Kufuneka wenze ntoni ukulungisa imeko xa inja yakho idlala rhabaxa?
Ingxaki: Inja idlala rhabaxa
Mholo,
Amanqaku anxulumeneyoNdingamnceda njani umntwana wethu onenyanga ezintandathu ILab ufunde indlela yokuziphatha efanelekileyo yokudlala? Ulungile kakhulu, kodwa xa evuya kakhulu kwaye efuna ukudlala, uqala ukutsiba kunye nokubetha ezandleni nasezingalweni zethu. Akazimiselanga ukwenzakalisa mntu, kodwa sinomntwana oneminyaka emihlanu noneminyaka emithathu ubudala kunye nosana oluneenyanga ezintandathu ekhaya.
imidlalo izibini ukudlala ekhaya
Le ndlela yokuziphatha kufuneka iyeke ngokukhawuleza, kodwa andiqinisekanga ukuba ndenze njani. Sizama ukwenza isiqhelo ukumvumela ukuba adlale ngaphandle ebusuku, kwaye abantwana babaleka naye eyadini imini yonke. Ngaphandle kokuba ngaphakathi kumgca wepropathi yethu, akabhalwanga nangayiphi na indlela kwaye unolawulo lwasimahla lweyadi.
Ngoku, indlela esiphatha ngayo inzondelelo yakhe egqithisileyo kukumbeka emqolo, simxelele ukuba 'hayi' kwaye simenze azithobe kuthi. Simncoma kakuhle xa ebonisa ukuziphatha kakuhle, kodwa kungekhona ngokuchulumancisayo ukuze singamvuseleli kwakhona.
Ngaba ikho into eyahlukileyo esimele ukuba siyayenza? Ngamanye amaxesha ndiye ndixhalabele ukhuseleko lwabantwana, ubukhulu becala kunye nokuba rhabaxa kakhulu ngempazamo.
Ndijonge phambili kwimpendulo yakho.
Iintsikelelo~~ Nahomi
ixabisa malini ikati eyindoda
Impendulo yeNgcali
Molo uNahomi,
Ngokusisiseko uqalise kakuhle ngoqeqesho lwenja yakho. Nangona kunjalo, kuya kufuneka ulungelelanise ulindelo lwakho ngelixa inja yakho iseyinjana.
Nazi iingcebiso zam:
- Qhubeka ngokuthobela ixesha lokuphuma. Le yindlela ebalaseleyo yokwazisa inja yakho ukuba ihambe kakhulu.
- Qonda ukuba njengenjana eneenyanga ezintandathu ubudala, unamandla alinganiselweyo okuqonda nokugcina ukulungiswa kwindlela yokuziphatha oyicelayo kuye. Akukho ngxaki ekuyiceleni, kuba ekugqibeleni uya kufumana umbono, izakuthatha ixesha elide kunokuba ubulindele.
- Okwangoku, mmisele impumelelo. Ungawuvumeli umdlalo ukuba ube kude kakhulu esandleni. Gcina iseshoni imnandi ngobulali ngaphandle kokuba avuseleleke kakhulu.
- Qeda ixesha lokudlala xa isilungiso esizithobayo siyimfuneko. Oku kuqhubela ekhaya umyalezo wokuba ukucofa kuphelisa lonke ulonwabo.
- Unokumnqanda unxibelelwano lwakhe nabantwana bakho ngexesha leeseshoni zokudlala ezimiselweyo. Oku kuya kukuvumela ukuba ukhusele abantwana, kunye nokuvumela umyeni wakho okanye wena ukuba ugxininise ngokupheleleyo ekuziphatheni kwakhe ngexesha lokudlala kwaye wenze izilungiso ezifunekayo.
Ndiyakholelwa ukuba ukwindlela elungileyo, kodwa injana yakho ayizukuba ngummi ongumzekelo ngobusuku nje obunye. Akukho sicwangciso soqeqesho esigqibeleleyo esifanelana nazo zonke izinja. Kungumbandela wokwenza uhlengahlengiso oluchuliweyo njengoko usiya ukufumana indlela yokulungisa izinto.
Enkosi ngombuzo wakho, kunye nethamsanqa.
Abasetyhini abangcwele abangcwele kunye neentsingiselo zabo
~~ Kelly
Injana ihlafuna Iminwe
Intombi yam eneenyanga ezilishumi ubudala Impuku iTerrier yinja encinci emangalisayo. Unobubele, uyadlala, unamandla kwaye uyonwaba kakhulu. Ingxaki nantsi ingathi ucingba ndiyi toy yakhe yokuhlafuna umntu. Kutheni ehlafuna izandla zam xa engasenzi nomnye umntu?
~~ Uzuko
Impendulo yeNgcali
Molo Gloria,
imibuzo oza kuyibuza usapho lwakho ngawe
Makhe ndikubuze ukuba wenza ntoni xa kuqala ukuhlafuna. Ngaba uyayivumela, unika izikhalazo ezithambileyo kuphela okanye uqinile ekuxeleleni inja yentombi yakho ukuba 'Hayi' xa kuqala ukuhlafuna? Into apha kukuba kufuneka uqine kwaye uhambelane ukuze ufundise inja ukuyeka ukuziphatha okungafunwayo.
Kusenokubakho nevumba elahlukileyo ezandleni zakho ukuba Terrier ufumana enomtsalane. Ngaba ungumpheki ophambili entsatsheni? Ukuba kunjalo, ivumba lokunye ukutya lihlala lihleli nasemva kokuhlamba izandla, ngoko usenokunuka kamnandi.
Ndincoma ukuba usebenzise i-firm nomyalelo ngalo lonke ixesha injana iqala ukuhlafuna izandla zakho, kwaye ugcine ithoyizi efanelekileyo yokuhlafuna ekufutshane ukuze umnike yona. Ukuba oku akusebenzi, unokhetho oluninzi.
- Xelela injana ukuba hayi kwaye uyibeke phantsi ngoko nangoko. Oku kuthetha uthando nengqalelo Yeka xa engenzi unothanda. Oku kunokuba luncedo kakhulu kwezinye izinja.
- Zama ukutshiza izandla zakho ngeBitter Apple spray kwaye umvumele azame ukuzihlafuna. Ngethemba incasa iyakumlahla. Iiseshini ezimbalwa zale meko zinokwenza iqhinga.
Ithamsanqa, kwaye enkosi ngombuzo wakho.
~~ Kelly
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