Nangona i-India iye yafumana utshintsho kwizithethe zayo ngokuyinxenye ngenxa yeempembelelo zaseNtshona, inkcubeko ibambelele nkqi kumasiko nezithethe zayo. Oko kusebenza kummandla omnye waseIndiya akunakusebenza komnye ummandla. Kungenxa yokuba i-India ine-29 ithi, nganye inolwimi olwahlukileyo, amasiko njl.
Amasiko aseIndiya anzulu
Xa kuthelekiswa noMtshato waseNtshona
Ukuthandana njengoko thina baseNtshona sicinga ngako, kubandakanya ukulingwa kunye nephutha. Abazali bethu kunye noluntu lwethu bakhuthaza abantu abangatshatanga ukuba baphume kunye nabantu abahlukeneyo. Siyakhuthazwa ukuba sithandane nabantu abafana nathi kwinkolo yabo, kwiinqobo zabo, kunye nakwimeko yezentlalo noqoqosho kunye nabo bohlukileyo kuthi. Nangona kunjalo, kuluntu lwaseNtshona, sikhululekile ukuba sikhethe amaqabane esithandana nawo. Ukuthandana ngale njongo akunakulunga eIndiya.
Amanqaku afanelekileyo- Isikhokelo seZipho zeKhwenkwe
- Igalari ye-7 Yolonwabo kunye namaXabiso oMhla oXabiso
- Iingcamango ezi-8 zoMhla oMangalisayo weHlabathi
Ngokubanzi, abantu baseIndiya bathanda ukutshata ngaphakathi kuluntu lwabo nokuba olo luntu lukhona ngaphakathi eIndiya okanye abo bahlala eIndiya abanesidima kwamanye amazwe.
Imitshato ehleliweyo
Ngelixa umtshato ohleliweyo uqhelekile eIndiya, imitshato yothando iye yafumana ukuthandwa. Nangona kunjalo, ukuthandana eIndiya ngenjongo 'yokwazi' umyeni wakho wexesha elizayo. Esinye sezizathu zokuba umbono wokuthandana usengowangaphandle kubantu baseIndiya, kungenxa yokuba oko kuthetha ukudibana ngokwengqondo kwaye (kunokwenzeka) nokudibana ngokwasemzimbeni nabantu abaninzi besini esahlukileyo. Uninzi lwabazali baseIndiya kunye noluntu lwaseIndiya abakholelwa kwindlela 'yokulinga kunye nephutha' eluthandweni.
Ukuthandana Ngaphandle kweIndiya
Oku akuthethi ukuba amadoda amaNdiya awajongi. Amadoda amaNdiya kunokwenzeka ukuba athandane ngaphandle kweIndiya kunalawo ahlala eIndiya. Kuba ukuthandana ayisiyonto iqhelekileyo eIndiya, ungafumanisa ukuba amadoda aseIndiya awanangqondo kwimikhwa yokuthandana njengeenkcubeko apho ukuthandana kukhuthazwa khona. Into enkulu malunga nokuba uya kuthandana na ziimvo zomzali wakhe, iinkolelo kunye nokunyamezelana. Ukuba unomdla wokuthandana nendoda yaseIndiya, ndingacebisa ukuba uzame ukufunda malunga nosapho kunye nenkcubeko njengoko oku kuya kukunika umbono weenkolelo zakhe ngomtshato nosapho. Zeziphi iinkolelo azibambeleyo kumzali wakhe malunga nomtshato kunye nosapho? Oku kuya kukunceda uqonde ukuba ungakanani amathuba okuthandana kwakhe kunye nokuba yeyiphi na imida anokuba nayo kubuphi na ubudlelwane bexesha elide.
Abazali Abangatshatanga kunye Ukuthandana Indian
Abanye abantu baseIndiya baya kuthandana nomzali omnye kwaye abanye abayi kuthandana nomntu ongumzali omnye. Oku kuyinyani ngokuthandana ngaphandle kwenkcubeko yamaIndiya.
Ukubandakanyeka kwabazali
Abazali baseIndiya bangqongqo kakhulu malunga nokuba ngubani abantwana wabo ovunyelwe ukuba ajikeleze naye okanye umhla. Kwiimeko ezininzi abavunyelwa nokuba bathandane kwaphela (oku kuhlala kubhekisele kumantombazana). Ukuba bavunyelwe ukwenza amadinga bavunyelwe kuphela ukuthandana namanye amaIndiya angabahlobo bosapho, igama elinye lokugqibela, ilali enye, inkolo enye, okanye uhlobo oluthile logqirha.
Kubazali abaninzi ukungavunyelwa kuxhomekeke kuloyiko lokuba amaxabiso kunye nezithethe zobudlelwane obuxubeneyo ziya kuchasa ukudlula kwexabiso lenkolo kunye nenkcubeko kunye namasiko kwizizukulwana ezizayo kwaye ngenxa yoko ziya kuliphelisa elo lifa. Abanye abazali izizathu zokungafuni ukuba umntwana wabo atshate okanye athandane ngaphandle kwenkolo yabo, ubuhlanga okanye ubuzwe buyahluka, kodwa iziphumo ziyafana.
