Zininzi izinto ezinokwenzeka emva kokuba umntu eswelekile ezinokubandakanya ukuvuka kunye nomngcwabo. Ukuqonda umahluko phakathi komngcwabo kunye nokuvuka kunokukunceda uzive ulunge ngakumbi malunga nezinto onokuhlangabezana nazo.
Umahluko phakathi kokuvuka kunye noMngcwabo
Umahluko phakathi kokuvuka kunye noumngcwaboKukuba ukuvuka kwenzeka iiyure ezimbalwa ukuya kwiintsuku ngaphambi komngcwabo. Ukuvuka lixesha lokuba ujonge umzimba womntu oswelekileyo kwaye uthethe okuhle kwakho, ngelixa umngcwabo uyinkonzo esesikweni ngakumbi ezukisa ongasekhoyo.
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Yintoni i-Wake?
Ukuvuka sisiganeko sentlalontle esenzeka ngaphambi komngcwabo kwaye sinokwenzeka kwiintsuku eziphambi okanye ngomhla womngcwabo kuxhomekeke kwiminqweno yosapho. Ngexesha lokuvuka, abantu bahlala benxiba kakuhle iimpahla ezifanelekileyo ukuya emngcwabeni. Ekuvukeni, kunokubakho umsitho wenkolo okanye ongengowenkolo kunye nethuba lokujonga umzimba womfi kwibhokisi evulekileyo. Ukuba ukhethwe ukuba ungangcwatywa, kunokubakhoumchamoiboniswe nothuthu lomntu ongasekhoyo ukuba umntu utshisiwe.
Ukuba uziva ukhululekile ukwenza njalo, ekuvukeni uyakuba nelinye ithuba lokugqibela lokuvalelisa ngaphambi kokuba angcwatyweuthuthu luthe saaokanye bathathwe bagoduswa lusapho lwabo. Amalungu osapho alowo ungasekhoyo anokuma ecaleni kwebhokisi yomngcwabo okanye ngomchamo ngexesha lokuvuka. Nokuba awufuni ukuwujonga umzimba, usenokudlulisa amazwi ovelwano. Qiniseka ukuba uyigcina imfutshane ukuba kukho umgca omde wabanye abalinde ukujonga umzimba emva kwakho. Gcina ukhumbula ukuba ekuvukeni:
- Usapho lunokubhekisa koku njengokundwendwela
- Awudingi ukuwujonga umzimba ukuba uziva ungonwabanga ngokwenza njalo
- Ngokwesiqhelo awudingi kuhlala ixesha elide, ngokwaneleyo ukuze unxibelelane nosapho kwaye ujonge umzimba ukuba uyafuna
Yintoni umngcwabo?
Umngcwabo ngumsitho wenkolo okanye ongengowenkolo apho umntu oswelekileyo ehlonitshwa. Kwiumngcwabo, abantu ngabanye banxibaimibala emnyama okanye emnyama ukubonisa ukuba bazilile, kodwa iindlela zokunxiba ziya kuxhomekeka kwizinto ezahlukeneyo ezinje ngenkolo nenkcubeko yosapho lwalowo ungasekhoyo. Emngcwabeni, kuthandazwa okanyeKungafundwa imibongo, kwaye ngokwesiqhelo abo basondeleyo kulowo ungasekhoyo baya kwabelana ngeememori abazithandayo kunye neengcinga malunga nomntu oswelekileyo.
- Eminye imingcwabo ikwabizwa ngokuba yimibhiyozo yobomi, kwaye oku kunokubandakanya ezinye iintetho zokuqhubela phambili zinetoni eyahlukileyo.
- Eminye imingcwabo inokuba nemvakalelo enzima, ngakumbi ukuba ukudlula kwakubuhlungu okanye kungalindelekanga.
Ngexesha lomngcwabo, kunokubakho okanye kungabikho mntu ukhalayo kunye / okanye ukulila ngelixa umsitho uqhubeka. Oku kuyakuxhomekeka kwizinto ezininzi, kodwa kufanelekile ukuba uzilungiselele ukuba ube neemvakalelo zakho kunye / okanye ungqinele abanye beveza iimvakalelo zabo zelahleko.
