Kangangexesha elide, abaphandi kunye nabanonopheli bebengacacelwa ukuba kutheni abantu behlanganisene ngaphambi kokuba basweleke. Ukuhlangana kwakhona kubonakala ngathi kuyinxalenye yesiqhelo yenkqubo yokufa njengoko ibonelela nge- ukuqhuma kwamandla ukuba umntu azibophelele kwimixokelelwane kwaye ahambelane nokufa kwakhe. Nangona inokubonakala ingaqhelekanga, ukuhlangana kudlala indima ebalulekileyo kwinkqubo yokufa.
Kutheni iRallying yenzeka
Ukuqokelela kwakhona kunceda ukubonelela ukuvalwa kumntu odlulayo. Ukuvalwa kubaluleke kakhulu ebantwini ukuze babe namava. Ubuchopho bomntu bade banocingo lokufuna ukuvalwa. Nangona uninzi Uncwadi malunga nokuvalwa ijongana nokwahlukana, uvakalelo luhlala lunye xa kusenziwa kwinkqubo yokufa. Abantu bayathanda ukulawula ibali labo kwaye babe nokuqonda xa imicimbi ingahambi ngokoko bekucingelwa. Olu phawu lokuzivelela kwezinto lunceda abantu bafunde, bakhule, kwaye babone kwangaphambili iziganeko ezizayo ezinokuthi zibonelele ngokufana nentuthuzelo. Ngokuhlanganisa, umntu okwinkqubo yokusweleka uyakwazi ukusombulula imicimbi yakudala, alungiselele ukungaqiniseki kokufa, kwaye ngokubanzi balungelelanise imicimbi yabo . Abanye bade bafanise ukuhlangana ngaphambi kokufa kunye nenqanaba lokwakha okwenzeka ngexeshaukukhulelwaxa umfazi efumanaukuqhuma kwamandla kanye ngaphambi kokufika kosana.
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Iimpawu zomntu oQokelelayo
Unga qaphela ukuba umntu omthandayo ubonakala ethambile kwaye enamandla ngakumbi emzimbeni , nokuba ziye zonakala. Unokuziva ngathi bayangcono njengoko iimpawu zabo zibonakala ziphucuka. Umntu abagcini abaqaphela ukuba oku kuqhelekile kwiukufaInkqubo kwaye bakufumanise kunzima ukukholelwa kwaye bothusa de bazibonela ngawabo amehlo. Ungababona:
- Ukulungiselela umyolelo wabo okanye amanye amaxwebhu
- Ukuphaiziphookanye izinto
- Ukusombulula iimpikiswano okanye iimbambano
- Ukuthetha nomcebisi okanye inkokeli yezenkolo
- Ukunxibelelana nabahlobo kunye namalungu osapho
- Ukhangela izinto ezilahlekileyo
- Ukufuna ukuncedisa ekucwangciseni kwaboumngcwabo
- Ukwenza amalungiselelo emfuyo yabo emva kokuba bedlulile
- Ukufuna ukuqhubekekisa ibali labo lobomi nabantu obathandayo
- Ndifuna ukuxoxa ngeinkqubo yokufanabantu obathandayo
- Ufuna ukutyelela iivenkile zokutyela ozithandayo, iipaki, okanye ezinye iindawo ezixabisekileyo
- Ukuzama ukugqiba iiprojekthi ebeziqalisiwe ngaphambili
Xa iRallying isenzeka
Ukuhlanganisa kuhlala kwenzeka kwifayile ye-amanqanaba okugqibela okufa. Kumanqanaba okugqibela okusweleka umzimba uyavalwa kwaye nemisebenzi iyacotha. Oku kunokuthetha ukuba umntu ahlanganisane nje usuku okanye ezimbini ngaphambi kokuba asweleke nangona yahlukile kumntu kumntu. Oku kunokuba yinto edidayo kumalungu osapho anokulindela ukonakala kuqhubeke, kodwa bothuke kukuphakama kothandekayo wabo. Yazi oku kuqhelekile. La mandla ongezelelweyo anceda inkqubo yakho oyithandayo kunye nokuza ngokufa kwakhe. Ngaphandle kokukhohlisa ukuqonda, ukuhlanganisana kunokuba yinto esempilweniinkqubo yokufa. Inceda umntu wakho omthandayo ukuba abophe iziphelo ezikhululekileyo kwaye unokubanika uvakalelo lolawulo xa kufikwa ekufeni kwabo. Oku kunokuba yonyango ngakumbi kwabo bafuna unyango kwizigulo kodwa kungabikho nto.
Ukuqonda ukuhlangana ngaphambi kokufa
Kuqhelekile ukuba umntu ahlangane ngaphambi kokuba asweleke. Ngaphandle kothusayo kumalungu osapho, okomzuzu wokugqibela amandla okanye ukucaca kunokunceda umntu lowo ukuba athi ndlela-ntle, abonakalise ubomi babo, kwaye aqhubeke nokwenzekayo kubo.
