuba uwaxabisa ngokwenene amazwi akhe obubele.

Uphendula njani xa ubulela emva kokuncoma?

Xa umntu ebulela emva kokuba emncoma, kuhloniphekile ukuphendula ngobubele. Nazi iindlela ezimbalwa onokuphendula ngazo:

1. Yithi 'Wamkelekile': Ukuyigcina ilula ngokungqalileyo 'Wamkelekile' kubonisa uxabiso lwakho ngokuvuma kwabo.
2. Buyisela izincomo: Unokuphendula ngokubuyisela izincomo, ubonisa ukuba nawe uyayithanda into ethile ngabo.
3. Bonakalisa umbulelo: Enye indlela yokuphendula kukuvakalisa umbulelo wakho, uthethe amazwi anjengathi 'Enkosi ngamazwi akho obubele.'
4. Ncuma kwaye unqwale: Uncumo olulula kunye nokunqwala inokuba yindlela yokwenene yokuvuma umbulelo wabo kwaye ubonise uxabiso lwakho.

Khumbula ukuba, eyona nto ibalulekileyo kukuphendula ngokunyanisekileyo uze ubonise ukuba uyakuxabisa ukunconywa kunye nomntu okuncomayo. Khetha impendulo evakala iyindalo kuwe kwaye ifanele imeko.

Uphendula njani xa unconywa?

Ukufumana ukunconywa kunokukhanyisa usuku lwakho kwaye kukwenze uzive uxatyisiwe. Ukwazi indlela yokusabela ngobubele bubuchule obubalulekileyo ukuze ukwazi ukukwazi kakuhle. Nanga amanye amacebiso ngendlela yokuphendula ngokuncomekayo kwizincomo:

  • Enkosi: Eyona mpendulo ilula nesebenzayo yokuncoma yeyokwenene 'Enkosi.' Oku kubonisa uxabiso kunye nokuthobeka.
  • Yamkela izincomo: Yamkela imbeko ngaphandle kokuyijongela phantsi okanye uyikhabe. Yamkele ngobubele nangokuzithemba.
  • Buyisela izincomo: Ukuba kufanelekile, unokumncoma ngendlela ebonisa uxabiso ngamazwi obubele.
  • Ncuma: Uncumo lunokwenza indlela ende ekuboniseni umbulelo wakho wokwenene ngokunconywa.
  • Cacisa: Ukuba ukuncoma kumalunga nenkalo ethile yomsebenzi wakho okanye ubuntu bakho, unokuphendula ngokuvuma ukuba iinkcukacha ezithile.
  • Kuphephe ukuzithoba: Kuthintele ukutyeshela izincomo ngokuzibeka phantsi. Yamkela izincomo ngobubele endaweni yoko.

I-Flirty Banter: Iindlela ezidlalayo zokuphendula kwiiNcommo

Ukuphendula ngokuncoma ngokuchukumisa i-flirtiness kunokongeza into emnandi kunye nokudlala kwincoko. Nazi iindlela zokudlala zokuphendula kwizincomo:

Ncoma: 'Ukhangeleka uyoyikeka namhlanje!' Impendulo: 'Owu, yiyeke! Undenza ndibe neentloni.'
Ncoma: 'Unesiphiwo!' Impendulo: 'Owu, enkosi! Ndicinga ukuba ndinexesha lam.'
Ncoma: 'Unoburharha!' Impendulo: 'Ewe, uyayazi into abayithethayo, ukuhleka lelona yeza libalaseleyo.'

Khumbula ukugcina iimpendulo zakho zikhaphukhaphu kwaye zidlala ukugcina i-flirty banter. Imalunga nokonwaba kwaye ukonwabela ukutshintshiselana ngokudlala izincomo!

Uphendula njani xa unconywa ngendlela ye-flirty?

Xa ufumana izincomo zothando, kubalulekile ukuba uphendule ngendlela egcina ithoni edlalayo kunye neyothando. Nazi iindlela ezimbalwa onokuphendula ngazo:

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  • Ncuma kwaye ujonge emehlweni ukubonisa uxabiso lwakho.
  • Phendula ngentetho edlalayo okanye ngokuqhwanyaza iliso ukugcina isandi esidlala ngothando siqhubeka.
  • Mbulele umntu onento entle, njengokuthi 'Enkosi, awukho mbi kangako.'
  • Buyisela izincomo ngendlela echuliweyo kunye neyothando, ebonisa ukuba unomdla kubo nawe.
  • Sebenzisa uburharha ukuze ukhanyise umoya kwaye wongeze ukubamba udlala ngothando kwimpendulo yakho.

