Ukuphiliswa luhambo olufuna inkalipho, ukuzihlaziya, kunye nokholo. Zombini ukuphiliswa ngokwasemoyeni nasenyameni kufuna ukuba sijonge ngaphakathi kwaye sizikhathalele kwinqanaba elinzulu. Yinkqubo yokuzifumanisa, yokwazi isiqu sethu sokwenyani.
Umendo awukho mgca kwaye kuya kubakho ukusilela, kodwa inyathelo ngalinye eliya phambili yinkqubela. Ezi izicaphulo zokuphilisa zilapha ukuze zikhuthaze amandla angaphakathi esinawo sonke ngaphakathi kwethu, nokuba ngamanye amaxesha siyayilibala. Zisikhumbuza ukuba amandla okuphilisa angaphakathi kumntu ngamnye kuthi.
Iingcaphuno zokuPhilisa ngokweemvakalelo
Ukuphiliswa ngokweemvakalelo kuvela ngokuva iimvakalelo zethu, ukujongana neentlungu zethu, nokufunda indlela yokuhlangabezana neemfuno zethu. Ifuna ukunyaniseka okugqibeleleyo kunye nokuzimisela ukukhula. Izicatshulwa zokuphilisa ngokweemvakalelo zingezantsi ziyasikhuthaza ukuba sikhulise ukukhanya kwethu kwangaphakathi.
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'Amanxeba akho ayibobuthathaka bakho, bubulumko bakho namandla akho.' - Lalah Delia
Esi sicatshulwa sikhuthazayo sigxininisa ukuba amava ethu obomi abuhlungu ahlala esipha obona bulumko bunzulu, ukuba siyabavumela ukuba benze njalo. Amanxeba ethu asenza silumke kwaye somelele.
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'Inxeba yindawo apho ukukhanya kungena kuwe.' -Rumi
URumi uchaza ngobumbongi ukuba idla ngokuba yingxubakaxaka kunye neentlungu ezivumela ukukhanya kungene. Kungamanxeba ethu esithi sivukele kwiinyaniso ezinzulu malunga nathi kunye nehlabathi elisingqongileyo.
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“Kukho ukuqhekeka kuyo yonke into. Kungena ngolo hlobo ukukhanya.” - ULeonard Cohen
Iintanda kunye neziphene esicinga ukuba zisenza sibe buthathaka ngokwenene zezona ndawo zivumela ukukhanya kwethu kwangaphakathi ukuba kuthulule. Kukungafezeki kwethu okusenza sigqibelele into esiyiyo.
“Kwaye sakuba siphelile isaqhwithi, awusayi kukhumbula ukuba uphumelele njani na, ukuba ukwazi njani ukusinda. Awuyi kuqiniseka nokuba isaqhwithi siphelile. Kodwa inye into esiqiniseke ngayo. Xa uphuma kwisiphango, awusayi kuba ngulaa mntu ungeneyo. - Haruki Murakami
Esi sesinye sezona ziqhwithi ezaziwa kakhulu kunye neengcaphuno zokuphilisa. Ithetha ngamandla enguquko entlekele kunye neentlungu-indlela esitshintshwa ngayo ngeendlela ezisisiseko, ngamandla amatsha kunye nobulumko ebesingazi ukuba bunokwenzeka.
“Ekubandezelekeni kuvele eyona miphefumlo inamandla; abona badlali baninzi batshiswe ziziva.” Khalil Gibran
Amanxeba kunye namanxeba ethu awasenzi buthathaka, asenza sibe neenguqulelo ezinovelwano kunye nesibindi. Esi sicatshulwa sikhuthazayo sokuphilisa siyasikhuthaza ukuba singazifihli izivubeko zethu, kodwa siwamkele.
'Kukho amanxeba angazange abonakale emzimbeni anzulu kwaye abuhlungu ngaphezu kwayo nantoni na eyophayo.' ULaurell K. Hamilton
Amanxeba angokweemvakalelo nangokwengqondo anokuba buhlungu nangaphezu kokomzimba. Ukuziphilisa kufuna ukuba siqaphele kwaye siphilise la manxeba angaphakathi angabonakali emehlweni. Esi sicatshulwa sithetha kabuhlungu ngaloo nyaniso.
