Uphando lwangoku lubonisa ukuba zombini amadoda nabafazi phantse ngokulinganayo kunokwenzeka ukuba bakope kwiqabane labo, istatistiki esasithanda amadoda kakhulu ngaphambili.Amanani okungathembekiIsenokungabonisi wonke umfanekiso njengoko abantu ngamanye amaxesha besiva ukubekwa amabala malunga nokukopa, kodwa amanani angakunika umbono wokuxhaphaka kokukopa kubudlelwane.
Yeyiphi ipesenti yabantu abatshatileyo abakhohlisayo?
Ukufumana ipesenti ngqo yabantu abatshatileyo abakhohlisayo kunzima kuba uninzi lwezifundo zixhomekeke kukuzixela. Ngelixa uphando lubonisa ukuba amadoda nabafazi bayakhohlisa ngamanani asondeleyo, kuyabonakala amadoda atshatileyo nangoku bakhohlisa ngaphezu kwabafazi . Xa ubeka idatha kunye, malunga ne-15-20% yezibini ezitshatileyo ziyakopela.
- Izinga lokukopa liyonyuka ngokweminyaka yamadoda atshatileyo kunye nabafazi abatshatileyo.
- Kwisifundo esinesihloko Isizukulwane saseMelika sokuVala kwimicimbi engaphandle komtshato , Iipesenti ezingama-20 zezibini ezindala ziqaphele ukuba ziye zakopela ngexesha lomtshato wazo.
- Malunga ne-14% yezibini ezingaphantsi kweminyaka engama-55 zichaze ukukrexeza emtshatweni wazo.
- Uninzi lwabantu abakhohlisayo baneminyaka engama-20 ukuya kwengama-30 betshatile kwaye baphakathi kweminyaka engama-50 nengama-60.
- Ngaphezulu kwe-50% yabantu abatshatileyo, abesilisa nabasetyhini, kwi Inyaniso Ngokukhohlisa (TAD) kuvavanyo bathiWavuma amaqabane abomalunga nokuthandana kwabo.
- Ukwabiwa ngokulinganayo koqhawulo mtshato
- Ukulinda Indoda Eqhawula Umtshato
- Iingcebiso zoMama abangatshatanga
Iinkcukacha-manani zokuba bangaphi abantu abatshatileyo abakhohlisayo
Yeyiphi ipesenti yamadoda atshatileyo akopayo? Ngokwe- IZiko lezeNtsapho (IFS), malunga ne-20% yamadoda atshatileyo axela ukukopela amaqabane abo.
- Amadoda kuyo yonke iminyaka yobudala ukusuka kuma-30 ukuya kwangama-80 kunokwenzeka ngakumbi kunabafazi ukuba netyala lokungathembeki emtshatweni.
- Amadoda atshatileyo anika ingxelo yezinga eliphezulu lokungathembeki kwi-70s yabo.
- Amadoda amnyama axela ukukopela kubafazi bawo ngaphezulu kwamadoda aseSpain okanye ama-White.
- Uvavanyo oluqhubekayo kwi-Intanethi malunga nokukopa kwi-TAD lubonisa ukuba amadoda kunokwenzeka ukuba axele ukukopela kumaqabane abo kaninzi.
- Amadoda atshatileyo amalunga neepesenti ezingama-25 amathuba okuxela ukuba nokuma kobusuku obunye kunabafazi.
Iinkcukacha-manani zokuba bangaphi abafazi abatshatileyo abakopayo
I-IFS yabelana ukuba malunga ne-13% yabasetyhini abatshatileyo baxela ukukopela amaqabane abo.
- Abasetyhini abaneminyaka eli-18 ukuya kwengama-29 babonakala benamathuba okuba babe netyala lokungathembeki emtshatweni.
- Abasetyhini abatshatileyo baxela ezona zinga liphezulu lokungathembeki kwi-60s yabo.
- Abasetyhini abatshatileyo malunga ne-15% amathuba okuba baxele ukuba banemicimbi yeemvakalelo kunamadoda.
Yeyiphi ipesenti yemitshato esinda kukungathembeki?
Abantu abaninzi bayazibuza ukuba yeyiphi ipesenti yezibini ezihlala kunye emva kokukopela. Ngelixa ukukrexeza kunjaloayisenguye owaphula isivumelwanokwimitshato emininzi, ukunganyaniseki yenye yeizizathu eziphezulu ezichaziweyoizibini zithatha isigqibo sokuqhawula umtshato.
- Ngokwe- Umbutho wezengqondo zaseMelika (APA), ukungathembeki eUnited States kwabalelwa kuma-20-40 epesenti yoqhawulo-mtshato.
- Ngokophando olupapashwe yi Amaziko kaZwelonke wezeMpilo (NIH), elinye iqabane kwi-88% yezibini ezifundileyo zikhankanye ukungathembeki njengeyona nto inegalelo kuyo.
- Uninzi lwezibini ezivela kwisifundo se-NIH abaqhawule umtshato kuphela babenamaqabane omnye okwabelana ngokungathembeki njengengxaki enkulu.