Khumbula, undoqo kukugcina intsebenziswano ilula, imnandi, kwaye ibandakanya ukuqhubeka notshintshiselwano lothando.

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Xa ufumana ukunconywa kwe-flirty, unokuphendula ngendlela yokudlala kunye nenomtsalane. Umzekelo, unokuthi:

'Enkosi, awukho mbi kangako wena.'

'Ndimele ndithi, unomdla kakhulu ekuphawuleni oko.'

'UFlattery uya kukusa yonke indawo nam.'

'Ewe, awugcwalanga nje ukuthetha okumnandi?'

Ezi mpendulo zibonisa ukuba uyakuxabisa ukunconywa kwaye unokubandakanyeka kutshintshiselwano olulula. Khumbula nje ukuyigcina imnandi kwaye idlala!

Ubuya uncwasa njani xa umntu esithi umhle?

Xa umntu ekuncoma ngokuthi umhle, lithuba elihle lokudlala ngothando kwaye ugcine incoko ibandakanya. Nazi ezinye iindlela onokuthi uphendule ngazo ngothando:

  • Enkosi, kodwa ndibheja ukuba utsho kubo bonke abantu abahle odibana nabo!
  • Yhuu undenza ndibe neentloni! I-Flattery iya kukufumana yonke indawo.
  • Ewe, kufuneka nditsho, unencasa entle!
  • Ubukhazikhazi obunje bunokusuka nje bungene entlokweni yam!

Khumbula, ukudlala ngothando kumalunga nokudlala nokubonakalisa umdla ngendlela eyonwabisayo nekhaphukhaphu. Ke, ungoyiki ukudlala kunye kwaye wonwabele ixesha!

Uphendula njani xa umntu encoma uncumo lwakho?

Xa umntu encoma uncumo lwakho, kubalulekile ukuba uphendule ngobubele nangenyaniso. Nazi ezinye iindlela onokuphendula ngazo:

  • Enkosi kakhulu! Ndiyawabulela kakhulu amazwi akho obubele.
  • Kumnandi kakhulu ukuba uthi, enkosi!
  • Wowu, enkosi! Ukuncoma kwakho kwenze usuku lwam.
  • Enkosi! Ndiyavuya uncumo lwam luzise ukuqaqamba kwimini yakho.

Khumbula, undoqo kukwamkela ukunconywa ngombulelo nokunyaniseka. Uncumo lokwenene ‘nokubulela’ ngokusuk’ entliziyweni kunokuba negalelo elikhulu ekuboniseni uxabiso lwakho ngamazwi obubele.

Iimpendulo ezinobuchule nezithandekayo kwiiNcommo

1. 'Owu, enkosi! Undenza ndibe neentloni.'

2. 'Enkosi qela! Ulwenzile usuku lwam.'

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3. 'Owu, yiyeke, unobubele kakhulu!'

4. 'Ndiyayibulela loo nto! Uswiti kakhulu.'

5. 'Ulunge kakhulu! Enkosi ngokuqaphela.'

6. 'Yhuu, ndichukumisekile! Enkosi kwisigidi.'

7. 'Undenza ndizive ndifudumele kwaye ndididekile – enkosi!'

8. 'Awu, makhaka! Amazwi akho athetha lukhulu kum.'

Uphendula njani kwincomo emnandi?

Ukuphendula ukuncoma ngobuhle kunokukwenza ukuba intsebenziswano ibe mnandi ngakumbi kwaye ilula. Nazi iindlela ezintle zokuphendula isincomo:

  • Enkosi, undenza ndibe neentloni!
  • Owu, unobubele kakhulu!
  • Owu, yiyeke, undenza ndizive ndikhethekile!
  • Enkosi kakhulu, ungoyena uswiti!
  • Wow, uyayazi ngokwenene indlela yokwenza intombazana/inkwenkwe izive yonwabile!

Khumbula, ukuphendula ngobuhle akuyomfuneko ukuba kube ngaphezulu, ukubetha nje ukudlala kunokuhamba indlela ende ekwenzeni lowo uncomayo azive exatyisiwe.

Ndimele ndiphendule ndithini xa ndincoma?

Xa ufumana ukunconywa, kubalulekile ukuba uphendule ngobubele nangenyaniso. Nazi ezinye iindlela onokuthi uphendule ngazo izincomo:

1. Yithi 'Enkosi': Eyona ndlela ilula nexhaphakileyo yokuphendula xa uncoma inyani kukuba 'Enkosi.' Oku kubonisa uxabiso kunye nokuvuma amazwi obubele.

