Amasiko ama-Amish ahlukile.
Imitshato yama-Amish yindawo ehluke ngokupheleleyo xa kuthelekiswa nemikhosi eqhelekileyo yaseMelika.
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Ubunzima bobudlelwane beAmish
Indlela yokuphila yama-Amish ifumaneka kwiindawo ezahlukeneyo kwihlabathi liphela, kodwa ngaphakathi kwemida yase-United States, uninzi lwabantu lufumaneka ePennsylvania. Kuba amaxabiso osapho abaluleke kakhulu kuma-Amish, kubalulekile ukuba umntu ongatshatanga afumane iqabane eligqibeleleyo. Uqhawulo-mtshato aluviwa kwaye ke ukubandakanyeka kunye nezifungo zomtshato zithathwa ngokungathí sina.
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Abantwana baseAmish bavunyelwe ukuba baqale ukuthandana beneminyaka elishumi elinesithandathu. Ukuze ube nomtshato oqinisekileyo wama-Amish, bobabini umyeni nomyeni kufuneka babe kwicawa yama-Amish. Xa indoda iphakamisa, ayiniki umfazi wayo wexesha elizayo umsesane wokuzibandakanya. Endaweni yokuba amnike isipho sehomier njengewotshi okanye iseti yechina. Kungakhathaliseki ukuba abantu abatshatileyo bathembisana nini, bahlala bengakwazisi ukutshata kude kube sehlotyeni. Icawe yama-Amish inosuku olukhethekileyo ngo-Okthobha apho zonke izibini ezinenjongo yokutshata ziyazisa, nanjengoko idikoni ecaweni libhengeza amagama abo bonke abatshakazi ukuba babe.
Ukucwangcisa Imitshato yama-Amish
Emva kokubhengezwa kokubandakanyeka, ucwangciso lomtshato luhamba ngokukhawuleza. Imitshato idla ngokwenzeka kwikhaya lomtshakazi. Oomama bama-Amish bamkela iindwendwe zabo ukuya kuthi ga kubantu abangama-400, kuba kuqhelekile ukumema yonke icawa yakho yama-Amish kunye nosapho kunye nabahlobo. Imitshato yinto enkulu kunye nexesha elincinci lokucwangcisa ngaphambi kokuba yenziwe, ke kubalulekile ukuba umtshakazi osemncinci ukuba ancede umama wakhe kunye nezinye izalamane zamakhosikazi kulungiselelo.
Isinxibo
Izambatho zomtshato zihlala ziluhlaza okwesibhakabhaka, ngelixa ezinye izibini zikhetha emfusa. I-White ayikaze isetyenziswe, enyanisweni kukhuselekile ukuthi emhlophe ayikhe ikhethwe njengombala womtshato kuba ingubo yomtshato iba sisinxibo esisebenzayo kuyo yonke imihla yokunxiba. Ngapha koko, uninzi lwabafazi bama-Amish bangcwatywa kwilokhwe yabo yomtshato, njengoko ithathwa njengomgangatho ophezulu, ingubo yothando kubo bonke ubomi babo bomtshato.
Imitshato yama-Amish ayinayo imihombiso emininzi eqhelekileyo kweminye imitshato yomtshato. Azikho izitimela ezityebileyo okanye ubucwebe obukhazimlayo kumtshakazi okanye kwabo bamncedisayo. Azikho kwakhona iintyatyambo. Imitshato yama-Amish ilula kakhulu, kodwa ke intle ngendlela eyahlukileyo.
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Usuku lomtshato
Usuku lomtshato, wonke umntu obandakanyekayo uvuka kwakusasa kakhulu. Imisebenzi yesiqhelo iyenziwa kwaye umtshato uqala ngaphambi kwe-9 kusasa.Umnyhadala ungafikelela kwiiyure ezintathu kwaye uhlala ubandakanya intshumayelo ende kunye nokuculwa kwamaculo. Umtshakazi nomyeni bahlala bachitha ixesha elininzi bebodwa kwigosa lezenkolo lifumana iingcebiso.
Ukuphumla komhla kuchithwa nemisebenzi kunye nolwalamano, ngokufana nokuxubana kunye nokutya okufumaneka kwimisitho yomtshato waseNtshona rhoqo. Emva kwesidlo kunye nokutyelela kugqityiwe (malunga ne-10 emva kwemini), esi sibini sichitha ubusuku bazo bokuqala kunye kwikhaya labazali bomtshakazi. Ihoneymoon yabo ihlala iqulethe ukutyelela zonke izalamane zabo ezisandula ukufunyanwa. Ekugqibeleni baya kuqala elabo ikhaya kwaye baqale usapho.
I-Amish ixhasa izithethe ezinje ngemisitho yomtshato ejolise kusapho kunye neendlela zobomi kuba bakholelwa ukugcina usapho lusondele yeyona nto ibalulekileyo ebomini babo. Amasiko kunye nemibhiyozo ijikeleze usapho kuba le yinxalenye ebalulekileyo yenkcubeko yama-Amish. Umtshato wama-Amish unokuba yinto entle nenomdla ukubonisa ubungqina. Lo mbhiyozo usondeleleneyo, yimvakalelo yembali yethu efriziwe ngexesha kwaye iqhutywa ngenkcubeko egcina isiko kunye nokunyaniseka kwixesha labo elidlulileyo, nanjengoko izibini zisakha ikamva labo kunye.
