Unokuziva uxakekile ukubhala isigcino sikatata wakho emva kokuba efile. Sebenzisa ezinye iingcebiso ezilula kunye nezikhokelo kunokukunceda wenze i-obituary entle ehlonipha inkumbulo kayihlo.
Ungayibhala njani into ebalulekileyo yoTata
Nokuba ukhonaUkubhala umxholo wephephandabaokanye kwiwebhusayithi, kukho iingcebiso ezimbalwa onokuzigcina engqondweni xaukudala i-obituary echukumisayokayihlo.
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Uqala njani
Chaza igama elipheleleyo likayihlo, umhla wokudlula, unyaka wokuzalwa okanye ubudala (isenokungakhethi ukubandakanyaumhla wokuzalwa opheleleyo wezizathu zokhuseleko), kunye nendawo yokuzalwa. Soloko usebenzisa uyihlo bakhetha izimelabizo zesini kunye negama elikhethiweyo xa kubhalwa i-obituary. Ukwenza njalo kuhlonipha kwaye kuqinisekisa ubuni babo. Xoxa ngeenkcukacha ezingqonge ukudlula ngokufutshane (ukuba ukhetha ukuyifaka loo nto). Umzekelo:
UKellan James Davis, 55, waseLos Angeles, eCalifornia, wasweleka ngequbuliso nge-9 kaJulayi. Usweleke kuhambo lokuhamba yedwa enkampini ngenxa yesigulo esinganyangekiyo. '
Bandakanya ulwazi ngeBhayiloji
Faka iinkcukacha zomntu onika isishwankathelo sobomi bukatata wakho. Umzekelo:
U-Kellan waphumelela nge-honours kwiYunivesithi yasePepperdine kwaye waba yibhayoloji yaselwandle eyayizinikele ekukhuseleni iilwandle. Ngexesha lakhe lokuzonwabisa, wayekuthanda ukuba ngaphandle, ukuchitha ixesha nosapho, kunye nokuvolontiya kwindawo yokuhlala izilwanyana. UKellan wabhala iincwadi ezintathu, ezimbini zazo zathengisa kakhulu. '
Yenza i-Obituary njengeNdawo evunyelweyo
Xoxa ngokufutshane ngobuntu kunye neempawu. Faka ibali elifutshane,Umbongo onentsingiselo, okanye intetho eyintandokazi yokwenza ubuwena buqu. Umzekelo:
'Wayengumlingane onobubele nothando kwiqabane lakhe uDarryl, kunye notata omangalisayo kwintombi yabo uJada. Eyona nto wayeyithanda kakhulu uKellan yayikukuba 'ube nobubele', kwaye yile ndlela kanye akhetha ngayo ukuphila ubomi bakhe. '
Uluhlu lokusinda kwamalungu osapho
Olu lwazi lunokuba neenkcukacha okanye lube mfutshane ngendlela oyifunayo. Uninzi lweentsapho zidwelisa amaqabane nabantwana, kunye nabantakwabo kunye nabazukulwana. Umzekelo:
Ngaphandle kokusinda kwiqabane lakhe nentombi yakhe, uKellan ukwashiye ngasemva abazali bakhe bobabini, uJack noKate Davis, kunye nenja yakhe.
Ukugqiba ngokuNgcwaba kunye / okanye uLwazi ngeNkxaso
Ukuba iphephandaba okanye i-obituary iprintiwe ngaphambi kweenkonzo, faka olo lwazi. Ukuba iinkonzo zazizimele okanye zazibanjwe ngaphambili, yikhankanye ukuze abahlobo bangazibuzi. Umzekelo:
'Usapho belubambe umngcwabo wabucala kwimpelaveki ephelileyo kwaye licela ukuba nayiphi na iminikelo eyenziwe kwimbeko kaKellan iye kulondolozo lwaselwandle, okanye kwindawo yokuhlala izilwanyana.'
