Ufanele uqhawule njani umtshato?
Ukophula uthethathethwano kufuna ubucukubhede obunobuzaza, obuchukumisayo kwinto engathandabuzekiyo eyimbambano ebuhlungu, kodwa ukuqonda indlela efanelekileyo yokuphelisa uthethathethwano kunokunceda ukunciphisa ukwahlukana. Ngelixa uphelisa into ebekufanele ukuba yayilixesha lokonwaba, ayisosona siphumo sihle, xa kufanelekile kunokwenzeka ukuba urhoxise uthethathethwano ngokuqwalaselwa kunye nokukhula.
iingoma ezimalunga nokukhula kwabazalwana noodade
Ngaba Ukophula i-Engagement kubalulekile?
Izibini ezininzi ziqala ukuzibuza malunga nokucima ukubandakanyeka kwabo ukuba baneenyawo ezibandayo ngomtshato ozayo, kwaye ukuphelisa ukubandakanyeka ngaphambi kwexesha kunokuba yingozi ngokwasemoyeni kubo bobabini abatshatileyo. Ngaphambi kokuba uthathe isigqibo sokuphelisa ukubandakanyeka kwakho, buza imibuzo enzima kodwa efanelekileyo:
- Ngaba ikhona into engalindelekanga eyenzekileyo ukusukela oko uthethathethwano olwenza ukuba ucinge ngokukubiza?
- Ngaba umlingane wakho ukhe wenza naziphi na izinto ezinjengokukopa, ukuxoka, ukuphathwa gadalala, okanye ukuxhatshazwa ngokweemvakalelo?
- Ngaba niyijonge ngononophelo yonke imibuzo efanelekileyo eniyibuzayo ngaphambi kokuba sitshate?
- Ngaba uneminyaka efanelekileyo yokutshata kwaye uziva ukhululekile ukubandakanyeka kweli nqanaba ebomini bakho?
- Ngaba ukhe waxoxa ngokungaqiniseki kwethu ukunxibelelana ngokufanelekileyo ngezo mvakalelo kunye nabanye?
- Ukhe wazama ukucebisa ngaphambi komtshato okanye kubudlelwane?
- Iifoto zokuzibandakanya ezizodwa
- Uhambo Imisesane yeDayimani
- Iifoto zeMississite Engagement Rings kunye neeBhendi zoMtshato
Ukuba uphendula yonke loo mibuzo ngokunyanisekileyo kodwa usacinga ukumisa uthethathethwano, kukho amanyathelo onokuwathatha anokukunceda ukuba uguqukele ekubeni ungatshatanga.
Ukuphelisa njani ukubandakanyeka ngokufanelekileyo
Ukuphelisa uthethathethwano akukaze kube lula okanye kungabikho zintlungu, kodwa kukho amaxesha apho kufuneka kwenziwe. Ukuba ufuna ukwahlukana nokuzibandakanya kwakho:
- Yiba nenkcazo eyinyani- hayi izizathu - ukulungele lowo uza kutshata naye. Sebenzisa 'I' iingxelo ukwaba izizathu zakho ukunqanda ukubeka ityala kubo.
- Buyisela iringi yokuzibandakanya nakubani na oyithengileyo, okanye nakweyiphi na usapho olungeyomfuneko ukuba ililifa lendlalifa. Ukuba iringi kufuneka igcinwe njengesipho, qinisekisa imithetho yelizwe malunga nemisesane yokuzibandakanya njengezipho ukuze uqiniseke ukuba ayinakuba yingxaki kamva.
- Xelela zombini iintsapho kunye nawaphi na amalungu omtshato malunga nokuqhekeka komtshato ngasese. Baza kufumana inkcazo, kwaye ngelixa ingadingi kuba neenkcukacha, sukubavumela ukuba bakunyanzele ukuba uqwalasele kwakhona.
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Umtshato okanye izipho zokubandakanya kufuneka zibuyiselwe.
Rhoxisa nawaphi na amalungiselelo omtshato asele enziwe. Oku kunokubandakanya:-
Ubhukisho lwezixhobo eziqeshisayo okanye iindawo - Iinkonzo zomthengisi ngeentyatyambo, umculo, ukutya, njl.
- Ukutyunjelwa izixhobo, ukulungiswa kweenwele, ukwenza izithambiso, njl.
- Ii-odolo zezimemo, iinzuzo, isinxibo, njl.
- Izicwangciso zeHoneymoon kunye nokubhuka
- Izicwangciso zamatheko okuzibandakanya, imitshato yomtshato, okanye amaqela e-bachelor
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- Ukuba liphelile ixesha lokurhoxisa amalungiselelo omtshato, cinga ngokunikela ngezinto kunye neenkonzo endaweni yoko. Ukutya kokutya kunokunikelwa ngebhanki yokutya, iziseko zeentyatyambo zinokunikelwa kwikhaya labalupheleyo, njl.
