Umhlala phantsi uphawula eyona nto ibalulekileyo ebomini kwaye kufuneka unikwe ingqalelo ngendlela engalibalekiyo. Ukuba ubamba itheko lomhlala phantsi, qiniseka ukuba uqala ukucwangcisa kwangethuba ukuze ukhumbule eli thuba libalulekileyo kumlingane wakho, umhlobo, okanye ilungu losapho ukuze kungabikho zinkcukacha zingahoywayo.
Isiseko soCwangciso lwePati
Uhlobo lwePati
Phambi kokuba uzisongele kuloluphi uhlobo lwekeyiki yoku-odola, kuya kufuneka uthathe ixesha lokucinga ngohlobo lwepati yomhlala-phantsi lowo uza kuba naye / umhlobo wakho angalonwabela. Cinga ngoku kulandelayo:
- Ummangaliso: Nokuba uyayenza okanye awuyenzi ipati ukuba ibe liqela elothusayo kuxhomekeke kuwe. Gcina ukhumbula undwendwe oluhloniphekileyo kunye nento ocinga ukuba angayonwabela kakhulu ipati. Ukuba uyazi ngokuqinisekileyo ukuba umntu akathandi ukumangaliswa, sukumphosela itheko lothusayo. Ungabuza iqabane lakhe okanye umhlobo osenyongweni ukuba itheko elothusayo liya kufaneleka ukuba awuqinisekanga. Amaqela amakhulu ahlala engasebenzi kakuhle njengamaqela othusayo.
- Ubume: Ukuma ngokusesikweni komsitho kuxhomekeke kumntu omphosela ipati kunye nomzi mveliso abesebenza kuwo. Umzekelo, umntu ongeniswe ngakumbi unokonwabela isidlo sasemini esisenyongweni kunye nabahlobo kunye nabantu asebenza nabo, ngelixa umntu ophumayo angathanda ukuba yindawo yokuqwalaselwa kwindawo enkulu yangokuhlwa. Ukuba umhlala-phantsi ngumntu ophetheyo kwiqumrhu elinolondolozo, itheko lesidlo sangokuhlwa elisemthethweni kunokuba kufanelekile. Abo bakwimidlalo yeqonga, intengiso, okanye eminye imisebenzi yoyilo banokuyonwabela ipati ekhululekileyo.
- Imifanekiso yeQela leBhantshi laseHlobo
- Iingcamango zama-21 zeQela lokuzalwa
- Iindawo Zokuzalwa
Uluhlu lweeNdwendwe
Enye yezinto zokuqala ekufuneka uzenzile xa ucwangcisa itheko kukwenza uluhlu lweendwendwe. Ukuba ukufutshane nomhlala-phantsi, lo ingangumsebenzi olula. Ukuba awuqinisekanga ukuba ngubani oza kubandakanya olu luhlu, unokufuna ukumcela ukuba akuncede.
Aba bantu balandelayo kufuneka bafakwe kumaqela amaninzi omhlalaphantsi:
- Umlingane womhlala phantsi
- Abantwana bomhlala phantsi
- Umphathi kwangoko
- Abaphathi bangaphambili ahlala enxibelelana nabo
- Abasebenza kunye nabangoku
- Amalungu ebhodi okanye ebhunga (ukuba kufanelekile)
- Abathengi abakhulu (ukuba kufanelekile)
- Ubahlobo abasenyongweni
- Amalungu osapho awandisiweyo
Umhla nexesha
Iqela lomhlala-phantsi lihlala lisindlekwa ngexesha lomhlala-phantsi lomntu. Ngelixa amanye amaqela enokubanjwa kwiiveki ezimbalwa kwangaphambili, kungcono ukulinda de kuphele ingqesho yomntu. Zama ukubamba iqela kwiveki ezayo okanye ezimbini. Amaqela aphambili abanjwa ngomhla womhlala-phantsi okanye kwimpelaveki elandelayo. Itheko lisetyenziswa njengokuhambisa umhlala phantsi kwaye ukusondela kwelona xesha lokumka kwabo emsebenzini, kungcono.
iindlela zokuthi uxolo ngokulahleka kwakho
Iingcebiso zendawo
Indawo inokuthi ikhethwe ngokobungakanani bepati kunye nohlobo oceba ukusingatha. I-cocktails zasemva kweeyure kunye nezibheno kwibhar oyithandayo kunye nabantu osebenza nabo kunye nabafazi babo banokugqibelela kwiarhente yezemidlalo enabantu abangama-20 kuphela kuluhlu lwayo, kodwa iqela elikhulu elingaphezulu kwama-50 lidla ngokufuna ukucwangciswa okungakumbi.
