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KWELI NQAKU
- Ziyatshangaza nini iintsana?
- Iimpawu ezibonisa ukuba usana lulungele ukuzuliswa
- Njani kwaye nini ukukhuthaza i-Waving?
- Kuthekani Ukuba Umntwana Wakho Akazuzi?
- Zeziphi ezinye izinto ezibalulekileyo aza kuhlangabezana nazo umntwana wakho?
- Kwenzeka Ntoni Emva kokuBhanga?
Iintsana zinendlela enyibilikayo yokunxibelelana. Unxibelelwano lwabo olungasebenzisi magama lubandakanya ukuwangawangisa ngesandla okuninzi kwaye ngokuqhelekileyo yenye yeendlela zokuqala abanxibelelana ngazo ngaphambi kokuphuhlisa izakhono zokuthetha. Ngaba unomdla wokwazi ukuba iintsana zizuliswa nini? Esi sithuba siya kuphendula umbuzo wakho.
Ukuwangawangisa sesinye sezijekulo ezingathethwayo ezimisela ukukhula komntwana okuzinzileyo nokunempilo, nto leyo ebonisa ukuba bayakhula besiya kwinqanaba elifunekayo lophuhliso. Njengabazali, ninokuba negalelo kolu phuhliso kwaye nibancede ngeendlela ezilula.
buthini ubude obuphakathi kwenkwenkwana eneminyaka eli-14 ubudala
Funda ukuze wazi malunga neempawu zokuwangawangisa, kunye neendlela zokuyikhuthaza kunye nexesha omele ukhathazeke ngalo.
Ziyatshangaza nini iintsana?
Intshukumo yokuqala yamaza phakathi kweentsana ezipheleleyo idla ngokujongwa malunga neenyanga ezilishumi (Nye) . Iintsana zidla ngokufunda ukukopa izimbo zomzimba xa zineenyanga ezisithoba, ngenxa yoko, abanye abantwana abaneenyanga ezisithoba ubudala banokuhleba umva ukuba uyabawangawangisa. (Mbini) .
Iintsana zisenokungayiqondi injongo yokuwangawangisa amandla kunye neentsingiselo ezihambelana nazo de zibe neenyanga ezili-12 ubudala. Ubukhulu becala kusemva komhla wokuzalwa wokuqala umntwana angawangawangisa ngenjongo yokubulisa umntu molo okanye ndlela-ntle (3) . Umntwana omncinci uya kuthi ngokuthe ngcembe aphucule ubuchule njengoko ekhula, enze amaza abo agudileyo kwaye abe nenjongo.
Iimpawu ezibonisa ukuba usana lulungele ukuzuliswa
Usana olulungele ukuwangawangisa lusenokubonisa iintshukumo ezahlukeneyo zezandla neminwe. Unokuqaphela kwakhona imida ethile yokuqonda. Uninzi lwezi mpumelelo zenzeka kwisithuba seenyanga ezilithoba kwaye zichazwe ngezantsi (4) .
- Ukhomba izinto ngeminwe
- Ukhuphela iintshukumo kunye nezijekulo
- Uhambisa izinto ukusuka kwesinye isandla ukuya kwesinye
- Uchola izinto ngomnwe wesalathisi kunye nobhontsi ( pincer bamba)
- Beka izinto emlonyeni
- Uyaqonda uhayi kwaye unokuqonda eminye imiyalelo yegama elinye
Abanye abantwana abaneenyanga ezilithoba basenokutsala ukuze beme, oko kukuthi, babambe into ethile baze bazitsalele kwindawo yokuma. Esi siganeko sibalulekileyo sibonisa ukomelela kwesihlahla esingcono, ulawulo, kunye nobuchule, obudla ngokufuneka ukuze uwangawangise.
buthini ubude obuphakathi komfazi oneminyaka eli-14 ubudala
Njani kwaye nini ukukhuthaza i-Waving?
Ekuqaleni, umntwana wakho unokutshangatshangisa nantoni na okanye nabani na. Undoqo ekubancedeni banxulumanise isenzo negama okanye injongo kukuqhelisela. Ke ngoko, yithi, molo, bye, okanye bye-bye ngalo lonke ixesha uwangawangisa isandla kusana lwakho. Umntwana wakho uya kuthi ngokuthe ngcembe aqalise ukusebenzisa ukuwangawangisa njengesenzo sonxibelelwano esingathethiyo.
Usenokuthathela ingqalelo izicengcelezo okanye iingoma ukwenza amazanga akhumbuleke. Umzekelo, cula ivesi yokuqala yesicengcelezo semvano-siphelo ye-My Hands Wave Hello ukwenza ukufunda kube mnandi. Apha ngezantsi kukho ivesi yokuqala yemvano-siphelo.
Izandla zam zishukuma molo,
Izandla zam zishukuma molo,
Ngalo lonke ixesha ndibona abahlobo bam,
Izandla zam zizulisa molo.
loluphi uhlobo lotywala olunokuba sisiselo seswekile
Ungasusa igama elithi hello ngokuthi bye-bye kunye negama elithi umhlobo ngomnxeba okhethekileyo okanye esinye isibizo. Lo msebenzi usenokunceda umntwana ukuba anxulumanise amagama amatsha nabantu kunye nezinto.