Ngaba Ndimele Ndiye Kumngcwabo?
Sisigqibo sobuqu ngokupheleleyo xa kufikwa kumba wokuzimasa iminyhadala ezukisa umntu oswelekileyo. Unokukhetha ukuya kwisiganeko esinye, kodwa hayi esinye, kwaye kulungile. Ezi zigqibo ezinokwenziwa nguwe kuphela. Ngokufanelekileyo ukuba ubusondele kakhulu kulowo ungasekhoyo kunye nosapho lwabo ngewayekwazi ukuya kuzo zonke iziganeko zokuhlonipha ukudlula kwabo, kodwa iimeko zinokungena ngendlela ethintela ukuba kungenzeki. Abantu banokukhetha ukungayi kwisinye okanye kuzo zonke izehlo kuba:
- Abasekho kufutshane nomntu ophumeleleyo okanye usapho lwabo
- Abonwabanga ngokujonga umzimba womfi
- Banobunzima obomeleleyo bokuya emingcwabeni okanye ekuvukeni kwaye bazive ngathi impendulo yabo inokuphazamisa inkonzo
- Omnye umntu osondele kubo usweleke kwaye waya komnye umngcwabo okanye uvuko unokubabeka kwiintlungu ezixhomis 'amehlo
- Umngcwabo kunye / okanye ukuvuka kufuna uhambo abangakwaziyo ukufikelela kulo ngokufanelekileyo
- Ukuvalwa kukhenketho okanye ukuthintelwa kuthintele ukubakho kwabo
Ukuba ukhetha ukungayi okanye awukwazi ukuya kumngcwabo okanye emngcwabeni, kodwa usafuna ukunxibelelana nosapho lomntu ongasekhoyo ungathumela ileta, uthumele isipho esincinci, kunye / okanye ubatsalele umnxeba ubazise ukuba ucinga kubo.
Vuka ngokuchasene nokuBukela
Ukujonga kubhekisa kwixesha lokuba uthi ndlela-ntle kulowo ungasekhoyo ngaphambi kokuba babekwe. Ukujonga kuhlala kufutshane kwaye unokuhlala ixesha elide okanye ixesha elincinci njengoko ukhululekile kulo.
Kwenzeka ntoni xa ujonga?
Ngexesha lokujonga umzimba womntu obhubhileyo ukhona ukuze ubekhona kwaye usenokuba ukwi bhokisi. Ngokwesiqhelo, umzimba uye wacocwa, walungiswa, waqholwa ngamakhaza. Ukujonga kunokwenzeka ngaphambi kwenkonzo yomngcwabo, kodwa kunokubakho kwiintsuku ezimbalwa ngaphambi komngcwabo.
Imigaqo inokusetyenziswa ngokungafaniyo
Ukuvuka nokubukela kunokusetyenziselwa ukuchaza isiganeko esinye kwezinye iimeko. Ukuvuka, ngokungafaniyo nokubukwa, kunokubandakanya inkonzo yenkolo, okanye umsitho osesikweni ngakumbi, ngelixa ukubonwa kugxile ikakhulu kubantu ababona umfi ngaphambi komngcwabo. Nokuba uya kumlindo okanye ubukele, okanye ukuba usapho usebenzisa la magama ngokutshintshisanayo, kuya kufuneka ukuba unxibe kakuhle, nokuba umngcwabo awenzeki kwangolo suku lunye. Ukuba ukuvuka okanye ukubukela kwenzeka phambi komngcwabo, unganxiba iimpahla ezifanelekileyo zomngcwabo kwaye uye emngcwabeni emva koko ngaphandle kokutshintsha.
Ukuqonda umahluko phakathi koMngcwabo kunye nokuvuka
Ukuzimasa iinkonzo kunye neziganeko emva kokuba umntu eswelekile kunokuziva kunzima. Ukwazi ukuba ulindele ntoni kunokukunceda ulunge ngakumbi ngokwengqondo nangokomzwelo ukulungiselela ezi ziganeko.
