Kukho iindlela ezininzi zokurhoxisaumhlangendlela enobubele, nembeko. Kuxhomekeka ekubeni ungathanda ukuphinda umbone lo mntu kwakhona, ungawutshintsha umyalezo wakho ukwenza iinjongo zakho zicace.
Izizathu zokuCima uMhla
Unokufuna ukurhoxisa usuku kuba ungaziva mnandi, ungafuni ukuphinda ubone lo mntu, okanye ube nezicwangciso eziphikisanayo.
Amanqaku afanelekileyo- Ungawunciphisa njani uMhla ngokuChubekileyo (kwaye kwaoko
- Ungaqinisekisa njani ukuba uMhla uhlala uXolile
- Ungatsho njani ukuba hayi kuMhla
Ukurhoxisa ngaphandle kokuCwangcisa kwakhona
Ukuba utshintshe intliziyo kwaye awusafuni ukubona umntu onomhla ocwangcisiweyo kunye naye, kulungile ngokupheleleyo. Unokucinga ngokubaxelela:
- Emva kokucinga ngayo, andicingi ukuba siyimidlalo entle ngoko ke ndingathanda ukurhoxisa umhla wethu. Ndikonwabele ukudibana nawe.
- Nangona bendikonwabele ukuncokola nje ngokufutshane nawe, andinamdla wokuphinda ndithandane kwaye ndicinga ukuba masimise umhla wethu. Ndikunqwenelela okuhle!
- Andiqondi ukuba siza kusebenza kwaye ndicinga ukuba kufuneka siqhubeke kwaye simise umhla wethu. Bekumnandi ukudibana nawe.
- Andonwabanga ukuya phambili kolu lwalamano ke ndizokumisa umhla wethu ozayo. Ziphathe kakuhle!
- Ndicinga ukuba ungumntu obalaseleyo, kodwa ayindifanelanga. Ndikunqwenelela okuhle!
Ukurhoxisa kunye nokucwangcisa kwakhona
Ukuba ukule mntu kwaye ufuna ukubabona kwakhona, kubalulekile ukuba uncokole nabo malunga nokuba kutheni urhoxisa, ngelixa usenza ukuba kucace ukuba ufuna ukuchitha ixesha elininzi kunye nabo. Unokuthi:
- Ndiyaxolisa kodwa ndifuna ukurhoxisa usuku lwethu. Ndingathanda ukuphinda ndicwangcise ixesha. Ukhululekile ukudibana nini kwakhona?
- Ndinexesha likaxakeka lokugqibela kwaye ndiza kufuneka ndicwangcise umhla wethu. Ndiyaxolisa kakhulu ngokwenza oku. Ndazise xa ungathanda ukudibana kwakhona!
- Ndinombandela womsebenzi oza ngomzuzu wokugqibela ngoko ke kufuneka ndiphinde ndihlehlise umhla wethu. Ngaba ukhululekile ukudibana nelinye ixesha kule veki?
- Hee! Ndine-hiccup encinci kwishedyuli yam kwaye kuya kufuneka ndicime umhla wethu. Andinawo uxolo kodwa ndingathanda ukukubona kwakhona. Ndazise xa ukhululekile.
- Uxolo ngokwenza lo mzuzu wokugqibela, kodwa kufuneka ndijongane nento. Ngaba likho ithuba esinokuphinda silicwangcisele ingomso?
Imiyalezo yeendlela ezahlukeneyo zokuCima
Into oyithethayo xa urhoxisa ixhomekeke kwindlela yakho yokuhambisa umyalezo.
Ukucima uMyalezo oBhaliweyo
Ukuthumela isicatshulwayindlela ekhawulezayo yokufumana inqaku lakho ukuba uyafuna na ukuphinda ubeke umhla okanye ukwazisa umntu ukuba awunamdla wokubabona kwakhona. Ungathumela:
- Hee! Uxolo ngokwenza oku, kodwa ndifuna ukuhlela kwakhona. Ndiphantsi kwemozulu. Ngaba unolunye usuku engqondweni yomhla wethu?