Fumanisa ukuba ingaba ishishini apho umhlali ohloniphekileyo ethatha umhlala-phantsi inegumbi elikhulu lenkomfa. Ukuba uninzi lweendwendwe zisebenza kunye, kungavulwa indlu evulekileyo okanye ukutya okulungiselelwe ukutya kunye nemvume yenkampani. Olunye ukhetho lubandakanya:
- Amagumbi epati kwiindawo zokutyela okanye kwimivalo
- Iibhola zehotele okanye iholo yesidlo
- Iklabhu yelizwe yasekhaya
- Ikhaya lomntu
Isimemo
Kuqhelekile ukuba isibhengezo ngokubanzi sombutho senziwe kwincwadana yeendaba yenkampani okanye kumagosa asebenza ngokuthatha umhlala-phantsi, ebamemela kwimithendeleko xa bekhetha ukuya kuyo. Izimemo zihlala zithunyelwa kubahlobo, usapho kunye nabantu osebenza nabo. Isimemo seqela lomhlala-phantsi kufuneka siphume ubuncinci inyanga phambi kokuba wonke umntu acwangcise ukuya. Ezinye iinkcukacha eziza kubandakanya isimemo zezi:
- Umhla nexesha
- Indawo
- Ubume besiganeko
- Ukuba kufanelekile, ukugcina iqela lingothusi
- Ukuqwalaselwa okhethekileyo, njengokuza nesipho se-gag okanye ukunxiba into ethile yempahla
Izihloko zePati yomhlala-phantsi
Uninzi lwamaqela omhlala phantsi sisidlo sangokuhlwa esihamba kunye 'nokosa.' I-roast iya kusebenza njengomxholo ngokuhlwa. Kwirosi, iindwendwe zinokutshintshana zibalisa amabali ahlekisayo malunga nomhlala phantsi. Iindwendwe zisenokukhetha ukuthetha malunga nexesha elifanelekileyo kodwa elihlazo emsebenzini okanye zithethe ngento eyayiyindlela yokuziphatha eqhelekileyo yendwendwe ebekekileyo. I-roast yindlela entle yokuhlonipha umhlala-phantsi ngelixa ungeze umnxeba ukuba uburharha ekumkeni kwabo emsebenzini.
yimalini eyimali eyi-2 yeedola
Ukuba ufuna into eyahlukileyo, cwangcisa iqela elijikeleze omnye umxholo othile. Cinga ngezinto onomdla kuzo kunye nezinto ozithandayo kwaye uthathe iqela lakho ujonge ezo zinto. Khumbula ukuba itheko yindlela yokubulela undwendwe oluhloniphekileyo ngako konke ukusebenza kwakhe nzima nokuzimisela emsebenzini. Zininzi imixholo emnandi yokuzibandakanya ephathini, ngolu hlobo lulandelayo:
Indawo yokuBhiyozela
Mhlawumbi umhlala phantsi unendawo ayithandayo yeholide okanye ucwangcisa uhambo emva kokuthatha umhlala phantsi kwindawo engaqhelekanga. Iqela elinomdla elinokuba kuyo liyindlela emnandi yokubhiyozela umhlala phantsi. Umzekelo:
- IHawaii: Unokucwangcisa i-luau yaseHawaii kwaye unikeze iziphuzo zaseTropiki ngeambrela zokuzonwabisa kunye nokutya okuneziqithana ezinjengepinapple, inyama yehagu, i-chicken skewers eyosiweyo, intlanzi entsha kunye nesonka esimnandi saseHawaii. Qiniseka ukuba uhombise ngeentyatyambo ezininzi zaseTropiki, imithi yesundu engeyonyani, izikethi zengca, iitotshi zetiki, iikhokhonathi kunye neleis.
