Iileta zothando ezinomdla zibonelela ngendlela yokugcina kunye nokwenza nzulu ukusondelelana. Nokuba yeyiphi na ifomu abayithathayo, amazwi othando ahlala exatyiswa. Aileta emnandi yothandoinokukunceda ukuhambisa into onokuba neentloni ukuyithetha buqu, okanye inokuba sisiqalo njeukuveza iimvakalelo ngesithandwa sakho. Le mizekelo mine ikwabonelela ngeeleta onokuzisebenzisa njengendawo yokuqala ukubhala ileta yakho yothando.
Imizekelo yeleta yothando
Sebenzisa ezi leta ukukhuthaza. Umthandi wakho uya kukubulela.
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Uthando olutsha
UAmanda othandekayo,
Andizange ndiyazi ukuba ubomi bunokuvuya njani de ndibubone ubuso bakho.
Intliziyo yam ixhuma-xhuma njengengcungcu xa ibaleka.
Le nto andikaze ndiyive ngaphambili, kwaye nguwe oyikhuthazayo.
Xa ndicinga ngawe kunye neencoko zethu ezityebileyo, ndiziva ndifudumele ngaphakathi.
Andikwazi ukulufihla uncumo lwam, nokuba sele sahlukene.
Olu nxibelelwano lukhethekile, luyamangalisa, kwaye ndinobuganga bokutsho, ikamva.
Uninzi libuze into eyenzekileyo ukuyila le intsha kwaye ingcono kum.
Ndiyabaxelela, ngaphandle kwamathandabuzo, nguwe.
Ngamanye amaxesha ndiziva ngathi intliziyo yam iya kugqabhuka ngalo lonke ulangazelelo kunye nemincili endiziva xa ndicinga ngawe.
Ukujonge phambili kumhla wethu olandelayo, umhle.
Ngamana ngamnye angangcono kunowokugqibela ukuba oko kunokwenzeka.
Ozithobileyo,
UDave
Ndiyakukhumbula
UDarling Jake,
Ebusuku, ndilala phantsi kwaye ndicinga ukuba ulapha kunye nam.
Bendingazi nje ukuba luzahlula kanjani entliziyweni yam.
Ndiyathemba ukuba awukho kubunzima obugqithisileyo njengoko ndinjalo ngaphandle kwakho.
Bathi ukungabikho kwenza intliziyo ikhule, kwaye uthando lwam alunamida.
Ndilele ndivukile kwaye ndiva ukufudumala komphefumlo wakho njengoko uza kuwela esidleleni.
Ndicinga ukuba ubushushu bomzimba wakho bucinezelwe kum; Ubulukhuni bezihlunu zakho ezimalunga nokuthamba kwam.
Ndiyajika ndabeka intloko yam ngakumqamelelo, ndisiva ukubetha kwentliziyo yakho kusisilumko endlebeni yam.
Amabhabhathane aliwaka ancamisa ulusu lwam, kwaye ndinqwenela ukuva ukuthamba kwemilebe yakho.
Ngelixa ndisazi ukuba siza kuphinda sibe kunye, ukulangazelela kwakho ukungabikho kwakho kuqinisa kuphela ubunzulu benyani yam.
Ndide ndikubone kwaye ndikubambe kwakhona, uya kuhlala uhlala kwindawo yonke kumaphupha am.
Owakho,
Emily
Ukukhula ngokusondeleyo
UDelila,
Lonke igama olithembayo kum, lonke ixesha elimangalisayo nelibi owabelana ngalo nam, liyanyibilika ngaphakathi.
Uyazivumela ukuba ube sesichengeni kunye nam kwaye undithembe ngaphaya kokuqonda kwam.
Andizange ndicinge ukuba ndingafumana omnye umntu endifuna ukuchitha ixesha elininzi kunye naye, onokubuchaphazela ngokwenyani ubomi bam ngendlela onayo, nokuba ungazama. Ndikulindele ixesha elininzi elikhethekileyo kunye. Xa ndikubona, ndibona ikamva lam.
Oku akuthethi nje. Kusuka entliziyweni.
Ndiphelelwe ngumnqweno wokuba kunye nawe, ukuthetha nawe nokuziva usondele kum.
Ndifuna ukukubamba, ndithethe nawe, ndihleke nawe, ndikhale nawe.
Ndifuna ukudlala, ukuhamba, ukudanisa kwaye ndibekho kunye nawe. Ndicinga ukuba unokuba yinto yam yonke. Ndiyazi ukuba ndifuna ukuba yinto yonke kuwe.
Kutheni iibhili ezi-2 zeedola zinqabile
Xa sikunye, ndiyalubona uthando emehlweni akho.