- Abantu abangaphantsi kweminyaka engama-30 nangaphezulu kwama-70 babenamathuba amancinci okuqhawula umtshato emva komtshato xa kuthelekiswa nabo bakwiminyaka yama-50 nama-60.
- I-APA ikwakhankanye ukuba ama-42% abantu abaqhawule umtshato baxele izinto ezingaphezu kwesinye.
- Kwi Ukuvota kweGallup , Abaphandi baqaphele ukuba ngaphezulu kwesiqingatha samaqabane bathi bayakushiya amaqabane abo kwaye bafumane uqhawulo-mtshato ukuba bafumanisa ukuba amaqabane abo ayathandana.
- Malunga neepesenti ezingama-31 zamaqabane atshatileyo anokuyincamathisela ngaphandle kokuqhawula umtshato neqabane elikhohlisayo.
- Abasetyhini kunokwenzeka ukuba baqalise ukuqhawula umtshato (nangasiphi na isizathu) uthi Psychology Namhlanje .
Iinkcukacha-manani zoMtshato weSibini ukusuka kwiMicimbi
Ukufumana ipesenti yemicimbi xa elinye iqabane lalitshatile okokugqibela kunokuba ngumceli mngeni. Izibalo azithandeki kwimicimbi ekhokelela kwimitshato. Ngokufanelekileyo, uninzi lwemitshato yesibini neyesithathu ayiphumeleli nokuba kutheni eyokuqala iphelile.
- UGqirha Jan Halper , kwincwadi yakhe ethetha ngamadoda aphumeleleyo, waphawula ukuba ziipesenti ezintathu kuphela zamadoda abandakanyeka kwimicimbi engaphandle komtshato eneneni ezatshata iinkosikazi zawo.
- Ngokomcebisi womtshato owaziwayo UFrank Pittman , Amadoda atshata abatshatileyo, anenqanaba loqhawulo-mtshato ukuya kuthi ga kwiipesenti ezingama-75.
- Kuphononongo lophando lokungathembeki kwi Kwiziko , kwafunyaniswa ukuba uninzi lwemicimbi ayidluli kwinqanaba 'lokuwela-eluthandweni' kwaye yexeshana elifutshane.
Iinkcukacha-manani zomlingane kubantu abangatshatanga
Ukukopa amanani abantu abatshatileyo kunzima kakhulu ukuza kunamanani ezibini ezitshatileyo. Nangona kunjalo, uphando lubonisa abantu abangatshatanga bekopela phantse kwinqanaba eliphindwe kabini lomlingane otshatileyo.
- I-anthropologist yebhayoloji UHelen Fisher izabelo zokuba i-60% yamadoda angatshatanga ayavuma ukuzama ukurhwebesha umntu kude nolunye ulwalamano ukuba abenabo.
- Phantse iipesenti ezingama-53 zabafazi abangatshatanga bayavuma ukuba bazamile ukufumana omnye umntu ukuba ashiye ubudlelwane obuzinikele kubo.
- UKUYA Ufundo lwe-2018 yamadoda nabafazi abangatshatanga bafumanise ukuba i-44% yabantu (abesilisa nabasetyhini) benza ukungathembeki.
Amanani kwizizathu zokungathembeki kubudlelwane
Ngelixa kukho izinto ezahlukeneyo kulo naluphi na ulwalamano olunokukhokelela kwiqabane okanye iqabane lakho ekukhohliseni, uphononongo lufumanise ukuba ukungazinzi kwezezimali kunokuba negalelo kukukrexeza.
- Umbutho wezeNtlalontle waseMelika (ASA) iqaphele ukuba iipesenti ezili-15 zamadoda axhomekeke ngokwezezimali kumaqabane awo aya kukopa.
- I-ASA ikwaqaphele ukuba abafana abancinci kunokwenzeka ukuba bakopele ukuba kukho ukungangqinelani kwimivuzo kwaye amadoda mancinci amathuba okuba angakopela ukuba urhola ama-70% omvuzo wekhaya.
- Okukhona umfazi efumana umvuzo, kokukhona amathuba okuba akrexeze.
- Abafazi abatshatileyo bamalunga ne-25% ngaphezulu kunamadoda athi bayaqhatha ngenxa yeengxaki zomtshato.
Kutheni ukungathembeki kukhokelela kuqhawulo mtshato
Ukukopa kunokushiya amaqabane omabini edidekile, enomsindo kwaye ekhathazekile emtshatweni. Amaxabiso oqhawulo mtshato ahlala ephezulu kakhulu emva kokuba kwenziwe umcimbi kunye nezifundo ezibonisa malunga nesiqingatha esiphela kuqhawulo-mtshato kunye namaqabane amaninzi aqaphela ukuziva engcatshiwe. Ukuba wena okanye iqabane lakho niqhathile, thatha ixesha lokucinga malunga nokuphelisa umtshato okanye ukuzama ukuwugcina lolona khetho lulungileyo kuni nobabini.
