Akuqhelekanga ukuba izibini zomtshato zibuze ukuba kutheni abantu betshata xa bephakathi kokukhetha okugqibeleleyoilokhwe yomtshato, Ukuxoxa ngokufaneleka kwegama lesimemo somtshato elahlukileyo, kunye nokukhathazeka malunga nendlela yokuziphatha yeendwendwe zomtshato. Umtshato umalunga nepati entle okanye airingi ebengezelayonokuqonda izizathu ezisisiseko zokuba kutheni abantu betshata kunokuqinisekisa ukuba izibini ziyazitshataukwenza ukhetho olufanelekileyonjengoko baceba usuku lwabo olukhethekileyo.
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Izizathu ezisixhenxe Izibini ziyatshata
Isibini ngasinye sinezizathu ezahlukeneyo zokutshata ezisebenza kulwalamano lwabo olwahlukileyo, kwaye uninzi lwezibini zabelana ngezizathu ezifanayo zokucwangcisa uhambo olude ezantsi kwendlela. Nokuba izizathu zabatshatileyo zezemvakalelo, zomthetho, zezemali, okanye ezinye zokudibanisa ezi, ukuqonda ukuba kutheni umtshato ubalulekile kunokubancedaukuqonda ukuqondabanolwalamano lwabo lwexesha elide.
Amanqaku afanelekileyo- 17 Izinto zoMtshato zoSuku lweValentine Day ukuze zikukhuthaze
- Iinkqubo zomtshato
- Iilekese zoSuku loMtshato
Abantu abaninzi batshata uthando
Kwizibini ezininzi, izizathu zeemvakalelo sesona sizathu sokuhamba phantsi kwendlela. Ngokwe- IZiko loPhando lwePew , Iipesenti ezingama-88 zeengxelo zoluntu ngokubanzi ukuba uthando sesona sizathu siphambili sokuba bakhethe ukubopha iqhina. Esi sisizathu sokuqala esinikwe ngabaphenduli.
Abanye batshata ngeZibonelelo zezeMali
Ukutshata kunokuba luncedo kakhulu ngenxa yezizathu zemali. Ngapha koko, ngokuka Iindaba zaseMelika kunye neNgxelo yeHlabathi , izibini ezihlala kunye kodwa ezingatshatanga zenza kuphela iipesenti ezingama-61 zengeniso yabo batshatileyo. Izibonelelo zemali zomtshato zinokubandakanya:
- Isibini esitshatileyo sinokusebenzisa ithuba lekhefu elihambelana nomtshato.
- Ukuzibophelela ngokwasemthethweni komtshato kunokunika ukhuseleko lwezezimali ukuba isibini sikhetha ukuba nabantwana.
- Isibini sinokuzonwabela isibonelelo semali ngokubhekiseleipropati yoluntuamafa, iiakhawunti zomhlala-phantsi, kunye neminye imicimbi yezemali.
Abantu banokutshata i-Inshurensi yezeMpilo
I-inshurensi yezempilo yenye into ebakhuthazayo abanye abakhetha ukutshata. Ukwabelana nge-inshurensi yezonyango kwizibini ezitshatileyo kunye neentsapho kungabiza kakhulu kwaye kunokubangela abanye ukuba behle ezantsi. Inkqubo ye- Amaziko oLawulo noThintelo lwezifo Xela ukuba abantu abadala abatshatileyo abaphakathi kweminyaka eyi-18-64 babenethuba lokufumana i-inshurensi kunabo babengatshatanga. Ngokwe-CDC yophando, iipesenti ezingama-74.5 zezibini ezitshatileyo ezine-inshurensi zazine-inshurensi yabucala, zihlala zisenziwa ngumqeshi.
