Ukuba wena okanye umntu omthandayo uguqula i-zero enkulu, uya kudinga imibono ekhethekileyo yama-40 yokuzalwa ukuze ubhiyozele. Ukongeza kwimiqondiso yeyadi kunye nokuhonjiswa kwephepha le-crepe, zininzi izimvo zokubandakanya ukuguqula umbhiyozo ube yinto engalibalekiyo.
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Uyilahla njani ipati yama-40 yokuzalwa
Hlela umzimba womntu omthandayo wokuzalwa kwakho ngokuthatha la manyathelo alandelayo.
Amanqaku afanelekileyo- Iingcamango zama-21 zeQela lokuzalwa
- Izimvo zePati yokuzalwa yabantu abadala
- Izimvo zePati yoLutsha lokuZalwa
Cwangcisa uMhla neXesha
Ukuza nomhla weqela elineminyaka engama-40 kwahluke kancinane kunokubekela ixesha lepati yabantwana. Ngeli xesha abantu abadala bekwi-40s yabo, banobomi obuxakekileyo kunye neeshedyuli ezinokuthi zibandakanye ukwenza umsebenzi wokuzonwabisa, izinto ozithandayo kunye nemisebenzi, kunye nosapho. Ke ngoko, ukufumana umhla kunye nexesha apho wonke umntu anokuya khona kunokuba nzima. Ezinye iingcebiso zexesha zibandakanya:
- NgeMigqibelo kunokuba yeyona nto ilungileyo kubantu abadala abaninzi kwitheko langokuhlwa. Uninzi lwabantu abadala baneempelaveki, ke baya kuba nayo yonke iCawa yokufumana kwakhona ebusuku.
- Ukuba uphosa itheko lasemva kwemini, cinga emva kwemini ngeCawa xa abantwana kunqabile ukuba babe nemidlalo kunye neminye imisebenzi.
- Gwema iintsuku zeveki, ezihlala zizaliswe ngumsebenzi kunye neziganeko zobomi bentsapho.
Cwangcisa uhlahlo-lwabiwo mali
Uhlahlo-lwabiwo mali lwakho luya kugqiba yonke into ukusuka kubantu abaninzi obamemileyo kwiindidi zokutya neziselo oza kuzinika. Nangona kunjalo, ungaphelelwa lithemba. Nokuba uhlahlo-lwabiwo mali lincinci, usengaphosa iqela elinamaxabiso amnandi kakhulu.
Cwangcisa uLuhlu lwakho lweeNdwendwe
Ukucwangcisa uluhlu lweendwendwe kunokuziva kunzima. Ngamanye amaxesha kunzima ukwazi ukuba ngubani oza kumema kwaye ungabeka phi umgca kunye neendwendwe.
- Qala ngokumisela ukuba zingaphi iindwendwe eziza kuvumela uhlahlo-lwabiwo mali.
- Emva koko, yenza uluhlu lweendwendwe zabahlobo, usapho kunye nabantu osebenza nabo ongathanda ukubamema. Qhubeka udwelise wonke umntu onokucinga ngaye apha.
- Ukuba ayisiyiyo itheko elothusayo, cela undwendwe oluhloniphekileyo ukuba angathanda ukumenyelwa ethekweni kwaye wongeze abo bantu kuluhlu ukuba abekho kulo.
- Beka uluhlu lwakho phantsi, unike kuqala undwendwe olukhethiweyo, kunye nabahlobo abasenyongweni, usapho kunye nabahlobo.
Ezinye izinto ezongezelelweyo ekufuneka ziqwalaselwe xa ucwangcisa uluhlu lweendwendwe zibandakanya:
- Ngaba lo ngumbutho wabantu abadala, okanye ngaba iya kuba sisiganeko sosapho esibandakanya abantwana, ngokunjalo? Undwendwe olubekekileyo lunokufuna ukuba abantwana babandakanywe ukuba banosapho; Nangona kunjalo, inokuba sisizathu esihle sokuba nepati yabantu abadala kuphela, nayo. Hlola kunye nomntu ohloniphekileyo ukuze ufumane ukhetho lwakhe.
- Ngaba ipati iya kuba ngumbutho osesikweni onesiqalo nesiphelo, okanye ngaba iya kuba yindlu evulekileyo? Indlu evulekileyo ihlala iboleka kuluhlu olude lweendwendwe, njengoko abantu besiza kwaye behamba emajukujukwini.
- Lingakanani igumbi elikhoyo kule ndawo? Ubungakanani boluhlu lweendwendwe kwindawo exhomekeke kuyo.
