Kwi-tapestry yobomi, iqhina phakathi komama nentombi yenye yeyona misonto inamandla. Bubudlelwane obakhelwe phezu kothando, ukuqonda, kunye nenkxaso engagungqiyo. Ngokunyuka kunye nokuhla, ukuhleka kunye neenyembezi, umama kunye nentombi babelana ngoqhagamshelwano olukhethekileyo olungenakuze luphulwe.
Ukusuka kumaxesha athambileyo okukhokela ukuya kwimibhiyozo eyonwabisayo yempumelelo, ubudlelwane phakathi komama nentombi bubuncwane beenkumbulo kunye neemvakalelo. Ngamaxesha obunzima, amazwi athuthuzelayo kamama anokuyithuthuzela intliziyo yentombi ekhathazekileyo, ngoxa ukuhleka kwentombi kunokuyivuyisa imini yomama.
Ngokucaphula okusuka entliziyweni kunye nenkuthazo, eli nqaku libhiyozela ubudlelwane obungaqhawukiyo phakathi koomama neentombi. Bubungqina bothando olungapheliyo, amandla, kunye nobuhle bobu budlelwane bukhethekileyo obudlula ixesha kunye nendawo.
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Iingcaphuno ezikhuthazayo kooMama kunye neentombi
'Umama ngumhlobo wakho wokuqala, umhlobo wakho osenyongweni, ngumhlobo wakho wanaphakade.'
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'Intombi ngummangaliso ongayeki ukuba ngummangaliso.'
Bona kwakho: Ukufumanisa ukuhambelana kweLibra kubudlelwane bothando kunye nobudlelwane
'Uthando lukamama alunasiphelo, kwaye uthando lwentombi alupheli.'
'Intombi isenokukhula ngaphezu kwethanga lakho, kodwa ayisayi kuze ibe yimbi intliziyo yakho.'
'Ubutyebi bukamama yintombi yakhe, yaye ubuncwane bentombi ngunina.'
Sesiphi isicatshulwa esilungileyo kumama nentombi?
Kukho iingcaphuno ezintle ezingenakubalwa ezibamba iqhina elikhethekileyo phakathi komama nentombi. Enye yezona zicaphulo zichukumisayo yile:
'Umama ngoyena unokuthabatha indawo yabo bonke abanye kodwa indawo yakhe ekungekho bani unokuyithatha.'
Esi sicatshulwa sigxininisa indima engenakuphinda ithathelwe indawo ngumama kubomi bentombi yakhe, igxininisa unxibelelwano olulodwa kunye nothando olukhoyo phakathi kwabo.
Esinye isicatshulwa esichukumisayo sithi:
'Intombi yintwazana nje ekhula ibe ngumhlobo wakho osenyongweni.'
Esi sicatshulwa sibhiyozela uhambo lwentombi ukusuka ebuntwaneni ukuya ebudaleni, kuqaqambisa ukuvela kobudlelwane bomama nentombi kubuhlobo obunzulu nobunentsingiselo.
Ngowuphi owona mfanekiso ulungileyo wentombi evela kumama?
1. 'Intombi yam yintliziyo yam, umphefumlo wam, yonke into yam.'
Ukuvakalisa unxibelelwano olunzulu nothando phakathi kukamama nentombi yakhe.
2. 'Entombini yam, ulilanga lam ngemini enamafu.'
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3. 'Ndisenokungafezekanga, kodwa xa ndikujonga, ndiyazi ukuba kukho into endiyifumene ngokugqibeleleyo.'
Ebalaselisa ikratshi nolwaneliseko umama aba nalo xa ebona intombi yakhe ichuma.
Yintoni isicatshulwa esifutshane esikhuthazayo kwiintombi?
'Unamandla ngaphezu kokuba usazi; umhle njengoko unjalo.
Khumbuza intombi yakho ngamandla akhe kunye nobuhle bangaphakathi ngesi sicatshulwa sixhobisayo. Mkhuthaze ukuba amkele ukuhluka kwakhe kwaye akholelwe kuye.
Iingcaphuno zothando olungenamiqathango phakathi kukaMama kunye nentombi
2. 'Intombi ngumntu ohleka naye, ophupha naye, nomthanda ngentliziyo yakho yonke.' -Akwaziwa
3. 'Iingalo zikamama zenziwe ngokuthantamisa kwaye abantwana balala kamnandi kuzo.' - UVictor Hugo
4. 'Intombi ngummangaliso ongayeki ukuba ngummangaliso.' -Akwaziwa
5. 'Umama nentombi abohlukananga ngokwenene, mhlawumbi ukude kodwa kungekhona entliziyweni.' -Akwaziwa
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Yintoni isicatshulwa sothando olungenamiqathango kumama nentombi?