Umahluko kunxibelelwano
Kwinkcubeko yaseNtshona sisetyenziselwa ukwalathisa-ebusweni bakho ukungqubana phakathi komfazi nendoda. Kwiinkcubeko ezininzi, oku kukungahloniphi. Endaweni yokuba indlela yokulungisa ukungaboni ngasonye ngasese ukuze ungaphoxi omnye umntu. Xa uthetha phakathi kwabantu abatshatileyo kunye nosapho eIndiya, kuya kufuneka unyaniseke, uhloniphe kwaye uzimisele ukulungiselela amaxabiso osapho, amasiko kunye nezithethe zabo.
Iindawo Zokuthandana zaseIndiya
Imbali yaseIndiya ibuyela umva ngaphezulu kweminyaka engama-5 000 kwaye ityebile kwinkcubeko nakwisiko. Esinye sezona zithethe zomeleleyo sinxulumene nomtshato kunye nendlela izibini ezidityaniswa ngayo. Nangona eminye imidlalo yenziwa ngokusekwe kukutsala kunye, uninzi lwabantu abatshatileyo bayimveliso yemitshato ehleliweyo, kwaye ukuthandana ngokungaqhelekanga ngaphandle komgaqo oqinisekileyo womtshato engqondweni akuqhelekanga.
Unokhetho olwahlukeneyo lokuhlangana namanye amaIndiya. Ezi webhusayithi zinokusetyenziswa ziintsapho ezihlela imitshato kunye nabantu abangatshatanga abafuna iqabane ngokwabo. Usebenzisa Indian ukuthandana iwebhusayithi uya kwandisa kakhulu ukhetho lwakho nokuba ukhetha njani ukufumana iqabane lakho.
- Uthando uVukani : Uthando uVuka lolwakhe wonke umntu. Nangona kunjalo, iqulethe ukhetho lokukhangela ngokukodwa ii-Indian singles. Oku kubandakanya zombini ii-singles ezihlala kwiRiphabhlikhi yase-India kunye nee-singles ezihlala phesheya.
- Desi Crush Le ndawo ikuvumela ukuba udibane namanye amaNdiya ase-United States naseKhanada. Uninzi lwee-singles ezikule ndawo ngabaphambukeli bokuqala kunye nabesibini abavela kwilizwe laseIndiya. Ungadibana nabantu ngobuhlobo, ukuthandana kunye nomtshato. Iintsapho azivunyelwe ukuthumela iiprofayili egameni lakho.
- Ukuthandana eIndiya : Eyokuqala kunye enkulu ukuthandana website for Indian singles yi-Indian Ukuthandana. Iwebsite iyafumaneka simahla, kwaye unokwenza iprofayili kwaye uqalise ukunxibelelana namanye amaIndiya ngaphandle kokuchitha imali. Ungakhangela ii-singles ngokusekwe kwindawo, ubudala kunye nenkolo, ekuvumela ukuba ulungelelanise ukukhangela kwakho iqabane elifanelekileyo.
- I-Desi Kiss Indawo yomhlaba wonke, iDesi Kiss yeyamaIndiya ahlala kwihlabathi liphela. Indawo inenqanaba leenkwenkwezi ezintlanu ezikhuselekileyo, ukuze uqiniseke ukuba ulwazi lwakho kunye nobomi babucala buya kuhlala bukhuselekile, ukuba ngaba uthatha amanyathelo okhuseleko. Indawo leyo yasekwa ngo-2002, kwaye le ndawo ijolise ikakhulu kumaIndiya angatshatanga afuna ukutshata.
- Umdlalo waseIndiya : Amawaka eengoma ajoyina le webhusayithi rhoqo ngenyanga ekhangela indawo yokunxibelelana namanye amaIndiya. Ukwenza iprofayile simahla kwaye isiza sikwabandakanya icandelo kwiingcebiso zokuthandana kwabo bafuna ingcebiso.
Isiko kunye neTekhnoloji
Nangona kunjalo amaNdiya akhetha ukudibana, ukuthandana kunye nokutshata, inye into icacile. Iminyaka engamawaka amahlanu yesiko igxile kwinkcubeko, kwaye ukukhetha iqabane lomtshato kusathathwa njengesinye sezigqibo ezibaluleke kakhulu ebomini. Ngethamsanqa, i-Intanethi yenza kube lula ukunxibelelana namanye amaIndiya abelana ngenkolo yakho, amaxabiso enkcubeko kunye neenjongo zobomi. Ngale ndlela unokujolisa kukhangelo lwakho ngendlela engayi kubakho kwi-Intanethi. Ungafumanisa ukuba iqabane elifanelekileyo lakho ngumntu ongenakuze uhlangane naye ebomini bokwenyani.