'Sonke sophukile kancinci, kodwa ixesha lokugqibela ndijonge iikhrayoni ezaphukileyo zisanemibala efanayo.' Trent Shelton
Nangona sithwele iinkumbulo ezibuhlungu kunye namava, sisaphelele kwaye sinokuphila ubomi obudlamkileyo. Lo mzekeliso uthandekayo uyasikhuthaza ukuba singazichazi ngamanxeba ethu.
Iingcaphuno malunga nokomelela kwangaphakathi
Ukuphilisa kufuna ukomelela, inkalipho, kunye nokholo. Simele sikholelwe kumandla ethu okuphilisa size sizimisele ukwenza umsebenzi onzima wobuqu obandakanyekileyo. Ezi zicatshulwa zikhuthazayo zithetha ngamandla angaphakathi esinawo.
“Unamandla phezu kwengqondo yakho - hayi iminyhadala yangaphandle. Kuqonde oku, kwaye uya kufumana amandla. UMarcus Aurelius
Esi sicatshulwa sibonisa ukuba amandla kunye namandla okwenyani avela ekulawuleni isimo sengqondo kunye neemvakalelo zethu - hayi kwizinto zangaphandle. Ubulumko bokuphilisa bungaphakathi kuthi.
'Oko kungasibulali kusenza somelele.' UFriedrich Nietzsche
Nangona i-cliche, le isala enye yezona ngcaphuno zaziwa kakhulu ezikhuthazayo malunga namandla kunye nokuphilisa. Into esiyoyisayo isenza silumke, somelele ngakumbi, kwaye sibe namandla ngakumbi.
“Izaqhwithi zenza imithi ibe neengcambu ezinzulu.” UDolly Parton
Izaqhwithi kunye nezilingo zobomi - ngokwasemphefumlweni nasenyameni - zisinika ithuba lokuzimisa ngokuqinileyo kwinto esiyiyo. Esi sicatshulwa sithandekayo sendalo sisikhumbuza ukuba imiceli mngeni isinceda sikhule iingcambu zomelele.
“Abona bantu bahle esibaziyo ngabo bakwaziyo ukoyiswa, ukubandezeleka okwaziwayo, umzabalazo owaziwayo, ilahleko eyaziwayo, kwaye bayifumene indlela yokuphuma enzulwini. Aba bantu banoxabiso, ubuntununtunu, nokuqonda ubomi okubazalisa ngemfesane, ukuthantamisa, nenkxalabo enzulu yothando. Abantu abahle abazenzekeli nje.” Elisabeth Kubler-Ross
Eli nqaku lide ligxininisa ukuba abo baye baphila kumanxeba angokweemvakalelo bahlala beyeyona miphefumlo mihle, ikhanya ngokuqaqambileyo malunga nokuba bade kangakanani na. Ukuphilisa kukhulisa ubulali, uvelwano nobulumko.
“Ekubandezelekeni kuvele eyona miphefumlo inamandla; abona badlali baninzi batshiswe ziziva.” Khalil Gibran
Sifanele sinxibe iziva zethu, ngaphakathi nangaphandle, ngekratshi kunokuba sihlazeke okanye sihlazeke. Ziyimifuziselo yamandla awathathayo ukuze uphile kwaye uphilise.
“Ngamanye amaxesha bekunganyanzelekanga ukuba ubhale okanye uyichaze. Kufuneka uzivumele ube ngelo xesha. ' Amber Smith
Ukupholisa akukho malunga nokukhawuleza ukuya phambili. Ngokuqhelekileyo imalunga nokuhlala nathi ngokuzolileyo, sivumele iimvakalelo zethu zibekho ngaphandle kokugweba okanye uhlalutyo. Esi sicatshulwa siyathetha ngaloo nto.
'Inxeba yindawo apho ukukhanya kungena kuwe.' URumi
Kukwiintanda apho ukukhanya kungena khona, njengoko uLeonard Cohen watshoyo. Apho sibuhlungu kwaye sibandezeleka, sifumana ukuqonda kunye nobulumko. Amanxeba ethu akhanyisa iinyaniso.
Iinkwenkwezi azinakukhanya ngaphandle kobumnyama. D.R. Hickey
Ukukhanya kukho kuphela ngenxa yokungafani kwakho nobumnyama. Ukuphilisa ngokweemvakalelo kukufunda ukwamkela ubumnyama kunye nokukhanya ngaphakathi kwethu. Omnye akanakubakho ngaphandle komnye.
