Ukuthetha nentombazana emnxebeni akufuneki kube nzima okanye koyikise. Landela ezinye iingcebiso ezisisiseko ezivelaUkuthandana Umqeqeshi Lori Gorshowukumoyisa ngamazwi akho.
Yabelana ngolwazi ngokuthetha
Abasetyhini abaninzi bakholelwa ukuba indlela yokunxibelelana nomfana abathandanayo kukwabelana ngolwazi nangona bethetha. Kungenxa yoko le nto xa kukho ukuzola kwincoko abuze, 'Ucinga ntoni?' Ukuba awuthethi nto, uyakholelwa ukuba kukho into oyifihlayo. Kumfana olungileyo ekuthetheni, le ndlela yokunxibelelana ukuze wakhe ubudlelwane obunzulu nobunentsingiselo akukho ngxaki. Kodwa, kulomfana ofumanisa kunzima ukuthetha malunga neengcinga kunye neemvakalelo zakhe, le ndlela yokwakhaubudlelwane obunzulu nobunentsingiseloinokuba liphupha elibi ngokwenene!
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Thetha ngokwakho
Intombi yakho inokucela ukuba uzolule kwaye uzame ukuzibonakalisa ngakumbi ngamazwi. Lumka malunga nokuthumela kuluntu olukwi-Intanethi endaweni yokuthetha nentombi yakho, nokuba ukhululekile ukuzibonakalisa ngokubhala ngokuchaseneyo nokuthetha. Izithuba zasesidlangalaleni zinokongeza enye ingxaki kulwalamano lwakho ukuba awuzimisanga bucala kuqala.
Jonga ukujonga kwakhe
Zama ukuzibeka ezihlangwini zakhe. Thetha naye malunga nobunzima bakho bokuza nencoko eyonwabisayo nengafaniyo kwaye umxelele ukuba uzimisele ukuzama iimbono ezimbalwa. Ungasoloko ufumana ezinyeizinto ezinomdla onokuthetha ngazo emnxebeniukuba uthatha imizuzu embalwa ukuqaphela izinto anomdla kuzo, izicwangciso kunye nezinto azithandayo.
Uqalisa njani ukuthetha ngeFowuni
Ukuba nencoko emnxebeni akukho nzima njengoko unokucinga. Ungaqala ngokubuza malunga nosuku lwakhe; into ayenzileyo, ebesenza nabani izinto, njlnjl. Njengoko eveza ezakhe iingcinga, buza imibuzo elandelayo ebonisa ukuba umamele. Umzekelo:
- Ukuba ukubalisela ibali ngomnye wabahlobo bakhe, mbuze ukuba uziva njani ngale meko okanye uza kwenza ntoni.
- Landela imibuzo yakho ngeengcinga zakho, izimvo, okanye iingcebiso.
- Yabelana ngento ngesihloko esenzeke kuwe ngala mini.
- Landela ukwabelana kwakho ngokumbuza ukuba ucinga ntoni.
Qhubeka nalo mjikelo ukugcina incoko iqengqeleka de ufike kwindawo yokumisa yendalo. Kulungile ukuyiphelisa incoko emva kokuba nitshintshisene ngeengxoxo ezimfutshane kwizihloko ezimbalwa.
Izihloko zokuthetha malunga
Ukuba ufumanisa ukuba ukuthetha ngento eyenzekayo kubomi bomnye nomnye kunzima, zama ezi ngcebiso zokuza nazoimibuzo oza kuyibuza intombi yakho:
- Yiba ngumnxeba wakhe wokugqibela wosuku. 'Mngenise' ngokufunda.Khetha umbongookanye incwadi ebhalwe ngumbhali nokuba uyayonwabela okanye uyonwabele, kwaye busuku ngabunye umfundele amaphepha ambalwa.
- Yiza 'akukho namnye owakha wandibuza loo nto ngaphambili!' chwetheza imibuzo. Kukho imidlalo esekwe kwiukubuza imibuzo, onokuyifumana kwi-intanethi okanye kwivenkile enesebe lezinto zokudlala okanye uzenzele eyakho imibuzo.
- Sebenzisaukwazi imibuzo onayo. Baza kukunceda ufumane umdla kunye nezinto enithanda ukuzenza nobabini.
- Dlala imidlalo emnxebeni. Hangman, ndi-Spy okanye ezinye iintandokazi zobuntwana yindlela yokwandisa izakhono zakho zencoko.
Xa unamathele ngokwenene, zimbalwaincoko enkulukubhalwe phantsi ukunceda ukuhambisa incoko.
Ezinye iindlela zokuThetha
Kuba ufumanisa ukubhala indlela elula yokuchaza, sebenzisa eso sakhono kwinzuzo yakho kwaye ubhalele iileta zakhe zothando. Khawufane ucinge indlela amangaliswe ngayo xa efunda iingcinga zakho zothando ezibhalwe nge-imeyile, ileta okanye ukuthumela kwi-Intanethi. Nangona kunjalo, qiniseka ukuba uyambuza ukuba angathanda na oku ngaphambi kokuba uzame.
Ziqhelanise kunye nokuthetha kwifowuni ngokulula
Ukuba awumhle ncam ekuthetheni nentombazana oyintombazana emnxebeni, nokuba udibene nje okanye uthetha okokuqala, kubalulekile ukuba uthathe umnxeba umfowunele. Uyakuxabisa isenzo kwaye wakube uthethile amaxesha ambalwa, uya kuziva kamnandi emnxebeni.