Xa ucinga ngekamva lakho, uyandibona ndikulo, ndilinde ngezandla ezivulekileyo?
NdiyakuthandanaNgokwenene, ngempambano, ngokunzulu, kwaye ndilindele impendulo yakho.
Ngothando Njengamaxesha onke,
indlela yokwenza ioyile efunekayo ekhaya
Eugene
Ukutsala okungapheliyo
Sithandwa sam,
Emva kwayo yonke le minyaka sikunye, intliziyo yam isabhabha xa ungena egumbini.
Emehlweni am, uyakhula mhle ngakumbi kunyaka ngamnye odlulayo.
Wonke umntu usixelele ukuba uthando luyaphela ekugqibeleni xa abantu ababini bechitha ixesha lokuphila kunye, kodwa ayiyonyani leyo kuthi, akunjalo?
Ndifuna wena namhlanje njengoko ndenzayo xa uthando lwethu lwalulutsha, kwaye yonke into oyenzayo indibonisa ukuba uziva ngendlela efanayo ngam.
Kuya kufuneka ndijonge kuwe, kwaye oko kuchukumisa kungwevu kwitempile yakho kundenza ndifune ukucofa imilebe yam apho kwaye ndive ukubetha komzimba kuqala ukubetha kancinci.
Ndifuna ukushiya umkhondo wokwanga okuthambileyo esidleleni sakho ndide ndifikelele kwimilebe yakho egqibeleleyo.
Ndifuna ukumanga loo milomo ngokunzulu ithatha ukuphefumla kwakho kwaye ikuvuyise ngezithembiso zolonwabo oluzayo.
Okwangoku, unokucinga ukuba zingayintoni ezo ziyolo, kwaye ngokuhlwanje, ndiza kuzizalisekisa ezo zithembiso.
Silindele ingokuhlwa yothando,
Uthando Lwakho Olunye
Ukubhala ileta enomdla
Ukuba ufuna ukubhala ileta eshushu yothando kulowo umthandayo okanye umnqwenelayo, kuya kufuneka wenze izinto ezintathu.
Yenza iMood
Ukubhala ngokulukuhla, kuya kufuneka uzive ulahlekisa. Ukwenza umtsalane, kufuneka uzive unomdla. Ukulingwa, kufuneka uzive ulingeka. Unokwenza imood ngokucinga ngento oza kuyithetha kwaye uyenze ukuba iqabane lakho belikhona, okanye unakokhanyisa amakhandlela, Beka umculo othile kwaye wenze imood ngaloo ndlela.
Yiba nomfanekiso-ngqondweni weempendulo
Inyathelo lesibini ekubhaleni into oyithandayo kukucinga ngendlela oza kuphendula ngayo iqabane lakho kule nto uyibhalayo. Ukukhetha ulwimi kubalulekile kuba ufuna yenayiva imvakaleloNjengamava kwisithembiso sento oyithumelayo.
Bhala ileta yakho ngesandla
Kwilizwe apho unxibelelwano lulawulwa yi-intanethi, ileta ebhalwe ngesandla isondele kakhulu kunangaphambili. Khawufane ucinge ngegama ngalinye njengesibetho esincinci esichaphazela umphefumlo wesithandwa sakho.
Ezinye iileta zothando
Ukuba akukho nasinye isampulu zeleta zothando ezingasentla zikunceda ukuba uthethe into ofuna ukuyithetha, eminye imizekelo inokunceda.Imizekelo yeeleta zothando kulutshaUnokunceda abantu abancinci benze ileta yothando engagcwele imixholo yabantu abadala. AIleta ebhalwe ngothando ibhalelwe umyeni wakhoinokukunceda unxibelelane kwakhona nendoda ebomini bakho. Ungabhala ifayile ye-ileta emangalisayo eyimfihloukuvuma uthando lwakho ungazivezi ukuba ungubani. Kwaye kuba uthando alusoloko luhlobo lothando, zikhonaiisampulu zosuku lomtshato ezivela kumama ziye kunyana.
Yiba ngokwakho, ube sesichengeni
Iileta zothando kakhulu zezona zikushiya uvulekile ukwaliwa. Kuya kufuneka uthembe isithandwa sakho kwaye nawe ngokwakho ubenakho ukubeka konke phaya. Yiba semngciphekweni, uthembeke, kwaye uzivumele uzive iimvakaleloamazwi akhokhuthaza. Ukuba uziva nabo, iqabane lakho liya kwenza njalo, kwaye yiyo loo nto yenza ileta enomtsalane kumlingo omsulwa.