Iingcaphuno zokuPhilisa ngokwaseMzimbeni
Ukuphiliswa ngokwasemzimbeni kubandakanya ukunyanga ukugula kunye nokwenzakala ngamayeza, unyango kunye nokuzikhathalela. Kumalunga nokumamela into efunwa yimizimba yethu ukuze ibuyele kwibhalansi kwaye yandise impilo. Ezi zicatshulwa zithetha naloo nkqubo.
“Ukunyanyekelwa kobomi bomntu nolonwabo kungekhona ukutshatyalaliswa kwabo yeyona nto yokuqala nekuphela kwento esemthethweni yorhulumente olungileyo.” Thomas Jefferson
Esi sicatshulwa sigxininisa ukuba ukuxhasa impilo kunye nokuphila kakuhle kubo bonke kufuneka kube yinto ephambili kwiinkokeli kunye noluntu. Xa sisenza indawo yokuphilisa, uluntu luyakhula.
“Umzimba uhlala unomnqweno wemvelo wokuziphilisa. Ubukrelekrele bomzimba buya kuhlala bukhetha ukuphiliswa xa bexhaswa. ” UMichelle Wendler
Imizimba yethu yenyama iyayazi indlela yokuphilisa ukuba siyidalela iimeko ezifanelekileyo. Oku kuthetha ukuphumla ngokufanelekileyo, ukunciphisa uxinzelelo, ukutya kakuhle kunye nokufuna unyango xa sifuna.
“Ophilileyo unethemba; yaye lowo unethemba unezinto zonke. Isaci sesiArabhu
Ngaphandle kwempilo yethu, yonke enye into iyawa. Xa somelele kwaye siphilile emzimbeni, umoya wethu uyaphakama. Impilo entle izisa ithemba kunye nethemba.
Impilontle ayiyonyama kuphela, yengqondo, yeemvakalelo, yokomoya, yendalo kunye nentlalo. UKaren Lawson
Ukuphiliswa kokwenyani kufuna ukuba sikhathalele zonke iinkalo zobomi bethu – ingqondo, umzimba nomphefumlo. Ukuba sempilweni ngokupheleleyo kukhokelela kwinzaliseko.
“Indoda esempilweni ayibathuthumbisi abanye abantu. Ngokuqhelekileyo ngabo bangcungcuthekiswayo bajika babe ngabathuthumbisi.” UCarl JungXa siziphilisa ngokweemvakalelo, sibaphatha ngovelwano ngakumbi abanye. Abantu abenzakalisayo badla ngokubenzakalisa abantu abangakumbi. Ukuphilisa umjikelo kuqala ngokuzinyamekela.
'Amandla endalo angaphakathi kuthi ngabaphilisi bokwenyani bezifo.' HippocratesUgqirha ongumGrike uHippocrates usikhumbuza ukuba imizimba yethu iyayazi indlela yokuziphilisa xa inikwe ithuba. Ukhathalelo lwempilo kufuneka luxhase amandla ethu endalo okulinganisa.
Iingcaphuno zokuPhilisa ngokwaseMoyeni
Kwabanye, ukuphiliswa ngokomoya yinxalenye ebalulekileyo yokuchacha ekuguleni, ekulahlekeni okanye ekuhlaselweni. Ezi zicatshulwa zonyango zichaphazela indima yokholo kuhambo olusingise kwimpiliso.
“Umoya ukunxulumanisa nenjongo namandla akho. Ikuvumela ukuba uhlale unethemba kwaye ugxile. ” UDoreen Virtue
Nokuba kungonqulo olulungelelanisiweyo okanye ngobudlelwane bobuqu noThixo, ubumoya bunceda abantu abaninzi bazive beqhagamshelwe kwezona nyaniso zabo zinzulu. Oku kuxhobisa ukomelela.
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“Ukuphilisa kufuna inkalipho, kwaye sonke sinesibindi, nokuba kufuneka sembe kancinci ukuze sikufumane.” Tori AmosEsi sicatshulwa ngobulumko sisikhumbuza ukuba sonke sinogcino lwenkalipho nokuba siyathandabuza. Sifumana amandla ngokujonga ngaphakathi kwaye siqinisekise isidima sethu.
“Ubugcisa bokuphilisa buvela kwindalo, kungekhona kugqirha. Ke ngoko ugqirha kufuneka aqale kwindalo, enengqondo evulekileyo. ” IParacelsus
Yonke impiliso ekugqibeleni iphuma kuthi, hayi oogqirha. Kodwa ababoneleli bezempilo banokunceda ukudala iimeko ezifanelekileyo kumandla ethu okuphilisa wendalo ukuba aziveze.