- Cima nakuphi na ukubhaliswa kwezipho zomtshato okanye ukubandakanyeka kwaye ubuyise naziphi na izipho ozifumeneyo, kubandakanya imali okanye iitsheki, ngenqaku elilula 'lombulelo,' kodwa kumthumeli.
- Ukuba izimemo zomtshato zithunyelwe, kufuneka zirhoxiswe. Ukuba usuku lomtshato lwalusekude kwiiveki, inqaku eliprintiweyo linokusetyenziswa ngamagama anje ngo 'Mnu. noNksk. X bayazisola ngokwazisa iindwendwe zabo ukuba unyana / intombi yabo u-Y abasayi kuphinda batshate no-Z. Bacela uxolo kakhulu ngako nakuphi na ukuphazamiseka. ' Ukuba umhla womtshato usondele kakhulu ekuthumeleni i-imeyile, esi sibini sinoxanduva lokunxibelelana nosapho kunye nabahlobo ngokobuqu.
- Sombulula naziphi na izibophelelo zemali ngokudibeneyo, ezinje ngokuhlawula uncedo olunikiweyo ukulungiselela ucwangciso lomtshato okanye ukubuyekeza iindleko zomtshato. Ukuthengisa iimpahla zomtshato kunokunceda ekuhlawuleni iindleko, kodwa qaphela ukuba abathengisi abaninzi bafuna iidiphozithi ezingabuyiswayo, ngenxa yoko kuya kubakho ilahleko yezemali enxulumene nomtshato orhoxisiweyo.
- Hloniphanani kwaye ninikezane ixesha kunye nendawo yokuziqhelanisa neemeko ezintsha. Ngelixa uninzi lwezibini eziqhawula umtshato kunokuhlala kungabahlobo, kungathatha ixesha ukubuyela kubuhlobo obutofotofo emva kokuba ulwalamano luphelile.
Ngokuthatha amanyathelo ngocoselelo ukuphelisa uthethathethwano ngokufanelekileyo, izibini zinokwahlukana ngeendlela ngokuhloniphana nokuqondana. Ngelixa kungayi kuba lula ukwahlulahlula, kunokwenziwa ngendlela enengcinga, evuthiweyo ukuze omabini amaqela aqhubeke nobomi babo.
Izinto ekufuneka uziphephe xa ugqiba ukubandakanyeka
Ukuphelisa uthethathethwano kuyaphazamisa ngokweemvakalelo, kodwa nokuba imeko yoqhawulo-mtshato inokuba yeyiphi na, kukho izinto izibini ezitshatileyo ekufuneka zikuphephe ukubamba umtshato.
Ngubani owenza i-virgos ahlangane
- Ukuxoka : Sukuxoka ngezizathu zokuphelisa uthethathethwano; Ukwenza izizathu kubonisa ukungabikho kwembeko kunye nokunyaniseka kwicala lakho kwaye uyihlazisa yonke into malunga nokuzibandakanya ekwabelaneni ngako.
- Ukukhwaza : Ukungena kwingxabano eshushu kunokubangela iimvakalelo ezibuhlungu kunye nentlungu kunokuba kufanelekile. Ingxoxo ezolileyo, enentlonipho lolona khetho lubhetele kunokubekwa ityala kunye nokudumba.
- Ukuya kuLuntu : Musa ukurhoxisa uthethathethwano esidlangalaleni, njengaphambi kwamalungu osapho okanye abahlobo, kwindawo yokutyela, okanye ngelixa usenza usuku. Isigqibo sokuphelisa uthethathethwano sinokulothusa iqabane lakho, kwaye kuyimbeko ngakumbi ukubaxelela ngesigqibo sakho ngasese.
- Ukungabi Nabuntu : Ngelixa ukwaphula esidlangalaleni uthethathethwano kungafanelekanga, akulunganga ngokufanayo ukukwenza ngokungakhathali. Ungaze usebenzise umnxeba, umyalezo obhaliweyo, i-imeyile, okanye uguqulelo lobume be-Facebook ukuphelisa ukuzibandakanya.
Thatha ixesha lokuPhilisa
Emva kokuphelisa uthethathethwano, kuyafuneka ukuba uthathe ixesha lokuphola ukuze ukhululeke kubudlelwane kwakhona. Wonke umntu wahlukile ekubeni kunokuthatha ixesha elingakanani ukubuyela kwimeko yoxinzelelo lotyeshelo olwaphukileyo, kodwa de ube wonwabile, sukuqala ukuthandana okanye wenze ngathi akukho nto yenzekileyo. Isinyathelo esihle kwinkqubo yokuphilisa kukucwangcisa into ekhethekileyo kumhla womtshato okhutshweyo ongeke uyenze kunye nomlingane wakho wangaphambili, njengokucwangcisa iveki kude (nangona ungafani ne-honeymoon awuyi kuthatha). Ngexesha, ukuba uthathe indlela eyiyo yokuphelisa izicwangciso zokuzibandakanya, uyakube ulunge ngokwasemphefumlweni nakwezothando ukuqhubela phambili kwaye wonwabele uthando ulwalamano olufanelekileyo onokulugcina.