- Mekhsikho: Umhlalaphantsi angathanda ukuhamba aye eMexico. Yenza fiesta yaseMexico. Bonisa i-piñata enemibala eqaqambileyo, dlala umculo waseMexico okanye waseSpain kwaye uthambise undwendwe olubekekileyo ngemargarita. Ukutya kungalungiswa kwi-buffet kwaye kubandakanya intlawulo yesiqhelo yaseMexico yeetshipsi kunye neesalsa, tacos, nachos kunye ne fajitas. Hombisa ngemibala eqaqambileyo enjengeorenji, bomvu, pinki namthubi. Yenza i-accent kwigumbi nge-sombreros kunye nepelepele ukuze ubambe umthendeleko.
Yiya ezantsi kwiNdlela yeMemori
Olunye uluvo lweqela lomhlala-phantsi kukudala ukubukeka kwesikhumbuzo kwimpumelelo yomhlala-phantsi. Beka kunye ividiyo malunga nomhlala phantsi. Yiba nabahlobo, usapho kunye nabantu osebenza nabo banike irhafu kumhlala-phantsi kwividiyo. Hlanganisa iifoto kwindawo yengqesho ukusuka kwixesha elidlulileyo ukuza kuthi ga ngoku. Ukuhonjiswa kunokuba ngumxube weefoto kunye nezinto ezivela kumashumi eminyaka ahlukeneyo kunye neminyaka athe umhlala phantsi wasebenza emsebenzini wakhe. Ungambonisa umhlala-phantsi ngeincwadi ekhethekileyo yokuqhekezaIinkumbulo njengesipho sokuthatha umhlala-phantsi ngokunjalo.
Umxholo wokuzonwabisa
Unokusebenzisa umdlalo owuthandayo wokuthatha umhlala phantsi okanye umdlalo njengomxholo. Izinto endizithandayo ezinje ngegalufa, ukuhamba ngesikhephe kunye namakhadi kunokuba kuhle kwimixholo. Qwalasela ezi zimvo zilandelayo:
- Kwigolfer, iitafile zinokuhonjiswa ngetiye zegalufa kunye neeflegi. Iziko linokuba ziivazi ezizaliswe ngeebhola zegalufa. Isatifikethi sesipho kwivenkile yegalufa okanye kumjikelo wegalufa iya kuba sisipho esifanelekileyo sokuxhasa umxholo.
- Iqela elinomxholo we-nautical liyimfuneko nakweyiphi na i-boater. Hombisa ngesanti, iigobolondo zaselwandle kunye nezibane. Bonisa ifoto yendwendwe ebekekileyo kwisikhephe sabo njengendawo ekugxilwe kuyo.
- Umdlali wekhadi elinomxholo wephathi unokuba yinto elula njengokusetha iitafile zamakhadi kunye nokusebenzisa iikhadi zamakhadi eendawo. Sasaza ii-chips kunye ne-dice ezijikeleze iitafile ukugqiba ukujonga. Ngaba iindwendwe zidlala amakhadi njengowona msebenzi uphambili. Gcina ukutya neziselo kulula kwaye zikhawuleza, ukuze ube nakho ukonwabela itheko.
Imenyu yeqela
Akukho qela ligqibeleleyo ngaphandle kokutya. Inani kunye nohlobo lokutya okhetha ukukuphaka kuxhomekeke kwiqela lomhlalaphantsi ngokwalo.
- Amaqela angacwangciswanga afana neebhakhari ezisemva kwendlu zihlala zinikwa isitayile se-buffet, kunye nezinja ezishushu, ii-cookies, iichips, isaladi kunye nekhekhe.
- Imisitho esesikweni ihlala inesidlo sekhosi ezintathu, njengokuIsaladi kaKesare, esona sityainkukhu iMarsalangeimifuno ebilayoicala, kunye aikeyiki yomhlalaphantsiidizethi.
Ngaphandle kokutya okuhanjisiweyo, ikeyiki yokukhumbula umhlalaphantsi wakhe kufuneka ibeyolonwabo. Ngaba ibunjiwe okanye iyilelwe ukunxulumana nomzi-mveliso othathe umhlala phantsi kuwo. Ngenye indlela, yenza uyilo oluhle lokusongelwa ngentetho ethi 'Siyavuyisana noMhlala-phantsi wakho' nomhla kunye negama lomntu.
