Ukufundisa eyakhoisimilo somntwanayenye yezona zinto zibalulekileyo kodwa zinzima umzali anokuzenza. Ikwayinkqubo yobomi bonke ebandakanya imisebenzi, uqeqesho lwemihla ngemihla oluvela kubazali kunye neminye imizekelo kunye nokufunda kuvavanyo kunye nokusilela.
Imisebenzi Efundisa Iimpawu zaBantwana
Imisebenzi enceda ukwakha umlinganiswa inokuba yinxalenye yosuku ngalunye. Ukufundisa ngabom iimpawu zomlinganiswa ofuna ukuzibona ebantwaneni bakho kunokubanceda bafunde ukuzikhethela ngokwabo.
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- Imisebenzi yoKwakha abaNtu yaBantwana
- Imisebenzi yaBantwana ekuthobekeni
Ububele
Ukufundisaabantwana babe nobubelekwabanye yinto eza kuhlala nabo kubo bonke ubomi babo. Indawo elungileyo onokuthi uqale ngayo kukuthatha inxaxheba kwidrive yokutya okunkonkxiweyo kunye nokunikezela ngezinto kwindawo yokuhlala engenakhaya okanye kwindawo yokutya. Khuthaza umntwana wakho ukuba abuze abahlobo, usapho kunye nabamelwane (soloko uhamba nomntwana wakho kwindlu ngendlu kwaye kuphela kumakhaya abo ubaziyo ngenxa yezizathu zokhuseleko) kwizinto ezingonakaliyo. Nje ukuba izinto ziqokelelwe kwaye zinikelwe, jonga ukuba unganceda na ukukhonza abo banethamsanqa xa ezo zinto zihanjiswa. Oku kunokuthetha ukusebenzela isidlo kwindawo yokuhlala engenakhaya okanye ukuhambisa iibhokisi zokutya kwiintsapho xa zisiza kwindawo yokutya ukuzokuzithatha.
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Inkalipho
Bhalisela umntwana wakho umsitho apho kuya kufuneka avuke phambi kwabanye. Oku kunokuba yinto eyoyikisayo kuninzi lwabantwana, kodwa nje ukuba inqanaba loyikiso loyisiwe, amava anokunceda ekwakheni ukuzithemba. Iminyhadala ekufuneka ujonge kuyo ibandakanya iphepha, iinyosi zopelo, iingxoxo, iqonga, umdaniso, ukhuphiswano lwezemidlalo okanye umculo.
Ukuzimisela
Nceda umntwana wakho afumane umsebenzi onzima kwaye umkhuthaze ukuba abeke usukelo anokulufikelela kodwa kuya kufuneka asebenze kulo. Oku kunokubandakanya nantoni na ukusuka ekuhambeni umgama othile ukuya ekufundeni ukudlala ingoma ethile kwisixhobo somculo.
Uxolelo
Ukuba umntu ukhathaze umntwana wakho, mcele abhale izizathu zokuba kutheni enokwenza njalo. Ukuzibeka ezicathulweni zomnye umntu kunokukhokelela ekuqondeni kwaye kunokunceda umntwana wakho ukuba afunde ukuvumela isikhubekiso ukuba siye phambili.
Nika imizekelo
Enye yeendlela ezilungileyo zokufundisa umntwana ngeempawu zokubonelela ngemizekelo yezo mpawu. Zininzi iindlela abazali abanokukwenza oku.
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Ukuba kukho uphawu olufuna ukuba umntwana wakho aluhlakulele, eyona ndlela yokuqalisa kukumisela olo phawu ebomini bakho. Ukuba ufuna umntwana wakho abe:
- Ukuxolela - Baxolele abanye abakukhubekisayo.
- Ukuzithemba - Zama ukuzithemba kubuchule bakho nakumntwana wakho.
- Kuyakhuthaza - Thetha amagama akhuthazayo akhuthazayo kwabanye.
- Ulumkile -Funda rhoqo kwaye uzimisele ukwandisa imfundo yakho, nokuba sesikweni okanye ngokungacwangciswanga. Gxininisa ukubaluleka kwemfundo, kwaye uxhase amagama akho ngokubeka imfundo yomntwana wakho kwindawo yokuqala.
- Ukunyaniseka - Thetha inyani ngokwakho. Cinga ubuxoki obumhlophe bulungile? Isenokungalimazi mntu, kodwa khumbula ukuba umntwana wakho ujongile ukuze abone ukuba unyanisile okanye akunjalo. Ngamanye amaxesha kungcono ukuba ungathethi nto konke kunokuthetha ubuxoki.