Kuthekani Ukuba Umntwana Wakho Akagungqi?
Ukuba umntwana wakho ungaphantsi kweenyanga ezili-12, linda kude kube ngumhla wakhe wokuqala wokuzalwa. Uninzi lweentsana lufunda ukuzulazula ngosuku lwazo lokuzalwa lokuqala xa zingena ebuncinaneni. Umntwana ngamnye wahlukile kwaye unokufezekisa imida yophuhliso kwiminyaka eyahluke kancinane kunoontanga bakhe. Ke ngoko, nika umntwana wakho ohambahambayo inyanga okanye ezimbini ukuba akazuli nasemva kokuzalwa kwakhe kokuqala.
Ungayichaza njani ukuba ingakanani inamba enentshebe
Unokucinga ngokuthetha nogqirha wabantwana ukuba umntwana wakho omncinci akagungqi nasemva kokuba efikelele kwiinyanga ezili-15 (5) . Uninzi lweentsana kunye nabantwana abasakhasayo ababonakalisa impumelelo engekho mgangathweni yophuhliso nabo babonakalisa ezinye iimpawu zokuphazamiseka kokukhula okunokwenzeka. Unokuhlala ulumkile kolu libaziseko lophuhliso lulandelayo kwiminyaka eyahlukeneyo (6) .
Bhalisa- Ayizisi izandla emlonyeni ngeenyanga ezimbini
- Ayibambi intloko iqinile kwiinyanga ezine
- Akafikeleli kwizinto ngeenyanga ezintandathu
- Unengxaki yokuzisa izinto emlonyeni ngeenyanga ezintandathu
- Ayiqengqeleki ubuncinane kwicala elinye ngeenyanga ezintandathu
- Akahlali ngoncedo ngeenyanga ezilithoba
- Unengxaki yokubamba izinto okanye ukuzigqithisa ukusuka kwesinye isandla ukuya kwesinye ngeenyanga ezilithoba
- Akakhupheli nasiphi na isijekulo kwiinyanga ezili-12
Zeziphi ezinye izinto ezibalulekileyo aza kuhlangabezana nazo umntwana wakho?
Nanga amanye amanyathelo aphawulekayo okukhula umntwana adla ngokuwafikelela ngexesha efunda ukuwangawangisa kwiinyanga ezisithoba ukuya kwezilishumi ubudala. (Nye) .
- Usebenzisa i-pincer grasp ukubamba izinto ezincinci
- Uchola izinto zokudlala okanye ezinye izinto emgangathweni
- Uzama ukuzondla amaqhekeza amancinci okutya (Ukuzondla)
- Ubamba ibhotile okanye ikomityi ezandleni
- Ukubetha izinto ezibanjwe ngezandla kunye
- Ukhuphela izimbo zomzimba, njengokuqhwaba
- Ungena kwindawo yokuhlala kwaye uhlale ngaphandle koncedo
- Iyakhasa kwaye itsale ukuma
Kwenzeka Ntoni Emva kokuBhanga?
Uninzi lweentsana lukwazi ukuwangawangisa kusuku lwazo lokuqala lokuzalwa. Unokujonga phambili kwezi ziganeko zibalulekileyo zophuhliso ukusuka kwiinyanga ezili-12 ukuya kwezingama-24 (6) .
- Uhamba ngexa ubambe izinto (Cruising)
- Ingathatha amanyathelo ambalwa ngaphandle kwenkxaso
- Imi ngaphandle kwenkxaso
- Ulandela imiyalelo elula
- Uyaziqonda izicelo
- Usebenzisa izijekulo ezithile ukunxibelelana, njengokunikina intloko ukuthi hayi
- Uyehla esenyuka kwizinyuko
- Usebenzisa icephe lokuzondla
- Iziselo kwikomityi evuliweyo
- Ingakhulula iimpahla ezimbalwa
- Ubonisa izijekulo ezithe ngqo nezinenjongo
- Uphuhlisa i-dexterity eyaneleyo yesandla ukuzoba imigca kunye neemilo ezilula
Ukuwangawangisa sesinye sezijekulo ezininzi ezingathethwayo ezisetyenziswa ziintsana kunye nabantwana abaselula. Kudla ngokuba luphawu lokuba umntwana wakho ukhula kakuhle engqondweni nasemzimbeni. Uqheliselo olwaneleyo kunye nokhuthazo lwabazali lubalulekile ekuncedeni usana luqonde injongo kunye nentsingiselo yokuwangawangisa ngesandla. Nika umntwana wakho ixesha lokuphucula izakhono zabo. Qhagamshelana nogqirha wabantwana ukuba unenkxalabo malunga nokukwazi komntwana wakho ukutshangatshangisa okanye babonisa nakuphi na ukulibaziseka kokukhula.
Mbini. Amanqaku abalulekileyo: Umntwana Wakho Ngeenyanga Ezisithoba ; i-CDC
3. Irekhodi yophuhliso - iinyanga ezili-12 ; Ithala leencwadi leLizwe laseU.S
Isine. Amanyathelo okukhula komntwana wakho kwiinyanga ezili-9 ; UNICEF
5. Xa Ungazikhathazi ngeAutism ; I-American Academy of Pediatrics
6. Amanqaku abalulekileyo ; i-CDC
