Umculo unokuba yindlela enamandla yokuvakalisa iimvakalelo ngabantakwenu. Eli nqaku lithetha ngeengoma eziyi-50 ezikhuthaza ulwalamano oluphakathi kwabazalwana noodade. Ukusuka kwiingoma ezibetha phezulu ukuya kucula kunye ukuya kwiibhola zeemvakalelo malunga nelahleko, ezi ngoma zibamba ubunzima kunye nobunzulu bobudlelwane babantwana bakowenu. Nokuba ukufutshane okanye wahlulwe ngumgama, ezi ngoma ziya kukukhumbuza ngonxibelelwano olungaqhawukiyo. Qhubeka ufunde ukuze ufumane uluhlu lweengoma eziquka ngokugqibeleleyo uvuyo, intlungu, ukuzingca, kunye nothando oluza nokuba nabazalwana noodade. Ukususela kwilizwe ukuya kwelinye, ezi ngoma zisuka entliziyweni zithetha ngokuzalana okungenakuchazwa kodwa okungathandabuzekiyo kwabantakwabo.
Abantakwenu kunye noodade bakho ngabahlobo bakho bokuqala kwaye ngabahlobo bakho banaphakade. Ezi ngoma zimalunga nabantakwenu abanokuthi bangahlali bevana okanye bebona ngasonye, kodwa xa ityhala ifika ukutyhala, baya kuhlala benemiqolo yomnye.
Iingoma ezimalunga nabazalwana
Umntakwenu wayenentlungu xa wawumncinane, kodwa ngoku ungumntu omjongileyo nomhlonelayo. Mkhumbuze ngendawo anayo ebomini bakho ngengoma.
Amanqaku anxulumeneyo
- Imibongo ehlekisayo malunga nokugqiba iminyaka engama-50
- Uluhlu lweeLeyibhile zeRekhodi
- Indlela yokuqaphela inja efayo kwimizuzu yokugqibela
'Abazalwana beGazi' - uLuka Bryan
Iingoma zelizwe zinendlela yokutsala intliziyo, kwaye le yenye yezo ngoma. UBryan uphulukene nabakhuluwa bakhe bobabini, wongeza umaleko owongezelelekileyo 'wokubamba abo basondeleyo kuwe ngokuqinileyo kangangoko unako,' kwingoma.
'Akanzima, Ngumntakwethu' - The Hollies
Le ngoma igxininisa ukuba umntakwabo uya kwenza nantoni na kumntakwabo. Ubunzima bakhe abusoze bube nzima kakhulu, umthwalo awuze ube mkhulu kakhulu ukuba ungawuthwala.
'Kwenzeka ntoni Mzalwana'-uMarvin Gaye
Umbhali wengoma kunye nemvumi edumileyo, ongasekhoyo uMarvin Gaye, wabhala le klasiki ebhalela umntakwabo owabuyela eMelika eyahluke kakhulu kwiMfazwe yaseVietnam.
'Umzalwana' - Kodaline
Le ngoma ye-indie-pop ayaziwa kangako ngabantu abaninzi, kodwa sisipho esikhulu sabazalwana. Inikela imbeko kumanyano lobuzalwana olungenakuze lwaphulwe.
'ABC' - uJackson Five
ABC ayithethi malunga nobudlelwane bobuzalwana, kodwa iculwa lelona qela libalaseleyo lamaxesha onke. Nantoni na uJackson Five kufuneka ibe yijam yabantakwabo.
Iingoma ze/Mayela nooSista
Usisi ngumhlobo osenyongweni wobomi bonke, umntu wokwabelana naye ngeemfihlo ezinzulu kunye neehempe ozithandayo. Ezi ngoma zichaza iqhina lakho lodade kwitee.
'Dade' - Dave Matthews Band
Usisi ibeka yonke into ngokwembono. Igxile kumzalwana othi encotsheni yempumelelo ulangazelela iintsuku ezilula kunye nothando nentuthuzelo kadade wabo.
igama into oyicingayo xa ucinga ngespain
'Yiza ngoMhla wokunetha' - uWynonna Judd
UJudd unodade omncinci odumileyo, ongumlingisi uAshley Judd. Imigca embalwa yale ngoma inikezelwe kusisi omncinci othandekayo kaWynonna.
'Dade, Owu Dade' - uRoseanne Cash
Ininzi into efundwa ngabantu koodade wabo abadala. Imali ivakalisa olu luvo luchanekileyo kwingoma yelizwe lakhe.