Imihlobiso kunye noKuthanda
Ukuhonjiswa kweqela kunokubopha umxholo okanye kugcinwe kulula. Imihlobiso Unokuba ziibhaluni, ukusasaza, kunye nebhanner enkulu enebinzana elinje:
- Eyona minqweno mihle kuMhlala-phantsi wakho, Tony!
- Siyavuyisana nawe, Angela!
- Nantsi iminyaka yakho engama-30!
Izinto ezithandwa liqela zinokusebenza njengemihombiso kunye nethokheni ekhethekileyo yeendwendwe. Ukuthanda iqela lomhlala phantsi kunokuba zizinto ezinje:
Ungayifumana njani kwakhona imiyalezo yakudala
- Ipipi eneIsisongeli esenzelwe wena
- Ibhokisi oyithandayo izaliswe ngamandongomane okanye iitshokholethi ezenziwe ekhaya
- Iitoti ezizezakho neeminti
Iinketho zokuzonwabisa
Uninzi lwamaqela omhlala-phantsi luxhomekeke kwi-toast njengeyona ndlela iphambili yolonwabo. Umgcini wepati yomhlala-phantsi uhlala esebenza njenge-emcee. Abo bathambisa i-toast banokubandakanya undwendwe lwomphathi wewonga, umntu osebenza naye, nokuba ngumlingane / umntwana / umhlobo osondeleyo. Ukuba ucwangcisa iqela lomhlala phantsi, qiniseka ukuba ubuze abantu abanesaziso esaneleyo kwangaphambili sokuba babhale i-toast emfutshane ebhaliweyo.
Ngokwesiqhelo, ukonwatyiswa okukhethekileyo kugcinelwa awona maholide makhulu. Amaqela apho abahlobo, abantu osebenza nabo, kunye nosapho bamenyiwe kwisidlo sangokuhlwa banokuba ne-disc jockey okanye iqela elincinci lokudlala iingoma ngexesha lesidlo sangokuhlwa, kunye nomdaniso omfutshane oza kulandela.
Izipho zomhlala-phantsi
Ukuba ucwangcisa ipati yomhlala-phantsi emsebenzini, ngaba kulisiko ukuba unike umhlala-phantsi isipho esincinci okanye ithokheni yombulelo wenkampani. Oku kunokuba semigceni yewotshi, amakhonkco eekhofu, okanye isixhobo se-elektroniki. Ukuba usebenza kumzi mveliso othile, inokuthi ihambelane nomsebenzi, nawo.
Abahlobo kunye namalungu osapho okanye abantu abasebenza nabo abafuna ukunika undwendwe isipho banokufuna ukuqwalasela ukudibanisa imali yabo kunye nokuthenga into umhlala-phantsi angayonwabela ngoku sele egqibile ukusebenza. Ubulungu beklabhu yelizwe unyaka wonke, iiklabhu zegalufa, okanye iiklasi eziqhubekayo zemfundo yabantu abadala kwikhosi eyonwabisayo inokuba yinto ayonwabileyo umhlala phantsi.
Izipho ezizodwa azenziwa ngokwesiko; Nangona kunjalo, ukuba ungathanda ukunika isatifikethi esincinci sesipho sokutya kwindawo yakhe yokutyela ayithandayo, kufanelekile ngokupheleleyo. Kwiimeko ezininzi, kufanelekile ikhadi elicingwe kakuhle kunye neminqweno yakho esuk 'entliziyweni.
Imicimbi engalibalekiyo
Nokuba uthini umthendeleko owusingathe umhlala-phantsi, ngokuqinisekileyo inokuba yinto engalibalekiyo kunye nocwangciso olulula. Zinike ixesha elininzi kwaye ungoyiki ukucela uncedo. Abantu abangakumbi onokukunceda ngaphandle, inkqubo iya kuba yincinci. Undwendwe oluhloniphekileyo luyakuxabisa konke ukucwangciswa kwepati okuye kwitheko lokonwaba.