2. Buyisela izincomo: Unokuphendula ngokubuyisela ukuncoma ngendlela yokwenene. Umzekelo, 'Enkosi! Ndiyithanda kakhulu [impawu okanye ubuchule bakho].' Oku kunokunceda ukuqhubeka notshintshiselwano oluhle.

3. Veza ukuthobeka: Ukuba uziva ungakhululekanga ukwamkela ukunconywa, unokuphendula ngokuthobeka. Umzekelo, 'Enkosi, bububele obungako bokuthetha.' Oku kubonisa ukuthozama ngelixa ukuxabisa ukunconywa.

4. Yabelana ngetyala: Ukuba ukuncoma kuhambelana nomzamo weqela okanye intsebenziswano, unokuvuma iqela okanye abanye ababandakanyekayo. Umzekelo, 'Enkosi! Yayingumzamo weqela, yaye wonke umntu waba negalelo kwimpumelelo.'

5. Ncuma kwaye ubonise umbulelo: Ulwimi lomzimba ludlala indima kwindlela ophendula ngayo xa unconywa. Uncumo, ukumjonga emehlweni, nokuvakalisa umbulelo onyanisekileyo kunokuyiphucula indlela osabela ngayo.

Khumbula, undoqo kukusabela ngokunyanisekileyo nangendlela eyakhayo xa unconywa, ubonisa uxabiso ngamazwi obubele abanye abaye babelana ngawo.

Udlala njani ubuyela kwisicatshulwa sokuncoma?

Ukuphendula kwisicatshulwa sokuncoma ngethoni ye-flirty ingaba yindlela ejabulisayo yokugcina incoko ibandakanyeka. Nanga amanye amacebiso ngendlela yokuncwasa umva:

  1. Bonisa uxabiso: Qala ngokubulela loo mntu ngokuncomayo uze ubazise ukuba uyakuxabisa oko.
  2. Buyisela izincomo: Buyisela inceba ngokunika imbuyekezo yokwenene. Oku kubonisa ukuba unomdla kwaye unomdla.
  3. Sebenzisa ii-emojis ezidlalayo: Ukongeza i-emoji edlalayo njengokuqhwanyaza 😉 okanye uncumo 😊 kunokunceda ukudlulisa ithowuni edlalayo.
  4. Yigcine ilula kwaye iyonwabisa: Gcina incoko ilula kwaye imnandi ngokongeza ukuchukumisa uburharha okanye ukuqhula kwimpendulo yakho.
  5. Bonisa umdla: Bonisa umdla wokwenene emntwini ngokumbuza imibuzo elandelayo okanye wabelane ngeanecdote yobuqu enxulumene nokuncoma.

Khumbula ukuba, ukudlala ngothando kufuneka ngalo lonke ixesha kwenziwe ngembeko nangemvumelwano. Gcina incoko ilungile kwaye yonwabele omabini amaqela!

Iswiti kwaye inyanisekile: Ukuyila Iimpendulo kwiMiyalezo eSweet Text

Ukufumana umyalezo omnandi wesms kunokuyenza iqaqambe imini yakhe nabani na kwaye ivuselele iimvakalelo ezifudumeleyo. Xa uphendula imiyalezo enjalo, kubalulekile ukuba udlulisele uxabiso lwakho kwaye ubuyisele uvakalelo lwakho. Nazi iindlela ezimnandi nezinyanisekileyo zokwenza iimpendulo zakho:

1. Bonakalisa Umbulelo: Qala ngokuvakalisa umbulelo wakho ngomyalezo omnandi. 'Enkosi' elula ingahamba indlela ende ekuboniseni uxabiso lwakho.

2. Buyisa Ubumnandi: Buyisela ubumnandi ngokuncoma umthumeli okanye ukwabelana ngomyalezo osuka entliziyweni ngembuyekezo. Baxelele indlela isigidimi sabo esithetha ngayo kuwe.

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3. Sebenzisa iiEmojis: I-Emojis inokunceda ukudlulisa iimvakalelo kwaye yongeze ukubamba okudlalayo kwimpendulo yakho. Sebenzisa i-emojis yentliziyo, ubuso obuncumileyo, okanye ezinye iisimboli ukuphucula umyalezo wakho.

4. Yigcine iyinyani: Yiba yinyani kwimpendulo yakho kwaye wabelane ngeemvakalelo zakho zokwenyani. Kuphephe ukusebenzisa iimpendulo ezinkonkxiweyo kwaye endaweni yoko, thetha ngokusuka entliziyweni.