Uthando olungenamiqathango phakathi komama nentombi lubophelelo oludlula ixesha kunye nendawo. Lunxibelelwano olusulungekileyo nolungazingciyo olungenamida. Nantsi isicatshulwa esisuka entliziyweni esibamba undoqo wobu budlelwane bungenakophulwa:
'Uthando lukamama ngomntwana wakhe alufani nanto yanto ehlabathini. Aluwazi umthetho, alunasizi, luthanda izinto zonke kwaye lutyumza ngokungenalusini konke okume endleleni yalo.' - Agatha Christie
Ngowuphi owona mfanekiso ulungileyo kumama nentombi?
Ukukhetha i-caption efanelekileyo yokubonisa ubudlelwane phakathi komama nentombi kunokuba ngumsebenzi onzima. Nazi ezinye ii-captions ezisuka entliziyweni ezibamba undoqo wobu budlelwane bungonakaliyo:
- 'Intombi bubuncwane bukamama, umama usisithenjwa esikhulu sentombi.'
- 'Kumdaniso wobomi, umama nentombi bajikeleza kunye ngokuhambelana ngokugqibeleleyo.'
- 'Ngokuhleka kunye neenyembezi, umama nentombi bahamba kuhambo lobomi bebambene.'
- 'Uthando lukamama ngumsonto obopha intliziyo yentombi yakhe ngonaphakade.'
- 'Intombi isenokukhula ngaphezu kwethanga lakho, kodwa ayisayi kuze ibe yimbi intliziyo yakho.'
Le mibhalo-ngqangi iqulathe kakuhle unxibelelwano olunzulu nothando olwabiwe phakathi kukamama nentombi, lubenza ukhetho olugqibeleleyo lokubhiyozela obu budlelwane bukhethekileyo.
Yintoni isicatshulwa esihle esivela kumama ukuya kwintombi?
Esinye isicatshulwa esihle esivela kumama esiya kwintombi yakhe sithi, 'Ungukukhanya kwam kwelanga, ukukhanya kwam kwelanga. Uyandonwabisa xa isibhakabhaka sisingwevu.' Le ngxelo ilula kodwa inzulu ibamba uthando olunzulu kunye novuyo umama aluvayo ngentombi yakhe, egxininisa ukukhanya kunye nokufudumala okuzisa ebomini bakhe.
Sithini isicatshulwa malunga nobudlelwane phakathi kukamama nentombi?
Iqhina eliphakathi komama nentombi alikho elinye. Lunxibelelwano olugqitha ixesha, indawo namagama. Liqhina elakhelwe kuthando, ukuthembana nokuqondana. Umama akangomzali nje kuphela kodwa ukwangumhlobo, umntu onokuzityand’ igila kubomi bentombi yakhe. Iqhina eliphakathi komama nentombi alaqhawuki, aligungqi yaye lihlala lihleli. Lumanyano olwakheka entliziyweni nasemphefumlweni, yaye lumanyano oluhlala luhleli ubomi babo bonke.
IMiyalezo yoBulumko: Ingcebiso kaMama ekufanele igcinwe kwizizukulwana
Oomama banobutyebi bobulumko bokwabelana neentombi zabo, bedlulisela amacebiso axabisekileyo anokubakhokela kucelomngeni nakuloyiso lobomi. Nantsi imiyalezo yobulumko engaphelelwa lixesha esuka koomama isiya kwiintombi ezenzelwe ukuba zixatyiswe kwaye zidluliselwe kwizizukulwana:
- Hlala uthembele kwi-intuition yakho, yikhampasi yakho yangaphakathi eya kukukhokela.
- Yiba nobubele kwaye ube nemfesane kuwe nakwabanye, kuba ububele bubuhle obungasoze buphume kwisitayile.
- Bamkele ubungangamsha bakho kwaye ungaze uzithelekise nabanye, kuba ungumsebenzi wobugcisa ngokwakho.
- Ungaze uwajongele phantsi amandla okunyamezela nokusebenza nzima, kuba zizitshixo zokufezekisa amaphupha akho.
Le miyalezo yobulumko isuka koomama isiya kwiintombi isebenza njengesikhumbuzo somanyano oluhlala luhleli phakathi kwabo kunye nelifa lothando namandla elidluliselwa ukusuka kwesinye isizukulwana ukuya kwesinye.
Buyintoni ubulumko bomcaphulo kamama?
Ubulumko bukamama bufana nesibane sokukhanya ekhokela intombi yakhe kubunzima bobomi. Ngumthombo wamandla, uthando, kunye nenkxaso engagungqiyo. Isicatshulwa sikamama yingqwebo exabisekileyo yeengcebiso, intuthuzelo, kunye nenkuthazo ehlala ngaphakathi entliziyweni yentombi. Esi sisikhumbuzo sezifundo ezifundiweyo, imilinganiselo yokuziphatha nothando olungenasiphelo phakathi kukamama nentombi yakhe. Isicatshulwa somama sisikhumbuzo esingenasiphelo sobudlelwane obungenasiphelo obudlula ixesha kunye nendawo.
