Abahlobo kunye namalungu osapho bahlala behlanganisana kunye emva komngcwabo womntu omthandayo kumsitho wokuphinda wenze into ephindaphindayo. Olu hlobo lomsitho luqhelekile - kodwa alufuneki- kwisithethe sasemva komngcwabo.
Imingcwabo yesiNtu yokuPhumla kweNdawo yokuDibana
Ingxelo yomngcwabo inika ithuba abantu abasentlungwini yokuswelekelwa ngumntu abamthandayo ukuba bajoyine omnye emva kokuba inkonzo yomngcwabo iphelile. Esi siko liqonga lokubhiyozela nokuhlonipha ubomi bomntu oswelekileyo, ngelixa livumela abo basentlungwini yokuthuthuzelana. Ukuphindaphinda kunokubanjwa kwizicwangciso ezahlukeneyo. Umzekelo:
- Ikhaya losapho: Ukuphindaphinda kuhlala kwenzeka, kodwa hayi rhoqo, kubanjelwe ekhayeni lomntu oswelekileyo okanye kwikhaya lelungu losapho elisondeleyo. Ngolu hlobo lwesiganeko, isihlobo okanye umhlobo osondeleyo ulawula ngokubanziuceba ukwamkelwa komngcwabo. Vala abahlobo kunye namalungu osapho ngokwesiqhelo aphatha ukucoceka kwendlu,Ukukhetha imenyu, kunye nokulungiswa kokutya. Iindwendwe zihlala zizisa ukutya okanye izinto zotywala ukuze zabelane ngesimbo setyhubhu.
- Iholo lesidlo secawa: Kubaumngcwaboiinkonzo ezibanjelwe ecaweni, i-repast ihlala ibanjelwa kwiholo yesidlo esizeni. Ngamanye amaxesha, usapho okanye umhlobo osenyongweni uhlawula olu hlobo lokuhlanganisana. Rhoqo, nangona kunjalo, amalungu ecawe aya kuthi azivolontiye ukulungisa ukutya, ukuphaka, ukuseta nokucoca emva komsitho. Ezi ziganeko zivulelekile kuye nakubani na oya emngcwabeni.
- Amasiko eSidlo seNceba kunye ne-Etiquette
- Izimvo zekhekhe lokuNgcwaba kunye neeNkcubeko
- Ukubandakanya iMali kwiKhadi loThando: i-Etiquette kunye neeNgcebiso
- Ukutya kwakhona: Endaweni yokubamba umsitho ovulekileyo, ngamanye amaxesha iintsapho zikhetha indibano yasemva komngcwabo kwivenkile yokutyela yosapho olusondeleyo kunye nabahlobo abasondeleyo. Ngamanye amaxesha, isalamane esisondeleyo sinokukhetha ukuba ngumbuki zindwendwe size sihlawule iindleko kuye wonke umntu omenyiweyo. Oku akufuneki, nangona kunjalo. Umntu ngamnye ozimiseleyo kufuneka alindele ukuba noxanduva lwendleko zesidlo sakhe.
Oku, ewe, ayizizo kuphela iindlela onokukhetha kuzo ukuze ubambe ukuphinda ubambe. Nayiphi na indawo efanelekileyo enkulu ngokwaneleyo kulo msitho iya kusebenza. Ngamanye amaxesha iintsapho zikhetha indawo eyayinentsingiselo ngakumbi kumntu oswelekileyo. Umzekelo, ukuba umntu ohambileyo wayeyigolfer enomdla, iklabhu kwiklabhu yakhe yegalufa ayithandayo inokuba yindawo efanelekileyo yokuphinda ubuye.
Zibhengezwa Njani Iimpazamo
Njengokuba ubundlobongela bungasoloko buhamba nemingcwabo, abazilileyo akufuneki ngokuzenzekelayo bacinge ukuba kuzakubakho indibano yakugqiba inkonzo. Ukuba i-repast evulelekileyo kubo bonke abangcwabi iya kubanjwa, iyakwaziswa ngokubanzi eqongeni. Ukuba i-repast evulekileyo iyakubanjwa, umntu ogunyazisiweyo uya kuthi abahlali bamkelekile ukuba bazimanye nosapho emva kwenkonzo kwaye banike idilesi. Ukuba isibhengezo esinjalo asenziwa, oko kuthetha ukuba ngekhe kubekho ukuphinda-phinda okanye kuya kuba kukuhlangana okusondeleyo okunqunyelwe kusapho olusondeleyo kunye nabahlobo abasondeleyo.
Ukuqwalaselwa kwe-Etiquette yasemva komngcwabo
Akukho mpendulo ichanekileyo okanye engachanekanga kumbuzo wokuba ingaba kufuneka kwenziwe umcimbi wokungcwaba; ngokuqinisekileyo ayiyonxalenye enyanzelekileyo ye-Imilinganiselo yokuziphatha emva komngcwabo. Kusoloko kubalulekile ukuba uyihlonele iminqweno yabo basondeleyo kulowo uswelekileyo. Asinguye wonke umntu osentlungwini ngendlela efanayo. Ezinye iintsapho zifuna ukuxubana nabanye ngokusebenzisa i-repast ngelixa abanye baya kuthatha indlela yabucala yokulila. Nokuba kubanjelwe i-repast kwakhona, cinga ngokuthumelaincwadi yovelwano okanye yovelwanokusapho olusondeleyo kwiintsuku ezilandela umngcwabo.