'Udade kuMzalwana' - uRob Finlay
Akazusoloko engumntwana ongusisi. Ingoma ihambelana nabo bonke abazalwana abakhulu abaye ngokukhawuleza babone amakhosazana abo anomsila wehagu njengabafazi.
'Intombazana esemlilweni'-uAlicia Keys
Ukhanyisa umhlaba kwaye uthatha yonke into ayibambayo ngesaqhwithi. Ubungenakuzingca ngo sisi wakho, kwaye le ngoma ithi yonke.
'Udade omdala' - uCarly Simon
Imvumi uCarly Simon ngokucacileyo umthanda usisi wakhe omkhulu. Le ngoma yabhalwa kwaye yenziwa njengembeko kudade omdala uLucy ngaphambi kokuba abethwe.
'Umoya ngaphantsi kwamaphiko am'-uBette Midler
Isipho esihle kumntu obujonge kuye ubomi bakho bonke. Usisi wakho ngoyena mhlobo wakho kunye neqhawe lakho.
'Ndiza kukukhathalela' - uDixie Chicks
Ekuqaleni eyenziwa nguKenny Rogers, ingoma ikhumbuza nawuphi na udade osondeleyo kwaye kude ukuba baya kuhlala benomntu obathandayo.'
'Udade omncinci' - Jewel
Ukubukela umntakwenu esilwa nengxaki yokukhotyokiswa kukudinwa. Le ngoma ngokuqinisekileyo ibonisa ukuba iimvakalelo zokuphelelwa lithemba abantu abanazo xa into abayifunayo kukuba udade wabo aphile.
Iingoma Ezimalunga Nabantakwethu Bapasisiwe
Intlungu ebakho xa ufelwe ngumzalwana okanye udade inzima kakhulu. Akukho nto inokuphakamisa loo ntlungu, kodwa iingoma ezinjengalezi zivakala ngathi kukuwolana okuncinane ngamaxesha osizi .
'Ngaphezu kwakho'-uMiranda Lambert
ULambert kunye nomyeni wakhe owayesakuba nguBlake Shelton wabhala ingoma yomntakwabo kaShelton, owasweleka kabuhlungu ngenxa yengozi yemoto.
'Uya kuba ngubani namhlanje' - uKenny Chesney
Yingoma emnandi malunga nokukhumbula kunye nelahleko. Abo banabantakwabo abathatyathwa ngokukhawuleza kakhulu bayayazi imvakalelo yokuzibuza ukuba ngengubani umnakwabo okanye udade wabo namhlanje ukuba bebephila.
'Sibonene kwakhona'-uWiz Khalifa kunye noCharlie Puth
Le ngoma yayivakalisa umnqweno onamandla wokubona abo sibathandayo abangasekhoyo.
'Uthando Lwethu'-Bee Gees
I-Bee Gee hit ikwabizwa ngokuba yiNgoma ka-Andy, ebhalwe nguBarry Gibbs ebhalela umntakwabo, naye olilungu leqela leBee Gee. (Ecaphuka uAndy wathatha ubomi bakhe, kwaye emva konyaka iqela lomculo laqala ukucula.) Nabani na omameleyo unokuva uthando lukaBarry ngomhlobo wakhe osenyongweni emhlabeni, umntakwabo.
'Ndiqhuba ilori Yakho'-Lee Brice
Ingcamango nje yokulahlekelwa ngumntakwenu iphantse ibe yinto enzima ukuyinyamezela. Eli lizwe litshatsheleyo limalunga nokulahlekelwa ngumzalwana emfazweni, yaye kwanabo bangekafelwa bazalwana baya kufuna ukutsalela umntakwenu umnxeba babaxelele indlela abamthanda ngayo.
'Uthuli emoyeni'-Kansas
Le classic iyathomalalisa nawuphi na umphefumlo olahlekileyo esinye isiqingatha somntakwabo.
'Fade to Black'-Metallica
Amazwi anokuhambelana neemeko ezininzi, kuquka ingcamango yokuphulukana nento ekhethekileyo kuwe, njengomntakwenu.
'Ukuba izulu lalifuna iqhawe' - uJo Dee Messina
Ukuba umkhuluwa wakho wayengumntu omthandayo kunye neqhawe lakho, uya kufuna iibhokisi ezininzi zeethishu ukuze uphumelele le ngoma.
'Sela iBeer' - uLuke Bryan
Ingoma yabhalwa ngomnye umntu, kodwa uBryan wayirekhoda ukuphawula ukusweleka komntu osondeleyo kuye.