- Ndibe nexesha elimnandi nawe, kodwa ungasiboni sisebenza. Ndingathanda ukuhlala ndingabahlobo ukuba uyilungele loo nto.
- Ibiyintlanganiso entle nawe, kodwa andicingi ukuba sizokuzilolonga. Ziphathe kakuhle!
- Uxolo kodwa kufuneka nditshintshe usuku lwethu lube lolunye usuku. Ngaba ikhona enye into ekusebenzelayo? Ndingathanda ukukubona kwakhona kule veki!
Ukucima ngomnxeba
Ukufowuna ukuba urhoxise umhla wakhoivumela ngakumbi incoko. Ukuba ufowunela ukukhansela kwaye ungacwangcisi kwakhona, kungcono ukugcina into oyithethayo imfutshane kwaye imfutshane. Ungaqwalasela ukuthi:
- Ndifuna nje ukufowunela ndikwazise ukuba ndiza kudinga ukuhlenga-hlengisa usuku lwethu. Ndiyaxolisa ngokwenza njalo ngomzuzu wokugqibela, kodwa ndingathanda ukukubona ngelinye ixesha kule veki.
- Bendifuna ukuthetha nawe malunga nokufumana elinye ixesha lokubonana. Ngelishwa andikwazi ukwenza umhla wethu. Ndinomcimbi wosapho endijongene nawo. Ngaba ikhona enye imihla esebenzayo kuwe?
- Hee, bendifuna ukukwazisa ukuba ndiyakonwabela ukukwazi, kodwa andiboni siyenza njengesibini. Ndicinga ukuba kungcono xa simisa umhla wethu ozayo.
- Mholo! Ndiyathemba ukuba uqhuba kakuhle. Ndifuna ukukwazisa ukuba andicingi ukuba sesona silungileyo kwaye ndingathanda ukurhoxisa usuku lwethu. Ndicinga ukuba ungumntu owoyikekayo, andivanga tu ukuba yimichiza yokuthandana.
Ukurhoxisa uMhla kuBantu
Unokufuna ukurhoxisa umhla ngobuqu ukuba ukhe waphuma nalo mntu izihlandlo ezimbalwa, kodwa uyafunaphelisa ubudlelwane, okanye ukuba ubaleka kuzo kwaye ufuna ukuhlela kwakhona. Unokuthi:
- Ndiyonwabele imihla embalwa esele sinayo, kodwa ngokweneneungasiboni njengesibini. Ndingathanda ukuhlala kubahlobo ukuba ukhwele. Ucinga ntoni?
- Ndikuthandile ukukwazi kwezi nyanga zimbalwa zidlulileyo, kodwa ndicinga ukuba kungcono xa singasabonani. Andiqondi ukuba siyalingana njenge sibini. Ndinqwenela konke okuhle ngokuthandana ukuya phambili.
- Hee! Bendizokufowunela. Ndiyaxolisa, kodwa kufuneka ndizirhoxise izicwangciso zethu. Bendingaziva mnandi. Ngaba singakwazi ukwenza olunye usuku kule veki?
- Molo, kuyahlekisa apha kuwe. Bendizokudubula isicatshulwa kamva namhlanje. Naliphi na ithuba esinokuthi sihlehlise umhla wethu? Ndinento zomsebenzi endinokujongana nazo.
Yiba Nobubele Xa Unikela intetho
Nokuba uthatha isigqibo sokuphinda umbone lo mntu, kubalulekile ukugcina umyalezo wakho wokurhoxisa uhloniphekile kwaye umfutshane. Nyaniseka kwisiqu sakho kunye nomhla wakho malunga nokuba kutheni urhoxisa kwaye uqhubeke ukubeka phambili isigqibo oziva ukhululeke kakhulu kuso.
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