- Ukuba uphosa itheko lesidlo sangokuhlwa, mema kuphela inani labantu onokuthi ulunge nabo kwitafile yakho yegumbi lokutyela.
- Khetha umxube olungileyo wabantu. Zama ukuqinisekisa ukuba wonke umntu ommemileyo uya kwazi kwaye abe nokuhlala kunye nabantu ababini okanye abathathu abazimasa itheko.
Khetha iNdawo
Nje ukuba ubungakanani boluhlu lwakho lwendwendwe kunye nohlahlo-lwabiwo mali, unokucwangcisa indawo yakho. Oku kunokuba lula njengekhaya lakho okanye eyadini yangasemva, okanye kwenye indawo. Imizekelo yeendawo ezinkulu zetheko lokuzalwa ezingama-40 zibandakanya:
- Igumbi labucala kwivenkile yokutyela okanye kwindawo yentselo
- Indawo yepikiniki yendawo (ukuba yinto yentsapho)
- Indawo yabucala kwihotele yendawo okanye kwimyuziyam
- Ibhasi yetheko
Indawo kufuneka ibenamagumbi amaninzi okuba abantu bahlale kwaye beme njengoko behamba ipati. Ukuba ukhethe indawo engeyiyo eyasekhaya, kubalulekile ukuba ubize phambili kwaye ugcine indawo ngaphambi kokuba umeme iindwendwe zakho.
Cwangcisa umxholo wakho kunye nokuhonjiswa
Umxholo kunye nokuhonjiswa kwitheko lokuzalwa lama-40 linokuvela kwiqela elilula le-cocktail ngaphandle kokuhonjiswa kwiqela elinomxholo opheleleyo. Nokuba ungaphetha wuphi umxholo, unokufuna ukucwangcisela oku kulandelayo:
- Ukudlala imidlalo yeqela lama-40 lokuzalwa
- Ukunikezela ngetheko lokuzalwa lama-40
- Ukuba neendwendwe zakho zizise izipho zegag
Ukuba umxholo wakho unazo naziphi na iimfuno zeendwendwe zakho, ezinje ngokuzisa izipho zegag okanye ukunxiba konke okumnyama, qiniseka ukubonisa oko kwisimemo.
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Thumela Izimemo
Abacwangcisi beqela baneendlela ezininzi zokumema iindwendwe:
- Izimemo zepati ezikwi-Intanethi
- Uyavuma
- Ukufowuna
- Izimemo zepati ezenziwe kwangaphambili
- Izimemo ezenziwe ekhaya
Uninzi lwezi zikhetho zingentla zikuvumela ukuba wenze owakho amagama ngegama lezimemo. Qiniseka ukuba ubandakanya lonke ulwazi olufanelekileyo kubandakanya umhla, ixesha, indawo, umxholo, apho iindwendwe kufuneka ziye kwi-RSVP, kwaye zeziphi iindwendwe ekufuneka zizise, ukuba kukho nantoni na.
Cwangcisa iMenyu yakho
Uhlahlo-lwabiwo mali, umxholo, kunye noluhlu lweendwendwe ziya kugqiba imenyu yakho. Ezinye iindlela onokuthi uziqwalasele zibandakanya:
- UyiloIkhekhe lokuzalwa lama-40.
- Ukuba uyakhonzacocktails, nayo ubuncinci inyeI-cocktail engekho utywalaiyafumaneka kubantu abangakhethiyo ukuya kwimbibe.
- Ukuba ukhonza iwayini, cwangcisa ukuba nayoiwayini eyaneleyo kumntu wonkekwitheko lakho.
- Kunye nekhekhe, cwangcisa ukwenza iipleyiti zepati,izibheno, okanyeIiCanapes, kwaye ubale ukuba ungakanani ukutya oza kuyidinga kuluhlu lweendwendwe zakho.
- Ukuba ucwangcisa isidlo sangokuhlwa, cwangcisa iikhosi ezininzi ezinje ngezibheno, isaladi okanye isuphu, ikhosi ephambili, kunye nedessert, kunye neziselo zekhosi nganye.
Iingcamango zeQela lokuzalwa lama-40
Ukuza nomxholo wokuyila kwenza ukucwangciswa kwepati kube nomoya. Umxholo unokusetyenziswa kwisimemo sekhekhe kwaye ubophe yonke into kunye.
Ngapha kweNduli
Ngelixa ama-40 esiba mncinci minyaka le, uninzi lwabantu lusaqwalasele iminyaka engama-40 xa bethe babetha encotsheni yenduli kwaye baqala ukuya ezantsi kwelinye icala. Ewe, itheko 'elingaphaya kwentaba' liqhelekile, kodwa oko kunokuba kukudibanisa. Wonke umntu uya kuyazi into ayilindeleyo.
