'Inja yam ilume umntu!' Akukho mniniyo oke afune ukuthetha la mazwi, kodwa wenza ntoni xa kusenzeka into engalindelekanga?
Nceda, Inja Yam Yaluma Umntu!
Molo apho,
Amanqaku anxulumeneyoNdicela ingcebiso yakho ngesehlo esenzeke nenja yam.
USheila ngumxube weShar Pei oneminyaka emibini. Ndicinga ukuba inokuba ixutywe nayo I-Pitbull , kodwa andiqinisekanga. Nangona kunjalo, uyinja enothando, kwaye uyathanda ukudlala, ukuhlafuna amathambo kwaye enze zonke izinto izinja ezidla ngokuthanda ukuzenza.
Namhlanje, omnye wabasebenzi endisebenza nabo kufuneka adlule kwaye athathe into kwi-condo yam. Ndangena kuqala, emva kwemizuzwana embalwa umntu endandisebenza naye wangena yedwa emnyango. USheila waqalisa ukugquma nokukhonkotha, into elandelayo endayiqondayo ukuba uye waziphosa kumfana endandisebenza naye wamluma!
Andiqondi ukuba kulungile ukuba inja ilume umntu, kodwa ngaba le ibiyindlela eqhelekileyo yokukhusela? Ngaba kufuneka ndimbeke phantsi? Nceda Ndazise.
ungathetha ngantoni nomfana emnxebeni
Enkosi~~ Jodi
Impendulo yeNgcali
Molo Jodi,
Ndiyaxolisa ukuva ngesikhundla okuso ndiyathemba ukuba umntu osebenza naye akalimalanga kakhulu.
Nangona indlela uSheila asabela ngayo ekuqaleni yayingokwemvelo, uninzi lwezinja beziya kuhlala lukhonkotha yaye lugquma ukuze lukhusele ummandla kumntu ongamaziyo. Bekufanele ukuba akukho sizathu sokuba aye kuhlaselo olupheleleyo ngenxa yeemeko ozinikileyo.
Andazi ukuba ithini na imithetho kumasipala wakho malunga nokulunywa zizinja. Abanye abasemagunyeni bafuna ukuba ubaxele, abanye abakwenzi oko.
Ndicinga ukuba kukhuseleko lwabo bonke abachaphazelekayo, kufuneka uxoxe ngesiganeko kunye nogqirha wakho wezilwanyana kwaye ufumane uluvo lobuchwephesha malunga nobushushu benja yakho, ekusetyenzwa ngayo kweli nqanaba. Kufuneka udibane negqwetha malunga nento eyenzekileyo, kuba umntu osebenza naye usenokukhetha ukuxela uhlaselo kwabasemagunyeni. Kungcono ukuqonda amalungelo akho kunye nezinto ozikhethayo.
Enkosi ngombuzo wakho, kwaye ndiyathemba ukuba uyakwazi ukusombulula le meko ngaphandle kokubeka inja yakho phantsi .
~~ Kelly
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