Imizekelo yeOtata yoTata
Emva kokwabelana ngolwazi lwendalo, kunye nokuqaphela ukudlula, ungagxila kwimpembelelo katata wakho kubomi bakho, nakubomi babanye. Gcina ukhumbula ukuba nokuba ubandakanya ii-anecdotes zakho malunga neenkumbulo ekwabelwana ngazo notata wakho, ii-obituaries zihlala zibhalwa kumntu wesithathu. Imizekelo emfutshane yobomi:
Ukusuka kwiNtombi okanye kuNyana
Enye ye (faka igama lomntu ongasekhoyo) eyona mpumelelo inkulu kukuba ngutata. Wayehlala efuna abantwana kwaye wayecinga ukuba unethamsanqa ngokwaneleyo lokuba nababini. Abantwana bakhe, (faka amagama abantwana), babiza utata wabo njengeqhawe, kwaye nanjengabantu abadala, basambona enjalo. Wayesoloko ekhona ngabo ngalo lonke ixesha behla enyuka, ebafundisa ukuba bonwabele wonke umzuzu obomi buza kuwunikela. '
Utata-in-mthetho
(Faka igama lomntu oswelekileyo) ihlala ijolise ekwenzeni abantu bazive bamkelekile ebomini babo, nokuba bazinikele ukunceda umntu ukuba ahambe, anike iingcebiso zesilumko, okanye axhase abo babathandayo (faka igama lomntu ongasekhoyo) uhlala ehamba ngaphezulu kwaye ngaphaya. Xa intombi yabo yatshatayo, bamkela umkhwenyana wabo ngezandla ezishushu. Nangona besweleke ngaphambi kokuba badibane nomzukulwana wabo, omncinci ubizwa ngegama (faka igama lomntu ongasekhoyo) imbeko. '
Utata-kaTata
(Faka igama lomntu ongasekhoyo) wayehlala efuna usapho olukhulu, kwaye xa ephinde watshata, wawufumana umnqweno wakhe. Usapho lwakhe lwabathathu lukhule lasixhenxe, kwaye wayekuthanda kakhulu ukuba ngutata kunye 'nebhonasi' utata, njengoko abantwana bakhe abathandayo bambiza ngothando, kubo bonke abantwana bakhe. Njengentsapho, imisebenzi abayithandayo yayiquka ukukhwela ikhephu, ukuskiya emanzini kunye nokusefa. '
Utata owafa esemncinci kakhulu
(Faka igama lomntu ongasekhoyo) usweleke kabuhlungu kwingozi yemoto xa wayedibana neqabane lakhe esibhedlele elalizala umntwana wabo wokuqala. Intombi yabo iya kuthiywa ngegama lakhe ukuhlonipha ububele bakhe, ukuzithemba, ukomelela kunye noburharha obumangalisayo. '
Utata olwa nesifo
(Faka igama lomntu ongasekhoyo) usweleke ngenxa yoku (faka ukugula). Njengokuba ejongana nawo onke amava ebomini, (faka igama lomntu ongasekhoyo) wakulawula ukugula kwakhe ngamandla nangobabalo, kwaye wayefuna ukuchitha ixesha elininzi kunye nabathandekayo bakhe kangangoko kunokwenzeka. Ngomhla wakhe wokugqibela, wayejikelezwe ngabantwana bakhe, awayebathanda ngaphezu kwayo nayiphi na enye into emhlabeni. '
Ngaba abazali bam banokubiza amapolisa ukuba ndihamba nge-17
Yintoni ekufuneka uyibhale ukuba ulwalamano lwakho lwalonakele
Ukuba ubudlelwane bakho notata wakho babuphazamisekile, jolisa ekuchazeni iinyani kunye neenkcukacha malunga nobomi bukatata wakho, kwaye uyazi ukuba awudingi ukufaka ii-anecdotes zakho ukuba awukhululekanga ngokwenza njalo. Qaphela ukuba amanye amalungu osapho asaphilayo anokungaziva ekhululekile ukudweliswa kwindawo yokungcwaba, ke kusoloko kulunge kakhulu ukukhangela umntu ngaphambi kokubandakanya. Umzekelo:
(Faka igama lomntu ongasekhoyo), (ubudala), kunye (nendawo), usweleke (umhla) ngenxa (faka isizathu sokuba ungathanda). (Faka igama lomntu ongasekhoyo ibinguye (faka izichazi) umntu obesebenza nzima kakhulu. Emva kokugqiba izifundo (faka isikolo), waqhubekeka waba (faka ikhono lomsebenzi). Wayenomdla (wokufaka izinto zokuzonwabisa, ukuthanda izinto). Ushiyeke ngoku (faka amagama amalungu osapho asaphilayo) Umngcwabo uzakwenziwa ngo (faka umhla) e (faka indawo) nge (faka ixesha). '
Isampulu yeNjongo yoTata
Sebenzisa itemplate yomngcwabo kunokukunika indawo entle onokuthi uqale kuyo ukuba ungathanda isikhokelo esongezelelweyo kulwakhiwo lwe-obituary yakho.Khuphela umfanekiso oprintwayoukwenza i-obituary eyenziwe ngokwezifiso.
Uyibhala njani into yokuba uTata wakho aBulele abanye abantu?
Ukuba uphethe uxanduva lokubhala i-obituary katata wakho, unakho noxanduva lokubhala indumiso. Ukujongaiisampulu zeentetho ze-eulogyinokukunceda ukufomatha intetho yakho, ngelixa ushiya igumbi lokuba ungeze ezakho izinto ozithandayo.
Uyibhala njani iNqaku elifanelekileyo?
Ukubhala indawo yokungcwaba utata wakho kunokuziva kungumsebenzi otyhafisayo, ngakumbi ukuba ufumana nantoni naiimpawu zentlungu. Thatha ixesha lakho, ucele uncedo lwabathandekayo, kwaye ube nobubele kuwe ngeli xesha.