- Umhlobiso omnyama kunye netafile, mhlawumbi ukukhweliswa kwivenkile yokutyela ukuya kwindawo yokutyela, ilitye eliyintloko ngaphambili, kunye nemidlalo enje 'Ngoku uneminyaka engama-40, ngekhe ....' zonke zilungele lo mhla wokuzalwa.
- Ncedisa indibaniselwano yokutya okune-mushy, njengeetapile ezicujiweyo okanye ukutya kwabantwana, kunye nokutya okumnyama okanye okumnyama, njengeminquma emnyama, ilicorice, ijusi ye-prune, iidiliya ezibomvu, brownies, njalo njalo.
Obu bubomi Bakho
I-Nostalgic retrospectives zihlala zimnandi njengombono wepati, kwaye i-40 lixesha elifanelekileyo lokujonga emva kwaye ubone okwenziwe ngumntu ebomini bakhe. Izicwangciso akufuneki zibe nzima.
- Yenza i-décor ilula. Ukukhupha imifanekiso ukusuka kude kangangoko unako kwaye uqokelele iindebe kunye namabhaso kwitafile edibeneyo emva kwe-buffet.
- Ukuhleka okuninzi, khuthaza iindwendwe ukuba zize zinxibe ngokungathi zikwisikolo samabanga aphakamileyo okanye kwikholeji. Ukuba kuyenzeka, mema utitshala omdala okanye umcebisi 'njengondwendwe olukhethekileyo' lwesibini.
- Ukuba unokufumana abantu ababini okanye abathathu ababalulekileyo kubomi be-honoree, yenza inqanaba lokwenyani 'Obu Bomi Bakho'.
- Ukuba bekukho indawo yokutyela awayehlala kuyo umntu nabahlobo bakhe kwisikolo samabanga aphakamileyo okanye nakukutya awayekuthanda, ungaziphakela ezo ntlobo zokutya epatini. Ukuba ivenkile yokutyela isekhona kwishishini, ungayingenisa ngqo ukusuka apho.
Iqela elineminyaka elishumi
Ihlabathi litshintsha kakhulu kumashumi amane eminyaka. Kuthatha uphando oluncinci (kodwa oluncinci kuphela) kwaye luhlobo olumnandi lwembono yeqela eliphindayo lokuzalwa iminyaka engama-40. Yiba nemihlobiso eyahlulwe ngeshumi leminyaka, kunye nokutya kunye nokuhonjiswa kukhethwe ukubonisa into eyayithandwa kwishumi ngalinye. Iingcamango ezithile zibandakanya:
- Ukutya kwiminyaka yee-1950 kwakusoloko kubandakanya isaladi yegelatin kwiipleyiti eziluhlaza. Ukumela ii-60s, phaka ukutya kuyoidayiweiilinen zetafile.
- Kwiindawo ezininzi ezijikeleze igumbi, okanye kwiitafile ezahlukeneyo, zineekholaji zezinto ezahlukeneyo ezazintsha kwishumi leminyaka. Ngapha koko, baninzi abantu abaye bakubona ukuzalwa kwecompyuter yakho, icwecwe lediski, iDVD, iSUV, kunye nezinye izinto ezenziwayo eziqhelekileyo okanye ezingasasebenziyo ngoku.
- Dlala umculo othandwayo ukusukela kumashumi amane eminyaka ngexesha lepati.
Raffle ezinye zehombiso ze-retro kwaye unike imali inkwenkwe okanye intombazana yokuzalwa; Ngaphandle koko, zinike njengamabhaso omdlalo.
Iqela lemfihlakalo lokubulala
Eminye yemibono yokubhiyozela umhla wokuzalwa wama-40 ifuna ukucwangciswa okubanzi. Iqela eliyimfihlakalo lokubulala linokubonelela ngorhatya olungenakulibaleka kwiindwendwe njengoko zithatha inxaxheba kuphando lokubulala lincediswa ngabahlobo kunye namalungu osapho adlala indima yabarhanelwa. Yenziwe kwangaphambili izixhobo zokubulala eziyimfihlakalo ziyafumaneka, okanye unokwenza iskripthi sesiko somnyhadala wakho. Imeko yokuzalwa engama-40 isenokumisela 'ixhoba' njenge-39 yobudala okanye ulutsha.