“Umntu uqala kwakhona mihla le, esebenza nzima iinduli ezintsha. Akakho mncinci, ubuthathaka, okanye ulumke kancinci, kuba ukhupha into yonke ukuphuma kwelanga. UJohn Shedd
Rhoqo ukuphuma kwelanga kunika ithuba lokuzihlaziya. Amandla ethu okukhula nokuphilisa akanasiphelo ukuba sivumela ukuzalwa ngokutsha. Ubumnyama buhlala bunika ukukhanya.
“Umntu osempilweni, owomeleleyo ngulowo ucela uncedo xa elufuna. Nokuba unethumba edolweni okanye emphefumlweni wakhe.” URona Barrett
Ukufuna uncedo xa siziva silahlekile okanye singaphilanga kunesibindi, kungekhona ukuba buthathaka. Ukukhupha impiliso kwabo banokusixhasa kufuna ukuthobeka kunye nokuzazi.
Iingcaphuno zokuFumana Ithemba kunye namandla
Uhambo lokuphilisa luzisa amahla-ndinyuka. Ngamanye amaxesha siziva sidakumbile kwaye sidanile xa inkqubela ivakala imile. Ezi catshulwa zikhuthazayo zisikhumbuza ukuba yonke le nxalenye yenkqubo. Kusoloko kukho ithemba phambili.
'Amaxesha akho anzima ahlala ekhokelela kwelona xesha likhulu lobomi bakho. Qhubeka uhamba. Iimeko ezinzima zakha abantu abomeleleyo ekugqibeleni. ” URoy Bennett
Awona maxesha aziva engenamfiliba ngawona akhokelela kutshintsho olulungileyo. Ukukhula komntu kuvela ekoyiseni imiceli mngeni emikhulu ngobabalo.
'Kufuneka samkele iintlungu kwaye sizitshise njengamafutha ohambo lwethu.' Kenji Miyazawa
Kunokuba sizicaphukele iintlungu, sinokuzisebenzisa zisiqhubele phambili. Ukubandezeleka kwethu kusenza silumke kwaye sibe nemfesane ngakumbi ukuba sinenkalipho yokufunda kuyo.
'Andiyekanga ukoyika, kodwa ndiyekile ukuvumela uloyiko lundilawule.' UErica Omncinci
Iimvakalelo ezinjengoloyiko ziya kuhlala ziyinxalenye yobomi. Kodwa ngokuphilisa sinokutshintsha ubudlelwane bethu nabo ukuze bangaphinde basimise okanye basichaze.
'Inxeba yindawo apho ukukhanya kungena kuwe.' URumi
Kwakungenxa yokubandezeleka kwabo okukhulu apho iinkokeli zomoya ezifana noRumi noBuddha zafumana ukukhanyiselwa. Uthixo uhlala ethetha ukusebenzisa ngeentlungu ukuba sifunda ukumamela.
“Ungaze ube neentloni ngesiva. Kuthetha nje ukuba ubunamandla kunayo nantoni na ebezama ukukwenzakalisa.” Akwaziwa
Iziva zifuzisela amandla. Enoba ngokwasemzimbeni okanye ngokweemvakalelo, zibonisa ukuba sasinenkalipho yokuphilisa kwiingozi zangaphambili. Iziva zintle.
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Iingcaphuno zokuPhiliswa koLuntu
Ngelixa ukuphilisa iluhambo lomntu, inkxaso yoluntu yenza umahluko omkhulu. Ubudlelwane, uvelwano kunye nokuxhotyiswa kweqela komeleza ukukhanya kwethu kwangaphakathi. Nazi ezinye izicatshulwa ezikhuthazayo kumandla okuphilisa izangqa:
“Sisedwa sinokwenza okuncinane kakhulu; sikunye singenza lukhulu.” UHelen Keller
Amaqela enkxaso ayasivumela ukuba sabelane ngezixhobo, izibonelelo kunye nemithwalo yeemvakalelo ukuze sikwazi ukufikelela ngakumbi ukuphiliswa. Uluntu lusenza lula imithwalo yethu yobuqu.
