Ukuziqhelanisa isidlo sangokuhlwa akusoloko kusesikweni.
Ukuqonda isimilo sokuziqhelanisa nesidlo sangokuhlwa kunokunceda izibini ziphephe ukuthukwa okungenanjongo kwesi siganeko somtshato oqhelekileyo. Ngelixa isimilo esingafanelekanga sinokuthi singabaluleki kangako xa kuqheliselwa, umsitho ongaqhelekanga unokuba ngumzekelo ombi kwimisitho yomtshato elandelayo.
Malunga nesidlo sangokuhlwa sokuziqhelanisa
Isidlo sangokuhlwa sokuziqhelanisa asisiyonto ifunekayo, kodwa inika iintsapho ezisondeleyo kunye namalungu omtshato abatshatileyo ithuba lokuzibandakanya ngaphambi komtshato. Ngokwesiko, isidlo sokuziqhelisa luxanduva lomyeni nabazali bakhe, nangona uninzi lwezibini zikhetha ukusicwangcisela ngokwazo lo mcimbi okanye zingahlula uxanduva kubazali bazo.
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Injongo yokuziqhelanisa nomtshato kukuziqhelanisa neziganeko zomtshato kunye nokuhamba ngaphezulu kwazo naziphi na iinkcukacha zomzuzu wokugqibela ezinokufuna ukucaciswa ngaphambi komhla omkhulu. Isidlo sangokuhlwa sokuziqhelanisa nomtshato, ke, sisidlo esiphumlayo ngaphambi okanye emva kwalolo qheliselo. Isidlo sangokuhlwa ikwalixesha elifanelekileyo lokuba isibini kunye neentsapho zabo bavakalise umbulelo ngomsebenzi onzima wonke umntu ocwangcisa umtshato, kwaye lithuba lokuba ezi ntsapho zimbini zazane ngcono ngaphambi komsitho. Ngelixa isidlo sangokuhlwa sokuziqhelanisa sihlala sisesikweni kunasemtshatweni ngokwawo, kukho imigaqo ethile yokuziphatha emayilandelwe.
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Ixesha
Ngokubanzi, isidlo sangokuhlwa sokuziqhelanisa silandela ukuzilolonga komtshato, ngakumbi kusuku olungaphambi komsitho omkhulu. Ukuba onke amalungu omtshato ayafumaneka, nangona kunjalo, kunokuba lula ngakumbi ukuba uqhelisele usuku okanye iintsuku ezimbini kwakamsinya, nangona kungafanelekanga ukuba kusekutsha kakhulu okanye iinkcukacha zomzuzu wokugqibela zinokutshintsha. Ukuba isibini asikwazi ukuqhelisela umsitho kude kube ngorhatya, isidlo sangokuhlwa sinokubanjwa ngaphambi kokwenza. Ngaphezulu kwako konke, isibini kufuneka sibonakalise imbeko malunga nokucwangcisela isidlo sangokuhlwa sokuziqhelanisa ukuze singaphazamisani neeshedyuli zomsebenzi okanye izicwangciso zokuhamba nangaphezulu kokuyimfuneko. Isidlo sangokuhlwa kufuneka sigqibe kwangexesha ngokwaneleyo ngorhatya ukuqinisekisa ukuba wonke umntu uphumla kamnandi ebusuku phambi komthendeleko wangomso.
Uluhlu lweeNdwendwe
Uluhlu lweendwendwe yenye yezona zinto ziphikisanayo ezinobunzima bokuziqhelanisa nesimilo sokuziphatha. Uluhlu olufutshane kakhulu lweendwendwe luya kubandakanya kuphela abo bantu kulindeleke ukuba bazimase ukuzilolonga, abafana nabakhwenyana kunye neempelesi. Njengentlonelo, umntu oza kusebenza emtshatweni umenyiwe kwisidlo sangokuhlwa, nangona banokukhetha ukungabikho ukuba ngaba abasondelelani nesi sibini.
Ukuba isidlo sangokuhlwa sokuziqhelanisa sizakuba liqela elikhulu, amalungu omtshato abatshatileyo 'nabanye abanokubaluleka banokumenywa kunye namalungu osapho asondeleyo kunye nabahlobo abathe banegalelo elibonakalayo kumalungiselelo omtshato. Ezinye izintlu zokuziqhelanisa neendwendwe zesidlo sangokuhlwa zikwabandakanya iindwendwe zomtshato zangaphandle kwedolophu esele zifikile, ngakumbi ukuba abahlali benethuba lokundwendwela. Makungaze naphantsi kwazo naziphi na iimeko amenyelwe umntu kwisimilo sokuziqhelisa ongamenywanga emtshatweni ngokwawo; eli ayilo thuba lokubandakanya iindwendwe ezingakhange zenze uluhlu lweendwendwe zomtshato.