Yintoni isicatshulwa esinamandla malunga nokuba ngumama?
Esinye isicatshulwa esichukumisayo sithi: 'Uthando lukamama lufana nesibane, oluvutha ukholo nomthandazo, kwaye ngenxa yeemeko eziguqukayo zobomi, sinokufumana indawo yokusabela apho.' - uHelen Steiner Rice
| Umbhali | Caphula |
| Akwaziwa | 'Umama ngoyena unokuthabatha indawo yabo bonke abanye kodwa indawo yakhe ekungekho bani unokuyithatha.' |
| Washington Irving | 'Umama ngoyena mhlobo wenene sinaye, xa izilingo ezinzima zisifikela ngequbuliso; xa ubunzima buthatha indawo yempumelelo; xa abahlobo besilahlile; xa iinkathazo zisirhawula, useza kunamathela kuthi, aze azame ngemithetho namacebiso akhe obubele ukutshabalalisa amafu obumnyama, aze abuyisele uxolo ezintliziyweni zethu. |
Leliphi elona cebiso lilungileyo owalinikwa ngumama wakho?
Oomama banendlela yokunika ubulumko obuhlala nathi kubo bonke ubomi bethu. Nokuba ngamazwi enkuthazo, izifundo zokomelela, okanye izikhumbuzo ukuba sihlale sinyanisekile kuthi, iingcebiso esizifumana koomama bethu zinokubumba ukuba ngubani na.
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Elinye lawona macebiso alungileyo umama awandinika wona yayikukuhlala ndilandela amaphupha am kwaye ndinganikezeli, nokuba indlela inokubonakala inzima kangakanani na. Wandifundisa ukubaluleka kokunyamezela nokukholelwa kum, naxa abanye bendithandabuza. Eli cebiso libe sisikhanyiso esindikhokelayo kuhambo lwam, lindikhumbuza ukuba ndihlale ndomelele kwaye ndomelele xa ndijamelene nobunzima.
| 'Hlalani ninobubele nemfesane kwabanye, kuba ububele sisipho esiqhubekayo.' |
| 'Khumbula ukuba uzinyamekele kuqala, kuba akunako ukugalela ngendebe engenanto.' |
| 'Ungaze uwajongele phantsi amandla emfundo kunye nokufunda okuqhubekayo, njengoko ulwazi lungundoqo ekuvuleni amathuba angenasiphelo.' |
Uthini ngawe? Leliphi elona cebiso lilungileyo umama wakho akunike lona libe nempembelelo ehlala ihleli kubomi bakho?
UCatshulwa zothando lukaMama kunye nentombi
2. 'Intombi ngummangaliso ongayeki ukuba ngummangaliso.' -Akwaziwa
3. 'Umama asingomntu wokwayama ngaye, kodwa ngumntu wokweyama ngokungeyomfuneko.' -Dorothy Canfield Fisher
4 Oomama neentombi basondelelene xa iintombi zizala. -Akwaziwa
5 Intombi isenokukhula imilenze yakho, kodwa ayisayi kuze ibe yimbi intliziyo yakho. -Akwaziwa
Uluchaza njani uthando phakathi kukamama nentombi?
Iqhina phakathi komama nentombi lunxibelelwano olulodwa nolunamandla oludlula amagama. Luthando olunzulu, olungenamiqathango, nolungunaphakade. Uthando lukamama ngentombi yakhe luyimbonakaliso yentliziyo yakhe, uthando olungasikelwanga mda nolungagungqiyo kumandla alo.
Luthando olwakhelwe phezu kwesiseko sokuthembana, ukuqondana nenkxaso. Umama ukho ukuze akhokele, akhusele, aze ondle intombi yakhe kumahla-ndinyuka obomi, esoloko eyinika igxalaba ekwayama ngalo namazwi obulumko anokuyikhuthaza. Iqhina eliphakathi kukamama nentombi liqhina elingaqhawukiyo, elihle nelikhethekileyo.
Yintoni isicatshulwa esikhethekileyo sobudlelwane malunga nomama nentombi?
Enye yezona ngcaphuno ezintle kakhulu ezithatha iqhina elikhethekileyo phakathi komama nentombi kukuba: 'Umama nguye onokuthatha indawo yabo bonke abanye kodwa indawo yakhe akukho mntu unokuyithatha.' Esi sicatshulwa sibalaselisa uqhagamshelo olulodwa nolungenakuthatyathelwa indawo olukhoyo phakathi komama nentombi yakhe, lugxininisa ubunzulu bothando nokuqonda okuchaza ubudlelwane babo.
