Ukwamkela umntwana omtsha lishishini lasekuhlaleni. Abantakwabo, ootatomkhulu, ootatomncinci, oomalume, oomalume, oomalume, abasebenza nabo, kunye nabahlobo bosapho baxhamla eli thuba lokuvuyisana nabazali ngosana lwabo olutsha. Ithuba, njengokuzalwa komntwana, lifuna imiyalezo ekhethekileyo, kodwa ayinguye wonke umntu owaziyo ngqo ukuba angazichaza njani iimvakalelo zakhe. Le mizekelo iya kuba luncedo kuwe.
Imizekelo yemiyalezo yokuvuyisana nabazali abatsha
Amawakawaka abantwana azalwa yonke imihla. PhakathiIishawa zentsanakunye nokubhaptizwa, uya kuzifumana uvuyisana nabazali abatsha unyaka wonke. Kunokuba lula ukwenza umyalezo wobuhlobo kubahlobo osondeleyo kunye nosapho. Nangona kunjalo, mhlawumbi umphathi wakho uzele nje okanye umniki-bhanki wendawo kwaye ufuna ukuvuyisana naye, kodwa awukwazi ukuba ungathini.
Izithuba ezihambelanayo- Imizekelo ye-imeyile yokwazisa ngokuzalwa komntwana emsebenzini
- Isibhengezo sokuzalwa komntwana ngaphambi kwexesha
- Imithandazo yokuhlanjwa kosana
Imiyalezo ngokubanzi
Le miyalezo iya kufaneleka nakubani na ukuba ayisebenzise ngaphandle kolwalamano lwabo nommkeli.
- Ndinqwenela usapho lwakho olutsha ubomi bolonwabo kunye nolonwabo. Ngamana elona xesha lilungileyo linokuchithwa lusapho.
- Thina (I) ngekhe sonwabe ngakumbi ukuba sabelane ngolonwabo lwakho. Siyavuyisana nonyana / intombi yakho entsha enomdla.
- Konke okusemandleni akho kunye nomqulu wakho omtsha wovuyo. Ngamana ubomi bakho buzaliswa lulonwabo olungapheliyo.
Ingqondo
Olu hlobo lomyalezo lugcinelwe abantu onobuhlobo obusondeleyo kunye nabo.
- Siyavuyisana nawe ngokudala umntwana omhle nosempilweni. Thina (ndi) sijonge phambili ekwabelaneni ngovuyo oluza kuziswa ngokuqinisekileyo.
- Iminqweno emihle kwisibini esimangalisayo njengoko besabelana ngothando (lwegama lomntwana) olusizisileyo kuthi sonke. Ubomi bethu buya kuhlala bonwaba kunye naye.
- Bala iinkwenkwezi zakho ezinethamsanqa, encinci (igama lomntwana). Aba bazali ngabakho, kwaye ubomi bakho bonke bothando buya kukuzisa.
Inkolo
Imiyalezo eneemfundiso ezithile zonqulo okanye ivesi ethile yeBhayibhile inokuba yinto ekhethekileyo ngokwenene. Unokuphefumlelwa nguImithandazo yokuhlanjwa kosanakwaye iImibongo yokubhaptizwa.
- Iiroses zibomvu, ii-violets ziluhlaza okwesibhakabhaka, (igama lomntwana) zafika zizele ziintsikelelo zokuba nabazali abafana nawe
- Iintsikelelo zakho kunye nesipho sakho esincinci esivela kuThixo
- UThixo ubusikelele ubomi babo ngokuzisa lo mntwana kuwe. Ngamana ubomi bakho bunokubusiswa kunye ngonaphakade.
- 'Abantwana lilifa elivela eNkosini, iziqhamo zesizalo zingumvuzo.' INdumiso 127: 3 . Thina (mna) siyavuya ngovuyo olukhulu kwisipho esingukuzalwa komntwana wakho.