5. Qhuba ngoThando: Phendula impendulo yakho ngophawu olufudumeleyo olufana 'nokuthumela uthando' okanye 'Ukuwola kunye nokuncamisa' ukuze ubonise ngakumbi uthando lwakho.

Ngokwenza iimpendulo ezimnandi nezinyanisekileyo kwimiyalezo emnandi, unokomeleza unxibelelwano lwakho kwaye wenze umthumeli azive exatyisiwe kwaye exatyisiwe.

Uphendula njani kwisicatshulwa esiswiti?

Xa ufumana umyalezo omnandi wombhalo, kubalulekile ukuba uphendule ngendlela evumayo kwaye ebonisa uxabiso. Nazi iindlela ezimbalwa onokuthi uphendule ngazo:

1. Enkosi! - A elula 'Enkosi!' unokuba negalelo elikhulu ekuboniseni umbulelo wakho ngamazwi obubele.

2. Unobubele kakhulu! - Ukuvuma ubumnandi besicatshulwa kunye nokuvakalisa umbulelo wakho kunokwenza umthumeli azive exatyisiwe.

3. Ulwenzile usuku lwam! - Ukwazisa umthumeli ukuba umbhalo wabo ukhanyise usuku lwakho kunokuba yimpendulo esuka entliziyweni.

4. Ndinethamsanqa ukuba nawe ebomini bam! - Ukuba isicatshulwa esimnandi sivela kumntu okhethekileyo, ukuvakalisa iimvakalelo zakho kunokuqinisa ubudlelwane bakho.

Khumbula, undoqo kukuphendula ngokunyanisekileyo nangokunyaniseka ukuxabisa ngokwenene isicatshulwa esimnandi osifumeneyo.

Uphendula njani xa umntu ethetha into emnandi?

Xa umntu ethetha into emnandi kuwe, kubalulekile ukuba umphendule ngobubele nangoxabiso. Nazi iindlela onokuthi uphendule ngazo kwizincomo:

Enkosi: Kulula kwaye kungqale, ukuthi 'Enkosi' kusoloko kuyimpendulo entle kwincomo. Ibonisa umbulelo noxabiso.
Kulunge kakhulu ukuba uthi: Le mpendulo ivuma ukunconywa kwaye ivakalisa umbulelo ngamazwi obubele.
Ndiyayibulela kakhulu loo nto: Ngokuthetha oku, ubonisa umntu ukuba ukuncoma kwakhe kuthetha lukhulu kuwe.
Wenze Usuku lwam: Le mpendulo ibonisa ukuba ukuncoma kube nefuthe elihle kuwe kwaye kukhanyise usuku lwakho.
Kuthetha lukhulu oluvela kuwe: Ngokuthetha oku, uvumela umntu ukuba azi ukuba uluvo lwakhe lubalulekile kuwe kwaye ukuncoma kwakhe kuyaxatyiswa.

Uphendula njani kwisicatshulwa esimnandi sothando?

Xa ufumana itekisi yothando olumnandi, kubalulekile ukuba uphendule ngendlela ebonisa uxabiso kunye nokubuyisela uthando. Nazi ezinye iindlela zokuphendula kwisicatshulwa esimnandi sothando:

  1. Bonisa umbulelo wakho: Mbulele umntu ngomyalezo omnandi kwaye ubazise ukuba uthetha kangakanani kuwe.
  2. Buyisa uluvo: Yabelana ngeemvakalelo zakho kwaye uvumele umntu azi ukuba uziva ngendlela efanayo.
  3. Yiba yinyani: Phendula ngokunyanisekileyo nangokusuka entliziyweni. Ziphephe iimpendulo eziqhelekileyo kwaye endaweni yoko, wabelane ngeemvakalelo zakho zokwenyani.
  4. Sebenzisa i-emojis: I-Emojis inokunceda ukuhambisa imvakalelo kwaye yongeze ukubamba okudlalayo kwimpendulo yakho.
  5. Cwangcisa impendulo eswiti: Cinga ngokuthumela umyalezo ocingayo okanye ucwangcise into eyothusayo ukubonisa uthando lwakho kunye nombulelo.

Khumbula, ukuphendula isicatshulwa esimnandi sothando lithuba lokomeleza unxibelelwano lwakho nomntu kwaye ubabonise ukuba ukhathala kangakanani. Qinisekisa ukuba impendulo yakho yeyenyani kwaye isuka entliziyweni ukuze uveze iimvakalelo zakho ngokwenyani.

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