Ungakhonza isidlo sangokuhlwa okanye uhlale unomdla wokutya okwenzelwe iindwendwe ukuba zitye njengoko imfihlakalo iqhubeka.
inde kangakanani intombazana eneminyaka eli-14 ubudala
Imixholo ephakamisayo
Umxholo oqinisekileyo kunye nokuphakamisayo unokuba yeyona ndlela ifanelekileyo yokufumana u-'O Hayi, yi-Big 4-0 'vibe. Cinga enye yezi ngcinga ziphakamisayo:
- 'Iqela liyaqhubeka' ligxininisa into yokuba okona kulungileyo kuseza.
- 'Enkosi ngeNkumbulo' ivumela iindwendwe ukuba zabelane ngamaxesha abawathandayo nenkwenkwe okanye intombazana yokuzalwa.
- Umxholo waseHollywood okanye onxulumene nomdlalo bhanyabhanya ukuvumela ukuba unike undwendwe lwembeko unyango lwekhaphethi ebomvu.
Ukuhamba ngomxholo weminyaka engama-40 yokuzalwa
Ukuthatha uhambo luluvo olukhulu kwitheko lokuzalwa lama-40. Nokuba uhlala kufutshane okanye uya kude, ngokuqinisekileyo kuya kuba luhambo olumnandi lomntu wokuzalwa okanye owasetyhini.
Iindawo Esaya kuzo
Thatha ukhenketho, mhlawumbi kwi-limo, yeendawo umntu wokuzalwa awayeqhele ukuzenza njengombono wepati yokuzalwa yama-40. Ndwendwela ikhaya labantwana, kwizikolo zamabanga aphantsi kunye nezizisekondari, 'indlu kamakhulu,' kunye naziphi na iithiyetha ezithile okanye iipaki. Ukuphelisa ukhenketho kwindawo yokutyela oyithandayo kwisidlo sangokuhlwa kunye nedessert yokubhiyozela.
Zimbalwa kakhulu izihombiso ezifunekayo ngexesha lotyelelo. Kwivenkile yokutyela, incwadi ebhaliweyo okanye ulungiselelo oluncinci lwefoto yobomi bomntu wokuzalwa kule minyaka idlulileyo yenza umboniso owamkelekileyo.
Uhambo olumangalisayo
Fumana indawo umntu osuku lwakho lokuzalwa awayehlala efuna ukuyindwendwela, kwaye uqokelele abahlobo abaninzi kangangoko kunokwenzeka kwiqela elikhethekileyo elothusayo. Ukuba wena okanye umhlobo wakho unoluhlu lwamabhakethi olunendawo oya kuyo okanye ezimbini ezidwelisiweyo, zama ukuthatha ipati uye kwenye yezo ndawo. Ukuba umntu wokuzalwa sele esiya kwindawo ekhethekileyo ukubhiyozela iminyaka engama-40 kodwa engacwangcisi ukuba kubekho itheko apho, aqeshe iholo yesidlo okanye enye indawo ukulungiselela inani leendwendwe kwaye iqabane lakhe lokuhamba limfikise ngexesha elifanelekileyo iqela elimangalisayo.
Ukuba indawo umntu afuna ukuya kuyo ikude kakhulu ukuba iindwendwe zinokuhamba kuyo okanye ukuba ayiqhelekanga kakhulu kwindawo efanelekileyo yomnyhadala, phinda uyibuyisele loo ndawo kwiholo lesidlo sendawo. Ngexesha elaneleyo kunye nabantu abalungileyo, unokwenza ngayo nayiphi na into kwinqanaba elincinci. Hombisa kangangoko kunokwenzeka ukuba iphantse ive ngathi wonke umntu ungena kwindawo yelinye ilizwe nje ukuba bangene emnyango. Ngaba kukho ukutya okukhethekileyo okuhanjisiweyo kwindawo yamaphupha entombazana yokuzalwa? Jonga ukuba ungamfumana umntu oza kukwenzela yona okanye uzame ukuziphinda ngokwakho.
40 Iyonwabisa
Ngengcinga encinci kunye nokucwangcisa, unokwenza iqela lama-40 elimnandi, elikhunjulwayo, kunye nantoni na engaqhelekanga. Ukuguqula uluhlu lwama-40 phezulu phaya ngokujika i-16 okanye i-21 xa kufikwa kwiindlela zesiko zokubhiyozela; Qiniseka nje ukuba ukongeza ukujija okungekho ngokwesiko ukuyenza ibaluleke kumntu obhiyozelayo. Uhlale ubomi obunamava nothando, kwaye kukho amaphupha amaninzi awongezelelekileyo afuna ukuwafezekisa kumashumi ambalwa eminyaka ezayo, ke kukho izinto ezininzi onokusebenzisana nazo. Yila umbono wakho kwaye iqela liqale!