Ehlekisayo
Imiyalezo ebhalwe igama lakho igcwele uburharha okanye iziqhulo zezona zibekelwe abahlobo abasenyongweni kunye nosapho abaziwayo ukuba banoburharha.
- Wamkelekile kwelona themba libalaseleyo lobomi bakho omncinci. Lindela kwaye wonwabele ukukhwela!
- Ndiyathemba ukuba uyafana notata kwaye ucinga njengomama! Ubuhle kunye neengqondo, olunjani udidi lokuphumelela!
- Siyavuyisana nawe, ngoku unesipili senyama negazi ezandleni zakho. Akayi kujonga nje wena, uya kwenza njengawe, ngakumbi xa ungafuni ukuba enze njalo!
Iingcebiso zokwenza imiyalezo yesiko
Njengoko iingcali zaseHallmark zibonisa, imiyalezo yokuvuyisana nosana olusandul 'ukuzalwa yindlela yokwamkelwa ngokusemthethweni kweli hlabathi kunye nokufika kwabo okutsha kubhiyozelwa. Injongo yakho kukonyusa uvuyo lwabazali abatsha ngendlela abanokuyigcina ngonaphakade ukuba bayathanda.
Ngelixa kungekho hlazo okanye intiyo ekuthengeni ikhadi lesiganeko esikhethekileyo kwaye ukongeza ezimbalwa 'Siyavuyisana' nokusayina kwakho ngaphakathi, uninzi lwethu lunethemba lokuba nesisa kancinane kunoko. Landela la manyathelo kwaye uya kuqiniseka ukuba wenza umyalezo ofanelekileyo ukuba uwunike.
Khetha umamkeli wakho
Xa uthumela ikhadi emva kokuzalwa kosana, uneendlela ezintathu zokuhambisa umyalezo wakho. Abanye abantu bakhetha ukubhala inqaku malunga nosana olutsha, kodwa uninzi lwemiyalezo lujolise kubazali okanye kusapho lonke.
Khetha umbuliso
Ukubulisa kufana nayiphi na inqaku okanye ileta, iqala ngokwendalo. Unokukhetha ukubingelela ngokusesikweni, ngokusesikweni okanye ngokusesikweni ngokuxhomekeke kubudlelwane bakho nosapho. Owona mbuliso uqhelekileyo uthi 'Othandekayo…' Lo mbuliso unokusetyenziswa ngokungekho sikweni ngokudibeneyo no Molo, Molo, okanye igama lomntu.
Thetha ngokusuka entliziyweni
Nokuba ulwalamano lwakho nosapho, fumana indlela efanelekileyo yokuthetha eyona nto ufuna ukuyithetha. Ukuzalwa komntwana omtsha lixesha elinomdla kakhulu kwaye imiyalezo yokwenene ihlala yamkelekile.
Yongeza idinga
Ukuba awazi ukuba uthini, cinga ukongeza ixabiso. Iincwadi zabantwana, imibongo yabantwana, imibhalo yenkolo, kunye neengoma zibonelela ngamagama ahlukeneyo kuwo nawuphi na umsitho. Lifeder inikeza ukhetho oluhle lwamabinzana kwiintsana kunye neentsana.
Khetha umbuliso wokugqibela.
Umbuliso wakho ligama okanye amagama ngaphambi nje kokusayina igama lakho. Zama ukugcina umbuliso wakho ukwinqanaba elifanayo lokusesikweni njengombuliso wakho wokuqala. Amagqabantshintshi afana nokufudumala, uthando oluninzi, lonke uthando lwethu, uThixo akusikelele, ngokunyanisekileyo, okanye, ngokuwola nangokumanga, ziindlela eziqhelekileyo zokubulisa.
Umyalezo okhethekileyo wokuvuyisana
Ukwabelana ngovuyo xa abazali besamkela usana olutsha emhlabeni lelona thuba lixabisekileyo. Thatha ixesha lokucinga ukuba ngubani othumela umyalezo kuye, eyona nto uziva ngayo kwaye umyalezo wakho uya kwamkelwa ngezandla ezishushu.