“Iqela lenkxaso alikwenzi buthathaka. Ikunika amandla ngokweemvakalelo, emzimbeni nasengqondweni naxa uziva ufuna ukunikezela.” SineMajeks
Kunokuba ubonise ubuthathaka okanye ukuxhomekeka, ukucela uncedo kukhuthaza ukomelela. Siphilisa ngokukhawuleza xa siqhutywa ngamaphiko oluntu.
“Xa sizibuza ngokunyanisekileyo ukuba ngabaphi abantu ebomini bethu ababaluleke kakhulu kuthi, sihlala sifumanisa ukuba ngabo bathi, endaweni yokunikela iingcebiso, izicombululo, okanye unyango, bakhethe ukwabelana nabanye ngentlungu yethu baze bachukumise amanxeba ethu ngobulali. nesandla esithambileyo.” UHenri Nouwen
Abantu ababaluleke kakhulu bahlala nathi ngovelwano kwezona zihlandlo zimnyama. Abazami 'ukusilungisa'. Banikezela ngenkxaso ethe cwaka.
“Sisedwa sinokwenza okuncinane kakhulu; kunye singenza lukhulu.” UHelen Keller
Amaqela enkxaso ayasivumela ukuba sabelane ngezixhobo, izibonelelo kunye nemithwalo yeemvakalelo ukuze sikwazi ukufikelela ngakumbi ukuphiliswa. Uluntu lusenza lula imithwalo yethu yobuqu.
'Siphakama ngokuphakamisa abanye.' URobert Green Ingersoll
Xa siphilisana, siyaziphilisa. Ukuxhotyiswa ngokulinganayo kuphakamisa wonke umntu phezulu. Inkqubela phambili ixhomekeke kwinkxaso ehlangeneyo.
Iingcaphuno zokuFumana ukuValwa kunye noXolo
Kwinqanaba elithile kwinkqubo yokuphulukisa, sifumana ingqiqo yokuvalwa kweentlungu ezidlulileyo. Senza uxolo ngezifundo esizifundileyo kwaye sizive silungele iziqalo ezitsha. Ezi zicatshulwa zithetha ubuhle bokufika ekupheleni kwesahluko esinzima:
“Ngaphandle kweengcamango zokwenza okubi nokwenza okulungileyo kukho inkalo. Ndiza kudibana nawe apho. Xa umphefumlo ulala kuloo ngca ihlabathi lizele kakhulu ukuba singathetha ngalo.” URumi
Umbongo kaRumi oqaqambileyo uhlala uchukumisa ukufumana uxolo ngomsebenzi wangaphakathi. Xa siphilisa amanxeba, sifika kwindawo eyonwabileyo engaphaya kolwakhiwo olungqongqo.
'Xa kungekho lutshaba ngaphakathi, iintshaba ezingaphandle azinakukwenzakalisa.' Isaci saseAfrika
Emva kokuba senze uxolo ngaphakathi, iimeko zangaphandle azisenawo amandla afanayo okuvuselela phezu kwethu. Ukuvisisana kwangaphakathi kuphuma ngaphandle.
“Amanxeba aya kupholisa amanxeba asemphefumlweni ukuba uyawayeka. Ungaze ubenentloni ngebali lakho. Iya kubakhuthaza abanye. ” Sine Sogunle
Amanxeba ethu apholileyo aba ngumthombo wethemba ebantwini ngoku apho sasikade sikhona. Ixesha elidlulileyo elibuhlungu linikeza izipho eziphuma ngaphandle ukunceda abanye ukuba baphile.
'Inxeba yindawo apho ukukhanya kungena kuwe.' URumi
Ukuhlala kunye nokuphilisa kufundisa ukuba ubumnyama buhlala buvula indlela yokukhanya okungakumbi. Sidinga sobabini ukuze sibe ngabona bethu ngokupheleleyo. Akukho busuku buhlala ngonaphakade.
Ukuqukumbela
Ukuphilisa akulula kodwa kusoloko kuluncedo. Kwanenkqubela encinci yemihla ngemihla ngokuthula yakha ukomelela, impilo kunye noxolo lwangaphakathi ngokuhamba kwexesha. Ukuphiliswa sisenzo sokuzithanda kakhulu. Ezi zicatshulwa zikhuthazayo zisikhumbuza ukuba sonke sinamandla amakhulu ngaphakathi kuthi, nokuba siyaphulukana nawo. Ukuphiliswa kunokuthatha inkalipho enkulu, kodwa uvuyo, ubulumko kunye nokuphelela kwelinye icala kwenza konke kube yingenelo. Singayenza, kunye.