Abantwana emitshatweni yinto enesidima. Ukuba itheko lokuziqhelanisa lelabantu abadala kuphela, nabaphi na abantwana kwitheko lomtshato akufuneki babandakanywe, nangona kufanelekile ukuba babulelwe kakhulu ngokuzimasa uqeqesho kunye nesithembiso sokuthenga isidlo sangokuhlwa esifanelekileyo ngakumbi sabantwana kunye nabazali babo yinto entle umqondiso. Ukuba abantwana banokubandakanywa kwisidlo sangokuhlwa sokuziqhelanisa, abazali babo kufuneka bahlale bemenyiwe nokuba abanye abatshati bamalungu omtshato kunye nabanye ababalulekileyo abakho.
Izimemo
Izimemo kufuneka zisoloko zikhutshelwa isidlo sangokuhlwa sokuziqhelanisa kodwa indlela eyahlukileyo inokwahluka. Isidlo sangokuhlwa nje, izimemo zomlomo okanye ii-e-vites zamkelekile, nangona ukuba uluhlu lweendwendwe lukhulu izimemo eziprintiweyo zinokuba lolona khetho lubhetele. Njengakwezimemo kuwo nawuphi na umsitho, ii-RSVPs zilindelwe kwaye kufuneka ziphathwe ngokufanelekileyo.
Okusesikweni
Isidlo sangokuhlwa sokuziqhelanisa sinokuba sesisesikweni okanye esingacwangciswanga ngendlela ekufunwa ngayo. Izibini ezininzi zikhetha isidlo sokuziqhelanisa nesidlo sasebusuku, ngakumbi ukuba umtshato wabo uya kuba sesikweni. Ubume besiqhelo bunokuyalelwa ubungakanani boluhlu lweendwendwe- kunokuba lula ukulungiselela isidlo esikhulu ukuba sisesikweni, ngelixa iqela elincinci labahlobo abasondeleyo kunye namalungu osapho banokukhululeka ngokugqibeleleyo ngokutya okuqhelekileyo.
Imenyu
Imenyu yokuqhelisela isidlo sangokuhlwa ngokubanzi ayicacanga kunemenyu yomtshato. Abantu abaninzi abatshatileyo bakhetha imali engabalulekanga, enje nge-barbeque, i-pizza, okanye iisandwich. Kwitheko elisemthethweni ngakumbi, isidlo sangokuhlwa esilungiselelwe abanye kufanelekile Ukuba utywala bunikwa kwisidlo sokuziqhelanisa, kufuneka simodareyithwe ngononophelo ukuze kungabikho malungu omtshato okanye iindwendwe eziselwayo okanye ezibandezelekileyo ngexesha lomtshato. I-Toast sisiganeko esikhulu kwisidlo sokuziqhelanisa- amaxesha amaninzi amalungu osapho aya kufuna ukuthambisa isibini esonwabileyo, abanokuthi baphendule ngee-toast zabo zoxabiso kunye nombulelo- kunye neejusi ezingezizo ezinxilisayo kunye neepunch ezinokuthi zithathe indawo yewayini okanye i-champagne.
Ngelixa imenyu yesidlo sangokuhlwa inokwahluka, akufuneki ibandakanye ikeyiki esemthethweni ebambekayo. Ukuzilolonga, ngapha koko, ayingomtshato kwaye akufuneki ufane nomsitho osesikweni oza kulandela.
Izipho
Ngelixa isibini esitshatileyo singalindelanga zipho kwisidlo sazo sokuziqhelanisa (nangona ezinye iindwendwe zingazishiya), uninzi lwezibini zikhetha ukunika izipho ezinengqiqo kubazali nakubalindi babo kumsitho. Le yindlela entle yokubabulela ngomsebenzi wabo onzima. Esi sibini kufuneka sikhathalele ukubandakanya wonke umntu, nangona kunjalo; ukuba izipho azizukunikwa umntu ngamnye othatha inxaxheba, kungangcono ukuba uzinike ngasese ukuthintela ukuphoxeka.
Isimilo sokuziqhelanisa nesidlo sangokuhlwa asikho ngqongqo njenge-etiquette yomtshato uqobo, kodwa izikhokelo ezifanelekileyo zinokunceda isibini ukuba sizonwabele ngeli xesha nosapho kunye nabahlobo ngaphandle kokukhathazeka ngokwaphula umthetho ngokufanelekileyo okunokonakalisa usuku lwabo lomtshato.