Iingoma Zabo Bahlulwe Ngumgama
Ekukhuleni kwakho anizange nahlukane, kodwa ekukhuleni kwakho, uye wahamba ngeendlela zakho. Ninokwahlulwa ngumgama, kodwa ezintliziyweni zenu, anikhe nibe kude.
'Tha Crossroads' - Bone Thugs-N-Harmony
Amagama abhalwe ngumngeni omncinci ukuwachaza njengoko aba bafana bengabona bathetha ngokukhawuleza kumdlalo we-rap, kodwa kunzima ukuphoswa ngumyalezo. Iqela labhala i-rap yomhlobo ongasekhoyo, u-Easy E. Wayefana nomzalwana kwiqela le-rap, kwaye kuyabonakala ukuba baya kumkhumbula ngonaphakade kwaye bamzilele.
'Udade wethu' - uReba McEntire
UReba ushiya i-voicemail egcwele uthando kwifowuni kadadewabo, ekhumbula iintsuku ezimnandi zakudala kwaye enqwenela ukudibana kwakhona.
'Heyi, Mzalwana' - Avicii
Ingoma, iphumile kwicwecwe legcisa lika-2013 Yinyani , imalunga nomzalwana othe qelele kubantakwabo kodwa osoloko ebagcina besondele entliziyweni yakhe.
'UMarta' - uRufus Wainwright
Le balladi inzima kwiimvakalelo. Nabani na onomntakwabo owahlukileyo kwaye ufuna ukuba abuyele ekhaya uya kuhambelana nomculo.
'Ibhola ekhatywayo yodaka'-uJack Johnson
UJohnson uyinkosi kwimiphefumlo epholileyo, ke le ngoma malunga nabazalwana abashiya ikholeji ngeentsuku ezi-2, ivakalelwa njengemizuzu emi-3 yonyango kuye nabani na ophulukene nomntakwabo.
'Isibhakabhaka esiOrenji'- uAlexi Murdoch
Inkwenkwe ishiya ikhaya isiya kuzibhaqa kodwa igqibe kwelokuba ithethe nabantakwayo phantsi kwesibhakabhaka esiorenji.
Iingoma ezimnandi ezinokudlalwa xa sidityaniswa kwakhona
Anikwazi kuchitha ixesha elininzi nomntakwenu, kodwa xa nidibene, lixesha lokubhiyoza.
'Abafana Babuyele Edolophini' - Thin Lizzy
Xa abazalwana bedibene, uyazi ukuba iya kuba yi-ruckus engapheliyo!
'Kulungile' - uMary J. Blige
Xa wena nabantwana bakowenu nikunye, ihlabathi lingawa kuba ngelo xesha, yonke into ihamba kakuhle.
'Oyena mhlobo'-uAaliyah equka uMissy Elliott
Abahlobo baya kuza bahambe, kodwa udadewenu ngoyena mhlobo wakho usenyongweni ngonaphakade.
'Amantombazana afuna nje ukonwaba'-uCyndi Lauper
Xa oodade beqokelelana, khwelani! Kunyanzelekile ukuba ibe lixesha elingalawulekiyo, elimnandi.
'Silusapho' - UDade Sledge
Ewe unjalo. Ayinguye wonke umntu ofumana konke, kodwa abantakwenu ngokuqinisekileyo bayakufumana!
'Abazalwana kunye noodade'-Coldplay
Xa wena nabantakwenu nidibana, ningunobangela wokuba nibe nenxaxheba. Lumka, hlabathi!
'Usapho' - uRodney Atkins
Ukudibana kwentsapho kunye nabantakwenu kuya kuzaliswa ngamahla-ndinyuka, amahla-ndinyuka, yintsini, uthando, nokubethwa okungeyongozi. Abazalwana noodade baba nexhala ngalo lonke ixesha, kodwa njengokuba isitsho kule ngoma, 'Ya kufuneka ndibathande!'
'Ngubani Othi Awungekhe Ugoduke'-uBon Jovi
Wena nabantakwenu niliqela lamabhaduli, kodwa kuzo zonke iindawo enikuzo nezinto enizibonileyo, ikhaya kulapho likhoyo. Ungahlala ugoduka.
'Le yeyamantombazana' - uMartina McBride
Ngokuhlwa, wena kunye noodadewenu niya kube niyibethelela le ngoma phezulu kwimiphunga yenu. Amandla entombazana!
'Umnqweno wam'-Rascal Flatts
Ngokuba ngubani na onganqweneliyo ukuba abe ngumzalwana wakhe ehlabathini?