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Iipesenti ezingama-41 zabantu abatshatileyo ukuba babe nabantwana
Uphando lweZiko loPhando lwePew lukwacebisa ukuba nokuba nokukhulisa abantwana kunokuba yinto ebakhuthazayo abantu ukuba bazibophelele ubomi babo bonke. Ngokophando, iipesenti ezingama-41 zabaphenduli badwelise ukuba nabantwana njengezona zinto zibalulekileyo bakhethe ukutshata. Ixesha elizayo leNgxelo yaBantwana Ukusuka kwiYunivesithi yasePrinceton icebisa ukuba abantwana abazalelwe kwikhaya apho abazali betshatile bafumana izibonelelo ezininzi emtshatweni, kubandakanya oku kulandelayo:
- Ixesha elininzi kunye nabazali
- Ingeniso ephezulu yekhaya
- Ukufikelela ngakumbi kwi-inshurensi yezempilo
- Indawo ezinzileyo ekhaya
- Ukujonga ngcono komzali
Ewe, ezi zibonelelo zisebenza kuphela xa abantwana bezelwe kwindawo esempilweni, ezinzileyo yosapho. Ukutshata akuqinisekisi ukuba abantwana baya kuxhamla kubudlelwane babazali.
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Ama-23% amaqabane atshatayo ngenxa yezizathu zomthetho
Izizathu zomthetho zikwangumnqweno omkhulu wokuzibophelela kwi-23% yemitshato, ngokweZiko loPhando lwePew.
- Ukuba isibini sitshatile ngokusemthethweni, banokucela amalungelo okundwendwela esibhedlele kunye nezigqibo zokhathalelo ngaphandle kokuvalwa kwendlela.
- Amalungelo obuzali nepropathi nawo kulula ukuwalawula ngokusemthethweni xa isibini sitshatile, kubandakanya imiba enje ngekhefu lokugula lengqesho, isizalwane, kunye nobunini bekhaya.
- Ngamanye amaxesha,Ubumi nabo banokudlala indimakwisigqibo sokutshata.
Phantse isiThathu seziBini ezitshatayo ngeZizathu zeNkolo
Phantse iipesenti ezingama-30 zezibini zikhetha ukutshata ngenxa yezizathu zonqulo, ngokutsho kovavanyo lwePew Centre. Kwezinye iinkolo, abantu abatshatileyo abanakuthathwa njengabatshatileyo kuphela xa begqibezela umsitho waseburhulumenteni-umsitho wenkolo uyafuneka ukuqinisekisa umanyano lwabo phambi kwamehlo kaThixo. Isibini esineenkolelo ezifanayo okanye ezifanayo sinokufuna ukuhlonipha ubudlelwane babo kunye nokoukuzibophelela ngokwenkolo, okanye ukuba iinkolo zabo zahlukile, banokuceba umtshato wokudibanisa iinkolo ezahlukeneyo ukuze badibanise imeko yabo yokomoya.
Abanye Batshata Ngenxa Yolindelo Loluntu
Nangona kungekho manani ukuxelela ukuba mangaphi amaqabane atshatayo ngenxa yokulindela ekuhlaleni, akukho nto inokuphika ukuba uninzi lwezibini ziziva zinoxinzelelo olukhulu koontanga ukuba batshate kubazali babo, izihlobo, okanye abanye abahlobo abatshatileyo, ngakumbi ukuba sele benabantwana okanye baceba ukuqala usapho. Abantu abangatshatanga banokucinezelwa ukuba 'bazinze' kwaye batshate, kwaye kwabanye abantu, isibheno seqela ukubhiyozela umanyano lwabo luyinkuthazo yokutshata.
Ngaphezulu Kothando
Ngelixa uthando isenokuba sesona sizathu sikhulu sokutshata kwabantu, ayisiyiyo kuphela. Ngokubanzi, abantu bayazibophelela ekuchitheni ubomi babo kunye ngaphezulu kwesizathu esinye. Isibini ngasinye sikhetha ukuzibophelela emtshatweni kuba sinceda iimfuno zabo kwaye siyabaxhasa amaxabiso namaphupha abo.