Nika imizekelo yokuziphatha kakuhle
Xa umntwana wakho engaziphathi kakuhle, ukubonelela ngemizekelo yendlela abanokuziphatha ngayo ngokwahlukileyo kwixesha elizayo kunokumnceda ukuba abone ukuba ngumntu ongcono ngokuhamba kwexesha. Ukuba umntwana wakho:
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- Ubiba into - Chaza ukuba wonke umntu ufuna 'izinto' kodwa eyona ndlela ingcono yokusombulula le meko kukucela umzali ngento, ugcine isibonelelo sakho, ufumane imali okanye ucele loo nto njengesipho somhla wokuzalwa okanye omnye umsitho.
- Ukubetha okanye ukutyhala omnye umntwana - Chaza ukuba wonke umntu uyacaphuka, kodwa eyona ndlela ingcono yokuphatha umsindo iya kuba ngamazwi, ukubetha umqamelo, ukubala ukuya kwi-10 okanye ezinye iindlela zokulawula umsindo. Umntwana wakho kufuneka aqonde ukuba ukubetha akuyiyo indlela efanelekileyo yokubonisa umsindo. Khumbula, loo mntwana mhle oneminyaka emihlanu otyhalele omnye umntwana ezantsi namhlanje uyakuba neminyaka elishumi elinesithathu.
- Xelela Ubuxoki - Chaza ukuba ukuxoka kunokubangela abanye bangakuthembi. Eyona ndlela ingcono yokusingatha le meko kukuthetha inyani. Umntwana wakho kufuneka aqonde ukuba nangona enokungena enkathazweni ngenxa yokona ukuba ukuxoka kuya kuzisa iziphumo ezongezelelweyo kunye nokuphulukana namalungelo ngaphezulu kokuthetha inyani.
Ewe kunjalo, kuya kufuneka ulandele indlela yakho yoqeqesho, njengokuthatha ilungelo, ukuba kufanelekile.
Yabelana ngamabali
Ukwabelana ngamabali ukusuka ebuntwaneni bakho kunokunika imizekelo emntwaneni wakho ngeempawu ezahlukeneyo kunye nendlela yokuziphucula. Yabelana ngamabali malunga nokuba wenze nini impazamo kwaye utshintshe njani. Oku kunokuba yeyona ndlela isebenzayo xa umntwana wakho esenza impazamo. Uyakukuqonda ukuba ubukhona apho akhoyo kwaye ungene engxakini ngempazamo, kodwa wafunda kuyo kwaye waba ngcono kumava.
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Umzekelo, ukuba wakhe wathatha ibhayisekile yomnye umntwana ngaphandle kokucela imvume kwaye ulahlekelwe ngumhlobo ngale meko, yabelana ngomntwana wakho kunye noko ukufundileyo. Wenze ntoni kwixesha elizayo xa ufuna ukuboleka into kumhlobo wakho? Isebenze njani le meko ingcono kunenye imeko?
Ukuba awukwazi ukucinga ngomzekelo wobomi bakho, boleka imizekelo koomakhulu nootatomkhulu, oomakazi noomalume kunye nabahlobo bosapho abasondeleyo. Ukwazi ukuba abanye abantu abamngqongileyo abafezekanga, kodwa baye bakwazi ukukhula kwaye bafunda njengoko bephila kunokunceda umntwana wakho abone ukuba unakho ukukhulisa isimilo kubo bonke ubomi bakhe.
Uluhlu lweempawu zaBantwana
Nalu uluhlu lwezinto onokuzifuna ukunceda umntwana wakho ukuba akhule:
- Uxabiso
- Imfesane
- Inkalipho
- Ubulungisa
- Isisa
- Ukunyaniseka
- Ukuthobeka
- Ububele
- Ukunyaniseka
- Ithemba
- Unyamezelo
- Umbono oqinisekileyo
- Intlonipho
- Uxanduva
- Ukunyaniseka
- Ukunyamezelana
Sebenzisa oku kulula kwaye kumnandi ukuprintwa.Khuphela okuprintwayokwaye uyisebenzise ukukunceda ukhumbule iimpawu ezinokufundiseka.
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Ixesha elidlulele
Njengoko ubeka ingqalelo ngakumbi kwiimpawu zomntwana wakho, uya kufumana indawo yamandla kunye nobuthathaka. Mncome amandla umntwana wakho kwaye umncede ukuba oyise ubuthathaka bakhe. Khumbula ukuba ixesha kunye namava bobabini ngabona titshala babalaseleyo anokufumana umntwana wakho.