Iingoma zokuphakamisa umntakwenu
Iingoma zinokukhuthaza kwaye zincede ukudlulisa umyalezo webhongo, uthando, kunye nenkuthazo kubantakwabo abafumana indlela yabo.
'Ndiya Kuma Ngakuwe' - Abazenzisi
Xa kubonakala kungekho mntu wumbi, umntakwenu uya kuma ngakuwe.
'Uya Kubakho'-Faith Hill
Kungakhathaliseki ukuba umzalwana okanye udade uhamba ngantoni na, okanye liliphi na inqanaba elibalulekileyo abalibhiyozelayo, uyakuba lapho, ubavuyisa.
Kwenzeka ntoni ukuba ubhaqwa uqhuba ixesha olibekelweyo
'Iintyatyambo zasendle' - uTom Petty
Hambani, bazalwana noodade.
'Ndonwabe ngakumbi'-Marshmello
Entliziyweni yakho, yonke into oyifunayo kumntakwenu okanye udadewenu kukuba bazifumanele intwana yolonwabo emhlabeni.
'Xa Sikhula'-uDiana Ross
Ingoma ithetha ngamathemba kunye namaphupha e-duo yabazalwana kunye nezicwangciso ezinkulu, kodwa ekugqibeleni konke abafuna ukukwenza kukuhlala besondelene ngonaphakade. Awwwwww. Iinjongo zokuzalana.
'Ndifunde Kuwe' - uMiley Cyrus
UKoreshi uthethe ngokuphandle yaye ngokufuthi ngothando lwakhe ngosapho lwakhe nabazalwana bakhe. Ividiyo yengoma ibonisa utata kaKoreshi, kodwa amazwi abekwe ngokulula kuthando kunye nokuncoma umzalwana okhangele phezulu.
'UMzalwana wam' - uSuzanne Vega
UVega ucula ngokwembono kadade omdala ethetha nomninawa wakhe omncinci, onxaxhayo, emxelela ukuba abe ngumntu kwaye abe ngumntu awayesoloko ekufanele ukuba nguye.
'Ungumhlobo wam osenyongweni'-u-Queen
Ngemidlalo yokulwa kunye neekati, bangoyena mhlobo wakho usenyongweni.
'UMzalwana kunye noDade Ingoma' - uSteve kunye no-Annie Chapman
Ingoma yombulelo kuye nawuphina umntakwenu othanda umntakwabo okanye udade wabo.
'Yaya kum'-uBill Withers
Bazise ukuba kungakhathaliseki ukuba ubomi buphosa ntoni kubo, uya kuhlala ukhona.
'Bala kum' - uBruno Mars
Xa kungekho mntu uvelayo, uya kuba lapho.
'Ngenxa yokuba Undithanda' - uCeline Dion
Uyiloo nto uyiyo ngenxa yothando nenkxaso yabo.
'Unomhlobo' - uJames Taylor
Xa bengenayo enye into emhlabeni, banomhlobo kuwe, umntakwabo.
Iingoma Zabantakwethu Zithetha Konke
Xa ungawafumani amagama afanelekileyo okuxelela umntakwenu indlela oziva ngayo ngaye, zama ukuyithetha ngeengoma. Ngamanye amaxesha amazwi anokuchukumisa indawo ekhethekileyo entliziyweni engenakufikelelwa ngenye indlela.
Uluhlu olubanzi lweengoma ezibalaseliswayo lugxininisa indlela abantwana abazalwa ngayo abanokukhuthaza zonke iimvakalelo zomntu. Ngelixa iimeko ezithile zinokwahluka, iimvakalelo ezingundoqo ezivezwa kule mizila - umsa, ukunyaniseka, usizi, ukucaphuka, ukukhusela - zikho jikelele kumava omntwana. Umculo unika ulwimi ukuhambisa iqhina eliphikisana nengqiqo. Phezu kwazo nje iingxabano nokwahlukana, abazalwana noodade babelana ngengqiqo engaphakathi, engachazwanga. Babumba ubuni bomnye nomnye kwaye banike indawo ekhuselekileyo - into eqhubekayo kwihlabathi eliguqukayo. Nangona abahlobo besiza kwaye behamba, abantakwethu bahlala ngonaphakade. Nokuba bayakuqhula ngobunono okanye bakhusela kabukhali, baphakathi kwabambalwa abakwaziyo ngokupheleleyo nabakuthanda ngokungagungqiyo. Ezi ngoma ziziqwengana nje ezintsonkothileyo eziqukwe kubudlelwane babantakwabo. Ngoko kwixesha elizayo xa uphelelwa ngamazwi, vumela umculo uzithethelele.
