Chaza izinto onokuzithetha kulowo umthandayo ezixelela ukuba ubakhathalele kakhulu. Iintetho azisoloko zithandana okanye zinoshukela ukuba zamkelwe kakuhle. Ukuthandana okuncinci kunokuhamba umgama omde, kodwa kubalulekile ukuba umazise umntu omthandayo ukuba uyamhlonipha kwaye ufuna ukufunda banzi malunga nokucinga kwakhe.
Izinto eziCingelwayo zokuThetha kumntu omthandayo
Izinto ezininzi zokuthetha okanyeimibuzo oza kuyibuzaoyithandayo enokubonakala ngathi inobungozi kodwa inokwenza umbono oqinisekileyo:
- Ndixelele konke malunga nosuku lwakho.
- Ucinga ntoni malunga (faka isihloko apha)?
- Ungathanda ukwenza ntoni kwisidlo sangokuhlwa ngokuhlwanje?
- Uziva njani?
- Ihambe njani loo nto ibalulekileyo (intlanganiso, udliwanondlebe, intetho, njl. Njl.)?
- Ungenza ntoni kule mpelaveki ukuba unokwenza nantoni na oyifunayo?
- Yintoni entsha kusapho / kubahlobo bakho?
- Izinto ezili-10 ezimnandi ukuThetha kwiQabane lakho
- Iindlela ezili-10 zokuYila zokuba Ndiyakuthanda
- I-8 Iimbono zezipho zothando kuye
Ukuncoma Okubonisa Uthando
Olunye uluvo lwemihla ngemihla olunokwenza uncumo lomthandi wakho luyancoma, njengale ilandelayo:
- Ubonakala umhle namhlanje, njengemihla ngemihla.
- Uhlala uyazi into elungileyo oyithethayo ukuze undincumele.
- Ndibe nemini embi, kodwa ndithe ndakukubona, ndonwaba kanye.
- Ndiyakukhumbula xa ungekho apha. Uyenza imini yam igqibe.
- Ungoyena mntu wakrelekrele. (Faka isilumko kunye naso nasiphi na isichazi esifanelekileyo osithandayo.)
- Uhlala undihlekisa, ngendlela elungileyo.
Vuyisa Umntu Omthandayo
Ngamanye amaxesha udinga izinto oza kuzithetha kulowo umthandayo xa efuna ukukhuthazwa. Inye into ekufuneka uyenzile kukuzisa isiqhulo sangaphakathi phakathi kwenu sobabini esihlala sibeka uncumo ebusweni besithandwa sakho. Ukuba ayisebenzi, zama enye yezi:
- Kutheni ilusizi kangaka? (Yitsho oku ngelixa umnika imbonakalo entle kakhulu.)
- Nokuba yintoni na, sinokuyiphatha ngcono kunye.
- Uya kuba ngumntu onamandla ngokwenza oku.
Izinto ezithandwayo zokuThetha kuLowo Umthandayo
Ngelixa ingeyiyo yonke into ekufuneka ibe yeyothando, kukho, ewe, ixesha kunye nendawo. Abanyeizinto zothando ukutsho kwisithandwa sakhozezi:
- Yonke imihla ndikunye nawe, uthando lwam kuwe luya lusomelela. Andikwazi kulinda kude kube ngomso.
- Ubomi bam butyebile kakhulu kuba ndinawe kulo.
- Andikwazi ukuyeka ukujonga amehlo akho athakazelisayo.
- Andikwazi ukubucinga ubomi bam ngaphandle kwakho ukuba ube yinxalenye yawo.
Ewe unako ukuhlala uthi, 'Ndiyakuthanda.'
Izixhobo zoKuthanda ngakumbi ukuThetha
Awuphelelanga kwizimvo ezimfutshane ezinengcinga. Cinga ukusebenzisa iikowuti kunye nemibongo ukubonisa uthando lwakho emntwini.
Iingcaphuno kunye namazwi
Izicatshulwa ezithandwayo kunye neentetho yindlela entle yokuxelela umntu ukuba uziva njani. Cinga ngoku:
- Amabinzana anomtsalane-Ukuba uyathandana akuthethi ukuba ngekhe ube ngumtsalane ngokunjalo. Zama elinye lala mabinzana ukwenza ukuba umhlobo wakho akubone ngokukhanya okwahlukileyo.
- Disney thanda iikowutiIsicatshulwa esimnandi somdlalo bhanyabhanya esivela kwifilimu yeDisney ethandekayo sinokuzisa uncumo ebusweni bomntu omthandayo kunye neflutter encinci entliziyweni yakhe.
- Iimpawu zothando oluhle-Khetha into emnandi ukuyithetha kwiqabane lakho eyongeza ubumnandi kothando lwakho.
- Amazwi amnandi-Uthando olunengcinga unokufumana into emnandi xa usithi isisombululo esifanelekileyo xa ubambe ulwimi.
Imibongo yothando
Ukuba umntu omthandayo ukude, yithi aUmbongo wothando oludeNgelixa uthetha emnxebeni umazise ukuba ucinga ngabo. Inkqubo ye-eyona mibongo yothandozivela kubabhali abadumileyo, ke ungoyiki ukuzama into ebhalwe ngomnye umntu ukuba awukwazi ukuza neyakho intetho.
Lizwi Uthando lwakho
Ukuthumelanothando,iileta, Kwaye iitekisi zihlala zixatyiswa ngumntu omthandayo. Nangona kunjalo, ukuvakalisa iimvakalelo zakho ngelizwi elicingayo yindlela eqinisekileyo yokufumana umdla wakhe kunye nokwabelana nentliziyo yakho.
