Funda ngakumbi ngothando lwesini lesini!
Ukuva okokuqala amabali ama-lesbian avela kubafazi aqala njengenkcubeko phakathi kwabahlobo abasondeleyo. Njengokwamkelwa kwenkcubeko yamafanasini, uncwadi, umabonwakude, kunye nomfanekiso bhanyabhanya nawo uphonononge lo mxholo ukusukela kokwanga kokuqala ukuya kubomi bonke.
Iingxaki zokuba liLesbian
Enye yezinto ezenza ukuba okokuqala amabali athandana namanye athandeke kangaka zizithintelo kunye nemiceli mngeni ahlala ezibonisa. E-US ngokukodwa, ubufanasini buye batyeshelwa kwaye babetshutshiswa kakhulu kude kube ngamashumi eminyaka akutshanje. Oku kwenza ukuba kube nzima kakhulu kwabasetyhini, abancinci nabadala, ukuba bachonge, baqhubekeke, kwaye badibanise iimvakalelo zobungqingili ebomini babo.
Amanqaku afanelekileyo
- Imifanekiso emi-10 emihle yeziBini ezithandanayo
- Izinto ezili-10 ezimnandi ukuThetha kwiQabane lakho
- Iifoto ezili-10 zeZibini eziMnandi zaseLuthando
Ngaphandle kokuba umntu obhinqileyo abe nohlobo oluthile lomzekelo wokuxhasa okanye ulwakhiwo oluxhasayo ubufanasini, mhlawumbi bazokuziva ukuba iimvakalelo zabo kunye neminqweno yesondo ngandlela thile imbi, kwaye bazive benetyala ngabo. Rhoqo xa i-lesbian iqala ichonga iimvakalelo zomtsalane nothando lothando kwabanye abantu basetyhini, iya kuzama ukuyikhanyela kwaye ibacinezele. Nokuba oku kuyimpumelelo (kwaye iminqweno yebhayoloji kunzima ukudlula kuyo) inokubangela uxinzelelo olukhulu ngokwasemzimbeni nangokwasemzimbeni. Inxalenye yokubaluleka kokwabelana ngala mabali 'aphumayo' kukuba amantombazana athandana nawo akwazi ukuziva ekoyisile imingeni ekwabelwana ngayo. Iqinisekisa umzabalazo wabo, kwaye iyabanceda ukuba baphilise kwiintlungu zokuziqonda ngokwabo.
Ukungabikho kweNkxaso
Amaxesha amaninzi ezi mvakalelo zibonwa njengezingalunganga okanye ezingezozamvelo, kwaye xa umntu athandana nabanye ezama ukuwabelana nabo abo abathembileyo uba semngciphekweni wokukhalinyelwa nokugxothwa. Kwezinye iinkcubeko, ngakumbi kuMbindi Mpuma, ukunganyamezelani kunokuba namandla kangangokuba kusongela ubomi, kodwa nase-US kukho amabali amaninzi eentlobano zesini egculelwa okanye esongelwa ngokwasemzimbeni okanye ebethwa ngenxa yabo. La mabali abiwe ngoku ngeendlela ezininzi, kodwa ngakumbi kwi-Intanethi. Ngaphandle kokuzaliswa okuxhaphakileyo kweendawo ezininzi ezinamabali abathandanayo abathandanayo abhalwe okokuqala kwimixholo engamanyala, kukho iiakhawunti zomntu wokuqala zeli xesha xa isini lesini sifika kumzuzu wokuzazi nokwamkelwa. Kwingqokelela enye ye Ukuza kwamabali , bobabini abesilisa nabasetyhini babelana ngamabali abo okuzazi kunye nokufumanisa, akukho mabali mabini ayafana ngokuchanekileyo, kodwa onke afana ngokufanayo kuloo mzuzu * wokukhanya, 'Ewe, ndiyintombazana. '
Ngaphandle komgaqo wokuba iintlungu ekwabelwana ngazo ziyancipha, ukwabelana ngala mabali bonwabile kwaye bebuhlungu omnye komnye kukwaqinisekisa ukusonjululwa kwabathandana nabanye ukunceda abanye ukuba bangadluli kwintlekele ezifanayo. Inxalenye yesizathu sokusebenza okuninzi ngabantu abathandana nabesini esinye nesini, kunye nabalingane babo. Amabhinqa amaninzi aphuma ngaphandle amnandi, nokuba avela kubazali abaphinda baqinisekisa uthando lwabo olungenamiqathango kwintombi yabo okanye kubahlobo kunye nabathandi abatsha ababona ukuba eli bhinqa liselula ekugqibeleni lifikile kolu luvo luqinisekileyo malunga nesini sakhe.
Ixesha lokuqala Amabali amaLesbian kwiNkcubeko yePop
Ngalo mdlalo we-lesbian uvakalelo lubandakanyekayo kumabali exesha lesini lesini, ayimangalisi into yokuba bekukho iingoma ezininzi, imidlalo, iimuvi, kunye nemidlalo yeTV ngayo. Yintoni enomdla ziindlela ezahlukeneyo ezibonakaliswa ngazo. Umzekelo, isihloko sengoma esidumileyo sithi 'Ndamanga Intombazana' - kodwa inyani kukuba, zimbini iinguqulelo zengoma. Inye, nguKaty Perry, enamazwi abonisa indlela isenzo esingavumelekanga, nesingavumelekanga ngayo isenzo, kwaye iphantse yadelelwa jikelele ngabantu abathandana nabathandana nabo kunye nendlela ababomeleza ngayo abo bathandana besini esinye. Kwelinye icala, UJill Sobule Wabhala u-1995 ngo-1995 eyayinengxelo ethe chatha nenobunyani yokujongana neemvakalelo zesini okokuqala.
Iimovie eziphambili zihlala zibonisa izinto ezingalunganga- ezinje Khala sana okanye I-Aimee kunye neJaguar , okanye babonise abathandana nabanye njengabantu abangaqhelekanga, njenge Izinto zasendle. Umabonwakude wenze umsebenzi ongcono kakhulu ekuboniseni ubunzima obabandakanyekayo, ngeziqendu ze Ngokuchasene Ngokukodwa ejongene nokuphuma kwakhe- zombini kumxholo webali eliyintsomi kolu ngcelele nakwindima yakhe njengenkwenkwezi yeTV.
imibuzo oza kuyibuza isoka lakho ngawe
Amabali othando athandana nabathandana nabathandana nabesetyhini ayinxalenye yemeko yomntu njengalo naliphi na ibali lothando okanye iakhawunti yobuqu, kwaye atyebisa wonke umntu ngokwabelana.
